BDSM Play Partner in UK

Im looking for an in person or online dom to help me explore my submissive side more. I've been into kink for a while now and want to take the next step and explore a D/s dynamic and learn more about myself and my limits. I dont mind if you're experienced or not, just drop me a message and we can discuss more.

Dont be shy text me ill make ur wildest dream come true, looking for a obedient girl who wants to be dominated

Just love eating

Come and chat and work from there. Lets see if we are both interested in the same things

What I am looking for is very specific. Can you handle it?

I have a long term online dynamic with an Domme who is on another continent. We have spoken about the idea on finding a local (in London) Domme to act as her ‘hands’ in playing with me, discipline and the exploration of our kinks.
Our interests include, but not limited to Feminization, anal / pegging, worship, ***d-bi, restraints, servitude and floggings.

Maybe this would suit someone looking to explore their Dominant side with mentorship, or someone happy to be an instrument of our dynamic and playtime.

Other interests include all forms of worship, power exchange, service orientation, bondage and chastity/denial. Not looking to move on this fast, rather happy to take the time to find the right person whose circumstances align.

Looking forward to hearing from you if this piques your interest

Can I call you mistress or mommy?

Heya, looking to go to towns end for the first time and I’m looking for a partner to go with. Whether your experienced to the scene or not doesn’t matter - just shoot me a message x

Someone bright and lively who is willing to have her boundaries pushed.
I am stern but gentle, until I’m not

Looking at finding people into masks and bondage.
Curiosity for being restricted, turned into a doll or just want to try masks? Happy to assist
Also looking for kink friends locally to me to explore things together.

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hey! I'm an androgynous transfem submissive looking for play partners online or irl

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Looking for a Dominant Female for LTR

Desire of partner being in control and love to hurt me !

Any Single Mistress want to get to know me / use me?

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I find it hard to believe that theres no fist daddies xx

Are you a strong, mature, and masculine men who dreams of submitting to the power of a confident woman?

I’m a mature, self-aware Dominant woman who values depth, presence, honesty, emotional intelligence. I seek a deep emotional, intellectual, and physical connection with my man. Not interested in surface-level play or fantasy-only dynamics.
For me, D/s is an emotional practice: clarity, honesty, and willingness to grow. My style is calm, grounded dominance, not theatrics. I'm very warm and loving, but strict.
You'll feel my control in your body, in your mind, in the way you start structuring your day around pleasing me. That's not discipline, that's devotion.

I'm not looking for a boy to play with — I'm looking for a man who knows the joy of serving a woman, not because he is weak, but because he is strong and aware. The best suitable men's age for me is 35-45.
I love order, attention to detail, a taste for rituals, and the ability to anticipate without words.
If the word “service” sounds like art to you, maybe we should talk.

I'm a Counsellor. I understand power dynamics deeply, both professionally and personally. In my private life, I'm looking for a man for a long-term D/s relationship. I lead a healthy lifestyle, like art, theatre, and live music.

If this resonates, write to me. I'd like to know:
– Who are you?
– What do you do?
– Where you live and what your life looks like
– What pulls you toward submission
– What you're looking for in a D/s relationship
– How you imagine serving, and what you hope to receive in return

If you're that man, don't wait. Thoughtful answers matter more than fast ones.
I choose carefully, but when I choose, I invest deeply.

Submissive switch guy on Hayling Island. Pansexual, neurodivergent, and open minded. I love bondage, spanking, impact play, watersports, teasing, mind games, and being pushed into real surrender. I’m looking for real life play with Dominants and switch partners nearby who want to explore, take the lead, and have fun seeing how far we can go.

Send me a message let’s talk

Hi, I'm looking for someone that I can get to know and make happy.

I know everyone's time is precious and I want to make their time fun enjoyable and relaxed.

I like to please and love to be told I have been a good boy, I want to follow the rules and tasks she sets but I know I can stray a little sometimes🫣 so someone that is inventive in ways to make me learn would be helpful, I don't mind these tasks if they are of a sexual or just a mundane task, anything that makes her happy or she has one less thing to do around the house. I have had experience with ass play and loved it so would definitely like if she wishes to explore this more.

I have some in person experience of being a sub, I had been online for more than two years with one Dom starting with texts then on to cam, I then moved to in person with a different Dom due to the other being in a different country, we met a few times and I believe I was able to fulfill her needs. She liked me to cook for her, she would play and me trying to make me make a mistake. Unfortunately, she is unable to continue due to personal reasons. So now I'm looking again.

I am only looking for in person meetings but happy to chat online for bit exchange phots and information to allow you to decide if I'm right for you, preferably around east midlands, but I am willing to travel If we have a good connection.

I do have some limits but these are more or less the same as most people's, like no , ***,kids, permanent marks, there are few more but nothing to extreme. I do like to experiment and try new things so I will try most things once unless is against my limits. I am straight but not against having other males in the room or play, this will probably take a bit of time to build up to as never done it before.

If this is something that interests you say hi so we can chat, see if we click, hopefully I will find my wonderful mistress and she her willing sub.

I will be open and honest from the start i do have a long-term partner of over 20 years and she dose not know im looking for a mistress to please, she has no interest in any kinks but i need to release the feeling to please someone.

Please note I'm not interested in people that will sell their service to me, I am also only interested in a female mistress. I would like a friend, someone when we are not playing, we can have a conversation, maybe take for a meal or go for drinks, want to be that person that you trust and feel you can try and say almost anything with. If you have gotten to the end thank you for you time.

I want a older Dom. The more experience the better