yi**** Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 I find you can find plenty of people to talk to on here but you are more likely to actually meet people if you can stereotype the kinky people out of regular dating sites.
QXX666 Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 It’s not dating but…. Depends, I met within a month then other time 6 months. And now I haven’t met someone for a year on here… Use more than one fetish site. But then again you are a male sub which prob would never happen for you.
Deleted Member Posted April 1, 2023 Author Posted April 1, 2023 I don’t think it’s going to happen for me on here I’m happy to just chat and socialise but Iv given up on trying to find anybody Just do you the right one will find you when you least expect it
Lamboski Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 Been on here for a while no meetups have talked to a lot of people those are not a bunch of BS
ar**** Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 It probably also depends on where you are. In my case, only a handful women are from around where I live, and the one I'm curious about hasn't logged in over 2 months. I'm unsure whether she'll return, all I can do is wait and be patient. But I'm patient anyway, good things may come to those who wait. 😉
Deleted Member Posted April 1, 2023 Author Posted April 1, 2023 Sounds like a lot of people are in the same boat, I appreciate everyone sharing
littlemiss37 Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 56 minutes ago, arnhem961 said: It probably also depends on where you are. In my case, only a handful women are from around where I live, and the one I'm curious about hasn't logged in over 2 months. I'm unsure whether she'll return, all I can do is wait and be patient. But I'm patient anyway, good things may come to those who wait. 😉 I totally agree . I tried settling for the first guy and it didn't work out so I believe better is waiting for me x
ar**** Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 33 minutes ago, littlemiss37 said: I totally agree . I tried settling for the first guy and it didn't work out so I believe better is waiting for me x It helps when you don't feel ***d/pressure to look for any kind of immediate short-term reward. I'd love to experience truly falling in love and exploring relations with a lady, but I do feel like you can't really *** something like that to happen. Actively searching for it and failing (or "settling") every time may have you compromise your standards and possibly even mental health. And if you can't stay true to yourself, a relationship doesn't do good.
littlemiss37 Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 1 hour ago, arnhem961 said: It helps when you don't feel ***d/pressure to look for any kind of immediate short-term reward. I'd love to experience truly falling in love and exploring relations with a lady, but I do feel like you can't really *** something like that to happen. Actively searching for it and failing (or "settling") every time may have you compromise your standards and possibly even mental health. And if you can't stay true to yourself, a relationship doesn't do good. That's y I'm working on me and friendship is all I can offer at this time . I know I need a connection with someone now x
Deleted Member Posted April 2, 2023 Author Posted April 2, 2023 It takes time and patience, but it is possible. I had the privilege of dating 3 Dominant women in my life…wasted too much time on trying to live vanilla…, but I digress. It can be done, just stay away from the scammers and don’t ever give up. I’m currently looking again and I’m old now… you’re young I believe. U can do it. Fantasies sometimes come true when u least expect it. Good luck!
littlemiss37 Posted April 2, 2023 Posted April 2, 2023 1 hour ago, fromohiofun said: There all fakes!!! There is real ones x
littlemiss37 Posted April 2, 2023 Posted April 2, 2023 1 hour ago, fromohiofun said: There all fakes!!! I had a bad one tbh and I know good ones r out there c
ge**** Posted April 2, 2023 Posted April 2, 2023 1 hour ago, fromohiofun said: There all fakes!!! Can assure you they're not all fake
ThumperG Posted April 3, 2023 Posted April 3, 2023 On 3/31/2023 at 11:22 AM, innocentman96 said: How long does it actually take to find someone you could realistically date on here? Particularly as a male sub when most females on here are also submissive. Do people go years searching? It depends on your approach and IF you're looking at women AS your kink dispenser. You're going to have to give it some time you haven't even been here a week. 😂 You might want to pace yourself or you're not going to make it decades into this lifestyle darling~Mistress
ThumperG Posted April 3, 2023 Posted April 3, 2023 On 4/1/2023 at 8:07 AM, QXX666 said: It’s not dating but…. Depends, I met within a month then other time 6 months. And now I haven’t met someone for a year on here… Use more than one fetish site. But then again you are a male sub which prob would never happen for you. OH HONEY JUST NO! Ewww. DON'T attempt to start swinging it around or try to pull any maneuvers as if you can speak in OUR SPACES. You don't speak for any of the women in here. NOR do you have the final say by using the wording of NEVER to someone because they are male. Just like you WOULDN'T DARE SAY NEVER if they identified as perhaps a transsexual person or as a nonbinary person. WE not you, get to decide who stays and who goes WITH US. There is no Mistress-splaining needed from you, and we are fully aware of what we have as OUR criteria. So make sure that you carry on within your OWN little bubble~Mistress
st**** Posted April 3, 2023 Posted April 3, 2023 If you're a girl it's right away if you're a man good luck it's a tough ride I've been on this app for well over a year and only ever met one person and even then it wasn't exactly my first preference but gotta take what you can get if you're a male
ey**** Posted April 3, 2023 Posted April 3, 2023 4 hours ago, stoke-on-trent954 said: If you're a girl it's right away if you're a man good luck it's a tough ride I've been on this app for well over a year and only ever met one person and even then it wasn't exactly my first preference but gotta take what you can get if you're a male who do you think these WOMEN are dating? Cos surely if it's easy they're matching with men - so is as easy for men
ar**** Posted April 3, 2023 Posted April 3, 2023 "gotta take what you can get"? That sounds so disrespectful...
ge**** Posted April 3, 2023 Posted April 3, 2023 4 hours ago, stoke-on-trent954 said: If you're a girl it's right away if you're a man good luck it's a tough ride I've been on this app for well over a year and only ever met one person and even then it wasn't exactly my first preference but gotta take what you can get if you're a male "Only ever met one person and even then it wasn't exactly my first preference" - I bet she'd be charmed if she read that!! . "Gotta take what you can get if you're a male" - equally charming!! As a male myself I can assure you I would sooner meet no-one than "take what I can get" . As eyem quite rightly suggested if it's "easier" for women than men, who do you think those women are meeting? Perhaps it's men that don't "take what they can get" or see them as a second best!!
st**** Posted April 3, 2023 Posted April 3, 2023 12 minutes ago, arnhem961 said: "gotta take what you can get"? That sounds so disrespectful... I don't give a f**k
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