So many questions #sadism #edging# sexual orientation #orgasm #threesome

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So I figured instead of writing a post on each I'd  just lay it all out here.

Save some time. 

First of all thank you for making me feel welcomed this community has really opened my eyes. I feel like I can be myself and not what society seems as normal.

It's  taken me a lot of years to feel this way and I haven't  even really begun.

On to the questions. Sorry they may be stupid and ignorant. But I can't  find my answers on google

 

1. I really love watching porn that inflicts *** on women. I love hearing their screams. It's  a real turn on for me. All consensual sadism of course.  My life has been vanilla so far so of course I haven't  tried. Does this make me a sadist although  inexperienced. 

 

2.  Although I've  never had a relationship with a woman . I love the idea of pleasing one and dominating one and often fantasize about it. Does this make me bi sexual.

 

3. I've  tried edging but everytime he edges me closer it gets harder and harder to get off. my clit almost becomes numb. Any women out there the same?

 

4.  I only get off through clitoris stimulation. And it's frustrating because sometimes I can't  orgasm. Again women what have you done?

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What's your experiences  on threesomes or being dominated by 2 men, 2 women or one of both

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1. See 2. By the way check out pascals sub sluts. 2. Obsessing over labels. How's that gonna help ? Just get stuck into some pussy and see how it feels. 3. I'm sure there are. Bodies ain't machines. 4. Read a good book and give sex a break youre over thinking 5. They are rubbish. Master your destiny one cock at a time.

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  9 minutes ago, purrfectpanther said:

1. See 2. By the way check out pascals sub sluts. 2. Obsessing over labels. How's that gonna help ? Just get stuck into some pussy and see how it feels. 3. I'm sure there are. Bodies ain't machines. 4. Read a good book and give sex a break youre over thinking 5. They are rubbish. Master your destiny one cock at a time.

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Thank you 😊

[martins-4410]

Hello dear

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  8 minutes ago, martins-4410 said:

Hello dear

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Hey😊

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I should add I grew up in a semi religious  home and being with women was wrong. That was completely  drilled into me

Sex was never discussed it was taboo.  So watching porn and reading ppls really dark fantasies  at 14 made me feel damaged.

When I told my counselor about some of my darker fantasies he made me feel like I was wrong. Porn was bad blahs blahs

 

Now I'm just suck and tired of living by other ppls rules 

[ey****]

I agree with not getting too worried about labels - but a couple of bits

1) Is it that you are turned on because you like to see these people hurt - or - because you'd like to be hurt that way? (or both)

2) It depends - we could get overly philosophical - Marilyn Manson did an application form when looking for a guitarist once and one of the questions was "if you suck a man's cock but do not love him, does that make you gay?" - I imagine some answers were simpler than others.     

3-4) Due to being male I can't give direct experience

5) Threesomes I've done MFM and MFF (in the MFM I didn't interact with the other man) I've also done double Domination as the Dominant in MFm, MFf and MMf.  As the submissive FFm.   

[CamrenChase]

1.) Is it the vocal qualities of the scream or the reason for the scream that gets you off? Both? 2.) If the idea of a woman, breasts and curves, lack of, whatever; makes you juicy, you're probably Most Likely well within the category of bisexual, at least in fantasy. Go explore IRL. 3.) Sounds about right. Frustrating, isn't it? I imagine men feel the same way when they're being edged. However, the orgasm after all that hard work can be (typically is) EXPLOSIVE. Don't lose faith. ; ) 4.)Utilize that insight- make it happen. Bullet vibrator during sex? Fingers? wand? another member? And don't let him/her leave until you have orgasmed. Nobody puts baby in a corner. And if you find yourself in that corner: go to fucking town on yourself. 5.) You're gonna have to experience that on your own to come to your own conclusions.

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  5 hours ago, CamrenChase said:

1.) Is it the vocal qualities of the scream or the reason for the scream that gets you off? Both? 2.) If the idea of a woman, breasts and curves, lack of, whatever; makes you juicy, you're probably Most Likely well within the category of bisexual, at least in fantasy. Go explore IRL. 3.) Sounds about right. Frustrating, isn't it? I imagine men feel the same way when they're being edged. However, the orgasm after all that hard work can be (typically is) EXPLOSIVE. Don't lose faith. ; ) 4.)Utilize that insight- make it happen. Bullet vibrator during sex? Fingers? wand? another member? And don't let him/her leave until you have orgasmed. Nobody puts baby in a corner. And if you find yourself in that corner: go to fucking town on yourself. 5.) You're gonna have to experience that on your own to come to your own conclusions.

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It's both. But then I fantasize about it getting done to me(( hubby spanked it and it was amazing) and about doing it to another  it turns me on more. I love the sound of the whip  against skin. But then hearing them scream in *** oh god I don't  even know how to describe  it

Either way I have to wait for hubby to get comfortable  if I'm  to bring another female in the bedroom with us. He's  a one woman man. So I'm  not sure if I'll  ever get to get explore that with him. But I can be a very patient  person  sometimes ;)

 

Ok good I thought i was doing something  was wrong. The edging is frustrating lol I don't  tend to have explosive orgasms but I do love the ***

 

I've  always been a curious person in a non sexual way but now that I've  accepted  my sexual side. My husband doesn't  know what to think or what do with me lol poor guy I feel bad for him

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  On 7/24/2019 at 3:05 AM, eyemblacksheep said:

I agree with not getting too worried about labels - but a couple of bits

1) Is it that you are turned on because you like to see these people hurt - or - because you'd like to be hurt that way? (or both)

2) It depends - we could get overly philosophical - Marilyn Manson did an application form when looking for a guitarist once and one of the questions was "if you suck a man's cock but do not love him, does that make you gay?" - I imagine some answers were simpler than others.     

3-4) Due to being male I can't give direct experience

5) Threesomes I've done MFM and MFF (in the MFM I didn't interact with the other man) I've also done double Domination as the Dominant in MFm, MFf and MMf.  As the submissive FFm.   

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Did you enjoy the threesome. I know its hyped up more in books and they make it seem so easy

[3S****]

I love mfm 3sums, just thought i'd mention that. I'm not submissive though so it might be different for you, i'm 99.9% into being selfish and having all the focus and pleasure on me.

[ey****]

  32 minutes ago, SweetPea1984 said:

Did you enjoy the threesome. I know its hyped up more in books and they make it seem so easy

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the MFF yes - but it was easy in the sense that in that my interactions with the second lady were limited so it was easier to make sure I was balanced.

The MFM - not so much but I had been drinking quite a lot, we have talked abotu doing it again without drink.   

But yeah, they can be interesting.

Gangbangs can also be particularly interesting challenging as, aside from no shows, there's usually at least one guy suddenly finds he can't perform with an audience.  

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  40 minutes ago, 3SumQueen said:

I love mfm 3sums, just thought i'd mention that. I'm not submissive though so it might be different for you, i'm 99.9% into being selfish and having all the focus and pleasure on me.

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Oh yes I do love it when all attention  is  on me.

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I wrote a big long thing and it disappeared:(no photo on my profile due to professional career) 

Here it is.

Not 100% on topic but being a newbie on here I was hoping that nobody would be offended by me just putting it all out there. Mostly I’m just asking for direction,advice etc. I suppose I’m a newbie to the type of “fun” that I want. I actually know what I want due to experience with a partner. 
I’m a female interested in male (s) as in open to more than one at a time. I have my guy(not necessarily master but I obey) but he’s not into *** at full hilt. But more into him control during sex.

This is what I’m asking. Btw we are both open to swing/swap but guy/girl. 
the main thing is  I want *** but he'll only go so far. He’s ok watching though. Again I’m new to terminology so here it goes. I want nails,

needles,branding(not so much but a little with that one) I’m not crazy about whips but know my limits with using belt. Smack and back punch will try. Fire- no scars please but test me.

Im all in for good hard fucks and suck during all of this. I want a gangbang or in the bar on display. 
(can you tell I’ve been watching a lot of porn) ha ha

I have one limit(no spitting) ew. Ha ha! 
 

So how do I find this? Im(we’re) interested in finding a club maybe meeting someone from a chat there.

Where do I hookup with guys that are into this.

Surprise surprise he wants a 3some or moreI’m just watching. (Woman only for him) That really does it for him but he’s very open to experiencing new things( limits and woman only for him)

Handsome horny men chat with me.

Sorry it I omitted a fetishized or kink. Suggestions are welcome:):)

 

Edited April 9, 2020 by Deleted Member
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