Tips for people who want to meet kink minded partners

[Slyder]

I realized quickly no one actually meets anyone on here.

[MasterDarcy1979]

  2 hours ago, Slyder said:

I realized quickly no one actually meets anyone on here.

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Really?

Have you taken a poll?

[ey****]

  10 hours ago, Slyder said:

I realized quickly no one actually meets anyone on here.

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you have been here... a day.

You win the "Most Impatient" award. 

[John54]

Slider. Have you belonged to the group in the past, left, and just rejoined? I wonder because it says you've only been a member for 2 days - but it might be second time round. If it isn't, I think a way of getting engagement is to ask yourself what you can GIVE to the group in the way of your past experiences and learnings, rather than present an image of someone expecting people to throw themselves at your feet.

[eR****]

I’m still hoping. Needle in the haystack. Been trying to go to more local events, educational and munches. Develop friendships and maybe one day boom there’s my needle 🪡

[Juan-2738]

Need to create a friendship that i am comfortable going to munches with maybe more.

[Co****]

Sup guys. So I’ve been on this site for a good while but rarely looked at in the beginning. I would check it out and learn more about what I like kink and wise. So I try and catch on here soon as I can. Probably a silly weird question but are there any real life circle jerks around? What about my area? NC? Thanks

[Th****]

So far I have yet to find anyone who wants anything besides sex. Far too many men can't seem to wrap their heads around the idea that women aren't fetish dispensers. And that a woman being on a fetish site doesn't mean that she is an easy lay.

It's crazy how many men get angry when I refuse to do what they want.

[Th****]

I think my biggest problem is that I don't know what I'm looking for. People seem to not want to bother with someone who doesn't clearly state what they want. I'm always too nervous to tell those people who message me back what my intentions are so they lose interest pretty quickly. So i guess my advice is to not be a lil bitch like me.

[Kr****]

Vanilla nerds. Each one turned out to like kinky stuff or loved my reaction enough to enjoy doing it. Works for relationships. Never had an ONS.