Deleted Member Posted July 17, 2024 Posted July 17, 2024 (edited) Hello Fellow Fetish lovers I am very new to all of this and was wondering if anyone could feed back and help me on my journey, I'm a 33 year old man, overweight and not a huge cock. My question is, when going to clubs is there anyone in my situation or ha seen people in that situation, as I would prefer not to turn uo to one of these places and feel really out of place? Thanks! Andy Edited July 17, 2024 by Deleted Member
Honeybee-3663 Posted July 18, 2024 Posted July 18, 2024 From my experiences, clubs, specifically sex clubs, are one of the most accepting places I've been to.
adrenalina75 Posted July 18, 2024 Posted July 18, 2024 1 hour ago, Honeybee-3663 said: From my experiences, clubs, specifically sex clubs, are one of the most accepting places I've been to. Agreed. I’m fat. And I feel comfortable at swinger clubs.
do**** Posted July 18, 2024 Posted July 18, 2024 This LS is a judgement free zone. Anyone that tells you different is wrong. Be your genuine self and you should have no worries. Go get your kink on
Honeybee-3663 Posted July 18, 2024 Posted July 18, 2024 Most of the extra thicc people I've seen have been women but even still, there was no judgment.
Yo**** Posted July 18, 2024 Posted July 18, 2024 We're a bigger couple in OK, and haven't had issues. There's all kinds of people that go to the clubs. The first time we went, there was a bigger girl walking around in just a harness. I wasn't particularly interested in her body, but her confidence was hot. Made us feel real comfortable for our first time going to a sex club.
Si**** Posted July 19, 2024 Posted July 19, 2024 My wife feels most comfortable and confident at these clubs, tits out and in undies only. When she is normally uncomfortable in a bathing suit. I love it.
Re**** Posted August 6, 2024 Posted August 6, 2024 I’ve seen a lot of overweight guys with small cocks. Plenty of skinny guys with small packages too. Just have fun. Parties and clubs have been some of the most welcoming experiences I’ve experienced.
Clarakink Posted August 16, 2024 Posted August 16, 2024 I find the kink community far less judgemental about body size and shape than our vanilla counterparts. I just wish the kink clothing manufacturer's would get with the programme too. Calling a UK size 12 a large is just stupid. I'm a 14 bottom and 16 top (it's the tits) and choices are limited, I'm a fairly average size so I wish things would improve. Rant over.... You will be fine. X
Snowman Posted November 2, 2024 Posted November 2, 2024 There is no judgement in swinger clubs. Went with an ex once and the guy she fancied was pretty much like you describe yourself Go have fun and enjoy yourself
Ki**** Posted November 27, 2024 Posted November 27, 2024 I would like to reiterate what people have said that the kink community is one of the most body positive, respectful places I’ve ever spent time. Lots of people of all different body types being comfortably naked. I can’t speak for swinging committee, they seem to be more problematic from what I hear from friends. I’d recommend going on FetLife and looking for local kink events.
mimimi2222 Posted December 4, 2024 Posted December 4, 2024 Hello everyone! My husband and I have decided that we want to add a bit of variety to our sex life. Can you suggest how to not feel too shy? Is it really possible to meet someone here? Thank you.
qu**** Posted December 7, 2024 Posted December 7, 2024 Looking your fun female friend who wants to get her brains fucked out.
ThePhoenix Posted December 10, 2024 Posted December 10, 2024 Huge fan of the clubs. They can be hit and miss depending on what event you go to. If you're starting out and a couple, I'd advise a unicorn night. You won't be over whelmed by single men. If it's your first time and you're in the NW . Look me up on Fab - same name. Happy to help out.
ThePhoenix Posted December 10, 2024 Posted December 10, 2024 1 minute ago, ThePhoenix said: Huge fan of the clubs. They can be hit and miss depending on what event you go to. If you're starting out and a couple, I'd advise a unicorn night. You won't be over whelmed by single men. If it's your first time and you're in the NW . Look me up on Fab - same name. Happy to help out. Oops sry look for SweetEnigma on Fab.
As**** Posted December 13, 2024 Posted December 13, 2024 I'm a bottom sissy and would love to be your date to a club...I don't mind heavier men and any man's size is okay with me.
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