MY BIGGEST *** REGARDING MY FETISHES IS...

May 29

40 minutes ago, kree90 said:

Being rejected in general. It's difficult and when you put yourself out there about this stuff, it gets really scary.

But we are all deserving of love as we are.

Exactly take me as I am or leave for what I’m not!

June 1

That my particular kinks and quirks make me a mismatch for those around me, even in the kink community.

June 1

Not finding someone to share it with.

June 2

Never finding that perfect master

June 6

Finding someone I trust and submit to only for them to betray me.

June 9

I think for me i'd 50% how people not in the community view me and 50% not being creative enough to make it fun for my sub. I like to think my last partner had fun but always felt like i had to out do myself for the next time.

June 9

not fulfilling them. their happiness is the goal for each one and the penultimate goal of mine in life.. to fail them, to fail to older men is unacceptable, I am genuinely left hurt and worried from just mentioning it here..

June 15

Finding the balance between my kinks and my “real life” so the two exist as a cohesive whole.

June 18

Rushing into something I might regret.

June 19

Meeting someone who doesn't know what consent, no and stop are and take it too far.

June 19

Never getting to experience any of them.

June 19

Just being viewed as a toy and nothing beyond that.

June 19

Feeling like I don't have control of my life, but yet wanting to submit.

Edited June 19 by Sub_Neblina
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June 21

My biggest *** regarding my fetish is that I won't find the woman Who understands or deserves me.

June 21

Wednesday at 03:49 PM, butterfly07 said:

Just being viewed as a toy and nothing beyond that.

Sometimes being used is what I need.

June 30

There's lots of people ***ing rejection, mine is kinda the same thing.... that it's hard enough to find a great partner and then to match kinks too if more difficult again. I've fallen in love, I've had kinky partners. Hard to get the two together. Offering kinks in a great relationship might ruin it.

June 30

My biggest *** is finding a partner but then have them only see or be interested in me as a sub .

June 30

Opening up to my partner about what i really want and being not only rejected by looked down on for it

July 1

having my ***age children find out about me.

July 2

Being seen as an abusive and controlling partner by people outside of my intimate relationships

July 3

Finding that dom that matches compatibility on kink and energy level perfectly in the bedroom but not respecting my independence and autonomy outside of the bedroom.