Are Long Term Relationships a Thing of The Past?

[Do****]

Yes✌🏼

[vi****]

I still desire one, but always hoping to fund that guy who's just as highly sexed, kinky and perverted as I am! That's difficult to find , someone completely on your vibe!

[Do****]

That's really difficult

[Sm****]

I'm looking for that any serious women want a honest loyal man that won't cheat ever and always be loyal but expects the same on return

[Sc****]

Good question

[Pa****]

A long-term relationship versus a 3 to 16 month exploration.. And I sayed up front that this is my point of view. Some of it has to do with age, and sexual orientation. With modern relationships I found the excitement is in the first first few months exploring each other exploring the things to do to each other I believe most of us know that as the courtship phase of the relationship, exploring the likes and dislikes of each other, The kinks of each other, and the excitement of each other and the freshness of each other. We are also exploring the ideals of each other and the things that make tick, and the ideals of each other, basically to make a short-analysis can i live with this person for 60 years. Old school dating rituals were less physical so it took longer. You would spend 2 or 3 years trying to get to know each other to see if you could do the same analysis then the physical came in and back when, of course we could go back to the premarital sex relationship and the cautions people would take because marriages were the ultimate large vow of commitment. Approximately, 75 years ago breakthroughs allowing people to enjoy each other's physical company without as many consequences increase the freedoms for exploration into the physical aspects before marriage thus bringing in the question of why get married when we can just have a relationship. So the long-term relationships, takes time to cultivate, with the ***s of the type of person you are dealing with after the honeymoon phase of a relationship is over is scary because to often we jump in with the physical aspects first. Of course I could get into the family dynamic but let's keep it simple. People today like to explore their sexuality and the things that make them feel excited, pushing those endorphins through the roof. This aspect is short-lived because we get bored or find that the person we are physically attracted to is not somebody we wish to be bound to in order to build a substantial family. So dating rituals have basically flip-flopped from the past, And our abilities to end a marriage with a simple divorce makes marriage a farce and frankly not the commitment it was intended to be. So here we are wanting to play. Again I State this is my own opinion.

[do****]

I would love a long term relationship were we both could enjoy our kinks

[Tw****]

I think it all depends on what you're really looking for and how experienced you are. For example if you really like someone and you know that they have more experience in a certain kink/s; you may think that they wouldn't want to be with someone long term if you don't have the amount of experience that they have; while that maybe possible you still need to just gain the courage and ask them. The opposite can be true as well where you don't want to get with someone with too much experience in certain kink/s.

[JustCurious819]

On 11/7/2024 at 4:54 PM, vixen2211 said:

I still desire one, but always hoping to fund that guy who's just as highly sexed, kinky and perverted as I am! That's difficult to find , someone completely on your vibe!

Maybe a guy isn't what your heart is looking for?....... 😉. Your very pretty,!

[Bo****]

I Would Love One

[vi****]

10 hours ago, JustCurious819 said:

Maybe a guy isn't what your heart is looking for?....... 😉. Your very pretty,!

JustCurious819 maybe not ! Lol aww thank you , I just don't think guys want relationships, just the fun stuff .

[Deleted Member]

They’re definitely not. It takes the right couple to make it after the new wears off.  That chemistry always has to be present .

[Vi****]

I prefer long-term relationships and won't settle for anything less than that at all. My partner and I are in a long-term relationship.

Romance isn't completely dead. It just takes extra hard work to find it eventually.

[ch****]

I say I want a long term relationship and believe it can exist within the realm of kinky culture. It depends on how each person approaches it and what excites us, so in my case constantly pushing myself to trust more and more is mentally stimulating. I don’t approach kinky relationships from a one night stand perspective. I prefer to gradually add physical interaction which naturally creates a long term relationship of friendship and growing sexual attraction. I find a traditional relationship begins with extreme sexual attraction that can wane over time. In a kinky relationship that begins extremely slowly and increases in physical contact and intimacy, the physical attraction grows and grows. With every bit of trust between the couple that forms, the physical attraction increases because each interaction is like a first date, as you push forward to a new limit.

[t3****]

A long time relationship is my goal, my hopeless romantic isn’t dead quite yet, I think of openness, teamwork, sharing similar joys in life. If your home is with someone perhaps you’re never homeless in spirit, you can watch the world burn together giggling with a camel 99 and choice drink and go back to the rhythm of life known to only two, someone that gets you and puts in the effort to match your actions. An epic real life tag team with no deceit and incognito. I think the dynamics have just changed personally in various ways, age is relevant, I know too that I am not completely alone in what I want or the way I am so why would I settle for something I see as lifeless, not only does that impact me, that impacts the person I’m essentially putting on a mask to be with, which isn’t fair for either of us and further agitates the dating pool. I’ll wait around for that life mate, that’s what I want. It may be difficult but a vexatious outlook is like poison for the spirit.

[ha****]

No, but the only way it works is finding someone om your level that you enjoy sharing with

[Ms****]

I've been in my M/s dynamic for 14 yrs... so no they are not a thing of the past, but people want what they want...

[cr****]

Just got outa a 5 year relationship tried my absolute best to hold on but unfortunately it didnt work out. Now looking for a way to distract myself from tht sh*t