Find kinky women in Durham

I identify as a lifestyle submissive who thrives in a structured dynamic, both in and out of the bedroom. While some may label me as a brat, I prefer not to use that term. I’m opinionated and appreciate a mind challenge. I’m looking for experienced Doms who value trust, respect, and communication as foundational elements. Daddy or Master dynamics are hard limits No interest in NSA, ONS, or those in relationships. Inappropriate approaches and sexual expectations are hard limits. Connection only in those serious about meaningful dynamics
Female (39) Up Sydling, Durham
I'm still sort of new to BDSM so I'm still learning. me and my housemate have a friend's with benefits arrangement and he is my temporary Dom. I have done some pet play and really enjoyed it and want to explore more. I have slept in a cage, ate out of Dog bowls, done a little impact play and bondage with a flogger, paddle and cuffs but would love to try more. I am also a little and would love to find a daddy to explore DDLG with. my little age is 4. I don't have a lot of things for this. I do wear nappies though and have a few soft toys and colouring books. I can be very shy but I always try my best. my limits are ***, ***s, ***, knives, anything to do with my weight, needles, vomit and breathe play.
Female (36) Wear Valley, Durham
Hello there I am bi vers open minded to kinks and sex I am in a open relationship found my lad off hear we are looking to meet mainly women or a couple but wouldn't mind meeting a woman bye self to one on one if you wouldn't mind my lad watching or recoding the fun hehe I can be quiet naughty dirty and kinky ? x yes lads can talk to me might not get a meet depends how I feel and my lad to he is bi to so lads will have him there when we have fun x
Female (41) Melbury Bubb, Durham
If you wouldn't walk up to me in public, a cafe or bar, and say what you are thinking of messaging me, then don't send it. I'm a human, not a kink dispenser. - I do not consent to receiving unsolicited sexual images via private message. - I do not consent to you pushing your fantasies on me via my photos or private message. Queer, alternative demi/sapiosexual kinkster. I am looking to make new friends and connections. Switch for the right people. Very affectionate, and once you're part of my inner circle, I will protect and care for you fiercely. Lover of forehead kisses and impact play in equal measure.
Female (34) Wear Valley, Durham
Belle a few things about me: ✨️ I'm a Submissive, I don't enjoy being in the Dom Role ✨️I'm a ballroom & Latin Dance teacher and dancer. ✨️I'm a writer and author. ✨️I work nights so I'm not always able to reply to messages. ✨️My favourite colour is whatever silky nightdress colour I'm wearing. ✨️I only wear lace lingerie. ✨️I have cats, but I'm a Dog person.
Female (33) Durham, Durham
I am a 27 yo horny single girl and I am looking for someone who can fuck me properly with no strings attached, I love it rough and I have no limits!
Female (27) Chester-le-Street, Durham
Im Jasper, I’m a polyamorous bi woman, currently with three asexual partners, looking for someone/people to help with the needs they can’t fill, I’m relatively new to kink and really inexperienced so would love for someone to show me the ropes (pun intended)
Female (18) Durham, Durham
A little bit about me, my parents are Portuguese but I was born in UK. Shy at first until I get to know you, can be sometimes cheeky, Leo, brown hair, brown eyes, single mum, kind hearted. Looking to make friends and if maybe have some fun but genuine just making friends to hangout with..
Female (27) Melbury Bubb, Durham
, ? In some way which I don’t understand, I discovered an interest in thin elderly/old/mature men....It was weird/embarrassing to realize, but since childhood, for some unknown reason, I've liked mature/elderly men...(not everyone in my environment, of course, but just like one of oddities of my interests). Unfortunately, there is not enough content on the internet with thin/slender elderly/old/mature/mature men, but in my opinion, such bodies look interesting and attractive in their own way (disclaimer) I'm not from the US, and not from an english-speaking country, so I won't be able to meet with anyone, so... yeah, I'm probably here just for the sake of communication, so don't waste your time chatting contact me if you plan to meet in person. I'm also open in/for(?) communication with other different users. Moreover, If you want, you also may tell me about your profession (cause, I'm looking for a job now, so I'm interested in hearing about your work and work experience)/hobbies/fetishes/pets/shameful incidents in your life/family/favorite books/movies/actors. Well, in conclusion, I'd say that I'm attracted to people who work as teachers/professors, educators/and etc. (but it's just a little addition). Gash, and I seriously believe that Maya Hawke is the most beautiful woman in the world! love girls like her......❤‍🩹
Female (19) Highsteads, Durham
Hi everyone! I'm NEW to Fet but not new to the BDSM, kinky sex scene.. I've always been interested in it from a young age. I'm very open minded. X . Please don't message if you are under 30.. Nothing personal I just dont date people younger than me. . If you live more than 100+ miles away please dont message as the chance of meeting up etc is slim. Thanks for checking out my profile.. Looking for.. . Older gentleman . Sexy woman . Kinky couple I'm a submissive, who likes been tied up, spanked, punished and dominated etc.. But it doesn't mean I don't like to occasionally take control. I'll be your"baby girl" if you'll be my "daddy" Ill be your "baby girl" if you'll be my "bitch" Send me a message #Let'sRockNRoll I will respond to messages when I can.. Apologies if it's not straight away!.. But I will get back to you! I am a genuine young lady looking to meet NEW people and to have a good time. X
Female (33) Durham, Durham
Hey, I’m new to the kinky scene lol, and looking to chat to like-minded people and hopefully try new things. I’m submissive so would be nice to explore that side of things and also have fun lol.
Female (35) Teesdale, Durham
I am a strict but fair Dommè who will push you to the edge of your limits but not push you over them.I understand that trust is earned but I will punish you when you need it and reward you when deserve it.I always insist on a safe word which is usually green to go yellow to slow down or talk about it and red to stop completely.If you have your own that's fine we can discuss this Rules 1 Always call me Mistress or if a little Mommy 2 Your not allowed to touch yourself without permission 3 Always show respect 4 Always look presentable 5 Always say hello on morning and good night on a night before you go to bed. If you think you can follow my rules please send me a message.
Female (37) Wear Valley, Durham
I am a big fan of the world of kink, bdsm and *** in particular. looking to chat to like minded people. I am not looking for anything but friendship.
Female (39) Durham, Durham
I'm looking to date, make connections and have some fun. Kinks Licking, kissing, biting Spanking/slapping Rope play Breath play Shaving/depilation Water sports Ice play Wax play Anal/***al Face fucking CNC Pegging Please only message if you are able to hold a conversation, as I need mental stimulation before I can even consider moving forward. In the vanilla world I'm studying towards a masters degree in creative writing and I volunteer at a mental health centre/charity. I'm only interested in authenticity and honesty and have no time for games.
Female (42) Durham, Durham
I’m a 31yo female submissive looking for a Dom. Into a lot of things list is quite long so if you would like to know just message me. A few of these include: ropeplay, being controlled, being a brat… sometimes xx
Female (31) Melplash, Durham
I don’t really know what to put here without sounding cringe or weird lol ? in other words I’m probably the most brattiest girl you will ever meet. I’m a tattoo addict and I plan to get so many more- I just love ***. I’m quite hard to make obedient as I like to do what I want when I want lol.
Female (20) Darlington, Durham
• Lil Scottish masochist. • Happily partnered, we are not looking for anyone to join us. • Living together in a 24/7 dynamic • Here to make friends, chat to existing friends and learn more about the world of kink. • Please don’t send propositions or messages to tell me what you’d do, this is massively disrespectful to both me and my Dom. Not everyone is here to date!
Female (33) Melcombe Horsey, Durham
the bdsm scene, looking for want a person of interest or fit round my days off to be more permanent friends and benefits no relationship? I don’t drive willing to social meets on first time NO DICK PICS Ideally people close by or within 30 min I’m a bit of a tomboy I have a very busy life. I work shifts if you can work around my free time I’m available normally you don’t have a lot of.
Female (48) Darlington, Durham
I'm very new to actively exploring this side of my life and due to a whole list of reasons I will be very private about it. I'm finding out new things I like and I'm not comfortable with and if that is too much for no strings attached I get it.
Female (31) Kittwhistle, Durham
Switch from Sheffield! Currently living in Durham. I have a strong sub-lean but I'm happy to gentle dom for the right lady :D Enjoyer of books, player of games, student of history... not sure what else to put 😅
Female (20) Durham, Durham
20 Looking for NSA, probably mostly online because I work a lot but if you’re nearby then definitely chance to meet I delete this app often when the notifications become overwhelming but I will always come back :)
Female (20) Wear Valley, Durham
I am in a Dom and Sub relationship and I am the Dom that setting my Sub up for dates and pictures I am useing this account but all information is about my sub
Female (19) Loscombe, Durham
Hey ☺️ I’m a major geek and love any time of sci-fi movies/books. I’m massively into marvel comics and movies. My favourite book has got to be Harry Potter. When I’m in little space I love to colour, read, play games, watch cartoons and be outside :) I don’t really no what else to say tbh I don’t really talk about myself so anything else you want to know just ask. I’m looking for a caregiver or play partner
Female (30) Nether Cerne, Durham
looking for dominant master I'm a service submissive/slave wants constant *** play and *** wants to meet a dominant willing to train and can help guide me in this lifestyle want a dominant man who has experience training submissives want to be used by my master regularly for his gratification I'm always horny and wanting sex it is a curse enjoys playing with men and women loves group activitie
Female (26) Darlington, Durham

New members in Durham

I'm still sort of new to BDSM so I'm still learning. me and my housemate have a friend's with benefits arrangement and he is my temporary Dom. I have done some pet play and really enjoyed it and want to explore more. I have slept in a cage, ate out of Dog bowls, done a little impact play and bondage with a flogger, paddle and cuffs but would love to try more. I am also a little and would love to find a daddy to explore DDLG with. my little age is 4. I don't have a lot of things for this. I do wear nappies though and have a few soft toys and colouring books. I can be very shy but I always try my best. my limits are ***, ***s, ***, knives, anything to do with my weight, needles, vomit and breathe play.
Female (36) Wear Valley, Durham
I am a 27 yo horny single girl and I am looking for someone who can fuck me properly with no strings attached, I love it rough and I have no limits!
Female (27) Chester-le-Street, Durham
Im Jasper, I’m a polyamorous bi woman, currently with three asexual partners, looking for someone/people to help with the needs they can’t fill, I’m relatively new to kink and really inexperienced so would love for someone to show me the ropes (pun intended)
Female (18) Durham, Durham
A little bit about me, my parents are Portuguese but I was born in UK. Shy at first until I get to know you, can be sometimes cheeky, Leo, brown hair, brown eyes, single mum, kind hearted. Looking to make friends and if maybe have some fun but genuine just making friends to hangout with..
Female (27) Melbury Bubb, Durham
, ? In some way which I don’t understand, I discovered an interest in thin elderly/old/mature men....It was weird/embarrassing to realize, but since childhood, for some unknown reason, I've liked mature/elderly men...(not everyone in my environment, of course, but just like one of oddities of my interests). Unfortunately, there is not enough content on the internet with thin/slender elderly/old/mature/mature men, but in my opinion, such bodies look interesting and attractive in their own way (disclaimer) I'm not from the US, and not from an english-speaking country, so I won't be able to meet with anyone, so... yeah, I'm probably here just for the sake of communication, so don't waste your time chatting contact me if you plan to meet in person. I'm also open in/for(?) communication with other different users. Moreover, If you want, you also may tell me about your profession (cause, I'm looking for a job now, so I'm interested in hearing about your work and work experience)/hobbies/fetishes/pets/shameful incidents in your life/family/favorite books/movies/actors. Well, in conclusion, I'd say that I'm attracted to people who work as teachers/professors, educators/and etc. (but it's just a little addition). Gash, and I seriously believe that Maya Hawke is the most beautiful woman in the world! love girls like her......❤‍🩹
Female (19) Highsteads, Durham
I identify as a lifestyle submissive who thrives in a structured dynamic, both in and out of the bedroom. While some may label me as a brat, I prefer not to use that term. I’m opinionated and appreciate a mind challenge. I’m looking for experienced Doms who value trust, respect, and communication as foundational elements. Daddy or Master dynamics are hard limits No interest in NSA, ONS, or those in relationships. Inappropriate approaches and sexual expectations are hard limits. Connection only in those serious about meaningful dynamics
Female (39) Up Sydling, Durham
Belle a few things about me: ✨️ I'm a Submissive, I don't enjoy being in the Dom Role ✨️I'm a ballroom & Latin Dance teacher and dancer. ✨️I'm a writer and author. ✨️I work nights so I'm not always able to reply to messages. ✨️My favourite colour is whatever silky nightdress colour I'm wearing. ✨️I only wear lace lingerie. ✨️I have cats, but I'm a Dog person.
Female (33) Durham, Durham
Hello there I am bi vers open minded to kinks and sex I am in a open relationship found my lad off hear we are looking to meet mainly women or a couple but wouldn't mind meeting a woman bye self to one on one if you wouldn't mind my lad watching or recoding the fun hehe I can be quiet naughty dirty and kinky ? x yes lads can talk to me might not get a meet depends how I feel and my lad to he is bi to so lads will have him there when we have fun x
Female (41) Melbury Bubb, Durham
If you wouldn't walk up to me in public, a cafe or bar, and say what you are thinking of messaging me, then don't send it. I'm a human, not a kink dispenser. - I do not consent to receiving unsolicited sexual images via private message. - I do not consent to you pushing your fantasies on me via my photos or private message. Queer, alternative demi/sapiosexual kinkster. I am looking to make new friends and connections. Switch for the right people. Very affectionate, and once you're part of my inner circle, I will protect and care for you fiercely. Lover of forehead kisses and impact play in equal measure.
Female (34) Wear Valley, Durham
Hi everyone! I'm NEW to Fet but not new to the BDSM, kinky sex scene.. I've always been interested in it from a young age. I'm very open minded. X . Please don't message if you are under 30.. Nothing personal I just dont date people younger than me. . If you live more than 100+ miles away please dont message as the chance of meeting up etc is slim. Thanks for checking out my profile.. Looking for.. . Older gentleman . Sexy woman . Kinky couple I'm a submissive, who likes been tied up, spanked, punished and dominated etc.. But it doesn't mean I don't like to occasionally take control. I'll be your"baby girl" if you'll be my "daddy" Ill be your "baby girl" if you'll be my "bitch" Send me a message #Let'sRockNRoll I will respond to messages when I can.. Apologies if it's not straight away!.. But I will get back to you! I am a genuine young lady looking to meet NEW people and to have a good time. X
Female (33) Durham, Durham
Switch from Sheffield! Currently living in Durham. I have a strong sub-lean but I'm happy to gentle dom for the right lady :D Enjoyer of books, player of games, student of history... not sure what else to put 😅
Female (20) Durham, Durham
I'm looking to date, make connections and have some fun. Kinks Licking, kissing, biting Spanking/slapping Rope play Breath play Shaving/depilation Water sports Ice play Wax play Anal/***al Face fucking CNC Pegging Please only message if you are able to hold a conversation, as I need mental stimulation before I can even consider moving forward. In the vanilla world I'm studying towards a masters degree in creative writing and I volunteer at a mental health centre/charity. I'm only interested in authenticity and honesty and have no time for games.
Female (42) Durham, Durham
I am in a Dom and Sub relationship and I am the Dom that setting my Sub up for dates and pictures I am useing this account but all information is about my sub
Female (19) Loscombe, Durham
I am a strict but fair Dommè who will push you to the edge of your limits but not push you over them.I understand that trust is earned but I will punish you when you need it and reward you when deserve it.I always insist on a safe word which is usually green to go yellow to slow down or talk about it and red to stop completely.If you have your own that's fine we can discuss this Rules 1 Always call me Mistress or if a little Mommy 2 Your not allowed to touch yourself without permission 3 Always show respect 4 Always look presentable 5 Always say hello on morning and good night on a night before you go to bed. If you think you can follow my rules please send me a message.
Female (37) Wear Valley, Durham
Hello. I'm a cis, pan, allistic woman and right now I'm exploring solo-poly life. if you're still reading, here are a bunch more representative words I would use to describe myself... I'm an atheist, a humanist, a socialist and a pacifist. I'm a subtle, non-conformist aspiring to live a hedonistic lifestyle. I'm kind. I'm respectful. I'm considerate and intuitive. I'm INFJ-T. An empath and an active listener. I'm self reflective. I'm a critical thinker, a non-drinker, a procrastinator and an over-eater. I'm into good morals, ethics and communication. I have a broad and complex sense of self. I'm a sensitive soul and I'm somewhat of an anxious introvert. I also have a silly sense of humour. I get fired up about social injustice. I don't fit in. I never did but nowadays I'm not sure I want to. I'm the quiet one but that's mostly because my head is often busy thinking big thoughts that I probably shouldn't say out loud. I write them down so that I don't have to. I'm not great in large crowds or even big groups really. I cope just fine but feel overwhelmed and need lots of time afterwards to retreat to my safe place. I do like seeing new places and doing fun things with nice people though. I'm not into ONS. Trust and understanding builds over time. I'm not looking to third wheel with a pre-existing couple. Tried it and it was nothing but a trainwreck. I'm not interested in becoming a parent. I'm happily child free and I have no maternal instincts. I've been hurt in life and in love. Such is part of this human existence. I've been treated badly but I have too much love to give to let it go to waste. So I refuse to build up a stupid, reactionary, cold, stoney wall. Instead I am committed to self improvement and learning from mistakes. When I feel close to someone, I like to be cuddly, tactile and affectionate. I like talking and bonding and developing real, authentic, fulfilling connections. I like sharing experiences and making happy memories together. I'm kinky. I am in to BDSM. I identify as submissive. I'm most comfortable around people who understand this as a real, authentic part of me. People who understand it's about so much more than sex. I've always gravitated towards power exchange relationship models. I'm experienced in kink but not nearly as advanced as I'd hoped by now. My desires are still largely unexplored and I would like to change that. Broadly speaking I'm attracted to maturity, self confidence and emotional availability. I like having someone to be silly with and to relax with. I like putting the world to rights. I like being in the company of trustworthy people I can comfortably be *** with and share my thoughts and feelings with and vice versa. I like it when people feel they can talk openly and honestly with me too. In an age where technology is ruling over our lives, I'm keen to move swiftly along from hollow, online chat to real world, face to face socialisation. No face pic because work, family and well, you know... because... the internet... Thanks for reading! Fetlife: floating-feather
Female (36) Darlington, Durham
Hey ☺️ I’m a major geek and love any time of sci-fi movies/books. I’m massively into marvel comics and movies. My favourite book has got to be Harry Potter. When I’m in little space I love to colour, read, play games, watch cartoons and be outside :) I don’t really no what else to say tbh I don’t really talk about myself so anything else you want to know just ask. I’m looking for a caregiver or play partner
Female (30) Nether Cerne, Durham
I'm very new to actively exploring this side of my life and due to a whole list of reasons I will be very private about it. I'm finding out new things I like and I'm not comfortable with and if that is too much for no strings attached I get it.
Female (31) Kittwhistle, Durham
looking for dominant master I'm a service submissive/slave wants constant *** play and *** wants to meet a dominant willing to train and can help guide me in this lifestyle want a dominant man who has experience training submissives want to be used by my master regularly for his gratification I'm always horny and wanting sex it is a curse enjoys playing with men and women loves group activitie
Female (26) Darlington, Durham
I’m a 31yo female submissive looking for a Dom. Into a lot of things list is quite long so if you would like to know just message me. A few of these include: ropeplay, being controlled, being a brat… sometimes xx
Female (31) Melplash, Durham
the bdsm scene, looking for want a person of interest or fit round my days off to be more permanent friends and benefits no relationship? I don’t drive willing to social meets on first time NO DICK PICS Ideally people close by or within 30 min I’m a bit of a tomboy I have a very busy life. I work shifts if you can work around my free time I’m available normally you don’t have a lot of.
Female (48) Darlington, Durham
I don’t really know what to put here without sounding cringe or weird lol ? in other words I’m probably the most brattiest girl you will ever meet. I’m a tattoo addict and I plan to get so many more- I just love ***. I’m quite hard to make obedient as I like to do what I want when I want lol.
Female (20) Darlington, Durham
I am a big fan of the world of kink, bdsm and *** in particular. looking to chat to like minded people. I am not looking for anything but friendship.
Female (39) Durham, Durham
Hey there! Please don't bounce into my DM's with a thousand word essay on scenarios or what you would do to me because I ain't got time to read all that. That also goes for random genital pictures, the dreaded "How's u?" and any kind of two word greeting. Anyway, about me. I am 22 and chronically ill with a neurological condition which impacts my day to day life. I have a long history of trauma, which means that I am wary and anxious, which means I'm looking for an experienced Dom, male or female around the Durham area, north east area. Each potential Dom will be vetted, and nothing will be rushed into and communication is PARAMOUNT. I can't stress that enough. looking at around 22-30 but may look into someone that is older if they peak my interest :) thank you for reading :)
Female (23) Rousdon, Durham
20 Looking for NSA, probably mostly online because I work a lot but if you’re nearby then definitely chance to meet I delete this app often when the notifications become overwhelming but I will always come back :)
Female (20) Wear Valley, Durham

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