MY BIGGEST *** REGARDING MY FETISHES IS...

[Ma****]

  40 minutes ago, kree90 said:

Being rejected in general. It's difficult and when you put yourself out there about this stuff, it gets really scary.

But we are all deserving of love as we are.

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Exactly take me as I am or leave for what I’m not!

[SilverEyedSirian]

That my particular kinks and quirks make me a mismatch for those around me, even in the kink community.

[Ni****]

Not finding someone to share it with.

[Lo****]

Never finding that perfect master

[Cu****]

Finding someone I trust and submit to only for them to betray me.

[BadJokesNRopes]

I think for me i'd 50% how people not in the community view me and 50% not being creative enough to make it fun for my sub. I like to think my last partner had fun but always felt like i had to out do myself for the next time.

[me****]

not fulfilling them. their happiness is the goal for each one and the penultimate goal of mine in life.. to fail them, to fail to older men is unacceptable, I am genuinely left hurt and worried from just mentioning it here..

[Ca****]

Finding the balance between my kinks and my “real life” so the two exist as a cohesive whole.

[As****]

Rushing into something I might regret.

[Deleted Member]

Meeting someone who doesn't know what consent, no and stop are and take it too far.

[61****]

Never getting to experience any of them.

[Deleted Member]

Just being viewed as a toy and nothing beyond that.

[Sub_Neblina]

Feeling like I don't have control of my life, but yet wanting to submit.

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[Al****]

My biggest *** regarding my fetish is that I won't find the woman Who understands or deserves me.

[Cu****]

  Wednesday at 03:49 PM, butterfly07 said:

Just being viewed as a toy and nothing beyond that.

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Sometimes being used is what I need.

[St****]

There's lots of people ***ing rejection, mine is kinda the same thing.... that it's hard enough to find a great partner and then to match kinks too if more difficult again. I've fallen in love, I've had kinky partners. Hard to get the two together. Offering kinks in a great relationship might ruin it.

[Fo****]

My biggest *** is finding a partner but then have them only see or be interested in me as a sub .

[di****]

Opening up to my partner about what i really want and being not only rejected by looked down on for it

[ob****]

having my ***age *** find out about me.

[Cr****]

Being seen as an abusive and controlling partner by people outside of my intimate relationships

[Ro****]

Finding that dom that matches compatibility on kink and energy level perfectly in the bedroom but not respecting my independence and autonomy outside of the bedroom.

[Deleted Member]

  On 5/15/2023 at 1:37 PM, brazuca said:

It's time to open your heart! 💜

Complete the sentence: My biggest *** regarding my fetishes is...

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It's used to make me believe in something that is not real 

[ir****]

To be rejected by the person I shared them with and have them tell me that I'm some kind of freak

[ni****]

Being too soft to reject things I wouldn't like.

[HA****]

trust....