Straight male but attracted to trans women

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  Thursday at 06:35 PM, sadomassacre_ said:

Trans women are women. So you’re still straight.

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🧐🤔

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I’ve only been attracted to the mindset, feminine energy, sexiness and kindness of a trans female. They were born male and will pass on as one. It’s been easier in someways to connect with them due to understanding how a man thinks. There’s no confusion about it here. Just don’t be dishonest or push an agenda on ***.

[sa****]

  4 minutes ago, Bronzebond007 said:

I’ve only been attracted to the mindset, feminine energy, sexiness and kindness of a trans female. They were born male and will pass on as one. It’s been easier in someways to connect with them due to understanding how a man thinks. There’s no confusion about it here. Just don’t be dishonest or push an agenda on ***.

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Trans women are women. Trans men are men. Brushing off someone’s identity is not only rude and disrespectful, it’s bigotry.

[Co****]

  37 minutes ago, Bronzebond007 said:

I’ve only been attracted to the mindset, feminine energy, sexiness and kindness of a trans female. They were born male and will pass on as one. It’s been easier in someways to connect with them due to understanding how a man thinks. There’s no confusion about it here. Just don’t be dishonest or push an agenda on ***.

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Please do not crusade for faceless *** on an adult bdsm social media/ dating site it’s reading a lil 🤨

[ey****]

  21 minutes ago, Bronzebond007 said:

It’s been easier in someways to connect with them due to understanding how a man thinks

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I was going to write something long about the complexities of neuroscience, but there is a very simple thing here...

not all men think alike.  

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  2 hours ago, sadomassacre_ said:

Trans women are women. Trans men are men. Brushing off someone’s identity is not only rude and disrespectful, it’s bigotry.

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Not my intentions but thanks for sharing

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  2 hours ago, Pawpytan said:

Please do not crusade for faceless *** on an adult bdsm social media/ dating site it’s reading a lil 🤨

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Understood this isn’t that type of forum

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  2 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I was going to write something long about the complexities of neuroscience, but there is a very simple thing here...

not all men think alike.  

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I’d love to read about that and yes great point. We don’t and that’s ok

[Co****]

  1 minute ago, Bronzebond007 said:

Understood this isn’t that type of forum

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You’re all good bruv, it both sounded a lil sus and wasn’t what was asked of OP.

[Th****]

  19 hours ago, Bronzebond007 said:

Not my intentions but thanks for sharing

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It's important to remember, impact > intent 

[sa****]

  Yesterday at 01:12 AM, Bronzebond007 said:

Not my intentions but thanks for sharing

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Bro blocks Me for pointing out his bigotry. Nice and mature.

[f1****]

It’s prob worth recognizing that trans women are indeed women, and that many straight men find some portions of both trans and cis women attractive.

The issue here comes with the idea that trans women represent something different. We are just women, treat us as you would other women and you’ll be surprised where it gets you.

[Da****]

I always assumed all straight men found trans women attractive? If your into women surely you’d be into trans women since yeno their just women

[f1****]

  3 minutes ago, Dave95001 said:

I always assumed all straight men found trans women attractive? If your into women surely you’d be into trans women since yeno their just women

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Dave, I think the truth is that most straight men have or will find at least one trans woman attractive, whether or not they know she is trans. The issue, however, comes down to learned prejudice. If finding out someone is trans fundamentally changes the way they see them / or their attraction to them, chances are there is some work to be done on their end.

[ey****]

  1 hour ago, Dave95001 said:

I always assumed all straight men found trans women attractive? If your into women surely you’d be into trans women since yeno their just women

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what I've found...

myself personally.  there are trans women I find attractive and those who I do not - the same as cis women

I have engaged in different forms of play with trans women - though, for example, if someone has a penis I have no interest in that being part of our play : which for some ladies I've played with has been a relief and others - well, not compatible 

But... there's been some ladies I know who've had negative experiences either side - where some people who found them attractive were then angry when they found out they were trans - as if they'd been "tricked" or "duped" and it's all very horrible.  And then others who are attracted *because* they're trans, or become more interested and again for the wrong reasons - seeing the person as being a novelty the whole "chicks with dicks" trope.  Which is usually fairly gross.

This said, I'm aware of a trans porn star who was once dropped like hot potatoes when people found out she now had a vagina. That they were only interested for the wrong reasons. 

[DancesNaked]

I have only embraced myself as a trans woman about 6 months ago, so this is all new to me as well. You are the kind of man I am looking for and I think I can safely say that what you wrote here is perfect.

Have her read it and you'll be covered.

[De****]

Glad to know I'm not alone! I've had the same thought process since I was 22. It's been lonely and I feel bad for not being able to give the women in my past few relationships, the person they deserved. Like I'm putting on a front, and it's exhausting

[Bi****]

I've been learning so much stuff on here I never had the guts to ask about. Thanks for letting me read this. It helps