YorkshireBiker Posted March 18 Posted March 18 My partner recently, out of the blue, told me I was a bank robber and should tie her up as my hostage. I’d don’t know where this came from but it certainly stirred something up within her and I want to explore this more as it’s the only real activity she’s suggested/requested. We are both very new this this after a vanilla 25 year relationship so I don’t want to jump in too far too soon. I’ve got a balaclava I can try but I’d like some recommendations on other little things I can add to see where this takes us. I’m not sure if a hostage situation is a bit advanced as this seems to give me all the power and not quite sure what to do with that power.
Ch**** Posted March 19 Posted March 19 LoL man... after a 25 pure year long relationship i think you really know the limits on your partner (in and out of the bed) so... a balacava i think is a good start! But you maybe want to tie her up, blindfold her, "rob" her of her liberty throught ties and others... maybe to take her "***" into her private parts... you know, make your imagination run wild! (Just make sure to have a safe word and all that to not overstep her boundries)
GoingDown777 Posted March 19 Posted March 19 I played this with an ex many times combined with ***ing. I Loved it. He tied me to a chair and I pretended to struggle so he gagged me wrapping something around my mouth. Then blindfolded me and pretended to put me in the boot of his car, shook me around a bit for the 'rough ride'. Back tied to a chair and told me to keep the noise down otherwise he had to drug me. He ***d an aspirin or something mild down my throat and I pretended to become more compliant and he could do whatever he wanted with me. Best sub space ever. Xx
ol**** Posted March 19 Posted March 19 (edited) Ok so you are brand new. The very first thing to agree is limits and a safe word system. Your partner has to know how to stop you and it must be agreed between both of you that stop means stop. You don't have to use the actual word but it must be clearly understood what words and or what signal means stop. Things you might try: Interogation, tie her to a chair, make like this is some other country. You think she is a smuggler or a spy or some such thing. Other than being tied up keep the interogation verbal. Don't go on too long. Hostage at a bank robbery, read about Stockholm syndrome and plan your scene accordingly. You can buy specialist rope and gags that are intended not to do damage. You can also buy restraints (like hancuffs), that will yield to acertain amount of ***. You need to look for safe BDSM restraints online. Edited March 19 by oldfellow
YorkshireBiker Posted March 20 Author Posted March 20 On 3/19/2024 at 4:27 AM, Chessnt said: LoL man... after a 25 pure year long relationship i think you really know the limits on your partner You’d think so but we’ve pretty much had a conversation free sex life for all our relationship. It probably came from meeting while we’re so young and inexperienced and fell into a ‘this is the way you’re meant to do it’ mentality.
YorkshireBiker Posted March 20 Author Posted March 20 On 3/19/2024 at 5:18 AM, GoingDown777 said: I played this with an ex many times combined with ***ing. I Loved it. He tied me to a chair and I pretended to struggle so he gagged me wrapping something around my mouth. Then blindfolded me and pretended to put me in the boot of his car, shook me around a bit for the 'rough ride'. Back tied to a chair and told me to keep the noise down otherwise he had to drug me. He ***d an aspirin or something mild down my throat and I pretended to become more compliant and he could do whatever he wanted with me. Best sub space ever. Xx That is the type of thing I’m think about but will have to try really hard to overcome my self consciousness.
YorkshireBiker Posted March 20 Author Posted March 20 On 3/19/2024 at 1:53 PM, oldfellow said: Ok so you are brand new. The very first thing to agree is limits and a safe word system. Your partner has to know how to stop you and it must be agreed between both of you that stop means stop. You don't have to use the actual word but it must be clearly understood what words and or what signal means stop. Things you might try: Interogation, tie her to a chair, make like this is some other country. You think she is a smuggler or a spy or some such thing. Other than being tied up keep the interogation verbal. Don't go on too long. Hostage at a bank robbery, read about Stockholm syndrome and plan your scene accordingly. You can buy specialist rope and gags that are intended not to do damage. You can also buy restraints (like hancuffs), that will yield to acertain amount of ***. You need to look for safe BDSM restraints online. Some good suggestions thanks, I do already have some bondage rope which I haven’t actually used yet. We also have rope hand restraints and I’ve added sort of an anchor point to the bed which I can secure the restraints too. Gags are a no go
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