I'm 100% submissive looking for a firm but fair dom to take control of me I'm high maintenance as in daily communication and as many sessions as we can a month. I'm a *** slut so need a firm but fair dom . I am currently owned but he has given me permission to look for another to satisfy all my needs ...
A sub/ brat, looking for a Dom. Interested in exploring with someone, looking for someone to get a connection with as I find for myself that’s what I prefer not just one night stands ??♀️ please don’t be like a million miles away from me.
I’m married and looking for a kinky FWB. I’m dipping my toes into things I might like to try as life’s too short to not do things that you might enjoy. I’ve discovered I like being spanked, the test says I’m a switch but haven’t really tried either in real life.
I’m really looking to chat, see if we connect and explore what kinky fun is out there.
Now I've settled in...
I won't be uploading a photo. Judging by the amount of messages I've gotten already, that'll be a disaster. So imagine a curvy, heavily tattooed (fake) blonde and that'll have to do.
Well I uploaded one because the app yelled at me a lot. I am however wearing a wig and a lot of makeup.
Which brings me to my next point. I won't respond to one word messages generally unless you happen to look like Pete Steele, the goth god of my dreams. Thank the gods for that Playgirl shoot...
I may be inclined to want Dom guys but I'm not a silly giggly girly girl. I'm a doc marten wearing *** of nature who would really, really like to be looked after. Hopefully by someone who understands I haven't had a kink inclined partner in over a decade and I need someone that can tend to me emotionally as well.
I am far too trusting. I'm not sure if it's better to be trusting than eternally suspicious. I did spend the better part of a year believing someone who did not follow through though so more fool me. Which is why I'm a bit stompy.
Discovering some of you get very disarmed by a woman displaying any dominant traits. Proper D/s requires the right headspace for both parties *especially* the D so they don't cause emotional damage. I'm seeing such lack of awareness come through, from messages outright asking for photos or going straight into the gutter. I don't Domme purely because being in that headspace is exhausting and I much rather prefer to explore that side of myself in a different way, if at all.
Women still have it hard enough in life. We shouldn't but we do. It's 2024. Even Dommes will have to fight like fuck to get what is deserved outside of their Domme roles. We're still expected to look pretty, shut up and do what we're told. I think it must be ingrained in 99% of men to start getting antsy when a woman shows a backbone like it's some primal *** we'll run the tribe better, which we probably ***y would.
I once had an invite to *** Garden from a Dom in a fairly large shared friend group. I got nervous and backed out as public spaces were completely new to me. He didn't view me as a person. He didn't even regard me as an acquaintance. He saw no reason why he should respect me the morning after had I gone. He asked on livejournal (it was that long ago) about respecting partners he'd only picked up for events like TG and got his ass handed to him by some of his female friends and a mass downgrade in opinion of him.
Women can be awful too. A jealous woman caused me life changing damage. We can be nasty, spiteful, cruel, and we do our nastiness so much more underhandedly than men.
I don't know where I'm going with this.
Do better.
Looking for a dominant to be my boss. Beard, well groomed and dark good looks are my preference but big brains are the sexiest organ for me.
Online play only.
Please only speak in English I don’t understand other languages
Being a submissive is fundamentally who I am, but don’t confuse that to me being weak. I am a strong (some say stubborn) person who is independent.
Looking for the perfect strong hand to guide me when I lose myself...
If you are not that person then I will not bend for you, I’m sarcastic and occasionally a smartass (some say more often then not)
I am sarcastic if I like you, means I am comfortable to be myself. I am sarcastic if I don’t like you, means I don’t care what you think
It is up to you to work out which is which
I am looking for a long term relationship with someone who can banter with me.
I’m not into long distance. Some distance is expected
Not into sharing, I want to have your attention and know I have it.
Not interested in time waster if your going to text for two days then stop, no point in messaging to begin with.
**Desires and Fantasies**
Tame me to watch me fly
I am a DOMINANT!
I want to stablish friendships. with like minded people, Not looking for any Male subs as i have currently 2, I may consider..A female as i never had one.and the right one comes along.
in general just want to chat with like minded people.Maybe have a cuppa every once in a while.I want to stablish friendships.
NOT LOOKING .
for fuck buddies.
I dont wanna shag!
DOnt need any male subs.
I DONT wanna be your SUB!
hi there !! totally new here :3
plus sized, twenty three (i heart age gaps) and a heavily heavily sub leaning switch
guys i’m ngl this app is incredibly overwhelming but i will try my best to respond to messages :(
Newly single and looking to explore some kinks that I wanted able to within the relationship. Strongly bi-curious, tried a session of Shibari and felt amazing (looking to explore as a rope bunny) and looking to explore being submissive. Fairly new to all of this and keen to learn…
Newly peaked and learning that the fantasies I've had most of my life are actually part of BDSM.
Hers to meet others and explore my kinks and limits.
Im a SSBBW and a wheelchair user. Some of my limits are pretty much linked to physical issues, and the safety of everyone involved is most important.
Recently met up with a complete arse and got hurt, so don't be surprised if it takes me a little while to get to know and trust you
She/her
I'm bright, lively, a little wonky and all filthy clown.
Predominantly submissive, ddlg and primal play make me weak though I have been in a number of different dynamics and there's plenty of exploring left to do. I'm here as much to learn about kink and participate in the community. I'm romantically polyamorous, though not necessarily sexually. I'm unlikely to ever be looking to hook up on a casual basis. I'm not a casual kind of woman in any sense of the word, and certainly not where kink's concerned! Really, what's the point in the absence of a willingness to build something potentially precious? That's where the gold lies in kink, as well as sex more broadly (the two are inextricably intertwined for me).
I'm happy to chat but I prefer my communications in fully-formed words and sentences please.
**Desires and Fantasies**
So much of what you want to explore and express is dependent on the person you're doing that with, it seems somewhat limiting to have a set menu and expect someone to slot in to a ready-made template. Far more exciting to relish the possibilities of creating something unique, as all dynamics are. Any way, I don't have any fantasies that would fit in this wee box and we haven't established I want anyone in mine...
Hey, I’m in an open marriage looking to explore with solo males and females and possibly couples.
only message if you are into big women as I am plus size! ✌️
please do not message me if your under 30!! Or really far away!
Not looking for anything right now. just here occasionally to laugh and annoy people in chat.
-polyamorous (NOT seeking)
-demisexual
-sapiosexual
-most likely will not respond to dms
The Typical girl next door
I have been told I’m attractive !!
I will accept compliments as when you get to 56 - however I look 46 and act 36 !! life is for living what ever your age , I am from French origin and runs through my veins an intelligent witty fun to be with MILF I have a slight dry sense of humour I have my fathers genes !!
A very highly sexed woman who knows what she wants . I am not in a monogamous or polyamorous relationship ask and I will tell .
sending me dick pics is not a sign of intelligence and such a put off !!
I Do not support wank banks that’s not for me .
I will ignore messages from ***ps who do not have a clear profile picture , and who have not been verified !!
Having a 7 “ cock is very nice but it’s NOT about the size it’s what you do with it that counts!!
Love anal , receiving & giving .
I practice SHIBARI Japanese bondage, love the way the soft ropes wrap around my soft skin . I have soft full natural lips Love Kissing and to be kissed .
Height is top of my list any one lower then 5ft 7” no thank you , I bit shallow of me but that’s my choice !!
I have been told I have excellent oral skills especially with the ladies .
I am looking for like minded ***ps who have no baggage whom is prepared to travel No drama please so if your in a complicated relationship that is not for me .
just one last thing !!
La beauté aux yeux du spectateur !!
I’m a compassionate professional by day - so likes to be bad ass naught & submissive at home. Because of my professional job I have no risqué photos uploaded and all photos are natural with no filters I’m just me.
Spontaneous - submissive - loyal - fun - outrageous flirt - bratty at times. My humour can border on the wicked/scandalous. I seem to have developed a doctorate in dirty texting & love a good intellectual conversation. Needs/wants a sensual, strong dominant man who is tactile, gives great aftercare, spontaneous & most importantly values trust & respect. A man who really understands the true value of the connection that can be obtained through a genuine D/s relationship & somebody with whom I can explore and push boundaries as well as sense and care for my vulnerabilities.
I’m NOT looking for online long distance communication or ONS, no married men just a good single, honest, roguishly kinky gentleman with whom I feel safe enough to become totally submissive to.
I can’t see likes at the moment I’m afraid
If you know about consent, boundaries and how to communicate your limits, my inbox is right there🤭.
I get that some people are here for a hookup. I am not, so please respect my boundaries.🎀
I have been on my own for a little while now, so I am looking to settle down with someone who is in vested in my growth as I will be thiers. I know what I am looking for, and I won't settle for less. I think it's important we have a good connection both mentally and sexually
window shopping and seeing what happens
my DMs are spammed rn so please be patient ?? no subs, no one over 40, no faceless profiles, message me and ill just delete you x
hi, so I'll try and describe me. I'm not good with labels as there are many ways to describe me. I'm a female who only dates women but can still enjoy kink with other genders. I do get distracted by pretty things but can hold a decent conversation if the topic is interesting to me. I love to learn about other people's kinks and interests and will ask many questions to fulfil my curiosity. I've been into bdsm for 15 years and know what I like. I expect respect and always give respect too. I am submissive to masculine people and switch with the fems. don't be afraid to ask me anything just don't ask me to meet u or suck ur cock in the opening conversation also I don't reply if I can't see ur face in ur pic. much love xxxx
Submissive men ONLY. I have no interest in dominant men whatsoever so don’t waste our time.
I won’t reply if you have no pictures, approach respectfully. I will not engage with sexual conversation immediately.
Now I've settled in...
I won't be uploading a photo. Judging by the amount of messages I've gotten already, that'll be a disaster. So imagine a curvy, heavily tattooed (fake) blonde and that'll have to do.
Well I uploaded one because the app yelled at me a lot. I am however wearing a wig and a lot of makeup.
Which brings me to my next point. I won't respond to one word messages generally unless you happen to look like Pete Steele, the goth god of my dreams. Thank the gods for that Playgirl shoot...
I may be inclined to want Dom guys but I'm not a silly giggly girly girl. I'm a doc marten wearing *** of nature who would really, really like to be looked after. Hopefully by someone who understands I haven't had a kink inclined partner in over a decade and I need someone that can tend to me emotionally as well.
I am far too trusting. I'm not sure if it's better to be trusting than eternally suspicious. I did spend the better part of a year believing someone who did not follow through though so more fool me. Which is why I'm a bit stompy.
Discovering some of you get very disarmed by a woman displaying any dominant traits. Proper D/s requires the right headspace for both parties *especially* the D so they don't cause emotional damage. I'm seeing such lack of awareness come through, from messages outright asking for photos or going straight into the gutter. I don't Domme purely because being in that headspace is exhausting and I much rather prefer to explore that side of myself in a different way, if at all.
Women still have it hard enough in life. We shouldn't but we do. It's 2024. Even Dommes will have to fight like fuck to get what is deserved outside of their Domme roles. We're still expected to look pretty, shut up and do what we're told. I think it must be ingrained in 99% of men to start getting antsy when a woman shows a backbone like it's some primal *** we'll run the tribe better, which we probably ***y would.
I once had an invite to *** Garden from a Dom in a fairly large shared friend group. I got nervous and backed out as public spaces were completely new to me. He didn't view me as a person. He didn't even regard me as an acquaintance. He saw no reason why he should respect me the morning after had I gone. He asked on livejournal (it was that long ago) about respecting partners he'd only picked up for events like TG and got his ass handed to him by some of his female friends and a mass downgrade in opinion of him.
Women can be awful too. A jealous woman caused me life changing damage. We can be nasty, spiteful, cruel, and we do our nastiness so much more underhandedly than men.
I don't know where I'm going with this.
Do better.
Newly single and looking to explore some kinks that I wanted able to within the relationship. Strongly bi-curious, tried a session of Shibari and felt amazing (looking to explore as a rope bunny) and looking to explore being submissive. Fairly new to all of this and keen to learn…
hi there !! totally new here :3
plus sized, twenty three (i heart age gaps) and a heavily heavily sub leaning switch
guys i’m ngl this app is incredibly overwhelming but i will try my best to respond to messages :(
I'm 100% submissive looking for a firm but fair dom to take control of me I'm high maintenance as in daily communication and as many sessions as we can a month. I'm a *** slut so need a firm but fair dom . I am currently owned but he has given me permission to look for another to satisfy all my needs ...
Newly peaked and learning that the fantasies I've had most of my life are actually part of BDSM.
Hers to meet others and explore my kinks and limits.
Im a SSBBW and a wheelchair user. Some of my limits are pretty much linked to physical issues, and the safety of everyone involved is most important.
Recently met up with a complete arse and got hurt, so don't be surprised if it takes me a little while to get to know and trust you
Looking for a dominant to be my boss. Beard, well groomed and dark good looks are my preference but big brains are the sexiest organ for me.
Online play only.
I am a DOMINANT!
I want to stablish friendships. with like minded people, Not looking for any Male subs as i have currently 2, I may consider..A female as i never had one.and the right one comes along.
in general just want to chat with like minded people.Maybe have a cuppa every once in a while.I want to stablish friendships.
NOT LOOKING .
for fuck buddies.
I dont wanna shag!
DOnt need any male subs.
I DONT wanna be your SUB!
I’m married and looking for a kinky FWB. I’m dipping my toes into things I might like to try as life’s too short to not do things that you might enjoy. I’ve discovered I like being spanked, the test says I’m a switch but haven’t really tried either in real life.
I’m really looking to chat, see if we connect and explore what kinky fun is out there.
Please only speak in English I don’t understand other languages
Being a submissive is fundamentally who I am, but don’t confuse that to me being weak. I am a strong (some say stubborn) person who is independent.
Looking for the perfect strong hand to guide me when I lose myself...
If you are not that person then I will not bend for you, I’m sarcastic and occasionally a smartass (some say more often then not)
I am sarcastic if I like you, means I am comfortable to be myself. I am sarcastic if I don’t like you, means I don’t care what you think
It is up to you to work out which is which
I am looking for a long term relationship with someone who can banter with me.
I’m not into long distance. Some distance is expected
Not into sharing, I want to have your attention and know I have it.
Not interested in time waster if your going to text for two days then stop, no point in messaging to begin with.
**Desires and Fantasies**
Tame me to watch me fly
A sub/ brat, looking for a Dom. Interested in exploring with someone, looking for someone to get a connection with as I find for myself that’s what I prefer not just one night stands ??♀️ please don’t be like a million miles away from me.
She/her
I'm bright, lively, a little wonky and all filthy clown.
Predominantly submissive, ddlg and primal play make me weak though I have been in a number of different dynamics and there's plenty of exploring left to do. I'm here as much to learn about kink and participate in the community. I'm romantically polyamorous, though not necessarily sexually. I'm unlikely to ever be looking to hook up on a casual basis. I'm not a casual kind of woman in any sense of the word, and certainly not where kink's concerned! Really, what's the point in the absence of a willingness to build something potentially precious? That's where the gold lies in kink, as well as sex more broadly (the two are inextricably intertwined for me).
I'm happy to chat but I prefer my communications in fully-formed words and sentences please.
**Desires and Fantasies**
So much of what you want to explore and express is dependent on the person you're doing that with, it seems somewhat limiting to have a set menu and expect someone to slot in to a ready-made template. Far more exciting to relish the possibilities of creating something unique, as all dynamics are. Any way, I don't have any fantasies that would fit in this wee box and we haven't established I want anyone in mine...
new to this, looking to meet like minded people to explore and have fun dates and experiences with (but need some connection first)
i'm a dancer and love to read/write and play silly little video games
submissive goth dreaming of a dominant vampire to rule the underworld with
Hey, I’m in an open marriage looking to explore with solo males and females and possibly couples.
only message if you are into big women as I am plus size! ✌️
please do not message me if your under 30!! Or really far away!
I'm a confident Big Beautiful Woman looking for a connection that embraces who I am and thrives on mutual respect and enjoyment. Bisexual and open-minded, I appreciate the thrill of exploring power dynamics as a submissive and take pride in serving and satisfying a partner who can guide me with confidence and care.
I’m searching for a dominant who values a safe and consensual dynamic, where we can enjoy exciting, respectful, and no-strings-attached encounters. If you’re someone who understands the balance between power and kindness, let's connect for some truly naughty fun.
Submissive men ONLY. I have no interest in dominant men whatsoever so don’t waste our time.
I won’t reply if you have no pictures, approach respectfully. I will not engage with sexual conversation immediately.
If you know about consent, boundaries and how to communicate your limits, my inbox is right there🤭.
I get that some people are here for a hookup. I am not, so please respect my boundaries.🎀
hi, I'm not looking for anything sexual but I am looking for friends. ideally I'd love to meet someone close just to walk with or get coffee and talk. secondly I'd love a platonic "babysitter" type daddy.
if this isn't for u. you don't need to text me to tell me....just don't text ?
I know it's definitely not everyone's taste sorrryyy
I am submissive♀️ - shy, willing, obedient, and easily trainable. Big adventurous soul to dive deep with the right person. 2 years of experience, including 1 year in 24/7 dynamic.
I am looking for a regular Dominant partner (not looking for couples) to build a deeper connection / Friendship and trust first to enjoy ourselves together on highest level. Distance is important for dynamic to be regular and fulfilling, so please, if you live far away (I usually have 1h -1.5h drive rule), don't waste your and my time ?
Connection is essential to go any further. Please have decent communication when approaching me.
switch
only interested in irl experiences
intelligent young lady looking to gain new experiences in life
Fun dates + kink ??♀️
lover of jazz, classic cars, parties.
Looking for kinky women in Cambridgeshire?
Get ready for a spanking good time! Sign up for free and discover BDSM dates and BDSM clubs and fetish parties in Cambridgeshire. Explore your fetishes, be part of Fetish.com, THE kink-positive community.