Favorite first time activity

[Br****]

What do you like or want to do the first time you partner with someone to set the tone for your physical relationship?

[su****]

First time I did a DVP on a girlfriend. It was glorious. I damn near fainted when I orgasmed.

[Deleted Member]

Grab the hair in my fist and put her to her knees where she belongs

[Deleted Member]

First time activity…. knowledge, learning. I learn about the person. We discuss knowledge, experiences, potential triggers. We set the limits we talk about things we both want to achieve.. and this is how I set the tone.

[Sting-ATL]

I like TheDuchy's checklist. It is seven pages long and has almost every kink and is called "BDSM-Experience-and-Curiosity-Checklist". 

Knowledge is power, consent is king, and discussing kinks is a fun way for her and me to relax. I can learn about her experience level, make her feel safe with me, and I can learn about any medical issues, limits, triggers, and boundaries I need to know. 

Then, I like showing a wide range of impact tools, some of which I know are scary and we will not use. Go over each and discuss how each can or will be used. 

[Ju****]

That all things have been discussed. Things laid out as to what will happen, no deviations. Start small. Trust must be built. Look for any red flags.

[PhoenixRiSeN]

Every …single…time

[Deleted Member]

Boundaries have been set and agreed beforehand and then each and every one is taken to the limits upon meeting

[We****]

Communication is KEY 🔑!
If there are things I like dislike or want I will verbally tell you like if the vibes And attraction between us are there to fuck I will say “Hey, wanna fuck?” along those lines basically.

[Leisa]

Conversation is always the best starting point.

[Deleted Member]

16 hours ago, Leisa said:

Conversation is always the best starting point.

Actually, Tacos and the best starting point..

[Leisa]

18 hours ago, Feral_MountainKing said:

Actually, Tacos and the best starting point..

Only if the offer of tacos comes to fruition