I'm 68 and for most of my adult life I've had a fetish for smart clothes, especially white shirts, ties and black trousers. I also have a fetish for school shorts and knee socks. I am also a crossdresser and enjoy wearing tight pencil skirts with buttons on them along with a white shirt and tie and tights. Along with these longstanding fetishes, I am also into spanking, mainly as a bottom but could swap places and would like someone to spank me with no other commitment or sex. My favourite implements are the belt and slipper. I'm married to a vanilla wife whom I love but she has no idea about my fetishes. I live in Essex and don't have my own transport, so would need to meet people reasonably local to me.