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• • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Not seeking - proudly owned by the only man who claimed my soul, earned my trust and has my complete submission. #Daddysgirl • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • BDSM • Submissive • Power Exchange TRUST, Respect, Consent. Into deep connections and exploring the complexities of minds
Female (38) Basildon, Essex
Going to keep this short and sweet, feel free to ask me any questions Looking for someone to have some naughty, kinky fun with, someone dominant who can help me to explore my boundaries I travel for my job so I’m looking for something casual to fit around my work commitments **Desires and Fantasies** Love being tied to a bed, legs spread wide and having my pussy spanked until I’m soaking wet. Then some edge play, I love having to beg and ask permission to cum. Or helping me stretch my tight little pussy. Just an example of one of the many things I like
Female (34) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
A few months out of a D/S relationship, I’m looking to find a connection with a new dom, as a regular sexual partner, who can help me explore my kinks and desires. Please message if you are over 35 / under 60, intelligent & physically fit / well built with a height of around 6ft.
Female (45) Thurrock, Essex
My dominant side is a Mommy/Caregiver side. My submissive side would like to find a caregiver that can give a firm hand where needed. I would love to be collared and owned. My pet side is a Dragon. I'm looking for a connection that isn't purely kink related I'd prefer to take conversations to discord when I feel more comfortable, as I often miss messages here.
Female (37) Harlow, Essex
Petite Professional working in the city. Looking for someone likeminded to spend time and connect with. I am ambitious in my day to day life but looking for a mentor/ partner. My deepest connections have been found via kink. Generally attracted to dominance and drive. Very submissive looking for a partner/ dom.
Female (34) Brentwood, Essex
Always happy to make friends but when talking/ dating someone will NOT cheat, or sexy message. HAPPILY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH/ OWNED BY BLACKHEARTEDBASTARD, AND MY GOTHIC QUEEN!! Pictures will still be posted. Not new in theory but new in practice, eager to learn new things and have new experiences. Into Praise and Creampies. Prefer conversation rather than straight into sex stuff, but once I get going I find it hard to stop. Enjoy; light bondage, light spanking, ice play, collar and leash, and occasionally hickey marks. Interested; wax play and shibari Also I've noticed I go little and pet sometimes but purely non sexually.
Female (23) Colchester, Essex
Hey welcome to my profile So I have been in this life style for around 10 year. I sway more towards being a Domme, but every so often being a sub is a turn on. I am looking for real meets with real guys, if you are looking for more than chatting on here, lets see if we have a connection. My bio's are from real and is about a guy I met awhile ago. All my stories are all true, and gives you an insight on what I enjoy Anyone that does not know how to send a first message and is crued, rude, send dick picks, or demand anything from me (like you know me)or down right wouldn kiss your mam with that mouth I will just block. Im not for you I cnt see "likes" so come say hi. Please read my hard limits as they are important. I have a age limit so anyone under 30 unfortunatley your too young even if you feel you are mature for your age, I have kids around 30's. Im not for you Im not hear to jump into bed with just anyone lets get to know each other. My first will always be a coffee or a drink no sexual touching so if thats what your looking for unfortunatley Im not for you. If I message back and say your too young dnt take it as an insult as its not ment to be, but unfortunatley Im not for you Happy hunting and good luck
Female (52) Basildon, Essex
*away until Mid January* new to bdsm, curious. seem to like the idea of bondage, submission and sex toys. Things I know I like: praise kink restraints brat role play collars (not pet play though) choking single do have a disability. i have an ileostomy bag that stays on 24/7, picture in private gallery x also happy to do non-sexual dates if wanted/ to see if any connection first i do not have access to my phone at work, replies are slower. xx
Female (25) Colchester, Essex
Hey lovelies! I'm a bisexual switch, into feedism, light BDSM, roleplay, pet play, pig play, pegging and loads more Ideally looking for something more long term, something committed where we can explore our fantasies together and play with other people as a unit - I think I'm more demisexual so if you hit me up with sex chat straight away I probably won't reply - people that are fun and intelligent are the most sexy :) I love people of all shapes n sizes, ancient history, embroidery, smoking ? and chaotic fun, message me if you're interested in any of that!
Female (28) Colchester, Essex
Here to explore my sexual desires... Been limited within my sexual wants and needs for far to long and finally giving in to some of my fantasies.... Very chilled person and easy to talk to. (I do not use KIK or Telegram. And do not give out my number.. I use SC & Twitter)
Female (33) Basildon, Essex
5' 9 busty brunette looking for NSA fun with a guy, cuckolding hubby with a bull. **Desires and Fantasies** To meet up with a bull so my sissy husband can watch his Hot Wife get fucked, licked by a real man.
Female (54) Colchester, Essex
I'm a true Masochist at heart, that is looking for a sadist. I just love that feeling of being bruised and beaten. I have past experience of being owned by 2 Dom's but had to end due to distance. I love all forms of impact play, bondage and medical play with needles. I'm not interested in public play, *** or watersports these are my limits. Simply a hard working natural person that will devote time to serving a potential Dom or Master. I am looking for a long term relationship, that will grow and develop over time. Not looking to rush into things with discussion first.
Female (32) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
Average looking single, vegan lady, looking for friendship maybe more. New to this scene, interested in cross dressing males and men in touch with their feminine side.
Female (56) Colchester, Essex
I’m a submissive looking for a dominant male. I am looking to explore my submissive side and how to please a dominant who will teach me, use me and care for me.
Female (35) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
A widow with a dog. Generally quite wholesome and can meet the parents. Ideally looking to explore within a committed relationship. Ideally looking for a life partner who can dom me right. Surprise me, perhaps you can be my plot twist. * Let’s get to know each other in a vanilla context first. Submission comes with trust and emotional availability. Not looking to share. Naturally submissive in the right dynamic. Can be bratty if left hanging. Will bite and scratch. Rope please? Maybe we can try some wax? Make me squirt over and over. Please be filthy but kiss and cuddle after. Tell me I’m a good girl and wake me up the right way. If I’m naughty perhaps you should punish me until I’m sorry? *yes, I am looking for love in all the wrong places. No, I won’t peg you.
Female (35) Colchester, Essex
Hey everyone a little bit about me I am 27 yrs old and I am a little\pup submissive I have been on here a while , looking for someone to be with Dom mainly but I do switch from time to time sometimes I love video games, reading, drawing,watching movies and tv shows, walking on the beach, bowling , mini golf , arcade ect and anything fantasy related and there's nothing I want more than to be snuggled into someone while falling asleep having my hair and back rubbed. I'm mainly into the little space but wanna try get into the pup scene more as well , I'm open to meet people local , to see how it goes , looking for a ddlg or mdlg but open to a mix of stuff I am looking for someone kind, caring,who can be there for me when I need a shoulder to cry on. I have fluid on the brain, autism and a little ADHD, anxiety and depression and back and neck problems and functional neurological disorder but I never let that stop me. My Little age is any where from 1 to 5 sometimes older Pup side is a husky called Sam U can message me on here if u want too , I want to find someone I can connect with and hopefully not just online. Looking for a genuine relationship Fetishes(browse|bulk edit) Into:age play(everything to do with it),breast/nipple play(everything to do with it),collar and lead/leash(everything to do with it),discipline(everything to do with it),***(everything to do with it),masks(everything to do with it),masturbation(everything to do with it),,role play(everything to do with it),,spanking(everything to do with it),vibrators(everything to do with it). Curious about:bondage(everything to do with it).
Female (27) Barking, Essex
Looking to explore and come out of my shell with some much needed guidance! == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Submissive 97% Brat 86% Degradee 84% Rope bunny 80% Slave 72% Masochist 62% Primal (Prey) 62% Vanilla 49% Experimentalist 48% Pet 18% Voyeur 14% Switch 8% Exhibitionist 3% Non-monogamist 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Rigger 0% Ageplayer 0% Brat tamer 0% Degrader 0% Dominant 0% Boy/Girl 0% Master/Mistress 0% Owner 0% Primal (Hunter) 0% Sadist
Female (25) Rochford, Essex
Looking to explore ? I'm extremely uneducated in the field, but I know what I like, what I want and what I definitely don't like. Looking for a teacher ?
Female (30) Basildon, Essex
I should really fill this in but never really know what to write . I'm a 45 year old physically fit female I have always been submissive from and early age but only recently started exploring that part of me for the last 7 years. I've taken this test numerous times and it is forever changing/ evolving depending on my experiences so here's a slight insight ... Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Submissive 100% Rope bunny 97% Brat 90% Degradee 86% Masochist 85% Boy/Girl 80% Primal (Prey) 75% Pet 70% Slave 68% Exhibitionist 55% Ageplayer 52% Voyeur 50% Experimentalist 43% Vanilla 31% Non-monogamist 0% Switch http://bdsmtest.org/r/5G7JykvB **Desires and Fantasies** My desires is to find the perfect play partner/dom it what ever form that takes My fantasies are for ever changing evolving and would rather share / discuss them privately
Female (45) Maldon, Essex
im a 46 year old bisexual submissive who is married to a man who is my daddy and we are looking for another regular dom/master for me to serve occasionally in front of my daddy and we are also looking for another woman for me to play with in front of my daddy or a couple as daddy doesn't play withother people,we also like group sex,gang bangs.we are very open minded and are open to suggestions. **Desires and Fantasies** we have loads of fantasies some are way to kinky to mention
Female (46) Basildon, Essex
Im looking for an old school type Dom who likes protocol and wants to teach and look after his sub. A Dom/mentor who isn’t just going to give up if/ when I say the wrong thing but understand and correct my mistake so I am able to learn and become a better submissive for you. One who is strict and serious, who likes rules, structure and discipline as well as enjoying a bit of fun and playfulness at times when appropriate. (I am apparently still learning where that line is) I want to see and feel your control, your power - I crave and enjoy it! I do like a lot of communication and messages. But understand there are times you can not do this with other commitments likewise that goes for me too. I’m aware a lot of Doms who may message me are in vanilla or D/s dynamics already. I’m totally fine with this and have spoken to many other dynamics during my many years on fet. I will not accept friend requests from random people who do not even send a message first! Or those of you who just want to perv at pics and not even bother to message me at all! I think it’s extremely rude! I don’t like naked pics so if that’s all your after move along
Female (42) Basildon, Essex
Perfectionist who works hard and plays harder. Will say as is. Trust and respect are equal, so no BS or wannabes I like to "play" but especially "tease" those that are locked. Looking at meeting up with like minded people and going to events. One event ticked off a visit to the *** Garden club **Desires and Fantasies** I have a few high heels and 5" pointy boots that always look good when pressed in against the skin. I'm a lover of lingerie, boots and heels. Do like a guy caged. If you are my sub (not that I am wanting any more) I expect you caged. On OF troubleandtease
Female (50) Colchester, Essex
I’m not sure what I’m looking for at the moment, while I figure that out I’m down to chat and see where things go!
Female (21) Castle Point, Essex

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A few months out of a D/S relationship, I’m looking to find a connection with a new dom, as a regular sexual partner, who can help me explore my kinks and desires. Please message if you are over 35 / under 60, intelligent & physically fit / well built with a height of around 6ft.
Female (45) Thurrock, Essex
Petite Professional working in the city. Looking for someone likeminded to spend time and connect with. I am ambitious in my day to day life but looking for a mentor/ partner. My deepest connections have been found via kink. Generally attracted to dominance and drive. Very submissive looking for a partner/ dom.
Female (34) Brentwood, Essex
A widow with a dog. Generally quite wholesome and can meet the parents. Ideally looking to explore within a committed relationship. Ideally looking for a life partner who can dom me right. Surprise me, perhaps you can be my plot twist. * Let’s get to know each other in a vanilla context first. Submission comes with trust and emotional availability. Not looking to share. Naturally submissive in the right dynamic. Can be bratty if left hanging. Will bite and scratch. Rope please? Maybe we can try some wax? Make me squirt over and over. Please be filthy but kiss and cuddle after. Tell me I’m a good girl and wake me up the right way. If I’m naughty perhaps you should punish me until I’m sorry? *yes, I am looking for love in all the wrong places. No, I won’t peg you.
Female (35) Colchester, Essex
*away until Mid January* new to bdsm, curious. seem to like the idea of bondage, submission and sex toys. Things I know I like: praise kink restraints brat role play collars (not pet play though) choking single do have a disability. i have an ileostomy bag that stays on 24/7, picture in private gallery x also happy to do non-sexual dates if wanted/ to see if any connection first i do not have access to my phone at work, replies are slower. xx
Female (25) Colchester, Essex
Im looking for an old school type Dom who likes protocol and wants to teach and look after his sub. A Dom/mentor who isn’t just going to give up if/ when I say the wrong thing but understand and correct my mistake so I am able to learn and become a better submissive for you. One who is strict and serious, who likes rules, structure and discipline as well as enjoying a bit of fun and playfulness at times when appropriate. (I am apparently still learning where that line is) I want to see and feel your control, your power - I crave and enjoy it! I do like a lot of communication and messages. But understand there are times you can not do this with other commitments likewise that goes for me too. I’m aware a lot of Doms who may message me are in vanilla or D/s dynamics already. I’m totally fine with this and have spoken to many other dynamics during my many years on fet. I will not accept friend requests from random people who do not even send a message first! Or those of you who just want to perv at pics and not even bother to message me at all! I think it’s extremely rude! I don’t like naked pics so if that’s all your after move along
Female (42) Basildon, Essex
Average looking single, vegan lady, looking for friendship maybe more. New to this scene, interested in cross dressing males and men in touch with their feminine side.
Female (56) Colchester, Essex
Looking to explore ? I'm extremely uneducated in the field, but I know what I like, what I want and what I definitely don't like. Looking for a teacher ?
Female (30) Basildon, Essex
Always happy to make friends but when talking/ dating someone will NOT cheat, or sexy message. HAPPILY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH/ OWNED BY BLACKHEARTEDBASTARD, AND MY GOTHIC QUEEN!! Pictures will still be posted. Not new in theory but new in practice, eager to learn new things and have new experiences. Into Praise and Creampies. Prefer conversation rather than straight into sex stuff, but once I get going I find it hard to stop. Enjoy; light bondage, light spanking, ice play, collar and leash, and occasionally hickey marks. Interested; wax play and shibari Also I've noticed I go little and pet sometimes but purely non sexually.
Female (23) Colchester, Essex
• • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Not seeking - proudly owned by the only man who claimed my soul, earned my trust and has my complete submission. #Daddysgirl • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • BDSM • Submissive • Power Exchange TRUST, Respect, Consent. Into deep connections and exploring the complexities of minds
Female (38) Basildon, Essex
Here to explore my sexual desires... Been limited within my sexual wants and needs for far to long and finally giving in to some of my fantasies.... Very chilled person and easy to talk to. (I do not use KIK or Telegram. And do not give out my number.. I use SC & Twitter)
Female (33) Basildon, Essex
Hey lovelies! I'm a bisexual switch, into feedism, light BDSM, roleplay, pet play, pig play, pegging and loads more Ideally looking for something more long term, something committed where we can explore our fantasies together and play with other people as a unit - I think I'm more demisexual so if you hit me up with sex chat straight away I probably won't reply - people that are fun and intelligent are the most sexy :) I love people of all shapes n sizes, ancient history, embroidery, smoking ? and chaotic fun, message me if you're interested in any of that!
Female (28) Colchester, Essex
Looking to explore and come out of my shell with some much needed guidance! == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Submissive 97% Brat 86% Degradee 84% Rope bunny 80% Slave 72% Masochist 62% Primal (Prey) 62% Vanilla 49% Experimentalist 48% Pet 18% Voyeur 14% Switch 8% Exhibitionist 3% Non-monogamist 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Rigger 0% Ageplayer 0% Brat tamer 0% Degrader 0% Dominant 0% Boy/Girl 0% Master/Mistress 0% Owner 0% Primal (Hunter) 0% Sadist
Female (25) Rochford, Essex
Hey welcome to my profile So I have been in this life style for around 10 year. I sway more towards being a Domme, but every so often being a sub is a turn on. I am looking for real meets with real guys, if you are looking for more than chatting on here, lets see if we have a connection. My bio's are from real and is about a guy I met awhile ago. All my stories are all true, and gives you an insight on what I enjoy Anyone that does not know how to send a first message and is crued, rude, send dick picks, or demand anything from me (like you know me)or down right wouldn kiss your mam with that mouth I will just block. Im not for you I cnt see "likes" so come say hi. Please read my hard limits as they are important. I have a age limit so anyone under 30 unfortunatley your too young even if you feel you are mature for your age, I have kids around 30's. Im not for you Im not hear to jump into bed with just anyone lets get to know each other. My first will always be a coffee or a drink no sexual touching so if thats what your looking for unfortunatley Im not for you. If I message back and say your too young dnt take it as an insult as its not ment to be, but unfortunatley Im not for you Happy hunting and good luck
Female (52) Basildon, Essex
My dominant side is a Mommy/Caregiver side. My submissive side would like to find a caregiver that can give a firm hand where needed. I would love to be collared and owned. My pet side is a Dragon. I'm looking for a connection that isn't purely kink related I'd prefer to take conversations to discord when I feel more comfortable, as I often miss messages here.
Female (37) Harlow, Essex
Going to keep this short and sweet, feel free to ask me any questions Looking for someone to have some naughty, kinky fun with, someone dominant who can help me to explore my boundaries I travel for my job so I’m looking for something casual to fit around my work commitments **Desires and Fantasies** Love being tied to a bed, legs spread wide and having my pussy spanked until I’m soaking wet. Then some edge play, I love having to beg and ask permission to cum. Or helping me stretch my tight little pussy. Just an example of one of the many things I like
Female (34) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
I'm a true Masochist at heart, that is looking for a sadist. I just love that feeling of being bruised and beaten. I have past experience of being owned by 2 Dom's but had to end due to distance. I love all forms of impact play, bondage and medical play with needles. I'm not interested in public play, *** or watersports these are my limits. Simply a hard working natural person that will devote time to serving a potential Dom or Master. I am looking for a long term relationship, that will grow and develop over time. Not looking to rush into things with discussion first.
Female (32) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
I’m a submissive looking for a dominant male. I am looking to explore my submissive side and how to please a dominant who will teach me, use me and care for me.
Female (35) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
im a 46 year old bisexual submissive who is married to a man who is my daddy and we are looking for another regular dom/master for me to serve occasionally in front of my daddy and we are also looking for another woman for me to play with in front of my daddy or a couple as daddy doesn't play withother people,we also like group sex,gang bangs.we are very open minded and are open to suggestions. **Desires and Fantasies** we have loads of fantasies some are way to kinky to mention
Female (46) Basildon, Essex
Hey everyone a little bit about me I am 27 yrs old and I am a little\pup submissive I have been on here a while , looking for someone to be with Dom mainly but I do switch from time to time sometimes I love video games, reading, drawing,watching movies and tv shows, walking on the beach, bowling , mini golf , arcade ect and anything fantasy related and there's nothing I want more than to be snuggled into someone while falling asleep having my hair and back rubbed. I'm mainly into the little space but wanna try get into the pup scene more as well , I'm open to meet people local , to see how it goes , looking for a ddlg or mdlg but open to a mix of stuff I am looking for someone kind, caring,who can be there for me when I need a shoulder to cry on. I have fluid on the brain, autism and a little ADHD, anxiety and depression and back and neck problems and functional neurological disorder but I never let that stop me. My Little age is any where from 1 to 5 sometimes older Pup side is a husky called Sam U can message me on here if u want too , I want to find someone I can connect with and hopefully not just online. Looking for a genuine relationship Fetishes(browse|bulk edit) Into:age play(everything to do with it),breast/nipple play(everything to do with it),collar and lead/leash(everything to do with it),discipline(everything to do with it),***(everything to do with it),masks(everything to do with it),masturbation(everything to do with it),,role play(everything to do with it),,spanking(everything to do with it),vibrators(everything to do with it). Curious about:bondage(everything to do with it).
Female (27) Barking, Essex
5' 9 busty brunette looking for NSA fun with a guy, cuckolding hubby with a bull. **Desires and Fantasies** To meet up with a bull so my sissy husband can watch his Hot Wife get fucked, licked by a real man.
Female (54) Colchester, Essex
I should really fill this in but never really know what to write . I'm a 45 year old physically fit female I have always been submissive from and early age but only recently started exploring that part of me for the last 7 years. I've taken this test numerous times and it is forever changing/ evolving depending on my experiences so here's a slight insight ... Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Submissive 100% Rope bunny 97% Brat 90% Degradee 86% Masochist 85% Boy/Girl 80% Primal (Prey) 75% Pet 70% Slave 68% Exhibitionist 55% Ageplayer 52% Voyeur 50% Experimentalist 43% Vanilla 31% Non-monogamist 0% Switch http://bdsmtest.org/r/5G7JykvB **Desires and Fantasies** My desires is to find the perfect play partner/dom it what ever form that takes My fantasies are for ever changing evolving and would rather share / discuss them privately
Female (45) Maldon, Essex
Perfectionist who works hard and plays harder. Will say as is. Trust and respect are equal, so no BS or wannabes I like to "play" but especially "tease" those that are locked. Looking at meeting up with like minded people and going to events. One event ticked off a visit to the *** Garden club **Desires and Fantasies** I have a few high heels and 5" pointy boots that always look good when pressed in against the skin. I'm a lover of lingerie, boots and heels. Do like a guy caged. If you are my sub (not that I am wanting any more) I expect you caged. On OF troubleandtease
Female (50) Colchester, Essex
ddlg. exhibition. strangers. age play. being eating out. bisexual. rimming and being rimmed. public. face sitting. pussy examination with gloves. ***. object insertion. glory holes. threesomes, foursomes, etc
Female (22) Colchester, Essex

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