Kinky women in Graveley

DMs worked once in over a year. I think I need to find a new app. 😕 Single experienced sub seeks her new Master. Slightly off-topic, but I am also a mum to two ***age boys. This does mean that I can't be available at the drop of a hat, unfortunately. I appreciate those who respect that I am a mum first and a sub second. My priority will always go to my kids. (I should have added this before but better late than never!) My last thing was five years in a NSA FWB situation which I ended about 2 years ago. I had grown to realise that I need more than that. I am (unfortunately) someone who struggles not to form feelings with long term sexual partners. So now I’m looking for a Master who also wants our play to be hopefully more than just that eventually. I say eventually because it will always take time to find someone with whom you click on all levels. But if we’re both happy to go into it with the same intent and see how things progress then we both know where we’re headed and there are no surprises. I know it’s a bit of a long shot to find someone like that on here, but it’s even harder to find someone with BDSM(+) kinks on other apps. I’m very sorry to say that I am not Dominant or enjoy switching at all. I’m sub to the core. (I appreciate this will excite some and upset others - I’m very sorry but I just don’t get excited about being anything other than sub). Also ideally looking for someone at least 41- 56 years old. I have lots of lovely messages from younger people and I’m honestly flattered but I need someone who can handle me. This I feel comes with age and experience. I don’t really want to teach someone how to excite a submissive (sorry!). Firstly and most importantly- Trust is massively important to me - if we can’t build up some trust on here then I’m very sorry but I will not consider giving you my number and taking it further!!! I’ve had a lot of messages asking what I like or dislike - this is hugely varied and changes depending upon a lot of factors. I don’t have any kinks set in stone that do it for me. I do however tend to enjoy dressing up - be it leather, rubber, PVC, lace and everything in between. Stockings and suspenders or hold ups at the bare minimum. Completely naked is only enjoyable if there are feelings involved (I guess it’s more intimate to me for some reason?). I have a huge list of kinks that I would need more time than I have at present to write (will have to come back and revise this). Nine out of ten people who message me haven’t bothered to check my bio so they are on a completely different wavelength and unfortunately, I get so many messages that I would need to waste a lot of time explaining that to each individual. I think this app would benefit from having a series of quick replies to choose from so you don’t feel rude for not responding at all. It’s not them, it’s me and I am quite specific in what I’m looking for. PLEASE NOTE: I do not want random d pics! If I ask while we get chatting then all good, otherwise I won’t be opening your message!!!

DMs worked once in over a year. I think I need to find a new app. 😕 Single experienced sub seeks her new Master. Slightly off-topic, but I am also a mum to two ***age boys. This does mean that I can't be available at the drop of a hat, unfortunately. I appreciate those who respect that I am a mum first and a sub second. My priority will always go to my kids. (I should have added this before but better late than never!) My last thing was five years in a NSA FWB situation which I ended about 2 years ago. I had grown to realise that I need more than that. I am (unfortunately) someone who struggles not to form feelings with long term sexual partners. So now I’m looking for a Master who also wants our play to be hopefully more than just that eventually. I say eventually because it will always take time to find someone with whom you click on all levels. But if we’re both happy to go into it with the same intent and see how things progress then we both know where we’re headed and there are no surprises. I know it’s a bit of a long shot to find someone like that on here, but it’s even harder to find someone with BDSM(+) kinks on other apps. I’m very sorry to say that I am not Dominant or enjoy switching at all. I’m sub to the core. (I appreciate this will excite some and upset others - I’m very sorry but I just don’t get excited about being anything other than sub). Also ideally looking for someone at least 41- 56 years old. I have lots of lovely messages from younger people and I’m honestly flattered but I need someone who can handle me. This I feel comes with age and experience. I don’t really want to teach someone how to excite a submissive (sorry!). Firstly and most importantly- Trust is massively important to me - if we can’t build up some trust on here then I’m very sorry but I will not consider giving you my number and taking it further!!! I’ve had a lot of messages asking what I like or dislike - this is hugely varied and changes depending upon a lot of factors. I don’t have any kinks set in stone that do it for me. I do however tend to enjoy dressing up - be it leather, rubber, PVC, lace and everything in between. Stockings and suspenders or hold ups at the bare minimum. Completely naked is only enjoyable if there are feelings involved (I guess it’s more intimate to me for some reason?). I have a huge list of kinks that I would need more time than I have at present to write (will have to come back and revise this). Nine out of ten people who message me haven’t bothered to check my bio so they are on a completely different wavelength and unfortunately, I get so many messages that I would need to waste a lot of time explaining that to each individual. I think this app would benefit from having a series of quick replies to choose from so you don’t feel rude for not responding at all. It’s not them, it’s me and I am quite specific in what I’m looking for. PLEASE NOTE: I do not want random d pics! If I ask while we get chatting then all good, otherwise I won’t be opening your message!!!