Events, groups and get togethers in the South-West

October 19, 2017

The majority of events I come across seem to be in London or abroad. Just wondering if anyone knew of Fetish/BDSM groups in the South West area.

Being single and new I'm not looking for anywhere with expectations to engage in activities straight away but somewhere to meet like minded people in a safe and social environment on a regular basis would be great

October 20, 2017

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October 20, 2017

Pm'd you little angel.

October 21, 2017

I’m wanting to go to a fetish party but don’t want to go alone.

i live in Harlow, heterosexualy parrtnered but versatile and discrete. I box three times a week and keep myself in good shape.

I’ve had the ‘meets’ and mostly enjoyed the experience (with a few exceptions).

I’m more after someone to hold my hand than a date. If you need a partner, let’s chat x

October 21, 2017

2 hours ago, garfy said:

I’m wanting to go to a fetish party but don’t want to go alone.

i live in Harlow, heterosexualy parrtnered but versatile and discrete. I box three times a week and keep myself in good shape.

I’ve had the ‘meets’ and mostly enjoyed the experience (with a few exceptions).

I’m more after someone to hold my hand than a date. If you need a partner, let’s chat x

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Bit far for me, but I know what you mean about having someone to hold your hand 😊

October 21, 2017

More like someone to share the experience with 😍

‘and some moral support 😜

February 13, 2018

Well I got my wish. .there is a Fetish night being held in Melksham , Wiltshire on the 23rd of February. Its not as vanilla as a public meeting and not as full on a Dungeon...somewhere in the middle

Details are on the events page. Hope to see some of you lovely kinky people there

April 23, 2018

Did you go? Any good?

April 24, 2018

I'd be very interested in any SW events too, particularly either daytime or early evening as I'm reliant on public transport.

I can get to munches etc but then am stuck for getting home, at least until I make a few friends who pass my way and also attend, and then I can share travel expenses with maybe, or who know of some cheap overnight accommodation close to the venue if their locals.

May 17, 2018

Oops, just posted something similar. Interested in a munch on the SW. Not interested in anything too full on, just want to meet some new people.

LugNut

May 17, 2018

I searched before for someone and there's quite a lot

I absolutely hate to do this, but

go to fetlife (booo) and just search for the town/city in the top bar - there is a group dedicated to the South-West of munches and events - you've got assorted ***r groups and workshops and all sorts.

May 17, 2018

15 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I searched before for someone and there's quite a lot

I absolutely hate to do this, but

go to fetlife (booo) and just search for the town/city in the top bar - there is a group dedicated to the South-West of munches and events - you've got assorted ***r groups and workshops and all sorts.

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Thanks for the help. This online link is a new world to me. Still finding my feet.

LugNut

May 17, 2018

it takes time - just a golden rule of it's not a sprint but a marathon

May 17, 2018

Apparently there is another LugNut out there! Only just started using this username, sorry other LugNut....

May 17, 2018

2 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I searched before for someone and there's quite a lot

I absolutely hate to do this, but

go to fetlife (booo) and just search for the town/city in the top bar - there is a group dedicated to the South-West of munches and events - you've got assorted ***r groups and workshops and all sorts.

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That was for me 😊 unfortunately though, despite putting out so many feelers I feel like a kinky octopus, haven't heard back from any of the organisers I messaged yet..sure I shall in due course though

May 18, 2018

Hi,

There is a munch on Bath in a few days and I just plan to turn up at the pub. Looking forward to it. Have not been getting it and socialising as much as we should. Thanks for all the pointers.

L

May 18, 2018

yeah, if address/times are published - then basically - just turn up : have a rough idea of where/who you are looking for and roll from there

May 18, 2018

Well, I will see if Mrs LugNut wants to wear a necklace with a handcuff key, hopefully somebody will pick up on that but I was hoping the group might be obvious enough if you know what to look out for. I think it is a general invitation.

LugNut

May 18, 2018

yeah, if it's published it's general invitation.

It's funny, there's something where you just kinda 'know' - sometimes I know some people aren't 100% sure, but I've heard very few stories of people asking the wrong group 'is this the munch?' (though it does happen, hence why it's good to ask if it's the munch.)

June 30, 2018

Hi all me and missus would love to come to event but not sure which one?? as me and missus would like for her to turn up as a prentend arm amputee to event in public and be relaxed with as normal round others if you get me thanks 👍

June 30, 2018

it's probably advisable to go to a munch first - but, a kinda word-of-warning so to speak, don't do the pretend amputee at a munch.

Meet people, make friends - explain your fetish, but don't impose it on others.

However. From there it'll be easier to go to closed door events - where you CAN do this and there'll be people who understand and treat it as more normal.

August 4, 2018

Thank you you right what you saying explain first and see how night goes 👍

December 11, 2018

If you are still looking Bristol has a few possibilities and if you go see the nice lady who works in the Plymouth adult shop she has details of everything that's going on in the city.

February 7, 2019

Hi Deedee69 I am from Wales and me and my mistress have been looking for sume were to go and meet over people can you let us know the place is in bristol please