Okay so I haven’t used this for a little while and figured while I have some time it would be a good idea to fill it out properly..
Im not here for casual hook ups, to find a play partner, or just for the kinky chats. This is more than just kink to me, I am very much a lifestyle submissive who feels safe with the rules, boundaries and structure around me.
From my future partner I am looking for: a TPE, male led monogamous relationship with someone who knows what they want, and also views this as a lifestyle rather than just kink.
With the right person, I would like to think that limits are not needed (apart from of course anything illegal. which of course, if you expected that from me then you are 100% not the right person for me anyway ?). But with the right person I would like to think that over time limits are no longer needed, because they know me well enough to not push me past anything I couldn’t handle, and not put me in a situation where I didn’t feel safe in the first place. I am looking for someone I can completely let go with and give myself to 100%. Both inside and outside of the bedroom. Someone that is not just my boyfriend, but my Dom, Owner and safe place too.
Consistency is very important to me. I don’t work well with rules that are put in place just for the sake of it. If they don’t mean anything to you, and are not beneficial to the dynamic we are building, then they don’t mean anything to me either.
Honesty and communication is also very important to me (as I am sure it is for most people). But if I don’t feel I can communicate with my partner, or that they aren’t communicating with me properly, this absolutely will not work.
I am more than happy to consider relocating for the right person, however, I am not looking to get to know anyone outside of the U.K. that kind of long distance just would not work for me.
If you have messaged me previously and I haven’t got back to you - please be patient. I have not used this in a little while and there are so many messages to get through since I last logged on.
If you message and I don’t respond - please don’t be offended. It is nothing personal, just that I have read your profile and for one reason or another don’t believe we will be a good match. Just as I am not for everyone, everyone is not for me either.
If you have got this far and feel as though the above resonates with you and what you are looking for, then by all means send a message and let’s see if we are compatible. If I feel we are compatible and looking for the same things, I am more than happy to move off here and arrange a phone call and exchange pics etc.
You can also find me over on fetlife too (same user name) if you would prefer to talk there instead of here ☺️
Hi. I am seeking a playful girl for my absolute first time lesbian experience, if you want to be my first time, get in touch with me now! We'll have to be quick, my living situation is a bit of a mess right now. I just need some NO STRINGS playtime.
I have a vomit kink too, I am very lesbian with this, girls being sick turns me on way more than men.
If you want to, I will let you lead, I will let you make me hopelessly sick, but you gotta take extra special care of me while I unburden my stomach :P
I am up for chatting about my kink online first off if you want, hows about you begin your conversation with me by telling me the last time you lost your stomach contents?
:) xxx
**Desires and Fantasies**
My ultimate fantasy is being with a girl who is feeling sick, and is eventually sick. I'd make her wear a frontless bra and put nipple clamps on her nipples (and mine!) And just as she gags I'd pull the nipple clamps as hard as I could.
I'd do glorious things to her as the contents of her upset tummy splashed into the toilet.
Are you my girl?
Message me if you are ?
I need someone to take full control, *** and pleasure come hand in hand. the bruises left get me off for weeks. Mark me, hurt me, use me however you like. Your pleasure in me being degraded and used by you is important as long as you get me off as well.
Gothic fun woman, massive nerd, adore D&D, Warhammer and gaming. 420.
**Desires and Fantasies**
So hiii I guess. I'm Strigol nice to meet you!
I had a very bad time in a master/slave relationship many moons ago, so will end up vetting you before any meets or anything, I am married and I also have a boyfriend.
I am looking for romance, to be treated like a princess. Go on dates, treated for dinner, sexy dates and play time. I have LG, brat and slave tendencies. I will worship you. However I am a switch.
I'm clingy, needy, I need to be told affection constantly. I have chronic depression & ADHD. I also have a back disability so I walk with a stick.
Love to chat, very geeky! D&D and Warhammer is life!
I adore being teased and teasing others ;)
Oh also, if both parties decided to go further then I would want people who are in our lives to know about this. Not kept a secret. (Of course understandable to family members but if you are also seeing someone they should also understand poly)
been mainly sub but discovered i have some switch tendencies and looking to explore. looking for a bi predominantly dom but with some switch tendencies in an ideal world
Love a good DDLG dynamic... just a good little who loves to snuggle, cuddle and be super cute, a bit cheeky and fun loving.
can be clingy and a little needy, however all in all, just wants to be wanted, praised and looked after.
Situations change, looking for a Dom or Domme to tame this naughty girl!
Beware as I will often act out on purpose just to receive my punishment;)
If you message me and want me to reply, pique my interest, ask me something that I can’t resist answering.
Part of a couple looking for a woman who needs a bit of adventure - you can be domme/sub/switch any works ;)
And to prove you have read my profile mention Bacardi in your first message or I will ignore you.
been suuuper inactive but im trying to get back into it!
20, 5ft1, brat/sub
not really experienced, just broadly know what i like: please see likes & interests
general interests: cars & movies
I'm looking for a fun person who wants to join me and my Dom in ffm fun as well as having fun with me solo. I'm exploring my boundaries and want to find someone who can help me with that.
I am pretty new to kink. I have a lovely partner and mentor, with whom I am exclusive sexually. I am exploring impact play on a strictly non-sexual basis. I'm also keen to learn rope work and shibari. I'm hoping to make friends in the kink scene, and perhaps start to play at events. Drop me a message if that sounds like something you might be interested in. I love writing erotica, and publish my stories on Fetlife under the profile name of PurpleCrocus. I am always very happy to chat about what turns us on. I find human sexuality endlessly fascinating, so even if I don't share your kink I will happily chat about it. I beleive all people have the right to express their sexuality in a consensual manner, and to have their desires respected. I can't promise I won't tease you about it though..... Flirting is in my nature.
I love impact play, ropes, leather,
interests; keraunophilia, kinbaku, odaxelagina, partialism, rigger and rope bunny,switch,Experimenting,CFNM,
Be polite and treat others with respect. your kink may not be theirs!
Femme lesbian couple looking for casual fun nothing serious . Possibility regular we're both fitness and health freaks with a very wild and naughty side ?
I have a fantasie I would like to fulfil... I have never been with another woman and wouldn't mind giving this a taste ? I do love a tattooed woman (Harley Quinn would be my go to ??)
Hello, im Emily im curious to see what the sub/dom world is like. So here i am learning all i can! Im not interested in one night stands i want a emotional connection with someone!
Firstly...PLEASE NO FOMS!!! I will suss you out quicker then you have thought up all the lies to try and convince me otherwise :)
I identify as a switch but lately leaning more towards my submissive side, ultimately looking for a DD/lg dynamic.
**Desires and Fantasies**
Message and ask i'm an open book :)
I arrived here after a friend recommended it to me from Fetlife.
I'm still finding my feet,so be patient as I navigate myself around and take things in.
Looking for a dom that will be caring yet push my limits 😚 into bondage, impact and breath play, cnc and more
I am Curvy/plus size
Unsolicited nudes will result in your account being reported x
I will not send you nudes or deal with any disrespect from you. Being in a dominant/submissive dynamic is not about manipulation or about being rough for the sake of it. It should be an environment that is safe in which both parties have their boundaries respected. This is not something that is built in 5 minutes and takes a high level of communication and trust. I also will not play on the first time meeting anyone.
I am poly and currently have 2 partners, not particularly looking for more, but I’m open to friendly chats and seeing where things go. I like all genders and all junk.
Plus size, autistic chronic illness sufferer. Probably taking a nap.
Sub-leaning switch, only recently had a chance to start exploring my dominant side and I’m not very good at it yet.
If you want to meet up right away look
somewhere else, I am not interested until I know we have chemistry and I can trust you, if you don’t want to put the energy into messaging long enough for that to happen, or if we can’t keep a conversation going for whatever reason, it wasn’t meant to be.
Not interested in racists, homophobes, bigots, transphobes, ableists etc, or people who come across as entitled to me in some way.
I want to be used and ***d. someone to destroy my holes, *** me or pass me around for mates or strangers to *** and ***. I want the nastiest of men to come beat and *** my pathetic body and holes. I’m a very dirty and nasty girl who wants everyone’s sick fantasies done to me
Hey there!
Matlock based but also travel to Cambridge every month.
I am curvy, I'm size 14 and 5 foot 4 and a half (don't forget the half). I'm in an open marriage & I'm a Mum too. I am involved in the kink scene - looking for intelligent folk with a sense of humour.
A bit about me. I'm kind of nerdy and I'm a fan of 80s movies - Willow is my all time favourite movie. Labyrinth ranks pretty highly too. I love Bridgerton and my favourite authors are Georgette Heyer, Sarah J Maas and Ilona Andrews.
I go running regularly and enjoy the outdoors. Vinted is currently a bit of a kryptonite for me, I have too many dresses. I'm a non-smoker, non-drinker & vegan too but do not mind if you drink an alcoholic milkshake whilst smoking. Barr raspberryade is my current drink of choice & I'm partial to a cuppa (with oat or coconut milk, soya milk is the devil).
I can't host in Matlock, happy to travel and do have accommodation in Cambridge when I'm there.
Fetlife Profile: Shenan_Higgins
You'll catch my eye if...
- You've got a well written profile
- You've got a sense of humour
- You're dominant (especially if you've got sadistic tendencies)
- You're between 28 and 48
- You live around 1 hour from me
If you don't ask me any questions after a few messages, I will assume you don't want to get to know me and I'll stop replying.
My main principles in any relationship are honesty, respect and communication.
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I have a busy and very active lifestyle. I go brunching with friends, listen to live music in pubs, travel abroad for work, walk and go swimming weekly, and host dinner parties. Equally I love a good balance of night out/in. I see friends often and would normally check in daily with my partner when living apart.
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I am on this app because I’m open to exploring desires and having fun with like minded people.
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ONLY PROTECTED SEX
Mature, intelligent BBW submissive/baby girl, looking to rediscover myself after a decade away from the scene. I'm still looking for that ever elusive long-term relationship that ticks those essential boxes.
I would like to find out what my limits are now and maybe explore a few things I haven't done before: Sensory depravation being one...
I usually more baby girl than brat, although that side does exist, I can be defiant, stubborn, rude, and sarcastic at times. My normal persona is loving, affectionate, passionate, good if slightly weird sense of humour (I giggle and laugh quite a lot). Baby girl side is just me as normal, but a bit cuter, filthier and obedient...ish.
Just so you know. I dont do hookups, one night stands, or NSA. If I'm going to give the gift of my submission, I have to trust you and have a sexual connection. I also dont do online nudity, pics, or otherwise unless they're on my profile. So please dont ask.
A message to tops of any description under 25 years of age. I'm old enough to be your mother, my son is older than you, so don't even try, it's just creepy!.
if we do connect, and I give you my submission. You will get all of me...that's a lot of woman!
So, can you handle it? Let me know 😘
I need someone to take full control, *** and pleasure come hand in hand. the bruises left get me off for weeks. Mark me, hurt me, use me however you like. Your pleasure in me being degraded and used by you is important as long as you get me off as well.
I'm looking for a fun person who wants to join me and my Dom in ffm fun as well as having fun with me solo. I'm exploring my boundaries and want to find someone who can help me with that.
Femme lesbian couple looking for casual fun nothing serious . Possibility regular we're both fitness and health freaks with a very wild and naughty side ?
Love a good DDLG dynamic... just a good little who loves to snuggle, cuddle and be super cute, a bit cheeky and fun loving.
can be clingy and a little needy, however all in all, just wants to be wanted, praised and looked after.
I am pretty new to kink. I have a lovely partner and mentor, with whom I am exclusive sexually. I am exploring impact play on a strictly non-sexual basis. I'm also keen to learn rope work and shibari. I'm hoping to make friends in the kink scene, and perhaps start to play at events. Drop me a message if that sounds like something you might be interested in. I love writing erotica, and publish my stories on Fetlife under the profile name of PurpleCrocus. I am always very happy to chat about what turns us on. I find human sexuality endlessly fascinating, so even if I don't share your kink I will happily chat about it. I beleive all people have the right to express their sexuality in a consensual manner, and to have their desires respected. I can't promise I won't tease you about it though..... Flirting is in my nature.
I have a fantasie I would like to fulfil... I have never been with another woman and wouldn't mind giving this a taste ? I do love a tattooed woman (Harley Quinn would be my go to ??)
I love impact play, ropes, leather,
interests; keraunophilia, kinbaku, odaxelagina, partialism, rigger and rope bunny,switch,Experimenting,CFNM,
Be polite and treat others with respect. your kink may not be theirs!
been mainly sub but discovered i have some switch tendencies and looking to explore. looking for a bi predominantly dom but with some switch tendencies in an ideal world
Situations change, looking for a Dom or Domme to tame this naughty girl!
Beware as I will often act out on purpose just to receive my punishment;)
If you message me and want me to reply, pique my interest, ask me something that I can’t resist answering.
been suuuper inactive but im trying to get back into it!
20, 5ft1, brat/sub
not really experienced, just broadly know what i like: please see likes & interests
general interests: cars & movies
Okay so I haven’t used this for a little while and figured while I have some time it would be a good idea to fill it out properly..
Im not here for casual hook ups, to find a play partner, or just for the kinky chats. This is more than just kink to me, I am very much a lifestyle submissive who feels safe with the rules, boundaries and structure around me.
From my future partner I am looking for: a TPE, male led monogamous relationship with someone who knows what they want, and also views this as a lifestyle rather than just kink.
With the right person, I would like to think that limits are not needed (apart from of course anything illegal. which of course, if you expected that from me then you are 100% not the right person for me anyway ?). But with the right person I would like to think that over time limits are no longer needed, because they know me well enough to not push me past anything I couldn’t handle, and not put me in a situation where I didn’t feel safe in the first place. I am looking for someone I can completely let go with and give myself to 100%. Both inside and outside of the bedroom. Someone that is not just my boyfriend, but my Dom, Owner and safe place too.
Consistency is very important to me. I don’t work well with rules that are put in place just for the sake of it. If they don’t mean anything to you, and are not beneficial to the dynamic we are building, then they don’t mean anything to me either.
Honesty and communication is also very important to me (as I am sure it is for most people). But if I don’t feel I can communicate with my partner, or that they aren’t communicating with me properly, this absolutely will not work.
I am more than happy to consider relocating for the right person, however, I am not looking to get to know anyone outside of the U.K. that kind of long distance just would not work for me.
If you have messaged me previously and I haven’t got back to you - please be patient. I have not used this in a little while and there are so many messages to get through since I last logged on.
If you message and I don’t respond - please don’t be offended. It is nothing personal, just that I have read your profile and for one reason or another don’t believe we will be a good match. Just as I am not for everyone, everyone is not for me either.
If you have got this far and feel as though the above resonates with you and what you are looking for, then by all means send a message and let’s see if we are compatible. If I feel we are compatible and looking for the same things, I am more than happy to move off here and arrange a phone call and exchange pics etc.
You can also find me over on fetlife too (same user name) if you would prefer to talk there instead of here ☺️
Gothic fun woman, massive nerd, adore D&D, Warhammer and gaming. 420.
**Desires and Fantasies**
So hiii I guess. I'm Strigol nice to meet you!
I had a very bad time in a master/slave relationship many moons ago, so will end up vetting you before any meets or anything, I am married and I also have a boyfriend.
I am looking for romance, to be treated like a princess. Go on dates, treated for dinner, sexy dates and play time. I have LG, brat and slave tendencies. I will worship you. However I am a switch.
I'm clingy, needy, I need to be told affection constantly. I have chronic depression & ADHD. I also have a back disability so I walk with a stick.
Love to chat, very geeky! D&D and Warhammer is life!
I adore being teased and teasing others ;)
Oh also, if both parties decided to go further then I would want people who are in our lives to know about this. Not kept a secret. (Of course understandable to family members but if you are also seeing someone they should also understand poly)
Part of a couple looking for a woman who needs a bit of adventure - you can be domme/sub/switch any works ;)
And to prove you have read my profile mention Bacardi in your first message or I will ignore you.
Hi. I am seeking a playful girl for my absolute first time lesbian experience, if you want to be my first time, get in touch with me now! We'll have to be quick, my living situation is a bit of a mess right now. I just need some NO STRINGS playtime.
I have a vomit kink too, I am very lesbian with this, girls being sick turns me on way more than men.
If you want to, I will let you lead, I will let you make me hopelessly sick, but you gotta take extra special care of me while I unburden my stomach :P
I am up for chatting about my kink online first off if you want, hows about you begin your conversation with me by telling me the last time you lost your stomach contents?
:) xxx
**Desires and Fantasies**
My ultimate fantasy is being with a girl who is feeling sick, and is eventually sick. I'd make her wear a frontless bra and put nipple clamps on her nipples (and mine!) And just as she gags I'd pull the nipple clamps as hard as I could.
I'd do glorious things to her as the contents of her upset tummy splashed into the toilet.
Are you my girl?
Message me if you are ?
I arrived here after a friend recommended it to me from Fetlife.
I'm still finding my feet,so be patient as I navigate myself around and take things in.
Firstly...PLEASE NO FOMS!!! I will suss you out quicker then you have thought up all the lies to try and convince me otherwise :)
I identify as a switch but lately leaning more towards my submissive side, ultimately looking for a DD/lg dynamic.
**Desires and Fantasies**
Message and ask i'm an open book :)
Hello, im Emily im curious to see what the sub/dom world is like. So here i am learning all i can! Im not interested in one night stands i want a emotional connection with someone!
I have specifics I like in a Dom. It takes a special kind of Dom to tickle the right brain nerve.
Absolutely feral and bratty. Dark sense of humour.
Alternative Girl.
BDSM for me isn't always about the sex.
Mature, intelligent BBW submissive/baby girl, looking to rediscover myself after a decade away from the scene. I'm still looking for that ever elusive long-term relationship that ticks those essential boxes.
I would like to find out what my limits are now and maybe explore a few things I haven't done before: Sensory depravation being one...
I usually more baby girl than brat, although that side does exist, I can be defiant, stubborn, rude, and sarcastic at times. My normal persona is loving, affectionate, passionate, good if slightly weird sense of humour (I giggle and laugh quite a lot). Baby girl side is just me as normal, but a bit cuter, filthier and obedient...ish.
Just so you know. I dont do hookups, one night stands, or NSA. If I'm going to give the gift of my submission, I have to trust you and have a sexual connection. I also dont do online nudity, pics, or otherwise unless they're on my profile. So please dont ask.
A message to tops of any description under 25 years of age. I'm old enough to be your mother, my son is older than you, so don't even try, it's just creepy!.
if we do connect, and I give you my submission. You will get all of me...that's a lot of woman!
So, can you handle it? Let me know 😘
Poly, in two relationships (nesting partners, I don't condone cheating).
Ideally I'd like to find people to have a good relationship with, without it being a romantic one, but with a lot of communication, respect, and the interest in sharing intimacy, kink, desire.
Not interested in a monogamous relationship or a situation where you chat only to wank or to meet for hookups, without any conversation whatsoever in between.
Need to chat and get to know someone a bit before meeting.
Looking for a dom that will be caring yet push my limits 😚 into bondage, impact and breath play, cnc and more
I am Curvy/plus size
Unsolicited nudes will result in your account being reported x
I will not send you nudes or deal with any disrespect from you. Being in a dominant/submissive dynamic is not about manipulation or about being rough for the sake of it. It should be an environment that is safe in which both parties have their boundaries respected. This is not something that is built in 5 minutes and takes a high level of communication and trust. I also will not play on the first time meeting anyone.
I am poly and currently have 2 partners, not particularly looking for more, but I’m open to friendly chats and seeing where things go. I like all genders and all junk.
Plus size, autistic chronic illness sufferer. Probably taking a nap.
Sub-leaning switch, only recently had a chance to start exploring my dominant side and I’m not very good at it yet.
If you want to meet up right away look
somewhere else, I am not interested until I know we have chemistry and I can trust you, if you don’t want to put the energy into messaging long enough for that to happen, or if we can’t keep a conversation going for whatever reason, it wasn’t meant to be.
Not interested in racists, homophobes, bigots, transphobes, ableists etc, or people who come across as entitled to me in some way.
single and interested in pushing my boundaries. I have a big love for everything kink and a very open mind - I do not judge. I’m interested in BDSM, anal, toys, DP, bisexually curious.
I’m a lil curvy, so be kind :-)
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