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Just starting out as a Dom


Tilopa

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Hello,
I've recently discovered a passion for being a male dom. I am completely new to this. I've done some verbal dom play  improv with various female subs and they seem to enjoy it a lot but I know I need to learn a lot. Can anyone recommend me where to start? Also I am interested in finding an experienced mentor for this. Thanks.

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Well, I am exactly in the same level and opposite role. Why don’t you start by telling me what would you do to me?
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It has always felt natural for me to be sexually Dominant, so I was discovering what I want well before I found out that it was BDSM. Like I tell everyone else; while you can take advice from others, you have to think as if you are the first Dominant to exist and you have no Google to ask for help. This, I find, is the easiest way to decide what it is that YOU want and how best to satisfy yourself
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That's cool you discovered a part of yourself!

I found quite helpful the article " Defining your Dominant Voice" if you google 'Dominant Guide'

It's thougt provoking,well organized and pretty complete (I guess?)

The other articles are quite cool too 

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