jc**** Posted February 11 Posted February 11 Benton100029 with a bike like that and you cant pull pussy all day long from a bar bro wtf And all those fox sites that you're on. There's nothing but AI. I hope you didn't give no *** out
Ar**** Posted February 11 Posted February 11 15 hours ago, benton100029 said: I have been on like 10 f**k sites and still have not even .gotten a number and ever women wants *** I'd like to second what Thalia and Gemini have said. If that is what you are looking for then kudos to you for being upfront and direct about it. I would suggest though that this is not the place for you, and recommend Fetish's *** site F**k.com (if you are not already there) as somewhere more suited to your requirements.
Co**** Posted February 17 Posted February 17 Some people want just a quick hook-up and some want something more. What stuns me is that someone thought it appropriate to admonish you because what you are looking for is different from what they want. That’s not your issue - it’s their issue.
Deleted Member Posted March 10 Posted March 10 I always find it funny when you meet somebody on a dating site that you’ve been with before. Both of us being on here opens up a whole new can of worms in our relationship. We’ve never talked about kinks before. I guess we will have to try some out . Hope you’re up to the adventure, I sure am! I think all of these sites are what you make of it. They can be used for hook ups or relationships. Even this site I’m sure you could find a relationship that would last. This one just brings out the kinky side of people that is uncomfortable to talk about in your typical setting. 
bi**** Posted March 10 Posted March 10 I have no desire to have sex with anyone on this website. I made sure and put that on my profile
Co**** Posted March 10 Posted March 10 Of course it is possible to find a long term relationship on a site like this - if you are clear what you want and screen for people who are open to the same thing. I met my ex-wife on alt.com and while we eventually grew apart, we were together for 15 years.
wa**** Posted March 11 Posted March 11 It's highly unlikely I'll find anyone in my area that shares even the same fetish as me. So using it as a hookup site is pointless.
co**** Posted March 11 Posted March 11 I'm here to educate myself at the start of a new chapter in my life. To find where I fit in
Deleted Member Posted March 11 Posted March 11 I hope this isn't just a hookup site 😕 I was hoping to find friends and maybe a relationship.
Su**** Posted March 11 Posted March 11 Well here is an irony.. we have been here for circa 3 years and have mused over many profiles. Profiles here, do appear to be a little more honest about personal preferences and what an individual is seeking. Perhaps it is the structure of the site that teases out the darker desires in people. Maybe the presentation of information is more symbiotic with a kinky gene in each of us here. But, is it a contact/ hook up site ? Absolutely not! That is to say , we have run across a profile or two here that is kinda replicated on other sites .. you will all know the sites and may well have experienced the frustration of all the fake profiles and unwelcome messages of interest from individuals who no longer use the platform.. Our experience with the majority of FET members is positive and let’s face it .. if you want to hook up there are plenty of other places where you can with a far greater success rate. This is a place for adult interaction and connection .. that’s not , in our limited experience, a hook up!
da**** Posted March 11 Posted March 11 21 hours ago, goodgirl_420 said: I have no desire to have sex with anyone on this website. I made sure and put that on my profile So why are you on here
wa**** Posted March 11 Posted March 11 1 hour ago, daddy360 said: So why are you on here Quite possibly to network with others and learn new skills or sharpen exit skills? Not that she owes you or anyone an answer to it.
Co**** Posted March 12 Posted March 12 Yesterday at 07:47 PM, daddy360 said: So why are you on here You dont have to have Sex in a Power Exchange in Bdsm . Or it could be just the SM part of Bdsm, and involve *** as a means to pleasure and release. Maybe just Bondage. Im just understanding things myself, I don't profess to know it all,......but it isn't just about Sex. There's alot more to do with the mental connections, and that side of things. Much more Creative.
fu**** Posted March 12 Posted March 12 You know the site could be multiple things at once lol I mean clearly it’s designed to get people with the same fetishes to meet each other obviously
Ho**** Posted March 12 Posted March 12 3 hours ago, CosmicAngel said: You dont have to have Sex in a Power Exchange in Bdsm . Or it could be just the SM part of Bdsm, and involve *** as a means to pleasure and release. Maybe just Bondage. Im just understanding things myself, I don't profess to know it all,......but it isn't just about Sex. There's alot more to do with the mental connections, and that side of things. Much more Creative. Love this! You totally get it!
Redbottom*** Posted March 13 Posted March 13 Is it just me or has others found some of these replies worrying. I don't remember signing up to a hook up site, and automatically being fair game and assumption of hooking up. Is it 2024 and a time when we can dare to connect with other like minded people without judgement or assumptions of anything else. I debate it's not the site but perhaps mindset of some that may have misunderstood the objective of this community.
Sh**** Posted March 13 Posted March 13 Agreed, if I wanted casual hook ups, I would have joined Tinder, and here, to talk with like-minded people, learn, and see where the journey takes me. 
fu**** Posted March 22 Posted March 22 That’s funny that you view everyone as just assuming that you’re fair game because I’ve had 66 people look at my profile and not one person message me so to me this site is a big freaking waste of time. And is truly just a rip off of the actual Fetlife site. From which I get hit up all the time, but I mean this is a fetish site so it does make sense that it is all about sex not necessarily meaning that you’re going to have sex with anybody and everybody butfor you to be on a fetish site and pretend like people aren’t going to hit you up for sex is just naïve
Th**** Posted March 22 Posted March 22 (edited) On 3/12/2024 at 11:40 PM, Msfergz said: Is it just me or has others found some of these replies worrying. I don't remember signing up to a hook up site, and automatically being fair game and assumption of hooking up. Is it 2024 and a time when we can dare to connect with other like minded people without judgement or assumptions of anything else. I debate it's not the site but perhaps mindset of some that may have misunderstood the objective of this community. Precisely. It's reckless and quite frankly foolish to jump into much of all that is BDSM and kink so quickly with virtual strangers. Edited March 22 by ThaliaV
Be**** Posted March 31 Posted March 31 I can offer my opinion as a newer member on the site. I would like to hope people do not just use it as a hook up site. But often when talking to people, it seems they get bored soo fast as though they expected to get a quick hookup 🤣 I tend to see it as a bullet dodged and hope I find ones that matter to me~<3
Ar**** Posted April 2 Posted April 2 9 hours ago, Mrdickchuck said: It'd be cooler if it was I can assure you, as somebody who was here before the membership spurt where new folk started acting like it is, that this is not true. But do try the *** site F*ck.com if that's what you're looking for.
Ve**** Posted April 2 Posted April 2 On 3/22/2024 at 5:59 PM, fun1life said: That’s funny that you view everyone as just assuming that you’re fair game because I’ve had 66 people look at my profile and not one person message me so to me this site is a big freaking waste of time. And is truly just a rip off of the actual Fetlife site. From which I get hit up all the time, but I mean this is a fetish site so it does make sense that it is all about sex not necessarily meaning that you’re going to have sex with anybody and everybody butfor you to be on a fetish site and pretend like people aren’t going to hit you up for sex is just naïve Your comment is actually revealing of you possessing a frequently misunderstood concept: BDSM is about a lot more than sex. Sex doesn’t not even have to be part of a BDSM connection. You probably also believe that the dominant is also the one in control, despite the fact that, in a healthy and mutually consensual dynamic, the boundaries are worked out together. Often times it is the submissive who defines the limits. You probably also lack the understanding that it is the dominant who is taking on the responsibility of caring for the submissive, always watching the cues in order to avoid going too far. Ug. I am so tired of bullies who come onto this site and behave like a spoiled child, always pushing for his own pleasure without any education or experience. And no, the bull **** porn you’re watching doesn’t count.
fu**** Posted April 2 Posted April 2 That is incredible that you get all that from what I said when I said nothing like that lol you seem to be a very judgmental person and would definitely not be someone I would be interested in. I think you have no idea how it works because you seem to think it only works in one way you seem to think everyone is the same or should be the same and if they’re not then they don’t know what they’re talking about. Perhaps you’re afraid to step outside of your own, comfort zone I don’t know, but for you to judge others when you have no idea who they are based upon a comment on what they think about a particular subject is telling about yourself
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