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Hi all,

Well- I signed up a couple of days ago and I'm still not sure whether I fit in here yet.
I've recently come out of a long term vanila relationship. I've always had a bit of a kink for catsuits especially latex and spandex. I've never really explored these other than online. It seems that rope play goes hand-in-hand with it, and I think I quite like that as well to be honest.

For me, I like the fetish being private- the obvious downside is that it makes it very difficult to find a like-minded person! It also feels a little bit 'one-sided' in that I really just want to play with women dressed this way. Shouldn't I also get off at the idea of being latexed up? Who knows?

Absolutely no idea what the next steps are, so for the moment, just easing my self in. Hopefully will get the confidence to add a profile picture soon and start reaching out to people.

Thanks for being so welcoming, everyone :-)

Hi all! I've been around for a few months but I've been mostly lurking. Not quite sure that will change, but time shall tell.

GoodGirlBri

I’m brand new to being a 24/7 sub in a D/s relationship with my husband of 5 years. Ever since making this decision, I’m so aroused all the time and I can’t stop obsessing about my new lifestyle. Is this normal? 

Hello. I'm Richard. I've been on this site for a while but still learning a lot.

LibraryStorm

Hi! I’m new here. My name is Amanda. I’m married to a wonderful man, and have an amazing daughter. I’ve been slowly realizing, for a couple of years now, that I’m really interested in the BDSM lifestyle. I know I’m a submissive. Yet to get the courage to talk to my husband about it, not fully... he thinks some of the more vanilla stuff is... all I want. I know I need to talk to him, and discover together. I’m just scared. I’ve only recently accepted that this is apart of me, and not something I can hide from anymore. I joined this site for friends and to learn and not be so shy.

cautiousswitch
  3 minutes ago, Swettness said:

Happy Sunday everyone. I’m really new and very curious, any advice??

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Feel free to ask questions.  The more detail you can give the better the responses will be.

Hello I am new here. I am searching friends and one Mistress for real relation. I like sex bdsm play and theesome with couples too.

Hi I'm SYN and ive always wanted to become a sub but im not very sure just how to get into the lifestyle so to speak.

Hello 🙋‍♀️....I am Ria and i am a newbie here!

Hi everyone,

 

So I'm new here, and kinda nervous. Never really posted anything on a community like this before. But with quarantine going on, it's hard to connect with friends, even harder to connect with friends about this kinda topic... so here I am! 

Goddess1983

Hello everyone. New here as of today. I'm here to learn more. I have a friend who has always been obsessed with me, wanting me to be his GF and I even considered once a few years ago but just never took him up on fhe offer because he was a more submissive type and that just didn't seem like it was for me.  Fast forward six years to now, and I'm even married and he still wants to be my secret sub.  The problem is, I know nothing about being a fem dom, so I need help, advice, etc. to decide if this is even the right thing for me, so looking around and exploring for now. 

markchrisred
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hi everybody. i m mark, new here . i like to meet with sub-women and make them ***ful orgasms,  they never experienced. l am licking  pussy for a long duration also,  (This make most of women *** and wet multiple times) i like doing cam-to-cam cybersex too, u can see my skype id  on my profile. Let's some fun!!!

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Mistress-Melissa

Hi, my name is Melissa and im new here. I'm very interested in the domme-sub and slave scene. Im wondering how I should start off with finding someone and making agreements? x

Hi everyone. I am a submissive person in my relationship. We are monogamous and not really into any of the “extreme?” (Not sure of proper terminology, willing to learn and don’t mean to offend)  activities that bdsm is popular for so in the past I never thought of myself as anything but vanilla. I even suspect that if I lived in another time we would be considered the norm. 

I don’t consider my submissiveness a kink, it’s more a fundamental part of our relationship. Which is what’s confusing about my current problem with trying to reconcile positions that we both like with the fact that they make me “feel dominant” and I don’t like it. 

Midnight-3344

Hey to, I'm new to the BDSM world, looking to make some friends and get some advice on how things. Can a Dom be a gentleman and a Dom at the same time. Could someone please help me with this Question.

Vandalslut
  6 hours ago, Midnight-3344 said:

Hey to, I'm new to the BDSM world, looking to make some friends and get some advice on how things. Can a Dom be a gentleman and a Dom at the same time. Could someone please help me with this Question.

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Yes, and there are several gentlemen Doms who are members. I believe Donnykinkster wrote a post on this recently. Read all/ any posts, the magazine - lots of good articles there -  post a question yourself, get to know people here, join discussions and you'll soon have plenty of friends.  Good luck!

Vandalslut
  On 4/30/2020 at 5:11 AM, LibraryStorm said:

Hi! I’m new here. My name is Amanda. I’m married to a wonderful man, and have an amazing daughter. I’ve been slowly realizing, for a couple of years now, that I’m really interested in the BDSM lifestyle. I know I’m a submissive. Yet to get the courage to talk to my husband about it, not fully... he thinks some of the more vanilla stuff is... all I want. I know I need to talk to him, and discover together. I’m just scared. I’ve only recently accepted that this is apart of me, and not something I can hide from anymore. I joined this site for friends and to learn and not be so shy.

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If you're feeling too shy to bring this up with your husband, write him a letter. He may be equally shy, you never know.  Read the columns and discussions here, ask questions of the members and the magazine has plenty of good articles you may find helpful. Good luck.

Vandalslut
  On 5/4/2020 at 9:04 AM, Swettness said:

Happy Sunday everyone. I’m really new and very curious, any advice??

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What are you curious about? The BDSM life, or  one aspect of it in particular? Read the columns and discussions here, ask questions of the members and the magazine has plenty of good articles you may find helpful. Join the discussions and post questions.  Good luck.

Vandalslut
  On 5/7/2020 at 4:27 AM, Syn said:

Hi I'm SYN and ive always wanted to become a sub but im not very sure just how to get into the lifestyle so to speak.

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Read the discussions, the magazine articles here, ask questions of the members  in a specific discussion thread, join the discussions. The more you can tell them, the better members here will be able to help you. Send us a PM if you feel we can help. Good luck.

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