Find kinky women in Hampshire

Into most things, I'm a Submissive Kinkster with a touch of a masochist, whose been kinky my whole life and never done vanilla long term, which means I'm very experienced and have done a fair amount. Please do take the time to read my profile, there are a lot of stories in the questionnaire as well as various posts on different topics and ofc lots of pics. I've done this because I love blogging, a previous Dom got me into it and I found it very liberating and enjoy knowing that I can turn people on with just my words and creative pictures. regarding my kinks, Overall I really enjoy trying new things, keeping things fun and fresh and experimenting with new kinks and ideas. Anal only is a new favourite and into all there is to do with, gaping, rimming etc etc, also like breathplay, impact play is always fun, and the classic bondage too. Really into dirty talking, so please daddy whisper dirty things into my ear! Also really into denial and very much like the mind games. I love it rough and extremely dirty, as well cutie and loving. Basically have few limits and I like to do a variation, I enjoy sex, have a high sex drive and love trying new things, When it comes to my perfect Dom... there are many different types, however I seem to respond well to someone who is authoritarian in making me do what's best for me, but doing it from a good place... I also very much enjoy "topping from the bottom" for example I've pegged, sounded, fisted and even beaten my Dom but only because I was told to and never in a Dominant way, and yet I can still be surprised by who and how I connect with people. And after all this, I work as a senior manager, no kids, live on my own and love my rock/Dance music, bbqs and the beach, I'm also into tenderness, love cuddles and being intimate, I'm very bubbly, easy to get on with, and like holding a decent conversation.
Female (37) Fareham, Hampshire
still learning my place in this fun show.......I do get told often that I have a great submissive face for a Switch 😜
Female (36) Southampton, Hampshire
Hey there Thank you for stopping by my profile. My name is Cherry. i am 34 year old female. Face photos kept private only due to professional boundaries i am happily married. i am not seeking any play partners or play. My only play partner is my husband.
Female (34) Southampton, Hampshire
Hi, I'm wild, a fun, cheeky girl with a kink twist. What I'm looking for is sexy arrogant confidence, an experienced dominant male. I love to please that someone, and i like to be pushed by them. I have found in my recent experiences that i liked things even when at the time ,i hated them. This was because the person inflicting them on me was enjoying it. I have an need urge deep within to be someone's toy, be it *** or sex toy. I have been playing for quite a while, and the things I really love are mental play,impact play, and predicament bondage. what I'm not into is casual or one-offs.
Female (45) Andover, Hampshire
I am not a Domme plus size single sub not new to kink lifestyle but only been on the public scene for 2 years. not looking for an online long distance relationship. trust, communication and respect are hugely important to me. I am looking for somone who is looking for the possibility of long term, I would like a partner in my further exploration of kink, I have lots of friends I play with but something is missing, I would like to find my Dom and partner. I am not poly. I am not looking for an online relationship, I am looking to meet in person. I am not looking to Domme anyone
Female (32) Southampton, Hampshire
I guess I should finally put something here. I’ve been involved in the scene for 15 years both in the states and here in the U.K. I absolutely love my kink community and friends. I do attend local and not so local events and munches. I’m seeking a monogamous D/s relationship that will hopefully last long term. I am submissive but have been known to top at times, if asked nicely and the right connection and energy is there.
Female (51) Portsmouth, Hampshire
I am a professional dominatrix. However don't pretend to know everything. The world of kink is vast and just when you think you have caught up you are surprised. When looking to learn or experiment I offer a free service however I have learnt that most free willing subs lack commitment and can more often than not waste your time. (Maybe there is a surprise few I have yet to meet) I have a lovely stable and often look for others to add for kink or my own curiosity. I am not your conventional mistress as can be mischievous, love spanking and bdsm. I have a lovely little dungeon that is growing everyday. Would love a house elf, a female sub, a dedicated foot devotee (love my feet pampered and always maintained). The dream is to have a house full of devoted subs worshipping my every need and a basement full of caged filth.
Female (43) Portsmouth, Hampshire
Looking for a long-term emotional, mental, and physical connection with a local male (less than 60 miles from Hampshire). Gen x and 420 friendly desireable, for regular kinky and vanilla adventures. Drop me a message, tell me about your passions, ideas and adventures.
Female (50) Basingstoke, Hampshire
I have taken down my face pics just to protect myself a little more! Feel free to ask me and I’m happy to send privately and will not be offended if you don’t like the look of me ? Chunky Monkey ? 5’3 and wear a size 18 so if you’re into BBW … great stuff ?? I would class myself as very diverse. I’m intrigued by all types of submission whether it be sub , pet, little/middle ... I’m very open minded and always looking to explore more. My top kinks I would say are impact play, ddlg, ***, tears, ***, orgasm denial! I’m not overly keen on casual meet ups or hook ups as I need a level of trust with someone to allow myself to fully submit and feel comfortable. I am forever learning and still have areas I would love to explore more of - cnc, kidnap/***, wax play, *** and probably lots lots more The dream is to live DS as close to 24/7 as I can with someone I trust and adore ? FL - xXxBabiiGirlxXx single mama β™₯️
Female (33) Winchester, Hampshire
I am a very demanding Queen. Be prepared to obey and worship, I will train you wether you have experience or not **DO NOT APPROACH IF YOU ARE A DOM *** AGAIN ANYONE MESSAGING WITH DOMINANT IN THEIR PROFILE WILL BE BLOCKED STRAIGHT AWAY
Female (32) Southampton, Hampshire
Hey there. I'm fairly new to this site, I loving chatting to new people, making connections and finding out what kinky things we are in to. I am quite an innocent lady at heart, but there is a naughty side of me that wants to play. Message if you are interested
Female (31) Portsmouth, Hampshire
Hey, I'm Olivia! A bisexual switch with a kink for Facesitting...amongst many others! I love sharing my kink & introducing newbies ? I'm also a content creator & have an amazing following on X. I love playing the brutal & domineering Mistress role, but also the soft Goddess role. I'm currently looking for a female slave who I can push to their limits within facesitting. This includes smothering, breath play, farting, full weight, slapping, spitting etc. I want to build a regular, long term, fulfilling Domme/Sub relationship. I currently have a male & female seat who would be happy to chat to you about their roles within my lifestyle. Thanks, Olivia xXx
Female (36) Basingstoke, Hampshire
I’m here to make freinds and hopefully find some people to go to events with, and to possibly meet a long term, monogamous partner :relaxed: Please message me if you live in or frequent the southern end of the uk and would like to be freinds!! 9_9 I am not interested in casual sex or play, polyamory or anything transactional such as selling nudes or sugaring! Please approach me accordingly and with respect. I will not accept freind requests unless we’ve spoken! Outside of kink I enjoy gaming (mostly destiny and soulsborne!) alternative fashion and makeup, thrifting, coffee, reading and writing, cats (I have 2!) , and magic: the gathering. I am neurodivergent (adhd and autism) ✨ certified milf ✨ If you want to shoot your shot, please do so respectfully. You need to be a *very* soft daddy dom, (emotionally speaking only :whipping: ) loving, kind, nurturing, understanding, monogamous, affectionate, have kinks and interests that align with my own, have time and energy for a serious relationship with a very soft person who requires a fair bit of attention, be 10-20 ish years older than me, and at least a lil bit thick/chubby please! 9_9 I am totally open to long distance but you would likely need to do or finance most of the travelling! Thank you for reading 9_9 Please please do not try and launch immediately into sexual conversation with me, if you aren’t interested in getting to know someone as a person before getting into the kink stuff I am not for you. I will not reply !! I will also not reply if I think you haven’t read my profile! Physically I am a little shorter than average, kinda curvy and squishy, I dress very alternative (and revealing oops) and I have a lot of facial piercings and a mullet, in case any of that’s not for you! :relaxed: Emotionally and sexually I am very loving, affectionate, devoted, giving, obedient and eager to please for the RIGHT man only :gift_heart: bratty behaviour very unlikely :gift_heart: I am STRICTLYYY monogamous. If you are in a relationship, playing platonically, having any type of sex, play or feelings for another person currently I am not for you. I am only interested in sex and play alongside developing a serious and commited EXCLUSIVE relationship.
Female (28) Southampton, Hampshire
hey all, im phoenix, I have been active in the community for about a year at this point and am very confident in my position in where I fit in to the kink space, I am privileged in the fact that I am the submissive/property/fiancΓ©e of@burnmedown and I could not be happier with this arraignment. Our non kink life will always come first and nether of us have any intention of changing that. if you would like to get to know me just message In the interest of full transparency my dom/ fiancee will have full access to any messages if he wishes, it's not a control thing it is a mutal respect thing as I have access to his messages too. All respectful comments are appreciated. Comments about what you want to do with/to me are not️ I am not anyone else’s β€œbaby, honey, goodgirl” or any other β€œnicknamesβ€œ. I am owned and collared by Sir.
Female (23) Eastleigh, Hampshire
In a vanilla relationship, I need the excitement from somewhere else in my life. I am open to meeting - NSA. I enjoy you taking over my body, teasing, eating, biting, whipping, choking, CNC, clamping, paddles. I will usually try anything once!!
Female (32) Basingstoke, Hampshire
Single mum who is loving and caring. I have a good sense of humour and like to bring cheer to others.
Female (49) Basingstoke, Hampshire
I’m looking for a kinky partner in crime. I’m not looking for one night stands, hook ups or casual situationships. if that’s what your into please don’t message me. If your looking to meet someone, date and grow a connection drop me a message.
Female (37) Camberley, Hampshire
**Desires and Fantasies** To find an experienced Dom or Switch who can help me explore my limits. I would like to meet someone who is caring, with a good sense of humour. Full disclosure, I have a bratty side at times. I also want to be hunted/ engage in more primal aspects of play, I find these extremely appealing.
Female (44) New Forest, Hampshire
Looking for a Bull to join me and my cuck, these are to be one offs and not long term arrangements. Messages are welcome and will be shared with him as I want him to be turned on by them, we will not exchange numbers or last names.
Female (44) Southampton, Hampshire
Yep, I’m fairly new to the scene but not a complete newbie. wanting to explore and find out a bit more about what I do and don’t like. Hoping to find others to help me on this adventure **Desires and Fantasies** I think I’m a little bit of everything. But looking to explore - no anal though!
Female (33) Basingstoke, Hampshire
Subbie female, not been active for a while. Love to be tied in rope especially, space out easily, love just being around dominant people.
Female (44) Portsmouth, Hampshire
Without consciously being aware I have taken a submissive stance in most relationships and friendship situations. BDSM is not something I have tried before in any great depth, solely a taster from a vanilla relationship. I am not actively seeking a relationship of any kind but I am open to it with the right person. I would like to find a patient man to navigate this new world with.
Female (34) Winchester, Hampshire
Hi, beautiful beings. Thanks for taking time to read my profile. A little bit about me… it will make it easy to decide if we are a good fit for each other. I am someone who is kind, considerate, loyal and honest. I value deep and meaningful conversations that stimulate the mind. I am single, independent, professionally fulfilled and both physically and mentally healthy. I appreciate and admire those who take care and respect their bodies and mind (with this I mean no *** of *** and/or alcohol and a thoughtful approach on dietary habits and regular physical activity). I admire those who seek to improve themselves in every aspect of their lives and who encourage others to pursue their dreams and aspirations too. I believe in the power of honesty and the beauty of mutual respect, it creates an environment where trust and connection can flourish. In this realm of BDSM, which is new to me, I seek to meet with experienced partners who share the same values, who understand the importance of caring for oneself and others, and who approach the lifestyle with a thoughtful and respectful mindset. I look for someone who is willing to share, to teach and to help me explore my sexuality and fulfil my deepest desires in a safe and enjoyable way. I am here to create unforgettable experiences built on trust, respect, and mutual admiration. Thanks ?
Female (42) Rushmoor, Hampshire
I’m a director by professionβ€”confident, ambitious, and at ease taking the lead in my everyday life. Outside of work, I have a taste for the finer things: whisky, red wine, and the crackle of an open fire. I love textures like lace and leather, the strength of chains, and the interplay of contrasts. Also in the bedroom, I enjoy letting someone else take the reins, finding balance in a space where power shifts and boundaries are explored with trust and respect. I’m seeking someone who can appreciate my dominant energy (outside of the bedroom) but knows how to tap into the softer side beneath it. If you’re someone who thrives on connection, knows how to command respect, and enjoys adding a bit of edge to life’s pleasures, we might just get along. In addition to my professional life and more adventurous interests, I enjoy moments of calm and good conversation. I believe in open communication, mutual respect, and exploring connections that bring both challenge and satisfaction. If any of this resonates, I’d love to hear from you.
Female (33) Portsmouth, Hampshire

New members in Hampshire

Hey there. I'm fairly new to this site, I loving chatting to new people, making connections and finding out what kinky things we are in to. I am quite an innocent lady at heart, but there is a naughty side of me that wants to play. Message if you are interested
Female (31) Portsmouth, Hampshire
Subbie female, not been active for a while. Love to be tied in rope especially, space out easily, love just being around dominant people.
Female (44) Portsmouth, Hampshire
Hi, beautiful beings. Thanks for taking time to read my profile. A little bit about me… it will make it easy to decide if we are a good fit for each other. I am someone who is kind, considerate, loyal and honest. I value deep and meaningful conversations that stimulate the mind. I am single, independent, professionally fulfilled and both physically and mentally healthy. I appreciate and admire those who take care and respect their bodies and mind (with this I mean no *** of *** and/or alcohol and a thoughtful approach on dietary habits and regular physical activity). I admire those who seek to improve themselves in every aspect of their lives and who encourage others to pursue their dreams and aspirations too. I believe in the power of honesty and the beauty of mutual respect, it creates an environment where trust and connection can flourish. In this realm of BDSM, which is new to me, I seek to meet with experienced partners who share the same values, who understand the importance of caring for oneself and others, and who approach the lifestyle with a thoughtful and respectful mindset. I look for someone who is willing to share, to teach and to help me explore my sexuality and fulfil my deepest desires in a safe and enjoyable way. I am here to create unforgettable experiences built on trust, respect, and mutual admiration. Thanks ?
Female (42) Rushmoor, Hampshire
Single mum who is loving and caring. I have a good sense of humour and like to bring cheer to others.
Female (49) Basingstoke, Hampshire
Hey, I'm Olivia! A bisexual switch with a kink for Facesitting...amongst many others! I love sharing my kink & introducing newbies ? I'm also a content creator & have an amazing following on X. I love playing the brutal & domineering Mistress role, but also the soft Goddess role. I'm currently looking for a female slave who I can push to their limits within facesitting. This includes smothering, breath play, farting, full weight, slapping, spitting etc. I want to build a regular, long term, fulfilling Domme/Sub relationship. I currently have a male & female seat who would be happy to chat to you about their roles within my lifestyle. Thanks, Olivia xXx
Female (36) Basingstoke, Hampshire
I’m here to make freinds and hopefully find some people to go to events with, and to possibly meet a long term, monogamous partner :relaxed: Please message me if you live in or frequent the southern end of the uk and would like to be freinds!! 9_9 I am not interested in casual sex or play, polyamory or anything transactional such as selling nudes or sugaring! Please approach me accordingly and with respect. I will not accept freind requests unless we’ve spoken! Outside of kink I enjoy gaming (mostly destiny and soulsborne!) alternative fashion and makeup, thrifting, coffee, reading and writing, cats (I have 2!) , and magic: the gathering. I am neurodivergent (adhd and autism) ✨ certified milf ✨ If you want to shoot your shot, please do so respectfully. You need to be a *very* soft daddy dom, (emotionally speaking only :whipping: ) loving, kind, nurturing, understanding, monogamous, affectionate, have kinks and interests that align with my own, have time and energy for a serious relationship with a very soft person who requires a fair bit of attention, be 10-20 ish years older than me, and at least a lil bit thick/chubby please! 9_9 I am totally open to long distance but you would likely need to do or finance most of the travelling! Thank you for reading 9_9 Please please do not try and launch immediately into sexual conversation with me, if you aren’t interested in getting to know someone as a person before getting into the kink stuff I am not for you. I will not reply !! I will also not reply if I think you haven’t read my profile! Physically I am a little shorter than average, kinda curvy and squishy, I dress very alternative (and revealing oops) and I have a lot of facial piercings and a mullet, in case any of that’s not for you! :relaxed: Emotionally and sexually I am very loving, affectionate, devoted, giving, obedient and eager to please for the RIGHT man only :gift_heart: bratty behaviour very unlikely :gift_heart: I am STRICTLYYY monogamous. If you are in a relationship, playing platonically, having any type of sex, play or feelings for another person currently I am not for you. I am only interested in sex and play alongside developing a serious and commited EXCLUSIVE relationship.
Female (28) Southampton, Hampshire
I’m looking for a kinky partner in crime. I’m not looking for one night stands, hook ups or casual situationships. if that’s what your into please don’t message me. If your looking to meet someone, date and grow a connection drop me a message.
Female (37) Camberley, Hampshire
still learning my place in this fun show.......I do get told often that I have a great submissive face for a Switch 😜
Female (36) Southampton, Hampshire
I guess I should finally put something here. I’ve been involved in the scene for 15 years both in the states and here in the U.K. I absolutely love my kink community and friends. I do attend local and not so local events and munches. I’m seeking a monogamous D/s relationship that will hopefully last long term. I am submissive but have been known to top at times, if asked nicely and the right connection and energy is there.
Female (51) Portsmouth, Hampshire
hey all, im phoenix, I have been active in the community for about a year at this point and am very confident in my position in where I fit in to the kink space, I am privileged in the fact that I am the submissive/property/fiancΓ©e of@burnmedown and I could not be happier with this arraignment. Our non kink life will always come first and nether of us have any intention of changing that. if you would like to get to know me just message In the interest of full transparency my dom/ fiancee will have full access to any messages if he wishes, it's not a control thing it is a mutal respect thing as I have access to his messages too. All respectful comments are appreciated. Comments about what you want to do with/to me are not️ I am not anyone else’s β€œbaby, honey, goodgirl” or any other β€œnicknamesβ€œ. I am owned and collared by Sir.
Female (23) Eastleigh, Hampshire
Looking for a Bull to join me and my cuck, these are to be one offs and not long term arrangements. Messages are welcome and will be shared with him as I want him to be turned on by them, we will not exchange numbers or last names.
Female (44) Southampton, Hampshire
Hi, I'm wild, a fun, cheeky girl with a kink twist. What I'm looking for is sexy arrogant confidence, an experienced dominant male. I love to please that someone, and i like to be pushed by them. I have found in my recent experiences that i liked things even when at the time ,i hated them. This was because the person inflicting them on me was enjoying it. I have an need urge deep within to be someone's toy, be it *** or sex toy. I have been playing for quite a while, and the things I really love are mental play,impact play, and predicament bondage. what I'm not into is casual or one-offs.
Female (45) Andover, Hampshire
Into most things, I'm a Submissive Kinkster with a touch of a masochist, whose been kinky my whole life and never done vanilla long term, which means I'm very experienced and have done a fair amount. Please do take the time to read my profile, there are a lot of stories in the questionnaire as well as various posts on different topics and ofc lots of pics. I've done this because I love blogging, a previous Dom got me into it and I found it very liberating and enjoy knowing that I can turn people on with just my words and creative pictures. regarding my kinks, Overall I really enjoy trying new things, keeping things fun and fresh and experimenting with new kinks and ideas. Anal only is a new favourite and into all there is to do with, gaping, rimming etc etc, also like breathplay, impact play is always fun, and the classic bondage too. Really into dirty talking, so please daddy whisper dirty things into my ear! Also really into denial and very much like the mind games. I love it rough and extremely dirty, as well cutie and loving. Basically have few limits and I like to do a variation, I enjoy sex, have a high sex drive and love trying new things, When it comes to my perfect Dom... there are many different types, however I seem to respond well to someone who is authoritarian in making me do what's best for me, but doing it from a good place... I also very much enjoy "topping from the bottom" for example I've pegged, sounded, fisted and even beaten my Dom but only because I was told to and never in a Dominant way, and yet I can still be surprised by who and how I connect with people. And after all this, I work as a senior manager, no kids, live on my own and love my rock/Dance music, bbqs and the beach, I'm also into tenderness, love cuddles and being intimate, I'm very bubbly, easy to get on with, and like holding a decent conversation.
Female (37) Fareham, Hampshire
In a vanilla relationship, I need the excitement from somewhere else in my life. I am open to meeting - NSA. I enjoy you taking over my body, teasing, eating, biting, whipping, choking, CNC, clamping, paddles. I will usually try anything once!!
Female (32) Basingstoke, Hampshire
I am a very demanding Queen. Be prepared to obey and worship, I will train you wether you have experience or not **DO NOT APPROACH IF YOU ARE A DOM *** AGAIN ANYONE MESSAGING WITH DOMINANT IN THEIR PROFILE WILL BE BLOCKED STRAIGHT AWAY
Female (32) Southampton, Hampshire
I am not a Domme plus size single sub not new to kink lifestyle but only been on the public scene for 2 years. not looking for an online long distance relationship. trust, communication and respect are hugely important to me. I am looking for somone who is looking for the possibility of long term, I would like a partner in my further exploration of kink, I have lots of friends I play with but something is missing, I would like to find my Dom and partner. I am not poly. I am not looking for an online relationship, I am looking to meet in person. I am not looking to Domme anyone
Female (32) Southampton, Hampshire
Looking for a long-term emotional, mental, and physical connection with a local male (less than 60 miles from Hampshire). Gen x and 420 friendly desireable, for regular kinky and vanilla adventures. Drop me a message, tell me about your passions, ideas and adventures.
Female (50) Basingstoke, Hampshire
I am a professional dominatrix. However don't pretend to know everything. The world of kink is vast and just when you think you have caught up you are surprised. When looking to learn or experiment I offer a free service however I have learnt that most free willing subs lack commitment and can more often than not waste your time. (Maybe there is a surprise few I have yet to meet) I have a lovely stable and often look for others to add for kink or my own curiosity. I am not your conventional mistress as can be mischievous, love spanking and bdsm. I have a lovely little dungeon that is growing everyday. Would love a house elf, a female sub, a dedicated foot devotee (love my feet pampered and always maintained). The dream is to have a house full of devoted subs worshipping my every need and a basement full of caged filth.
Female (43) Portsmouth, Hampshire
Hey there Thank you for stopping by my profile. My name is Cherry. i am 34 year old female. Face photos kept private only due to professional boundaries i am happily married. i am not seeking any play partners or play. My only play partner is my husband.
Female (34) Southampton, Hampshire
Yep, I’m fairly new to the scene but not a complete newbie. wanting to explore and find out a bit more about what I do and don’t like. Hoping to find others to help me on this adventure **Desires and Fantasies** I think I’m a little bit of everything. But looking to explore - no anal though!
Female (33) Basingstoke, Hampshire
**Desires and Fantasies** To find an experienced Dom or Switch who can help me explore my limits. I would like to meet someone who is caring, with a good sense of humour. Full disclosure, I have a bratty side at times. I also want to be hunted/ engage in more primal aspects of play, I find these extremely appealing.
Female (44) New Forest, Hampshire
I have taken down my face pics just to protect myself a little more! Feel free to ask me and I’m happy to send privately and will not be offended if you don’t like the look of me ? Chunky Monkey ? 5’3 and wear a size 18 so if you’re into BBW … great stuff ?? I would class myself as very diverse. I’m intrigued by all types of submission whether it be sub , pet, little/middle ... I’m very open minded and always looking to explore more. My top kinks I would say are impact play, ddlg, ***, tears, ***, orgasm denial! I’m not overly keen on casual meet ups or hook ups as I need a level of trust with someone to allow myself to fully submit and feel comfortable. I am forever learning and still have areas I would love to explore more of - cnc, kidnap/***, wax play, *** and probably lots lots more The dream is to live DS as close to 24/7 as I can with someone I trust and adore ? FL - xXxBabiiGirlxXx single mama β™₯️
Female (33) Winchester, Hampshire
Without consciously being aware I have taken a submissive stance in most relationships and friendship situations. BDSM is not something I have tried before in any great depth, solely a taster from a vanilla relationship. I am not actively seeking a relationship of any kind but I am open to it with the right person. I would like to find a patient man to navigate this new world with.
Female (34) Winchester, Hampshire
I'm a nerdy, pop punk loving film fanatic. I am in an online switch dynamic and as my master he has asked me to make this profile to find worthy people to share me with. He will be overseeing all interactions and making final decisions on who I can meet to play with. I like bondage, impact play and breath play both giving and recieving
Female (39) Basingstoke, Hampshire

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