Sex and Swinger Clubs

[Deleted Member]

Hello Fellow Fetish lovers

I am very new to all of this and was wondering if anyone could feed back and help me on my journey, I'm a 33 year old man, overweight and not a huge cock.

My question is, when going to clubs is there anyone in my situation or ha seen people in that situation, as I would prefer not to turn uo to one of these places and feel really out of place?

Thanks!

Andy 

Edited July 17, 2024 by Deleted Member

[Honeybee-3663]

From my experiences, clubs, specifically sex clubs, are one of the most accepting places I've been to.

[adrenalina75]

  1 hour ago, Honeybee-3663 said:

From my experiences, clubs, specifically sex clubs, are one of the most accepting places I've been to.

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Agreed. I’m fat. And I feel comfortable at swinger clubs.

[do****]

This LS is a judgement free zone. Anyone that tells you different is wrong. Be your genuine self and you should have no worries. Go get your kink on

[Honeybee-3663]

Most of the extra thicc people I've seen have been women but even still, there was no judgment.

[BB****]

Secrets Orlando Fl

[BB****]

No judgement just fucking and fun

[Yo****]

We're a bigger couple in OK, and haven't had issues. There's all kinds of people that go to the clubs. The first time we went, there was a bigger girl walking around in just a harness. I wasn't particularly interested in her body, but her confidence was hot. Made us feel real comfortable for our first time going to a sex club.

[Si****]

My wife feels most comfortable and confident at these clubs, tits out and in undies only. When she is normally uncomfortable in a bathing suit. I love it.

[Re****]

I’ve seen a lot of overweight guys with small cocks. Plenty of skinny guys with small packages too. Just have fun. Parties and clubs have been some of the most welcoming experiences I’ve experienced.

[Clarakink]

I find the kink community far less judgemental about body size and shape than our vanilla counterparts.
I just wish the kink clothing manufacturer's would get with the programme too. Calling a UK size 12 a large is just stupid. I'm a 14 bottom and 16 top (it's the tits) and choices are limited, I'm a fairly average size so I wish things would improve.
Rant over....

You will be fine. X

[pl****]

I woul love to go to a swinger party

[de****]

Me too

[Snowman]

There is no judgement in swinger clubs. Went with an ex once and the guy she fancied was pretty much like you describe yourself
Go have fun and enjoy yourself

[Ki****]

I would like to reiterate what people have said that the kink community is one of the most body positive, respectful places I’ve ever spent time. Lots of people of all different body types being comfortably naked. I can’t speak for swinging committee, they seem to be more problematic from what I hear from friends. I’d recommend going on FetLife and looking for local kink events.

[mimimi2222]

Hello everyone! My husband and I have decided that we want to add a bit of variety to our sex life. Can you suggest how to not feel too shy? Is it really possible to meet someone here? Thank you.

[ju****]

Looking your fun female friend who wants to get her brains fucked out.

[ThePhoenix]

Huge fan of the clubs. They can be hit and miss depending on what event you go to. If you're starting out and a couple, I'd advise a unicorn night. You won't be over whelmed by single men. If it's your first time and you're in the NW . Look me up on Fab - same name. Happy to help out.

[ThePhoenix]

  1 minute ago, ThePhoenix said:

Huge fan of the clubs. They can be hit and miss depending on what event you go to. If you're starting out and a couple, I'd advise a unicorn night. You won't be over whelmed by single men. If it's your first time and you're in the NW . Look me up on Fab - same name. Happy to help out.

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Oops sry look for SweetEnigma on Fab.

[As****]

I'm a bottom sissy and would love to be your date to a club...I don't mind heavier men and any man's size is okay with me.