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No interest in NSA, ONS, or those in relationships. Inappropriate approaches and sexual expectations are hard limits. Please read my profile and be respectful. I’m looking for potential connections with Doms who value trust, respect, and communication as foundational elements. Daddy or Master dynamics are hard limits I identify as a lifestyle submissive who thrives in a structured dynamic, both in and out of the bedroom. While some may label me as a brat, I prefer not to use that term. I’m opinionated and appreciate a mind challenge. Connection only in those serious about meaningful dynamics
Female (40) Up Sydling, Durham
Belle a few things about me: ✨️ I'm a Submissive, I don't enjoy being in the Dom Role ✨️I'm a ballroom & Latin Dance teacher and dancer. ✨️I'm a writer and author. ✨️I work nights so I'm not always able to reply to messages. ✨️My favourite colour is whatever silky nightdress colour I'm wearing. ✨️I only wear lace lingerie. ✨️I have cats, but I'm a Dog person.
Female (33) Durham, Durham
NO MEN!!!!!!!!! due to trama so sorry and thank you dominant women and afab to the frount sorry I dont know what to say but I'm a sub and I'm looking for fun feel free to ask questions and I'm in a relationship my patner knows and is good with this and we can talk about their role too if you want other wise I'm a sub with a lotttt of different kinks up my sleave and nearly 3 years experience I have autism and adhd among other things and love learning about new things and new kinks
Female (20) Loscombe, Durham
, ? In some way which I don’t understand, I discovered an interest in thin elderly/old/mature men....It was weird/embarrassing to realize, but since childhood, for some unknown reason, I've liked mature/elderly men...(not everyone in my environment, of course, but just like one of oddities of my interests). Unfortunately, there is not enough content on the internet with thin/slender elderly/old/mature/mature men, but in my opinion, such bodies look interesting and attractive in their own way (disclaimer) I'm not from the US, and not from an english-speaking country, so I won't be able to meet with anyone, so... yeah, I'm probably here just for the sake of communication, so don't waste your time chatting contact me if you plan to meet in person. I'm also open in/for(?) communication with other different users. Moreover, If you want, you also may tell me about your profession (cause, I'm looking for a job now, so I'm interested in hearing about your work and work experience)/hobbies/fetishes/pets/shameful incidents in your life/family/favorite books/movies/actors. Well, in conclusion, I'd say that I'm attracted to people who work as teachers/professors, educators/and etc. (but it's just a little addition). Gash, and I seriously believe that Maya Hawke is the most beautiful woman in the world! love girls like her......❤‍🩹
Female (19) Highsteads, Durham
Hi everyone! I'm NEW to Fet but not new to the BDSM, kinky sex scene.. I've always been interested in it from a young age. I'm very open minded. X . Please don't message if you are under 30.. Nothing personal I just dont date people younger than me. . If you live more than 100+ miles away please dont message me as the chance of meeting up etc is slim. Thanks for checking out my profile.. Looking for.. . Older gentleman . Sexy woman . Kinky couple I'm a submissive, who likes been tied up, spanked, punished and dominated etc.. But it doesn't mean I don't like to occasionally take control. I'll be your"baby girl" if you'll be my "daddy" Ill be your "baby girl" if you'll be my "bitch" Send me a message #Let'sRockNRoll I will respond to messages when I can.. Apologies if it's not straight away!.. But I will get back to you! I am a genuine young lady looking to meet NEW people and to have a good time. X
Female (34) Durham, Durham
I don’t really know what to put here without sounding cringe or weird lol ? in other words I’m probably the most brattiest girl you will ever meet. I’m a tattoo addict and I plan to get so many more- I just love ***. I’m quite hard to make obedient as I like to do what I want when I want lol.
Female (21) Darlington, Durham
Total newbie in kinks and relationships. Looking for experienced friends to learn more about D/S, and eventually hope to find a dom to practice with someday. Slow typer, working on essays and dissertation at the moment so might reply realllly slow, sorry in advance.
Female (30) Durham, Durham
Kinky sub looking for a Dom. Always willing to try new things. I like serving and being kept. Wanting to get more involved in the scene, so if anyone has any recommendations of upcoming events, let me know!
Female (27) Sandford Orcas, Durham
I am a big fan of the world of kink, bdsm and *** in particular. looking to chat to like minded people and learn more. I am in a relationship and very happy so not looking for anything but friendship. So no I will not DM you, so don't ask!!
Female (39) Durham, Durham
I’m a 31yo female submissive looking for a Dom. Into a lot of things list is quite long so if you would like to know just message me. A few of these include: ropeplay, being controlled, being a brat… sometimes xx
Female (31) Melplash, Durham
I am a strict but fair Dommè who will push you to the edge of your limits but not push you over them.I understand that trust is earned but I will punish you when you need it and reward you when deserve it.I always insist on a safe word which is usually green to go yellow to slow down or talk about it and red to stop completely.If you have your own that's fine we can discuss this Rules 1 Always call me Mistress or if a little Mommy 2 Your not allowed to touch yourself without permission 3 Always show respect 4 Always look presentable 5 Always say hello on morning and good night on a night before you go to bed. If you think you can follow my rules please send me a message.
Female (37) Wear Valley, Durham
Switch from Sheffield! Currently living in Durham. I have a strong sub-lean but I'm happy to gentle dom for the right lady :D Enjoyer of books, player of games, student of history... not sure what else to put 😅
Female (20) Durham, Durham
I have untreated adhd, eupd and pda so I am extremly hard work, I'm a single mother of 4 and yes 3 are young. I am loyal, honest and have a big heart behind my health problems.... I have not met anyone that can truly cope with me and how I am.....not sure there is anyone in existence that can handle me 😂 if all you want to talk about is kink then move along I like to connect with a person not just their kink side. Not entirely certain what I want and need... Im torn between needing a pleasure dom and needing a submissive so not sure what I'm looking for, plus I'm new to this
Female (41) Kittwhistle, Durham
Hey, I’m new to the kinky scene lol, and looking to chat to like-minded people and hopefully try new things. I’m submissive so would be nice to explore that side of things and also have fun lol.
Female (35) Teesdale, Durham
I’m in an open relationship and want someone to order me around like a slave and a pet. I would also want someone to be a caregiver to me
Female (18) Melbury Bubb, Durham
I am in a Dom and Sub relationship and I am the Dom that setting my Sub up for dates and pictures I am useing this account but all information is about my sub
Female (19) Loscombe, Durham
I'm looking to date, make connections and have some fun. Kinks Licking, kissing, biting Spanking/slapping Rope play Breath play Shaving/depilation Water sports Ice play Wax play Anal/***al Face fucking CNC Pegging Please only message if you are able to hold a conversation, as I need mental stimulation before I can even consider moving forward. In the vanilla world I'm studying towards a masters degree in creative writing and I volunteer at a mental health centre/charity. I'm only interested in authenticity and honesty and have no time for games.
Female (42) Durham, Durham
20 Looking for NSA, probably mostly online because I work a lot but if you’re nearby then definitely chance to meet I delete this app often when the notifications become overwhelming but I will always come back :)
Female (21) Wear Valley, Durham
I’m here to find a man that is going to match me sexually and wants to experiment together. I’m very responsive to your touch and your words. I do not mind long distance in UK as long as we are able to communicate and I can please you and be rewarded from a distance and meet up regularly. you must have a very high sex drive, enjoy sexting, video calls and enjoy rough dirty sex and experimenting. NO TIME WASTERS genuine men only ,I’ve had enough time wasters already.
Female (37) Durham, Durham
looking for dominant master I'm a service submissive/slave wants constant *** play and *** wants to meet a dominant willing to train and can help guide me in this lifestyle want a dominant man who has experience training submissives want to be used by my master regularly for his gratification I'm always horny and wanting sex it is a curse enjoys playing with men and women loves group activitie
Female (27) Darlington, Durham
Hey there! Please don't bounce into my DM's with a thousand word essay on scenarios or what you would do to me because I ain't got time to read all that. That also goes for random genital pictures, the dreaded "How's u?" and any kind of two word greeting. Anyway, about me. I am 22 and chronically ill with a neurological condition which impacts my day to day life. I have a long history of trauma, which means that I am wary and anxious, which means I'm looking for an experienced Dom, male or female around the Durham area, north east area. Each potential Dom will be vetted, and nothing will be rushed into and communication is PARAMOUNT. I can't stress that enough. looking at around 22-30 but may look into someone that is older if they peak my interest :) thank you for reading :)
Female (23) Rousdon, Durham
Hello. I'm a cis, pan, allistic woman and right now I'm exploring solo-poly life. if you're still reading, here are a bunch more representative words I would use to describe myself... I'm an atheist, a humanist, a socialist and a pacifist. I'm a subtle, non-conformist aspiring to live a hedonistic lifestyle. I'm kind. I'm respectful. I'm considerate and intuitive. I'm INFJ-T. An empath and an active listener. I'm self reflective. I'm a critical thinker, a non-drinker, a procrastinator and an over-eater. I'm into good morals, ethics and communication. I have a broad and complex sense of self. I'm a sensitive soul and I'm somewhat of an anxious introvert. I also have a silly sense of humour. I get fired up about social injustice. I don't fit in. I never did but nowadays I'm not sure I want to. I'm the quiet one but that's mostly because my head is often busy thinking big thoughts that I probably shouldn't say out loud. I write them down so that I don't have to. I'm not great in large crowds or even big groups really. I cope just fine but feel overwhelmed and need lots of time afterwards to retreat to my safe place. I do like seeing new places and doing fun things with nice people though. I'm not into ONS. Trust and understanding builds over time. I'm not looking to third wheel with a pre-existing couple. Tried it and it was nothing but a trainwreck. I'm not interested in becoming a parent. I'm happily child free and I have no maternal instincts. I've been hurt in life and in love. Such is part of this human existence. I've been treated badly but I have too much love to give to let it go to waste. So I refuse to build up a stupid, reactionary, cold, stoney wall. Instead I am committed to self improvement and learning from mistakes. When I feel close to someone, I like to be cuddly, tactile and affectionate. I like talking and bonding and developing real, authentic, fulfilling connections. I like sharing experiences and making happy memories together. I'm kinky. I am in to BDSM. I identify as submissive. I'm most comfortable around people who understand this as a real, authentic part of me. People who understand it's about so much more than sex. I've always gravitated towards power exchange relationship models. I'm experienced in kink but not nearly as advanced as I'd hoped by now. My desires are still largely unexplored and I would like to change that. Broadly speaking I'm attracted to maturity, self confidence and emotional availability. I like having someone to be silly with and to relax with. I like putting the world to rights. I like being in the company of trustworthy people I can comfortably be *** with and share my thoughts and feelings with and vice versa. I like it when people feel they can talk openly and honestly with me too. In an age where technology is ruling over our lives, I'm keen to move swiftly along from hollow, online chat to real world, face to face socialisation. No face pic because work, family and well, you know... because... the internet... Thanks for reading! Fetlife: floating-feather
Female (37) Darlington, Durham
GIVE ME A MESSAGE! i’m katie, im 19, i live in durham uk give me a message and i will do anything for you ;) any of your fetishes i can give you just give me a message and i will send you the price of my different fetishes. if you want a pic of my feet i can give you if you want a video of my being tied up i give u if you want a video of my being whipped i can give u i can also post things to you. if you want my toe nail clipping i can give if you want my dirty pantys i can give you if you want a cup of my urine i can give you i have no limits baby ❤️ TALK TO YOU SOON ;) I DO NOT MEET UP WITH ANYBODY AND I AM NOT INTERESTED IN SEEING ANYTHING FROM YOU SO PLEASE DONT ASK. thank you
Female (19) Durham, Durham

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NO MEN!!!!!!!!! due to trama so sorry and thank you dominant women and afab to the frount sorry I dont know what to say but I'm a sub and I'm looking for fun feel free to ask questions and I'm in a relationship my patner knows and is good with this and we can talk about their role too if you want other wise I'm a sub with a lotttt of different kinks up my sleave and nearly 3 years experience I have autism and adhd among other things and love learning about new things and new kinks
Female (20) Loscombe, Durham
, ? In some way which I don’t understand, I discovered an interest in thin elderly/old/mature men....It was weird/embarrassing to realize, but since childhood, for some unknown reason, I've liked mature/elderly men...(not everyone in my environment, of course, but just like one of oddities of my interests). Unfortunately, there is not enough content on the internet with thin/slender elderly/old/mature/mature men, but in my opinion, such bodies look interesting and attractive in their own way (disclaimer) I'm not from the US, and not from an english-speaking country, so I won't be able to meet with anyone, so... yeah, I'm probably here just for the sake of communication, so don't waste your time chatting contact me if you plan to meet in person. I'm also open in/for(?) communication with other different users. Moreover, If you want, you also may tell me about your profession (cause, I'm looking for a job now, so I'm interested in hearing about your work and work experience)/hobbies/fetishes/pets/shameful incidents in your life/family/favorite books/movies/actors. Well, in conclusion, I'd say that I'm attracted to people who work as teachers/professors, educators/and etc. (but it's just a little addition). Gash, and I seriously believe that Maya Hawke is the most beautiful woman in the world! love girls like her......❤‍🩹
Female (19) Highsteads, Durham
No interest in NSA, ONS, or those in relationships. Inappropriate approaches and sexual expectations are hard limits. Please read my profile and be respectful. I’m looking for potential connections with Doms who value trust, respect, and communication as foundational elements. Daddy or Master dynamics are hard limits I identify as a lifestyle submissive who thrives in a structured dynamic, both in and out of the bedroom. While some may label me as a brat, I prefer not to use that term. I’m opinionated and appreciate a mind challenge. Connection only in those serious about meaningful dynamics
Female (40) Up Sydling, Durham
Belle a few things about me: ✨️ I'm a Submissive, I don't enjoy being in the Dom Role ✨️I'm a ballroom & Latin Dance teacher and dancer. ✨️I'm a writer and author. ✨️I work nights so I'm not always able to reply to messages. ✨️My favourite colour is whatever silky nightdress colour I'm wearing. ✨️I only wear lace lingerie. ✨️I have cats, but I'm a Dog person.
Female (33) Durham, Durham
Hi everyone! I'm NEW to Fet but not new to the BDSM, kinky sex scene.. I've always been interested in it from a young age. I'm very open minded. X . Please don't message if you are under 30.. Nothing personal I just dont date people younger than me. . If you live more than 100+ miles away please dont message me as the chance of meeting up etc is slim. Thanks for checking out my profile.. Looking for.. . Older gentleman . Sexy woman . Kinky couple I'm a submissive, who likes been tied up, spanked, punished and dominated etc.. But it doesn't mean I don't like to occasionally take control. I'll be your"baby girl" if you'll be my "daddy" Ill be your "baby girl" if you'll be my "bitch" Send me a message #Let'sRockNRoll I will respond to messages when I can.. Apologies if it's not straight away!.. But I will get back to you! I am a genuine young lady looking to meet NEW people and to have a good time. X
Female (34) Durham, Durham
Total newbie in kinks and relationships. Looking for experienced friends to learn more about D/S, and eventually hope to find a dom to practice with someday. Slow typer, working on essays and dissertation at the moment so might reply realllly slow, sorry in advance.
Female (30) Durham, Durham
I’m here to find a man that is going to match me sexually and wants to experiment together. I’m very responsive to your touch and your words. I do not mind long distance in UK as long as we are able to communicate and I can please you and be rewarded from a distance and meet up regularly. you must have a very high sex drive, enjoy sexting, video calls and enjoy rough dirty sex and experimenting. NO TIME WASTERS genuine men only ,I’ve had enough time wasters already.
Female (37) Durham, Durham
I’m in an open relationship and want someone to order me around like a slave and a pet. I would also want someone to be a caregiver to me
Female (18) Melbury Bubb, Durham
GIVE ME A MESSAGE! i’m katie, im 19, i live in durham uk give me a message and i will do anything for you ;) any of your fetishes i can give you just give me a message and i will send you the price of my different fetishes. if you want a pic of my feet i can give you if you want a video of my being tied up i give u if you want a video of my being whipped i can give u i can also post things to you. if you want my toe nail clipping i can give if you want my dirty pantys i can give you if you want a cup of my urine i can give you i have no limits baby ❤️ TALK TO YOU SOON ;) I DO NOT MEET UP WITH ANYBODY AND I AM NOT INTERESTED IN SEEING ANYTHING FROM YOU SO PLEASE DONT ASK. thank you
Female (19) Durham, Durham
I have untreated adhd, eupd and pda so I am extremly hard work, I'm a single mother of 4 and yes 3 are young. I am loyal, honest and have a big heart behind my health problems.... I have not met anyone that can truly cope with me and how I am.....not sure there is anyone in existence that can handle me 😂 if all you want to talk about is kink then move along I like to connect with a person not just their kink side. Not entirely certain what I want and need... Im torn between needing a pleasure dom and needing a submissive so not sure what I'm looking for, plus I'm new to this
Female (41) Kittwhistle, Durham
Switch from Sheffield! Currently living in Durham. I have a strong sub-lean but I'm happy to gentle dom for the right lady :D Enjoyer of books, player of games, student of history... not sure what else to put 😅
Female (20) Durham, Durham
I'm looking to date, make connections and have some fun. Kinks Licking, kissing, biting Spanking/slapping Rope play Breath play Shaving/depilation Water sports Ice play Wax play Anal/***al Face fucking CNC Pegging Please only message if you are able to hold a conversation, as I need mental stimulation before I can even consider moving forward. In the vanilla world I'm studying towards a masters degree in creative writing and I volunteer at a mental health centre/charity. I'm only interested in authenticity and honesty and have no time for games.
Female (42) Durham, Durham
I am in a Dom and Sub relationship and I am the Dom that setting my Sub up for dates and pictures I am useing this account but all information is about my sub
Female (19) Loscombe, Durham
Kinky sub looking for a Dom. Always willing to try new things. I like serving and being kept. Wanting to get more involved in the scene, so if anyone has any recommendations of upcoming events, let me know!
Female (27) Sandford Orcas, Durham
I am a strict but fair Dommè who will push you to the edge of your limits but not push you over them.I understand that trust is earned but I will punish you when you need it and reward you when deserve it.I always insist on a safe word which is usually green to go yellow to slow down or talk about it and red to stop completely.If you have your own that's fine we can discuss this Rules 1 Always call me Mistress or if a little Mommy 2 Your not allowed to touch yourself without permission 3 Always show respect 4 Always look presentable 5 Always say hello on morning and good night on a night before you go to bed. If you think you can follow my rules please send me a message.
Female (37) Wear Valley, Durham
Hello. I'm a cis, pan, allistic woman and right now I'm exploring solo-poly life. if you're still reading, here are a bunch more representative words I would use to describe myself... I'm an atheist, a humanist, a socialist and a pacifist. I'm a subtle, non-conformist aspiring to live a hedonistic lifestyle. I'm kind. I'm respectful. I'm considerate and intuitive. I'm INFJ-T. An empath and an active listener. I'm self reflective. I'm a critical thinker, a non-drinker, a procrastinator and an over-eater. I'm into good morals, ethics and communication. I have a broad and complex sense of self. I'm a sensitive soul and I'm somewhat of an anxious introvert. I also have a silly sense of humour. I get fired up about social injustice. I don't fit in. I never did but nowadays I'm not sure I want to. I'm the quiet one but that's mostly because my head is often busy thinking big thoughts that I probably shouldn't say out loud. I write them down so that I don't have to. I'm not great in large crowds or even big groups really. I cope just fine but feel overwhelmed and need lots of time afterwards to retreat to my safe place. I do like seeing new places and doing fun things with nice people though. I'm not into ONS. Trust and understanding builds over time. I'm not looking to third wheel with a pre-existing couple. Tried it and it was nothing but a trainwreck. I'm not interested in becoming a parent. I'm happily child free and I have no maternal instincts. I've been hurt in life and in love. Such is part of this human existence. I've been treated badly but I have too much love to give to let it go to waste. So I refuse to build up a stupid, reactionary, cold, stoney wall. Instead I am committed to self improvement and learning from mistakes. When I feel close to someone, I like to be cuddly, tactile and affectionate. I like talking and bonding and developing real, authentic, fulfilling connections. I like sharing experiences and making happy memories together. I'm kinky. I am in to BDSM. I identify as submissive. I'm most comfortable around people who understand this as a real, authentic part of me. People who understand it's about so much more than sex. I've always gravitated towards power exchange relationship models. I'm experienced in kink but not nearly as advanced as I'd hoped by now. My desires are still largely unexplored and I would like to change that. Broadly speaking I'm attracted to maturity, self confidence and emotional availability. I like having someone to be silly with and to relax with. I like putting the world to rights. I like being in the company of trustworthy people I can comfortably be *** with and share my thoughts and feelings with and vice versa. I like it when people feel they can talk openly and honestly with me too. In an age where technology is ruling over our lives, I'm keen to move swiftly along from hollow, online chat to real world, face to face socialisation. No face pic because work, family and well, you know... because... the internet... Thanks for reading! Fetlife: floating-feather
Female (37) Darlington, Durham
looking for dominant master I'm a service submissive/slave wants constant *** play and *** wants to meet a dominant willing to train and can help guide me in this lifestyle want a dominant man who has experience training submissives want to be used by my master regularly for his gratification I'm always horny and wanting sex it is a curse enjoys playing with men and women loves group activitie
Female (27) Darlington, Durham
I’m a 31yo female submissive looking for a Dom. Into a lot of things list is quite long so if you would like to know just message me. A few of these include: ropeplay, being controlled, being a brat… sometimes xx
Female (31) Melplash, Durham
I don’t really know what to put here without sounding cringe or weird lol ? in other words I’m probably the most brattiest girl you will ever meet. I’m a tattoo addict and I plan to get so many more- I just love ***. I’m quite hard to make obedient as I like to do what I want when I want lol.
Female (21) Darlington, Durham
I am a big fan of the world of kink, bdsm and *** in particular. looking to chat to like minded people and learn more. I am in a relationship and very happy so not looking for anything but friendship. So no I will not DM you, so don't ask!!
Female (39) Durham, Durham
Hey there! Please don't bounce into my DM's with a thousand word essay on scenarios or what you would do to me because I ain't got time to read all that. That also goes for random genital pictures, the dreaded "How's u?" and any kind of two word greeting. Anyway, about me. I am 22 and chronically ill with a neurological condition which impacts my day to day life. I have a long history of trauma, which means that I am wary and anxious, which means I'm looking for an experienced Dom, male or female around the Durham area, north east area. Each potential Dom will be vetted, and nothing will be rushed into and communication is PARAMOUNT. I can't stress that enough. looking at around 22-30 but may look into someone that is older if they peak my interest :) thank you for reading :)
Female (23) Rousdon, Durham
20 Looking for NSA, probably mostly online because I work a lot but if you’re nearby then definitely chance to meet I delete this app often when the notifications become overwhelming but I will always come back :)
Female (21) Wear Valley, Durham
Hey, I’m new to the kinky scene lol, and looking to chat to like-minded people and hopefully try new things. I’m submissive so would be nice to explore that side of things and also have fun lol.
Female (35) Teesdale, Durham

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