Do gang bangs require payment?

[Deleted Member]

I’m new to this, do people usually pay for it or is it always free 

Edited August 27, 2024 by Deleted Member

[helpinghand_256]

They don't have to be paid, some people just enjoy doing them. It's really up to the participants, mostly whoever's setting up the occasion.

[HampshireJ]

Usually just a clean up fee.

[ye****]

It’s always nice to help out but for me when I through mine women get in for free

[Deleted Member]

Would just like to clarify I’m not suggesting payment I’m just intrigued what is the norm. Thanks 

[Ex****]

Depends on the person tbh
It‘s usually free as it’s more lust based/kinky than fee-required tho

[Yo****]

I’ve never been involved in one where there was payment.

[ri****]

Where do you even find orgies?

[Deleted Member]

Usually just hotel fees from my experience

[pr****]

Never sell yourself short

[xo****]

You should charge

[lo****]

Both

[Cr****]

I have been to some where it's just a portion of the hotel fee and a few that charged and a couple that cost nothing but a cum deposit

[Deleted Member]

Don’t be a normie babygirl… Fuck what everyone says.. If they ain’t in your circle.. Fuck em

Do whatever feels best for you. Fuck what most ppl think and do.. Stay true to yourself and be kind to your heart. If you make a mistake.. Your heart will let you know. If something feels wrong.. Don’t do it or be ready to deal with the consequences. If something feels right.. Take the opportunity to be happy and have fun.. You may not get a second chance at things that align and come naturally. Yada..

[Dossey]

A reasonable measure, i feel, is to duct tape a pickle jar to your back, get a sharpie and write "TIPS ACCEPTED" under it.

[MaccDabby]

No

[La****]

Both

[Master_Vesuvius]

The norm varies. Generally speaking they can be free or they can be an event where they charge

[Ca****]

If you have to pay for it, you are doing something wrong

[ey****]

It depends.  

Like, if it's at a swing club then - well, the entry to the swing club

if it is at someone's home - potentially not, but, do you already know who you are inviting and are they reliable? Because otherwise it's giving out a home address to strangers

If a space is hired, or anyone else is being paid to be there - who is covering the costs? 

I remember the first time I went to a gangbang (which I did not pay to attend, it was at someone's house but folk were vetted and they were about to move out anyway) I got down a rabbit hole of googling what to expect and there's some fanciful blogs suggesting what people should do if they're hosting a gangbang including arranging fluffers and a DJ (?) and if you didn't know someone happy to just do it, then to pay someone but that it wouldn't be unreasonable to ask for attendees to pay a contribution towards the cost.

However, in some of my experience, one of the biggest challenges is actually getting guys to show up - it's certainly something which attracts the biggest timewasters : I did a fuck-a-fan gangbang with a fairly well known pornstar, which I also didn't pay for - but there were THIRTY men applied, ELEVEN passed vetting but only FOUR showed. Four out of Thirty is abysmal. 

[de****]

Thanks, this has been helpful. I’ve been wanting to setup a GB for my sub.

[Sc****]

Free

[Re****]

It all depends on the venue. If it’s a promoted event then they will most likely be a charge. The venue, drinks, snacks, sanitary products, etc cost ***. Outside of a private party, I think men always pay. Couples are typically reduced, and women may be free. If you’re a member of a club there may be membership fees and levels

[Criket_Darling]

10 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said:

It depends.  

Like, if it's at a swing club then - well, the entry to the swing club

if it is at someone's home - potentially not, but, do you already know who you are inviting and are they reliable? Because otherwise it's giving out a home address to strangers

If a space is hired, or anyone else is being paid to be there - who is covering the costs? 

I remember the first time I went to a gangbang (which I did not pay to attend, it was at someone's house but folk were vetted and they were about to move out anyway) I got down a rabbit hole of googling what to expect and there's some fanciful blogs suggesting what people should do if they're hosting a gangbang including arranging fluffers and a DJ (?) and if you didn't know someone happy to just do it, then to pay someone but that it wouldn't be unreasonable to ask for attendees to pay a contribution towards the cost.

However, in some of my experience, one of the biggest challenges is actually getting guys to show up - it's certainly something which attracts the biggest timewasters : I did a fuck-a-fan gangbang with a fairly well known pornstar, which I also didn't pay for - but there were THIRTY men applied, ELEVEN passed vetting but only FOUR showed. Four out of Thirty is abysmal. 

Yes! My girlfriend and I did one a few months ago. 130 messaged with interest, over 50 vetted past initial interest, 8 confirmed to show the morning of... only 4 showed up. Also, asking for a contribution toward the hotel room is not out of line.

[ey****]

7 minutes ago, Criket_Darling said:

Yes! My girlfriend and I did one a few months ago. 130 messaged with interest, over 50 vetted past initial interest, 8 confirmed to show the morning of... only 4 showed up. Also, asking for a contribution toward the hotel room is not out of line.

yep, two fold there - so - any costs you have it's not unreasonable to ask a contribution for - if that does happen to be more than your costs, then also consider, they're shooting their load and leaving - leaving you with all the clean up, and it's your name on the booking taking any risk if there's problem

but also a second point - people who have put in a contribution, especially in advance, are more likely to show.  (and, if they don't, it again helps with the costs)