Mr**** Posted April 2 Posted April 2 I can see how that wasn't received as the joke it was meant to, my apologies all
fu**** Posted April 2 Posted April 2 Why are people that don’t wish to hook up so concerned about others doing so lol reminds me of the person on the highway who feels like they need to control everyone else’s s***d
Sh**** Posted April 3 Posted April 3 Oh I don’t know, maybe because people are tired of reading complaints about how someone can’t fathom a kinky community where folks don’t want to jump in bed with the first person they see? 
fu**** Posted April 3 Posted April 3 23 hours ago, Mrdickchuck said: I can see how that wasn't received as the joke it was meant to, my apologies all You shouldn’t be sorry for voicing an opinion or an idea or a thought. You didn’t go out of your way to directly attack another member of this group like a couple of other people in here who immediately jump on here and start bullying people they’ve never met or even talk to and try to close down discussion and Deny your opinion . To me that’s straight up disgusting.
Ar**** Posted April 20 Posted April 20 I've had a further thought on this topic this afternoon, and I'd be interested to hear the thoughts of those who feel they're on a hookup site. If Fetish.com was intended to be a place for hookups and nothing else, what are the purposes of the educational sections of the site and (for example) the Online Munch forum?
Be**** Posted April 20 Posted April 20 Good point to bring up. Though I do think that while we all could debate it, some people will still use it however they like. It only sucks when someone who just wants a hookup is messing with someone who wants long term or something, at least in my opinion. Though it does help if people read profiles too to ensure both parties are seeking the same thing regarding hookups. So I guess in conclusion for me, while I don't use the site as a hookup site, and would prefer to find something long term or even short term/ semi-regular, there will always be those who do still use it as a hookup site and may find someone else who only wants gookups as well. I mean heck the fact people can put thatvthey are looking for swingers (at least in my opinion) is enough to show the site does somewhat cater to those looking for hookups
Redbottom*** Posted April 20 Posted April 20 Just caught up on the comments, and seems I wasn't clear enough . I never said everyone thinks am fair game just the assumption. However for the comment "fetish site, so makes all about sex" "naive " is what I assumed this topic was created for and people's opinion, not a narrative of trying to control others I am not of a mindset this lifestyle is about sex, a tool of a dynamic but not the objective . While you reserve the right of your opinion that it is about sex, and many others. I would read a profile and see this and respect this, regardless of it being what ever site When it's clearly stated on mine not to "hit me up " (as wording used) I also deserve that same respect and it's not ok when that line is crossed. That's not naive, nor is it someone else afraid to step out of comfort zone. It's being respectful
MissTakenDeep Posted April 20 Posted April 20 Definitely not!! I use it a little bit like kinky Facebook lol
Cy**** Posted April 21 Posted April 21 we are dealing with a very sexualy charged topic it is easy to understand the confusion
Deleted Member Posted May 15 Posted May 15 Well thank god. Hopefully I can find someone seriously date here then cuz that's y I joined.
Dr**** Posted May 16 Posted May 16 This is a hook up site even though it may not have attended to be. There are a lot of desperate sexually frustrated men here. I was looking for something casual but I guess men see it has sex now. Just because I want something casual doesn’t mean I’m gonna sleep with you on the first meet up or first hour of talking to you. They don’t even want to get to know you and move way too fast. I still screen people and I don’t just sleep with anyone and it looks like if you don’t have sex on the first meeting they lose interest in you which is fine cause you make my screening process easier. Always vet everyone it’s too crazy out here.
Am**** Posted May 17 Posted May 17 DrkQueen casual what lol. Casual laughs? Casual talk casual touching or what? To say men are sexually frustrated is 1000 present right. It’s cause you use casual to me so much s!!
Dr**** Posted May 17 Posted May 17 Casual sex meaning not like a relationship, nothing serious and only seeing each other here and there no time frame. Not something full time but part time. Still it does not mean to be pushy about when it will happen. That is a turn off for me. I don’t like desperation.
Lu**** Posted May 17 Posted May 17 You know what? I think.. well. I am a guy and I am conflicted now. The word casual has a lot to answer for! I love to have sex but you ladies are right. The culture now is fu?@ it let's doit. That leads to a very unhealthy place, and that is all aspects of life. I know. I will try to remember those views as I move forward. Try to be more thoughtful and less hasty to whip it out and give it exercise next time opportunity presents itself. I think we all (i) should at least try to.
Deleted Member Posted May 27 Posted May 27 Not sure since it feels like people just don't want anything anyway. I mean the profiles say they do but no one wants to take it to the next step I guess.
Deleted Member Posted May 30 Posted May 30 It kinda has just a regular social media vibe to it just for kinky people
Deleted Member Posted May 30 Posted May 30 Much the opposite in my opinion. Lots of men want the pictures and video calls. But actual action....its enough to make me feel ugly 🤣
WA**** Posted May 31 Posted May 31 No one has the power to make you feel ugly sweetheait's.You that makes them feel useless because they can't take that power from you or your beauty or your confidence or your independence or anything else that you don't want them to you'recorders just remember that
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