Single Male 101

[Mi****]

  Friday at 07:31 PM, CopperKnob said:

We're fine 🤣😂
Ice cream is too cold straight from the freezer. It needs 30 secs in the microwave to warm it up!

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I totally agree with this

[CopperKnob]

  1 hour ago, ThaliaV said:

Trouble, that one. 😆

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Oh, without a doubt. You have to keep an eye on him

[CopperKnob]

  2 minutes ago, PervyPenelope said:

I totally agree with this

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I knew I'm not crazy!! 🤣

[Mi****]

  Friday at 07:25 PM, ThaliaV said:

Wait what!? What's this about microwaving your ice cream? Are you Brits ok over there? 

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We do this sometimes. Well, I do. Because I’m impatient 😫

[Th****]

  4 minutes ago, PervyPenelope said:

We do this sometimes. Well, I do. Because I’m impatient 😫

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I just let it sit for a bit before eating it. If anything I'll keep a dish or mug in the freezer to dish mine into and eat out of so it doesn't melt as fast 😆

[Memories2Share]

I usually soften my ice cream in the microwave. Ice cream sandwiches are so much better, just a little soft!

[ge****]

And to get this back on track - whilst using the derailment - approaching sites like this for a single male is a bit like softening ice cream, we each have to find our own way of defrosting things whilst ensuring we don't let them get into a slushy mess because we've taken things too far, so we need to treat the ice cream with respect and consideration, being acutely aware of it's values and limitations in the process.

[Si****]

hey gemini man, whats a good rule of thumb for asking for off site contact info/irl meetups?
Asking because this is often where I get derailed. Either that or i think things are going well and spontaneously ghosted.

[ge****]

  26 minutes ago, SitOnMyFacePlz916 said:

hey gemini man, whats a good rule of thumb for asking for off site contact info/irl meetups?
Asking because this is often where I get derailed. Either that or i think things are going well and spontaneously ghosted.

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Best rule of thumb I can offer is not to rush into suggesting meeting or taking things offsite - take time to get to know people and wait until you're fairly confident a suggestion to take things to meeting will be mutually agreeable.
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Always suggest meeting for a social coffee or similar first, never any kind of sexual/kink meet - even if things have got "hot" in chatting through messages, you never know until you meet a person whether a connection translates to face to face.
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As for being "ghosted", which personally I don't think you have unless there's some kind of relationship/dynamic agreed by both sides, then people stopping chatting is commonplace and just an indication they weren't the right one for you.
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Another suggestion would be to seek out local munches (socials for kinksters) and get along to them - you meet people face to face there and generally (unless you act like an arse) are very welcoming and friendly.

[Se****]

  On 2/20/2024 at 6:48 AM, gemini_man said:

And to get this back on track - whilst using the derailment - approaching sites like this for a single male is a bit like softening ice cream, we each have to find our own way of defrosting things whilst ensuring we don't let them get into a slushy mess because we've taken things too far, so we need to treat the ice cream with respect and consideration, being acutely aware of it's values and limitations in the process.

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I really want to say this is a tenuous link and feeble attempt to avoid derailment but, I can’t 😢. Lovely analogy 😏

[Yo****]

I’m single and ready to mingle with serious bottom ready to explore the lifestyle