4R**** Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 @Anonymous4u You've been given quite a mixed bag of advice here but in reality only you know your situation and your relationship with your Dom. it's natural to develop feelings for your Dominant. A lot of what we do is incredible intimate and when we are playing we are causing emotional and physiological responses. We want the bond, we want to build trust, we want that intimacy because we want to be at ease with the person we are playing with. I've been a Dominant for more years than I like to remember. A side effect of that is lots of people have come and gone over those years, subs, slaves, students, mentees, bunnies, play partners etc and these all have differing boundaries. I generally don't want to "fall in love" with a play partner or a bunny for example but I still need that deep connection to play at the levels we do. As a result I've had submissives declare their undying love for me even when we had already discussed that were just play partners and nothing more and at the other extreme I've had submissives who haven't revealed their true feelings and as a result we've both been hurt. My advice is simple, be honest. If your feelings aren't reciprocated your Dominant will at least be in a position to protect and support you through the emotions. Any Dominant worth their salt will do everything they can to help you. On the other hand, it might trigger thoughts in your Dominants head that hadn't been there previously (I've had that happen and ended up moving in with someone I'd never even considered as a partner and we spent many happy years together). Even though it can be scary, honesty is always the best policy. Communication is fundamental to what we do, as is trust. If your Dominant catches on that you are not being straight with Him/Her, that could affect their trust in you and if that happens your dynamic will start to feel very different. The other benefit of being honest is that once everything os out in the open you can both find a way forward and protect yourselves from emotional harm, whether that be together or separately. Good luck!
Charms Posted June 24, 2023 Posted June 24, 2023 Being 9n love with your dom is ok till he doesn't love u
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