This is an all ages event (18+) where everyone is welcome!
Located at The Borough Hotel bar where they serve a selection of alcohol, tea and biscuits & soft drinks so something for everyone. We are generally located at the back of the bar past the pool table, in the summer months groups will be outside as well - just look for our mascot from our profile picture. As a social event, it is a place to chat with like minded people from all walks of life. There is no play or protocol, just drinks and chat.
Whilst the Borough Hotel does not serve food you're welcome to bring in your own food on the premises. Some of our members like to bring along food to share so if you fancy showing off your cooking or baking skills it would be delicious and appreciated!
There is currently free parking from 18:00 nearby. The venue is ground floor with accessible facilities and a nice beer garden! There are gendered toilet facilities.
Note: You wouldn't think we have to say don't bring fetish kit to a vanilla pub but for reasons we have to make it clear. Don't bring fetish kit to the social! It is not a play event!
Kink meetup etiquette: please respect people's privacy of their personal lives. At kink events whether social or play, people reserve the right to not disclose their name, location, employment etc. If you recognise someone from another sphere of life, DO NOT OUT THEM.
They're at a kink event for the same purpose and interest that you are. Recognising people or commenting on their vanilla world can cause anxiety, stress and shame.
If in doubt, keep it casual and light. Southend Munch has a friendly ethos where everyone's comfort is valued.
Please RSVP so we can get a forecast for table reservations and seating,
We look forward to seeing you there!
Any questions? Please message.