Favorite first time activity

April 8, 2024

What do you like or want to do the first time you partner with someone to set the tone for your physical relationship?

April 8, 2024

First time I did a DVP on a girlfriend. It was glorious. I damn near fainted when I orgasmed.

April 8, 2024

Grab the hair in my fist and put her to her knees where she belongs

April 8, 2024

First time activity…. knowledge, learning. I learn about the person. We discuss knowledge, experiences, potential triggers. We set the limits we talk about things we both want to achieve.. and this is how I set the tone.

April 9, 2024

I like TheDuchy's checklist. It is seven pages long and has almost every kink and is called "BDSM-Experience-and-Curiosity-Checklist".

Knowledge is power, consent is king, and discussing kinks is a fun way for her and me to relax. I can learn about her experience level, make her feel safe with me, and I can learn about any medical issues, limits, triggers, and boundaries I need to know.

Then, I like showing a wide range of impact tools, some of which I know are scary and we will not use. Go over each and discuss how each can or will be used.

April 9, 2024

That all things have been discussed. Things laid out as to what will happen, no deviations. Start small. Trust must be built. Look for any red flags.

April 9, 2024

Every …single…time

April 9, 2024

Boundaries have been set and agreed beforehand and then each and every one is taken to the limits upon meeting

April 11, 2024

Communication is KEY 🔑!
If there are things I like dislike or want I will verbally tell you like if the vibes And attraction between us are there to fuck I will say “Hey, wanna fuck?” along those lines basically.