Male (62) Not single
The promise of BDSM is in removing the shackles of social norms and, for the sub, removing the uncertainties about whether they are doing what their partner wants.
I derive my greatest pleasure from sustaining my state of arousal. Nothing arouses me as much as bringing my partner to increasingly intense and multiple orgasms.
Let me take control and by doing so free you to indulge in your own sexuality.