ADVICE FOR NEWBIES.

June 3, 2024

Do all female domm ask for *** before doing anything? Even if it’s a one time payment

June 3, 2024

7 hours ago, jaymccarthy003 said:

Do all female domm ask for *** before doing anything? Even if it’s a one time payment

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a question that has been asked to death

no

pro dommes and online services will want paid up front. if this is not a route you wish to go down, politely end the conversation. However, if it is on here they are not allowed to ask for *** so hit report

however, if you're only hitting people who ask for *** it says more about your approach

June 3, 2024

40 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

a question that has been asked to death

no

pro dommes and online services will want paid up front. if this is not a route you wish to go down, politely end the conversation. However, if it is on here they are not allowed to ask for *** so hit report

however, if you're only hitting people who ask for *** it says more about your approach

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Okay thank you

June 10, 2024

Whether here or on Fetlife fill out your profile. Avoid genital pics and instead show a pic that shows one likeable thing about you - music, making food etc.

What to put? Start with one paragraph about you. Non kink or kink related is okay, though avoid showing you only want a service Top.

Even if you put:

":Hey I am new to this and have no idea what I am doing but I will be going to my first munch soon."

Yup be honest, kinksters welcome honesty.

June 10, 2024

Best advice for newbies...

DON'T try and make the mistake of jumping feet first into anything..

Take time to look around on forums as pritty much all information you can need is kindly provided by staff posts or others asking questions etc

If you are struggling to find the information you need (your question was answered by tos if you had read them xD) just ask like you did.

Usually a well thought out post asking the right questions will get alot of understanding from people

June 22, 2024

May 20, Sami951712 said:

Hello! I'm new here. Would you mind looking at my profile? I don't think I have enough on there the height/weight is KG and I need to figure out the calculation. I'm looking for a domme, female, between 29 and 35. I'm not asking you, but just to help with advice as I'm new to this lifestyle. I'm very submissive, can be bratty and tease, and depending on the right person if she's younger than me I can be dominant but I'm here to explore my submissive side and the care giver (I like to give and take care of people but I want to be taken care of once in a while. I want to learn my limits.) Etc. Thank you for your time!

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Hi there, I sent you a gift as your profile doesn't allow me to message you.

June 22, 2024

June 3, jaymccarthy003 said:

Do all female domm ask for *** before doing anything? Even if it’s a one time payment
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It depends on what type of Domme you encounter.

June 25, 2024

I like your energy feel free to give my profile critique. I would be open to any suggestions.

July 11, 2024

Good advice, but weirdly enough it feels like I learned even more from this that I should check the forums more thoroughly. It's pretty scary to be *** in my About Me (and so I'm still putting it off), but seeing people interacting in here and talking about things makes it feel more like maybe what I wanna put in there is okay to put in there.