Need advice.

September 18, 2023

I have 2 girls I'm talking to . Both of them are bi but only one wants to give me a three some and the other doesn't . How do I make this happen . ? I'm in el paso

September 18, 2023

You don't "MAKE" anything happen - as that would be ***

September 18, 2023

U dont, just respect her boundaries and find someone who will do it

September 18, 2023

Do you know why the other doesn't want to?

September 18, 2023

Well if one doesn't then that's her choice lol you can't change her mind if she's said no 🙄

September 18, 2023

The fact you said “give me a threesome” shows that your intention going into it is pretty self-absorbed. Rather than asking how to “make” it happen you should perhaps consider asking yourself what would make someone want to have one with you.

September 18, 2023

Find a third that's comfortable with a threesome. Applying pressure or manipulating a situation to get it because 2/3 of y'all want it is not okay. All or nothing and if you're the Dom, it's your responsibility to make sure everyone's boundaries are respected.

September 18, 2023

If consent is not given, you don't.

September 18, 2023

Ya I definitely thought he was asking like the other was down but just nervous or may have concerns but if she 100% doesn't want to u u respect it

September 18, 2023

You don't make it happen, you respect the person's wishes, to not be involved & you don't try to *** someone to do something they don't want to.

No means no!

September 18, 2023

You should just take down this post, you’re asking real people in the lifestyle, who appreciate and respect it to help
You land a three way? Come on bruh…
This is one of the more pathetic questions I’ve heard on here, if the one isn’t on board then it’s a no go, and give you a threesome, sounds like you found someone you can manipulate, and I feel sad for her.
If a threesome or any sharing is to happen it should be something all would enjoy…
This makes it clear your out for yourself, and just because we are kinky in this community doesn’t mean we are close to being codefendants on your douchebaggary!
Guys like you make a mockery of the friendships and relationships trying to be built here…
What a joke

September 18, 2023

You really trying to get advice on how to get a woman to do something she doesn’t want to?
We aren’t about manipulation bruh, if she isn’t consenting then you’re out.
And the fact you say one wants to give you a threesome speaks to the selfishness and douchebaggary of the request.

September 18, 2023

You literally do NOT MAKE it happen lol I was with a guy for months trying to coerce a cuck situation and it was so uncomfortable and he would not let it go…. He’s gone now 🤣

September 18, 2023

17 minutes ago, LittyNikky said:

Ya I definitely thought he was asking like the other was down but just nervous or may have concerns but if she 100% doesn't want to u u respect it
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If she 10% doesn't want to that's still not consent, a 'maybe' is not consent. A dunno is not consent.

September 18, 2023

Yep, you don't. No means no, bro.

September 18, 2023

Everyone needs to consent. Even if they say yes and then decide they don't want to go through with it then it's no longer a yes.

There's no p***y or d**k worth going to prison over.

No means no.

September 18, 2023

You could be in Narnia, but if one of them doesn’t want it- it couldn’t, shouldn’t, won’t happen. Real Doms don’t *** and manipulate someone out of their boundaries.

September 18, 2023

Respect limits or be an ***r and not a Dom

September 18, 2023

You don’t. If someone doesn’t want to be in a threesome, then they don’t want to be in a threesome. I don’t know why you’re even asking this question.

September 18, 2023

Ladies, if you’re the one in question talking to him, I’d suggest hitting that block button until this lad decides he gives a damn about your consent.

Dude, what in Satan’s spicy a**ehole made you think that a woman saying no is anything but… a no? Respect that, leave her alone. It’s very simple.