Help needed with party outfit for a male

[Jakehendrick88]

Hey there everyone . Fairly new to the scene and needing help and suggestions. I’m off to a naughty bdsm Halloween party and want to look the part. I’m completely stumped for ideas and knowing what to wear . Any suggestions and help is much appreciated  . Much lurve 😉

[ey****]

have you read the dress code? 

asked others what they're wearing?

googled something like "fetish wear"

one of the great things about Hallowe'en is pretty much any fancy dress counts.

[Jakehendrick88]

He’s iv googels stuff but there’s not much bff or guys all women’s gear. It’s a *** garden event so as far as I believe it’s gotta be quite out there ? Iv been looking at steam punk stuff but I feel I need to stand out and be a bit crazy with this . At the moment iv thought a short leather slotted kilt With cheeky briefs and a net vest and harness and some face ***t but just doesn’t seem enough and not quite naughty enough ... just feel like I need direction and ideas 

[ey****]

TG have assorted galleries which can be used for inspiration - but I guess a little problem is that they often focus on the top end of what is permitted rather than minimum/acceptable 

it's not mandatory to be too stand out, but if this is something you want to do then go for it - but - it is possible to try *too* hard.   What do you feel is missing from what you have?

[Wo****]

14 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

TG have assorted galleries which can be used for inspiration - but I guess a little problem is that they often focus on the top end of what is permitted rather than minimum/acceptable 

it's not mandatory to be too stand out, but if this is something you want to do then go for it - but - it is possible to try *too* hard.   What do you feel is missing from what you have?

Cuffs and whip 😋

[Wo****]

Or..

A cane maybe.

Get a glue gun and stick some steampunk accessories on the top?

Top hat?

Mask?

[Jakehendrick88]

Ooo fab ideas I did think a top hat and Google’s . Great idea to decorate the top . Was thinking last night to hook a short flogger to a belt and a chain wiuu to a clip to attach to any suspecting deviants lol 

 

just want to look the part And dress to impress really . Need to feel good myself as not my normal attire and deffo don’t wanna feel to how should I put this ... camp attract the wrong attention 🤦‍♂️😂😂