Weight loss kink?

[li****]

7 hours ago, RendNY said:

A kink to lose weight? A lot of people have thar desire… in a way. Girl, starving yourself isn’t healthy. Just exercise and eat healthy foods.

I’m not doing it to lose weight. I want the control that comes with someone choosing everything for you - even your portions.

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Yes, I am into it.

[su****]

5 hours ago, Himedere said:

I’m not doing it to lose weight. I want the control that comes with someone choosing everything for you - even your portions.

Get a trainer they a brutal 😂 Almost like a Dom without the spankings.

[su****]

They yell at you and make you do thing you are not sure you want but they say it’s for our own good. Yep trainers are like Doms.

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I'd say a trainer. But bdsm side, not a very healthy kink. Imho.

[6C****]

I mean to ever positive a negative exists. And a feeding fetish does exist. Lol. So the other has to as well.

[Ae****]

Minus sugar, minus bread, plus moto)))

[Ae****]

And of course hard f#ckin' as often as possible

[ch****]

Well, if you want to lose weight safely. Intermediate fasting, like only eat from 3pm to 9pm, and 90% meat diet with no alcohol as it stops the fat burning process for up to 48 hrs.

Not sure if it is a kink, but it works

[Vo****]

Yes all the subs i have owned ore  trained under my Dominion are put on a weekly workout plan along with meal preps i start by taking 4 full body pics and setting up a monthly goal also documenting the pounds lost once they reach the ideal size it is now a task to maintain that weight  and i give them the proper diet to do so its a lot of work because i do have to be attentive to them  since the subject of weight loss and weight management seems to be a very mental daunting process 

[Vo****]

Also if a Dom only wants subs to be at a certain size ore only takes on subs that are fit and you feel you need to lose weight to be with them ore be excepted by them thats not a red flag thats a preference of the Don its up to you to make that decision for yourself not everything is a red flag

[Firefox_]

Could it be tied into Bimbofication?

[li****]

54 minutes ago, Firefox_ said:

Could it be tied into Bimbofication?

For me personally no. I don’t really like looking sexy. The type of doll I am is a living doll similar to ball jointed dolls rather than a sex doll. I want to be skinny and fragile rather than curvy and ‘sexy’

[Da****]

You definitely want to be careful so this doesn't turn into full-fledged Anorexia, but I think I get what you're talking about. My sub has a weight loss goal that I impose, and it's half about health and half about control for both of us. I like the idea of my girl being weak, small and "Breakable", while being strong in other areas. Does that make sense?

[An****]

Seek to be a slave, and put food denial in the descriptor. You will regret it, though. Trust me.

[Deleted Member]

i would be very careful about weight loss as a kink. i said to my sub as part of our rules she can loss weight if she wishes but must do it in a healthy way. i have a slight eating disorder so i m very aware of what dangers there can be. if you want it as a kink i suggest doing it in a controlled manner so you don't damage your body physically or mentally

[Mr****]

September 5, whimsical said:

Starvation doesn’t sound safe to me at all. Safe Sane Consensual. I want a Dom to help me with my weight-loss journey. Not give me another eating disorder. 🚩 🚩 🚩

Gotta say. That's what I was hoping for with the title of this discussion. Ah well...healthy eating would be a very cool kink. 😎

[Ca****]

Find a dominant that is athletic and he will guide you safely you have a masochistic side that will be useful no *** no gain

[wo****]

I’m trying to encourage my subs to loose weight without just stopping eating starving dose not work because it tries to preserve fat

[Do****]

The purpose of a DS or MS relationship is to make the other person the best version they can be. Obviously this is up for interpretation but if a sub isn’t into being degraded (some are) but has a figure that isn’t Barbie there’s room for improvement.

Starving is a terrible idea because anorexia/bulimia is incredibly unsafe and unhealthy and has led to many a lost life or loss of quality of life and no Dom worth his salt would allow a sub to be harmed to an extent she becomes worthless or deceased.

The best approach is obviously as a couple, with you (the sub) being guided towards a healthy plan for permanent restructuring of your physical form without harm or undue stress. The idea honestly is for you to be the most pleasing version of you for him therefore you work together, make it a goal and you are charged by him to maintain whatever course you decide on.

Anyone tells you to fast for weight loss is not achieving a pleasing you for themselves therefore they’re either ignorant how to achieve success or they’re selfish and unworthy of a capital letter in their name or to claim ownership/dominance over you.

Good luck to you sweet girl
And hey, if you do find a pathway keep us posted. Everybody loves when someone is succeeding especially when that person is a sub because it brings out more inner confidence and heart from you. Be safe.

[BB****]

Finally some who asked a question I didn’t know how to word correctly.