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Hey fellow kinkster , If you're curious and landed your finger on my profile then you will find , Im friendly ,chatty and imaginative , I try to answer messages if they are polite , though if it's not immediately im not ignoring you probably just drowning in them lol (well unless you've been rude and really deserve to be ignored) I'm a creative and playful creature, so I'm often cheeky and sarcastic with a dirty sense of humour, I have a filthy mind and I'm very honest and open , there are too many things I like to list them all but I think that if you can hold a conversation that's a good start, so message me if your still curious and want to chat ...
Sadly still not well enough - taking a rest for a bit longer x I am a deeply romantic and feminine, submissive woman, seeking a strong yet nurturing Dominant man who understands the beauty of power and devotion. My submission is an innate part of who I am, a gift that I offer only to the right man who knows how to cherish, guide, and claim it. For me, submission is about trust, surrender, and deep emotional connection. I long to kneel before a man whose strength makes me feel safe, whose presence makes my heart race, and whose mind captivates me as much as his touch. Sex starts in the mind, and I crave the kind of chemistry that lingers long after the moment has passed. Outside of the bedroom, I am a passionate, affectionate, and devoted partner. I find joy in caring for my Dominant, making his world more beautiful, and creating a life filled with sensuality and warmth. I have a love for poetry, music, food, culture, nature, and deep conversation. I am drawn to elegance and beauty in all its forms—whether it’s wearing delicate lingerie beneath my dress, preparing a nourishing meal, or simply curling up at my Dominant’s feet, knowing I am exactly where I belong. Nature-loving, adventure-seeking, and hopelessly romantic! You’ll find me soaking up sunrises, chasing sunsets, and stargazing whenever possible. Passionate about herbalism, plants, and all things nutrition and biohacking—I’m always exploring ways to live a vibrant, healthy life. Cooking up something delicious is my love language, and long walks in nature fuel my soul. Let’s share deep conversations, spontaneous adventures, and maybe a cup of herbal tea under the stars. What I’m Looking For: I seek a mature, intelligent, and confident Dominant man who values not just obedience but devotion, connection, and passion. Someone who enjoys taking his time to build something real—who understands that a D/s dynamic is not just about rules, but about trust, desire, and an unshakable bond. I desire a Dominant who is as invested in my pleasure, well-being, and growth as I am in his. A man who knows the power of gentle dominance, who can be both firm and affectionate, guiding me while keeping me safe in his world. I am monogamous and looking for a long-term relationship—not casual encounters. I have no interest in casual hook-ups, one-night stands, or fleeting encounters. I seek something far more intense, meaningful, and enduring. If you’re here for a quick thrill, keep scrolling—I belong to something deeper. I also navigate some health challenges, which have shaped me into someone incredibly resilient, empathetic, and mindful of self-care. This has deepened my appreciation for a healthy lifestyle, balance, and emotional connection—things I would love to share with the right partner. While my health requires some care and understanding, it does not define me; it simply means I value a kind and patient Dominant who embraces both my strengths and my vulnerabilities. If this speaks to you, and you are the kind of man who desires a sensual, devoted, and feminine submissive, then perhaps we were meant to find each other. Find me. x
Female (50) Eastbourne, East Sussex
Hi! I'm new to the world of fetish and kink, so be gentle, although not too gentle! Although I think it's always been something that's intrigued me, I'm diving in and loving what I'm learning so far! I'm mostly interested in women and couples as this is the side of me I'm now exploring. I don't want anything serious, online fun is enough, sharing pics (albeit I will need to grow my own portfolio! Lol) and fantasies, tips and suggestions. I'm not interested in men messaging me, as I can find that in the standard routes and it's not want I want from being here. Thanks for reading and I hope to hear from some of you soon xxx
hi there I'm a petite blonde with a big personality, I like to laugh and make people laugh. can be quite naughty when I'm in the mood ? tattoos kind of a must!! please ? more of a Dom ...
Recently single, looking for someone to have a giggle with and explore with.. both in and out of the bedroom. I love to please and get just as much pleasure from giving as I do receiving. want to chat with me... then give me something interesting to go from in an opening message.. tell me what you'd do to me, your biggest kink or best sex story ?
Female (32) Amberstone, East Sussex
Hey I’m Lu and I'm a huge petrol head that loves going on drives and exploring new places and countries. At the moment I spend most of my free time in the gym or finding new peaceful places to read spicy books ; I'm looking for someone who I can explore the world of kink with as I’m new to the scene. Bonus points if you love cars and tattoos as much as I do :)
Me and my Husband have great fun learning what we like. one day we would like to add a third in bedroom but not there yet still learning. I am sub or daddy's little.
Female (40) Eastbourne, East Sussex
Thanks for visiting my page. Edit December 2022; In the Before Times I was very much a heavy masochist, very big on rope play, choking and anything at all to so with knives. Since then my own body won't allow me to take on those kinds of demanding challenges. I can't run events right now - I hope you weren't holding your breath for a R.A.C.K event any time soon! For now I'm mostly just chilling out and letting my body have the rest it needs. I'm not actively looking for a partner, I'm limited on how much I can physically offer someone. But if I met someone I liked who wanted a little disabled unicorn kitty to gently pet occasionally then I wouldn't rule it out either. I have my amazing and beautiful best friends/soulmates Lucy & Martin who are a major part of my life, love and happiness ❤️ Keep kinky, healthy and happy. Much love to you all ? Old profile; I'm Polyamorous, it's very important to me and I will not date anyone monogamous or who is in a monogamous relationship. I am always happy to make friends, you can probably find me in Fetish.com's chat room "The Lobby" If you don't have a face pic, I probably won't respond, I also filter messages by age and verification. I'm 4ft 11" Kink is a big part of my life but being a Mumma will always come first. My son is my world, nothing and no one will ever change that. If I had to label myself, it would be 'sadomasochist' but I'm so much more than that; A little bit little A little bit kitten A little bit unicorn A fair amount Sadist A hell of a lot Masochist All sorts of FUN! I'm not looking for a submissive. Thanks. Take care, be kinky!
hey :) Im looking for a domme Im from Brighton England, I’m okay with hookups or a relationship if it feels right! Ive popped my bdsm test in my photos xx ️WOMEN ONLY PLEASE️
Bit geeky in the day to day, but love music and critters and collecting bones and skulls. Open to friends right now, conversation and stimulation before anything physical. Not seeking
Hey! I’m new here and would love to be shown the ropes a little. I would love to get to know some likeminded kinky people and see what happens🥰 Very much bi and would love some more experiences with girls (and guys!)
Goddess seeking devotion. looking for a submissive to serve me and worship my feet, act as my foot stool, clean, run errands for me and generally spoil me. I will make you into the ideal man- one who knows his place and who understands women are the gateway to heaven! I am witty, playful and kind and prefer older men who are experienced in service.. Please do not be offended if I do not reply to you, I have a lot of interest and am very busy. I also won’t be interested if you are under 30.
Tall, tatted, neurodivergent, spicy kinda gal. Certainly not sweet and innocent 😇 so looking for someone who can match my freak. Relatively new to the kink scene but always down to explore. Restarting here... kinda shit on these apps
Female (27) Eastbourne, East Sussex
I'm a fun loving gal who is looking for a long term relationship ultimately. Happy to get to know men and women as I'm bi, but not interested in casual hookups. If you like sex, *** and rock n' roll slide into my DMs pretty please. I'd ideally like someone fairly local who enjoys taking the lead. I'm mostly sub but can be a switch. I love yoga, books, film and going for nice meals.
Artist by day, kinky, submissive insomniac by night ✨ I always love hearing about other people’s kinks, and sometimes I discover a new one for myself. Other things I can offer you; the latest news on cryptid conspiracy theories & occasional mushroom identification ?
Crave subby brat fun with right Dom. Own me, collar me, tease me. the pleasure is yours... But. I take no shit. I'm a strong experienced player - and wheelchair user. That bother you? Jog right on. Prejudice of any kind wastes my energy. Pleased to answer sensible questions regarding my disability. Yes, I've had a lot of sex, in its multitude of expression.
Female (55) Hastings, East Sussex
🙏🏽 Break the ice showing the right emoji (described bellow) and if no Pics, share a CURRENT pic of your face, close enough, with good light, where I can see your eyes, hair/bald and smile. . Don't talk to me if you are: -25 or +45 Just visiting UK Living w/ family. Living +2.5h away from Lewes. Looking for pics exchange Looking for online fun only Looking for a sub/slave Don't want to have a videocall bf meeting up . ******************* My KINK side: ******************* 💉³ & STIs regularly checked. Hope u too. . 🚬 &/or snore 😴 like no one else business? We might not be compatible for 💋 & 🛌 together . 💋 P R I M A L 👂🏼👃🏼👀 👐🏽 SENSES, KISSES &... TICKLES !!! Being tamed, spanking, neck biting.. Ask 4 more.. . Exploring my femdom side 🤫 . Looking for ENM primary partner, but also open to find friends alike in here, or who knows? 2 handsome bi men interested in sharing... . ******************* My VANILLA side: ******************* 🧠 Psychology student + freelance 💬 🇪🇦🇬🇧🇮🇹 Dog lover 🐕 Social drinker🍷 Neurospicy & a bit Demisexual. No kids & fine like this. Agnostic, ecofeminist & lefty ideas 🍉 . 🍕🍝 or 🍱🍜🍣 Vegan-ish (still eating 🍳) NO spicy food. I pay 4 my own 🍽 & ☕️ plus can eat more than u think! . 🧗‍♀️ Boulder 5c/6a 🚴🏽‍♀️ Love fields & forests w/ rivers 🧘🏽‍♀️ Do u take care of your mind + body like me? . 🎭🎫 or 🍿🎥 Stand-ups, thrillers... What else could we watch together? . 🎱🎳 or ♣️🎲🕹 almost geek. Own any card/board games? . 💃🏽🎵 Live music fan! ½ Party *** + great dancer. Blues, Rock, Latino, Electronic, but love any kind. Send me bangers or take me to dance! .
Female (34) Lewes, East Sussex
I went to a privet school wen i was younger i got put down a drak nasty path i never been in a proper lovely relationship or never cum never had good sex alth im a working gal i would love to explore my Kiki self into the darkness of me
hi I’m new to this, I’m looking for friendship, possible relationship, going on nights out, love music and dancing, love walking my dog, fresh flowers, nights away, date nights, holidays, cuddles and kisses, having a few cheeky drinks, I’m a bit wild at times, can anybody tame me, lol 😂
Female (57) Hastings, East Sussex
Super bubbly and easy going. Cheeky and flirty so make sure you like abit of banter! 👌 Please if you message me make sure it’s more than ‘hi’ 😂 I’m no newbie so no silly people in a fantasy world please! Couples & doms welcome I thrive of a cheeky, confident and classy individual that knows his/her own mind. NO doormats welcome!!! I’m all about the ‘good girl I know your struggling, but your going to take more for me’ vibe
Curious poly woman looking to explore kink. I appreciate people getting to know me first, I'm not an object. No play on first dates
Female (26) Lewes, East Sussex
I’m a switcher , but needing a Dom .Connection is vital for me. I’m a complex person so tolerance and patience is needed with the right person. Once you understand how I tick then you would have all of me. Must be over 6ft - yes I have a thing for tall men and yes on occasions I like to wear heels….. I’m 5-10 . Looking for something on permanent Dom/sub . Not into NSA,hookups or ONS. Nor cyber . If your a time waster, play friend , couples I am not interested. Do ask me anything.
⛓Sub | Masochist | Rope Bunny | Impact play | Sense Deprivation | Events. vanilla insta: @thetechiedolan kink insta: @IAm.Dolan **I DON’T do online only and DON’T do long distance dynamics, I’ve tried previously and it doesn’t work for me because I enjoy actual human touch. Sorry!** **Desires and Fantasies** would love to go to more events and do more public scenes at these events! Just want to throw out there that I live an ENM (ethically non-monogamous) lifestyle, I respect if you’re monogamous so please respect my views. I’m not forcing my views upon anyone and NO I will not change my views for you even if you were my “ideal of perfect”. I’m happy loved and cared for by a LT partner/Dynamic as well as other play/event partners in my life. Please feel free to message me to learn / educate yourself, I’m happy to answer questions that I deem not too personal but don’t take this an an opportunity to *** your monogamous views upon me. Thanks you filthy heathens! ✨⛓
Female (29) Lewes, East Sussex

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Sadly still not well enough - taking a rest for a bit longer x I am a deeply romantic and feminine, submissive woman, seeking a strong yet nurturing Dominant man who understands the beauty of power and devotion. My submission is an innate part of who I am, a gift that I offer only to the right man who knows how to cherish, guide, and claim it. For me, submission is about trust, surrender, and deep emotional connection. I long to kneel before a man whose strength makes me feel safe, whose presence makes my heart race, and whose mind captivates me as much as his touch. Sex starts in the mind, and I crave the kind of chemistry that lingers long after the moment has passed. Outside of the bedroom, I am a passionate, affectionate, and devoted partner. I find joy in caring for my Dominant, making his world more beautiful, and creating a life filled with sensuality and warmth. I have a love for poetry, music, food, culture, nature, and deep conversation. I am drawn to elegance and beauty in all its forms—whether it’s wearing delicate lingerie beneath my dress, preparing a nourishing meal, or simply curling up at my Dominant’s feet, knowing I am exactly where I belong. Nature-loving, adventure-seeking, and hopelessly romantic! You’ll find me soaking up sunrises, chasing sunsets, and stargazing whenever possible. Passionate about herbalism, plants, and all things nutrition and biohacking—I’m always exploring ways to live a vibrant, healthy life. Cooking up something delicious is my love language, and long walks in nature fuel my soul. Let’s share deep conversations, spontaneous adventures, and maybe a cup of herbal tea under the stars. What I’m Looking For: I seek a mature, intelligent, and confident Dominant man who values not just obedience but devotion, connection, and passion. Someone who enjoys taking his time to build something real—who understands that a D/s dynamic is not just about rules, but about trust, desire, and an unshakable bond. I desire a Dominant who is as invested in my pleasure, well-being, and growth as I am in his. A man who knows the power of gentle dominance, who can be both firm and affectionate, guiding me while keeping me safe in his world. I am monogamous and looking for a long-term relationship—not casual encounters. I have no interest in casual hook-ups, one-night stands, or fleeting encounters. I seek something far more intense, meaningful, and enduring. If you’re here for a quick thrill, keep scrolling—I belong to something deeper. I also navigate some health challenges, which have shaped me into someone incredibly resilient, empathetic, and mindful of self-care. This has deepened my appreciation for a healthy lifestyle, balance, and emotional connection—things I would love to share with the right partner. While my health requires some care and understanding, it does not define me; it simply means I value a kind and patient Dominant who embraces both my strengths and my vulnerabilities. If this speaks to you, and you are the kind of man who desires a sensual, devoted, and feminine submissive, then perhaps we were meant to find each other. Find me. x
Female (50) Eastbourne, East Sussex
Me and my Husband have great fun learning what we like. one day we would like to add a third in bedroom but not there yet still learning. I am sub or daddy's little.
Female (40) Eastbourne, East Sussex
Recently single, looking for someone to have a giggle with and explore with.. both in and out of the bedroom. I love to please and get just as much pleasure from giving as I do receiving. want to chat with me... then give me something interesting to go from in an opening message.. tell me what you'd do to me, your biggest kink or best sex story ?
Female (32) Amberstone, East Sussex
Hey I’m Lu and I'm a huge petrol head that loves going on drives and exploring new places and countries. At the moment I spend most of my free time in the gym or finding new peaceful places to read spicy books ; I'm looking for someone who I can explore the world of kink with as I’m new to the scene. Bonus points if you love cars and tattoos as much as I do :)
hi there I'm a petite blonde with a big personality, I like to laugh and make people laugh. can be quite naughty when I'm in the mood ? tattoos kind of a must!! please ? more of a Dom ...
Hi! I'm new to the world of fetish and kink, so be gentle, although not too gentle! Although I think it's always been something that's intrigued me, I'm diving in and loving what I'm learning so far! I'm mostly interested in women and couples as this is the side of me I'm now exploring. I don't want anything serious, online fun is enough, sharing pics (albeit I will need to grow my own portfolio! Lol) and fantasies, tips and suggestions. I'm not interested in men messaging me, as I can find that in the standard routes and it's not want I want from being here. Thanks for reading and I hope to hear from some of you soon xxx
Hey fellow kinkster , If you're curious and landed your finger on my profile then you will find , Im friendly ,chatty and imaginative , I try to answer messages if they are polite , though if it's not immediately im not ignoring you probably just drowning in them lol (well unless you've been rude and really deserve to be ignored) I'm a creative and playful creature, so I'm often cheeky and sarcastic with a dirty sense of humour, I have a filthy mind and I'm very honest and open , there are too many things I like to list them all but I think that if you can hold a conversation that's a good start, so message me if your still curious and want to chat ...
hey :) Im looking for a domme Im from Brighton England, I’m okay with hookups or a relationship if it feels right! Ive popped my bdsm test in my photos xx ️WOMEN ONLY PLEASE️
good girl, obedient pet 100% sub, no switching! I’m a chatty, silly, chubby bunny. good conversationalist, bad at being in control. heavily tattooed girly girl, into metal, gaming, creative stuff. looking for pals ✨ xoxo
I went to a privet school wen i was younger i got put down a drak nasty path i never been in a proper lovely relationship or never cum never had good sex alth im a working gal i would love to explore my Kiki self into the darkness of me
Tall, tatted, neurodivergent, spicy kinda gal. Certainly not sweet and innocent 😇 so looking for someone who can match my freak. Relatively new to the kink scene but always down to explore. Restarting here... kinda shit on these apps
Female (27) Eastbourne, East Sussex
I am very into dynamics involving ownership, ddlg, cnc, breeding and caregiving also open to switching. Can be very bratty, mostly submissive and enjoy pet play. Message me for instagram if interested x
Hey! I’m new here and would love to be shown the ropes a little. I would love to get to know some likeminded kinky people and see what happens🥰 Very much bi and would love some more experiences with girls (and guys!)
Out-going, confident woman whom can show a shy side every once in a while!. The BDSM test on here couldn’t have me more wrong, I’m happy submitting although I am a very strong minded woman!.
I'm a fun loving gal who is looking for a long term relationship ultimately. Happy to get to know men and women as I'm bi, but not interested in casual hookups. If you like sex, *** and rock n' roll slide into my DMs pretty please. I'd ideally like someone fairly local who enjoys taking the lead. I'm mostly sub but can be a switch. I love yoga, books, film and going for nice meals.
Goddess seeking devotion. looking for a submissive to serve me and worship my feet, act as my foot stool, clean, run errands for me and generally spoil me. I will make you into the ideal man- one who knows his place and who understands women are the gateway to heaven! I am witty, playful and kind and prefer older men who are experienced in service.. Please do not be offended if I do not reply to you, I have a lot of interest and am very busy. I also won’t be interested if you are under 30.
hi I’m new to this, I’m looking for friendship, possible relationship, going on nights out, love music and dancing, love walking my dog, fresh flowers, nights away, date nights, holidays, cuddles and kisses, having a few cheeky drinks, I’m a bit wild at times, can anybody tame me, lol 😂
Female (57) Hastings, East Sussex
Looking for a dom that can guide me (not24/7) I like someone that takes control. I don’t do nudes and cyber unless I’ve met with with u and we have a level of trust. I’m open to trying new things- very experimental Like Being told what to do and obeying instructions Rough and soft Temperature play BDSM (tied up, blindfolded, choking, biting, etc) Like calling u master or sir (or variations of) Soft Anal, Rimming Not a fan of *** (slut, whore, bitch, etc) Hard Daddy/mummy ***, ***
🙏🏽 Break the ice showing the right emoji (described bellow) and if no Pics, share a CURRENT pic of your face, close enough, with good light, where I can see your eyes, hair/bald and smile. . Don't talk to me if you are: -25 or +45 Just visiting UK Living w/ family. Living +2.5h away from Lewes. Looking for pics exchange Looking for online fun only Looking for a sub/slave Don't want to have a videocall bf meeting up . ******************* My KINK side: ******************* 💉³ & STIs regularly checked. Hope u too. . 🚬 &/or snore 😴 like no one else business? We might not be compatible for 💋 & 🛌 together . 💋 P R I M A L 👂🏼👃🏼👀 👐🏽 SENSES, KISSES &... TICKLES !!! Being tamed, spanking, neck biting.. Ask 4 more.. . Exploring my femdom side 🤫 . Looking for ENM primary partner, but also open to find friends alike in here, or who knows? 2 handsome bi men interested in sharing... . ******************* My VANILLA side: ******************* 🧠 Psychology student + freelance 💬 🇪🇦🇬🇧🇮🇹 Dog lover 🐕 Social drinker🍷 Neurospicy & a bit Demisexual. No kids & fine like this. Agnostic, ecofeminist & lefty ideas 🍉 . 🍕🍝 or 🍱🍜🍣 Vegan-ish (still eating 🍳) NO spicy food. I pay 4 my own 🍽 & ☕️ plus can eat more than u think! . 🧗‍♀️ Boulder 5c/6a 🚴🏽‍♀️ Love fields & forests w/ rivers 🧘🏽‍♀️ Do u take care of your mind + body like me? . 🎭🎫 or 🍿🎥 Stand-ups, thrillers... What else could we watch together? . 🎱🎳 or ♣️🎲🕹 almost geek. Own any card/board games? . 💃🏽🎵 Live music fan! ½ Party *** + great dancer. Blues, Rock, Latino, Electronic, but love any kind. Send me bangers or take me to dance! .
Female (34) Lewes, East Sussex
Crave subby brat fun with right Dom. Own me, collar me, tease me. the pleasure is yours... But. I take no shit. I'm a strong experienced player - and wheelchair user. That bother you? Jog right on. Prejudice of any kind wastes my energy. Pleased to answer sensible questions regarding my disability. Yes, I've had a lot of sex, in its multitude of expression.
Female (55) Hastings, East Sussex
I used to have an account before but deleted it whilst I had a break. I’m now starting fresh on a new account so you may recognise me from my last account Not looking for anything specific really, just looking to chat to some dominant people and see where it goes. I have quite a bit of experience now and enjoy chatting about all things bdsm. I have pictures that show my face and body in my private photos which I’m happy to share if requested
Bit geeky in the day to day, but love music and critters and collecting bones and skulls. Open to friends right now, conversation and stimulation before anything physical. Not seeking
Newly based in Brighton. Looking for people to have fun times with, and to show me what's good in this brilliant city. Enjoy being tamed and praised when I deserve it 😈 I can also be switchy and enjoy giving comfort. I'm a lover of countryside hiking, city cycling, and a bit of partying. I'm 5'11, so let's get that fact over and done with :)
Curious poly woman looking to explore kink. I appreciate people getting to know me first, I'm not an object. No play on first dates
Female (26) Lewes, East Sussex

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