Are Long Term Relationships a Thing of The Past?

[Kc****]

Having spent the last 25 years in 2 long-term relationships I am all for them. I recently became a widower after loosing my husband of 14 years in July 2023.

[au****]

Hey all I'm saying is that people in general have unrealistic expectations let me rephrase that the bottom line is women seem to placefar too much value on a photographwe are different physiologically we even choose our mates differently just at the basic levelmen should we just hoping that you look at least 60% of what the picture is because It is understandable why there are photo editing tools available because
A small android type aperture will Bind your features to an awful 10th power you want to present your photograph to Others closest to what the human eye can see not a distorted camera they say that people with more angular features tend to be more photogenic and I feel as though as the mirror that's understood it presents one image unless you have a pixel or a iPhone your Android is gonna Present a different image what a fellowas does OK to do a slight photo enhancement particularly if you know that that photo that you took And you are also aware that women are hyperdomists by nature and they're going for the best looking or what they think is the best looking or the most *** I feel that this is so cite that you can be who you are I mean Casa a lot of this stuff on FET is it generally accepted People are on other mainstream sites perpetrating a fraud! Afraid of being judged and to all that I say forget about what people on social media think because only pictures and videos are available for you to be seen in appearances important but what does the community say what Do the individuals or better yet what subliminal messages do you pick up on when you are IRL that's where you will find Where you truly stand what are the streets saying about it what are you able to pick up on

[Mu****]

I don’t remember if I’ve commented on this before. For me flings can be fun, although it’s not for filling to me. I want something more solid, like building a connection, an being valued. To have a companionship and building trust to push boundaries. To be able to experience intimacy, to grow with, having stability and consistency.

[Ed****]

Hookup culture is ruining the long-term relationship. This app is also helping that cause.

[JustCurious819]

On 7/24/2024 at 11:46 AM, Deleted profile said:

I’m curious what you’re looking for? If you could pick between a perfect 3-6 week fling or a fulfilling long-term relationship, what would you choose and why?

Is it becoming “old school” to still want romance in kink?

I can't help but believe everyone now a days just wants this meet and f**k, or wham bam thank you maam. Personally I'm not a fan. I want love, long term, with kink. 

[Deleted Member]

Eventually, long term relationship with kink. But I'll enjoy the trip 😏

[ne****]

Long term relationships are a thing that unfortunately as time goes by is harder to see.
I'm a ling term relationship kinda girl. To me you're either in or you're not.
There is no in-between.

Call me old fashioned...... I'm fun, love to have fun and explore, I'm extremely patient ( just don't pizt me off during PMS) , kind-hearted.
I want and deserve someone who wants to explore and have all the naughty fun we both can have, but above all loves and respects me.
A best friend, no secrets and 200% transparency.

Yes they might be scarse however they do exist.

[bl****]

No, I don’t think that they are a thing of the past, I’m looking for one actually.

[Se****]

Maybe

[tu****]

Depends lol

[bl****]

Personally, I’m into both kinds of relationships. I wrote in my profile that I’m willing to have a online relationship until it comes to a date. Call me, old-fashioned, but online relationships can work if you’re into it. I am into it in my case, of course, not forever, but until you Are ready to date someday.

[JustCurious819]

On 10/21/2024 at 9:51 PM, newmarket45989 said:

Long term relationships are a thing that unfortunately as time goes by is harder to see.
I'm a ling term relationship kinda girl. To me you're either in or you're not.
There is no in-between.

Call me old fashioned...... I'm fun, love to have fun and explore, I'm extremely patient ( just don't pizt me off during PMS) , kind-hearted.
I want and deserve someone who wants to explore and have all the naughty fun we both can have, but above all loves and respects me.
A best friend, no secrets and 200% transparency.

Yes they might be scarse however they do exist.

Where? Please let me know where to look for one of these scarce people you talk about. Everything you said is 100% me. Except for believe they are still some left. I think they are all just a scribble in someone's history book.  

[Pocket_Sand]

I want a long term relationship with a girl that's kinky. I don't think that's too much to ask lol.

[bl****]

No, it isn’t.

[qu****]

I hope not

[bl****]

Well, I guess you should see how it goes. I think that they are people who are looking for a relationship, but with a BDSM background. That’s what I personally would like.

[mo****]

Long term is the goal. Always. Sometimes the story is shorter than one would like, however.

[au****]

Problem is most people if they are online communicating to others through a dating app- although they are saying one thing that is politically correct they're actually looking outside of their physical attractiveness Zone in other words and this is typically with women because you know us men, we will phuck her even though, looking at her face and body may turn us into Stone ...LOL LOL ....Most men who aren't homosexual, would say that there is truth to this statement, to varying degrees

[au****]

I almost forgot to explain the reason why us men are sexual from a primal point of view this was not developed overnight this was how we were put on this Earth and it's something it has something to do with keeping me Society seated reading and seating we must spread our seed I don't know how Christianity got tangled up in this and and just effed it all up LOL LOL

[au****]

Oh hey and one more thing you never or rarely do you ever hear women being told that they must adjust or change their Primal instincts can you imagine that typically cheating is the one of the worst crimes that while you in a woman's eyesight because I guess the sex is more emotional they are not able to compartmentalize it the way a man does that's understandable that is perfectly understandable so therefore I say that men should be The Gatekeepers of sex!! and women should the gate keepers of commitment.... it is self-evident women despise the thought of her man cheating men chafe under the being nagged for a commitment so we don't value sex the same way and no nor do we value or even select our mates and a similar fashion for women it's got to be admiration and respect and I mean all men want respect in general but you don't have to be in love all you have to do is make sure that it's available and don't cling too much too soon

[Vo****]

I dream of a forever relationship and a dynamic marriage. That's just me though. I've always been a hopeless romantic but it's hard to find women/trans men around me who also want deep connection and commitment ~ If it happens it happens I suppose.

[Ra****]

This is why I am Poly. It takes a community and sometimes multiple commitments of varying degrees. Having a checklist and making one person tick all the boxes is stressful on the individual and very hard to find. Why not find multiple people who can tick off the boxes in different areas. Less stress, and you aren't compromising parts of yourself that you feel you need because it's being met. ❤️

[CopperKnob]

Yesterday at 07:03 AM, aurora609588 said:

Oh hey and one more thing you never or rarely do you ever hear women being told that they must adjust or change their Primal instincts can you imagine that typically cheating is the one of the worst crimes that while you in a woman's eyesight because I guess the sex is more emotional they are not able to compartmentalize it the way a man does that's understandable that is perfectly understandable so therefore I say that men should be The Gatekeepers of sex!! and women should the gate keepers of commitment.... it is self-evident women despise the thought of her man cheating men chafe under the being nagged for a commitment so we don't value sex the same way and no nor do we value or even select our mates and a similar fashion for women it's got to be admiration and respect and I mean all men want respect in general but you don't have to be in love all you have to do is make sure that it's available and don't cling too much too soon

"All men want respect"
.
Cool, but you realise that it's a two way thing. You have to respect women too? None of your rambling comments suggest that you do.

[Dr****]

Whether or not long-term relationships are a thing of the past, I still find myself desiring one.

[po****]

I think long term relationships are a great thing if you love your partner. Then just be honest about what you want have some fun with other people alone or together. That’s a real relationship to me. But what do I know?