Tips for talking dirty without sounding like...

[YorkshireBiker]

Maybe that is a good place to start, just describe what you want to do and take it from there. 

[Cacti]

Thanks for all the helpful responses! End of the year wrap up has been busy for me but i'll get to responding to some of your suggestions soon.

[Deleted Member]

I talk dirty for a living and I still am.shit at it I'm the bedroom. I can do it all day long to strangers over the phone but I'm rubbish in real life. Luckily my current partner is not so.worried as such but someone will be at some point and I'll be in trouble. Be yourself and get help.from. the person you are with to taylor it to you both. It totally depends on what you are into and doing at the time. Try to relax and have fun with it. Best advice I can give

[Chachahaze]

Ty for the topic this thread is helping me a bunch 

[Jammydodger007]

Being neurodivergent ace (demi) myself I get it. I like how male leads in manhwa or manga are like. For example in ones that are about getting reincarnated into a romance genre book or game. Those are my fave 😍

[Re****]

As others have said don’t mimic porn. Don’t mimic anything from porn. I agree with listening and reading erotica written and narrated by women. You should also give the Dipsea app a try. It’s all normal people erotic audio stories. They talk plainly but dirty, and it covers all genders and sexualities.

[dominionhub]

When I started here a few weeks ago, I tested different types of messages (different tone, types of messaging etc).

There are 1 or 2 I would definitely walk back if I could (and apologize to the recipients of).

[si****]

When I first started I had no luck as I progressed read bios it helped a lot for certain type of kinks I go back and copy with the ones I had luck with for others who typically want conversation first before they open up I copy and paste from previous I had luck with as well it works

[Ne****]

December 18, 2023, satisfyingAneed said:

It's stupid but find one of your good trusted guy friends and ask if he's OK with some stupid banter back in forth while you try out your bed room vanaculure. And check online for common bedroom talk. Make your own and rock that bedroom with on point dirty talk.. Ya!

This is an horrifying idea for a NeuroAtypical like myself!! Ack! Maybe not terrible overall but also seems highly problematic a thing to do. 🤷🏻‍♂️