MY BIGGEST *** REGARDING MY FETISHES IS...

[Deleted Member]

Not being able to find my soulmate. With who i can connect on personal level and indulge in kinky adventures

[NorseRhune]

Getting too old to enjoy safely

[st****]

Just being a dime a dozen type and not bringing anything worth interest or investment to the table

[Deleted Member]

Having them used against me or being rejected because of them.

[Deleted Member]

Not being able to find people into the same things.

[Tw****]

Coming across as too much for someone new to these things or them thinking it's all or nothing and not even attempting to explore their own fantasies because they're afraid they'll be ***d into everything that's listed on my profile

[Lu****]

Is not having the opportunity to fulfil them

[fa****]

Is revealing it to someone and them not just rejecting it but changing the relationship and how they view you. The gear can go back into the toy box and never come out again for the duration of the relationship but the thoughts there is something off or weird about you doesn't. Why many of the relationships with people I have communicated with that have the same fetishes are very temporary. They are people engaged in their fetish with another person that is in another relationship that has the same fetish or kink they can't share with the person they are in a relationship with. So they feed it and indulge it with someone else. Once satisfied it's back into the closet and back to a vanilla relationship.

[MR****]

Never meeting a girl who wants to be bred

[Evho_ghostie]

Scared of making new connections and not knowing how to handle it to keep everyone happy 

[35donegal_unlovable]

people finding out

[Xa****]

Getting carried away 

[Q5****]

Being taken advantage of because of it.

[do****]

Being emotionally and physically ***d

[ta****]

Being taken advantage of used and thrown away.

[Ho****]

Accidently hurting my sub; physically or emotionally. If a Dom isn't listening to their sub, it's bound (pun) to happen. Its always in the back of my mind that my sub forgot to tell me something and I accidently hurt them cause I was inadvertantly careless about their needs

[Ho****]

(continued) Or they did tell me and I forgot... I take notes for that reason

[fu****]

Dynamic is off... Or I spot the disingenuous act I’m hyper vigilant (cripplingly so) so have only transactional experience where its mutually agreeable so It all good. A true and natural dom/sub dynamic doesn’t live up to the lofty expectations Ive given it. That I never attract or be attracted to a person or personality and I die not knowing. 😢

[Da****]

Someone being the perfect sub for me physically but still having mental intimacy barriers they can't/wont work on. Total waste

[Deleted Member]

That the "healing" I experience practicing them for years will turn me into a corrupt freak that should be hospitalized 

[cu****]

My biggest *** would be slipping and getting injured. I love to use lots of baby oil!!! And I hope that I don't black out or pass out even God forbid die. 

[Da****]

Hopefully somebody's around to make sure nothing bad happens, or at least that you don't die 

[Ki****]

Not being able to experience what has been in my thoughts all these years

[el****]

Being pulled over and arrested

[el****]

Judgemental pricks