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bored house wife. missing my wilder days. I have a thing for badboys and black men. I'm a curvy mummy so if u dont like sexy curves then I'm not for you.
Female (44) Berkhamsted, Hertfordshire
only looking for females looking to play with myself and my partner
Female (37) Barnet, Hertfordshire
I am enjoying my life, with all the joys and challenges that involves. I'm a writer and an artist, I'm insanely curious about people. I don't do anonymous sexual intimacy. I engage in D/S dynamics when there's a real honest connection and trust with the person. I am looking for genuine intimate, non monogamous connection. I do like to please, and as such I'm quite flexible in how that happens. I'm switchy, and my personality outside the bedroom is kick ass. Respect is more likely to make me interested than lame attempts at controlling me. **Desires and Fantasies** I have a wide and varied tastes. Quality of connection and trust is key for me. In all of my kinks I enjoy playing and being appreciated for the pleasure I bring.
Female (48) St Albans, Hertfordshire
Looking for someone to introduce this curious submissive to the world of BDSM. I love dirty talk so show me what you got xx
I’m new to the LS and I’m looking to talk and chat with others to learn more and expand my knowledge. I would say I’m an auralist, a voice can do so much for me. I’m a sub that is exploring their little/middle desires and links.
I'm looking for a healthy respectful master to explore our needs ! Need to find my Fetish soul mate ! Maybe you have your own play space or flat? I can’t accommodate. Lover of corsets n stockings n rope and gags.. love to be your little toy.... come chat ?
Female (56) Hertford, Hertfordshire
Just a girl looking for someone who can manage a relentless brat ?, message at own risk. into cnc, spanking, role play etc, and willing to be adventurous.
Female (29) Stevenage, Hertfordshire
Naturally submissive girl looking to find the D/s relationship I crave. No hint of a switch I’m afraid. I’ve had a few Daddy’s before but I’m open to different D/s dynamics. No ageplay. **Desires and Fantasies** To explore submission further, push my limits and have great sex for a change. No married guys please xx
I'm a ride-by-the-seat-of-my-pants kind of girl, with a positive attitude, Worldly, Arty, Quirky, inquisitive, well spoken, & quintessentially British, with just a smattering of Indian *** thrown in for good measure. I have a penchant for eccentricity, drawn to the deep, dark & brooding, like a moth to a flame, a real sucker for a Darcy-esque sort of man, the kind with manners and a discerning heart. I find integrity & depth incredibly sexy, & honestly speaking, go weak at the knees for a sharp brain & wit.
Bi Switch Brat looking to explore kinks I’m a Brat who wants to try a lot of new things including impact play, bondage. Praise/worship with a little *** and to try out free use. Would ideally look for a Daddy/Mummy who is a brat tamer who would be willing to let me Dominate them every now and then.
Want a best mate I can go to events with and do normal dating stuff too. To me kink is part of a healthy relationship and whilst I'm not looking for a serious relationship, a respect and trust has to be there. I'm happy, chubby and.career focused with older kids.
Female (42) Stevenage, Hertfordshire
Looking for a Dom to be my hunter/preditor for cnc or primal play. And only for that. I'm tall, curvy, blond, blue eyes. I'm genuine, honest, gentle, and just a little bit spoiled 😉 At the moment, I am not interested in long term textionships, or any other passions ( as I call our kinks😗)
Female (40) Broxbourne, Hertfordshire
hi there! I’m 18 and excited to explore connections in a polyamorous setting. I’m a bit of an introvert, so I enjoy quiet moments, whether that’s curled up with a good book or spending time with ***s (especially dogs!). I believe in meaningful, honest connections and I’m excited to see where this journey. I’m looking for a closed relationship with two or more men where we can grow together in trust and companionship
Female (18) St Albans, Hertfordshire
APP IS STILL CRASHING, AND IT JUST HAS COMPLETELY WHITE SCREEN EVERYTIME I PRESS SEND MIBA ? TRIED UNINSTALLING AND REINSTALLING BUT COMPLETELY THE SAME THING HAPPENS. WILL TRY DESKTOP VERSION TOMORROW XX Single experienced sub seeks her new Master. (I should have added this before but better late than never!) I have spent the past five years in a NSA FWB situation which I have now ended. I had grown to realise that I need more than that. I am (unfortunately) someone who struggles to not to form feelings with long term sexual partners. So now I’m looking for a Master who also wants our play to be hopefully more than just that eventually. I say eventually because it will always take time to find someone who you click with on all levels. But if we’re both happy to go into it with the same intent and see how things progress then we both know where we’re headed and there are no surprises. I know it’s a bit of a long shot to find someone like that on here, but it’s even harder to find someone with BDSM(+) kinks on other apps. I’m very sorry to say that I am not Dominant or enjoy switching at all. I’m sub to the core. (I appreciate this will excite some and upset others - I’m very sorry but I just don’t get excited about being anything other than sub). Also ideally looking for someone at least 37 - 55 years old. I have lots of lovely messages from younger people and I’m honestly flattered but I need someone who can handle me. This I feel comes with age and experience. I don’t really want to teach someone how to excite a submissive (sorry!). Firstly and most importantly- Trust is massively important to me - if we can’t build up some trust on here then I’m very sorry but I will not consider giving you my number and taking it further!!! I’ve had a lot of messages asking what I like or dislike - this is hugely varied and changes depending upon a lot of factors. I don’t have any kinks set in stone that do it for me. I do however tend to enjoy dressing up - be it leather, rubber, PVC, lace and everything in between. Stockings and suspenders or hold ups at the bare minimum. Completely naked is only enjoyable if there’s feelings involved (I guess it’s more intimate to me for some reason?). I have a huge list of kinks that I would need more time than I have at present to write (will have to come back and revise this). Nine out of ten people who message me haven’t bothered to check my bio so they are on a completely different wavelength and unfortunately I get so many messages that I would need to waste a lot of time explaining that to each individual. I think this app would benefit from having a series of quick replies to choose from so you don’t feel rude for not responding at all. It’s not them, it’s me and I am quite specific in what I’m looking for. PLEASE NOTE: I do not want random d pics! If I ask while we get chatting then all good, otherwise I won’t be opening your message!!!
Female (40) Graveley, Hertfordshire
Submissive. Looking for EXPERIENCED and a GENUINE dom to lead/control me in bdsm. Restraints, blindfolds, spanking, pro longed orgasm, orgasm denial, edging, anal, rope play. Not looking for random fun or ONS. Ideally a D/s relationship I want an experienced dom able to handle and control me whom I can serve in the bedroom and enjoy life together outside of it. Do not message me ‘hi’ or ‘how are you?’ Do not assume I am your submissive and tell me what to do. Well educated, well spoken and professional woman. I need my mind stimulated just as much as my body. INFJ - A
I’m an obedient “little submissive” have my own daily life and business wanting a REAL Daddy/Dom to keep my head out the clouds, near enough to see occasionally but not close enough to interfere with with work, commitments x
Female (39) Watford, Hertfordshire
sweet angel baby 73% fussy little nightmare 27% ( lol) new here not sure how this app works. don’t have much experience with this lifestyle but I’m super curious and wanna explore. x waiting on daddy x p.s. If I don’t reply sorry promise it’s not on purpose I’m a littol slow but I’ll try get through as many messages as I can okayyyy x if you don’t understand the word NO or are super creepy I’ll block and I’m not into race play . p.s if you want a quick wank sesh pleaseeeee ignore my profile, if you have no thoughts other than tugging your cock or have zero conversion look elsewhere xx twitter: sweetlittoldoll(my weird online diary)
Female (28) St Albans, Hertfordshire
Looking to see where things could go always up to chat with people - ask me anything. I won’t do online roleplay/relationships. Please don’t send me unsolicited pictures or your fantasies on the first message, or expect me to call you daddy /dom or call yourself daddy/dom within the first conversation. Honourifics are earned and also respect is too. Trust and an open dialogue is important to me. I’m here to be safe but also explore my very kinky side.
Hiya xx I am looking to explore new things. I am not single I have a boyfriend who knows about everything and is very supportive. I am looking for either single girls to explore with or even couples who don’t mind swapping and exploring with me and my partner. I am a little and aftercare is extremely important to me.
Female (22) Watford, Hertfordshire
I'm not sure exactly what I'm looking for, friends definitely Due to my job I have a hard limit on lower age, which is 10 years younger than me, so currently 31. Upper limit is less fixed.
Female (41) Roydon, Hertfordshire
Hi ☺️ I’m looking to meet my life partner here so will take things slow. About me: I like nature walks, reading well written books (genre agnostic), and baking. I can be introverted or extroverted, depending on who I’m with. Ideal partner: An older submissive cuck who wants a hot wife and some ***. Thanks for reading.
Female (28) Ware, Hertfordshire
Foremost, I'm a Sigma Female. if you're not familiar, Google is your friend. Looking for a FLR LTR. Open to friendships from all walks. I don't want a slave or pet: been there, done that, not enough in it for me. I don't enjoy discipline for the sake of it. I do however expect absolute loyalty and devotion, and the right person will receive the same in return from me. By nature I am naturally Top, but have no special desire to Domme. I'm kind natured, caring and like to please, but if that is ever misconstrued as an invitation to be Dom'd I WILL destroy you. Do not poke the bear. I can never be made to follow, don't need others to follow me, don't react well to rules or authority. Nor do I feel the need to have my opinions & beliefs validated by others: I won't waste oxygen in pointless argument. If I don't like it I'll walk away. Brats & drama queens, take note: there will be zero tolerance. I have dabbled in the fet scene for many years to a greater or lesser degree. These are my people; the respect, unequivocal acceptance and friendliness that comes with the scene are values I hold dear. But as a Sigma and free thinker I struggle with the restrictions of the titular nature of Kink Life. Why box yourself as a Dom or sub? Why is taking the lead labelled as a dominant trait, and receiving a submissive one, when the foundation of all kink is that the sub always has ultimate control? To me it indicates closeted thinking; restrictive towards exploration of new experiences, when all should be considered and perhaps, with consent, indulged and experienced. I guess for the sake of the D/s formats here, gentle domme would probably describe me best. But make no mistake, I fight like a warrior if riled. Don't ever get me pushed that far. Mutual respect is key. RP, cosplay, CP, sissydom, pet play & the like as a lifestyle hold no interest: maybe it's my offbeat humour but I'd be laughing for the wrong reason. If you want to be a viking sadist or a pet then be one: emote it from within, I'll know. I don't need the AmDram and cheap pound shop costumes to convince me, and it won't turn me on. If you've made it to the end of my rabble then there are some positives to life with this Sigma: Heteroflexible, lover of transgressive play and good old fashioned mischief with an equally open minded partner. Love music (especially indie), sapiosexual, total science and nature geek. Independent, spontaneous, perpetually curious, down to earth and always, always, up for a good laugh, no matter how ***y stupid. Thoroughly determined to grow old disgracefully.
Female (52) Watford, Hertfordshire
I’m look for discrete hook ups. I haven’t posted a pic because my partner doesn’t know I’m on here. happy to verify. I’m a little kinky and open to almost anything, message me to find out more x
funny ditsy I have hella attitude if you can’t deal with it then that’s yur problem ? random depresso expresso like a crackhead sometimes no not a ligit one ?
Female (20) Watford, Hertfordshire

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Looking for someone to introduce this curious submissive to the world of BDSM. I love dirty talk so show me what you got xx
I’m new to the LS and I’m looking to talk and chat with others to learn more and expand my knowledge. I would say I’m an auralist, a voice can do so much for me. I’m a sub that is exploring their little/middle desires and links.
only looking for females looking to play with myself and my partner
Female (37) Barnet, Hertfordshire
bored house wife. missing my wilder days. I have a thing for badboys and black men. I'm a curvy mummy so if u dont like sexy curves then I'm not for you.
Female (44) Berkhamsted, Hertfordshire
Just a girl looking for someone who can manage a relentless brat ?, message at own risk. into cnc, spanking, role play etc, and willing to be adventurous.
Female (29) Stevenage, Hertfordshire
I am enjoying my life, with all the joys and challenges that involves. I'm a writer and an artist, I'm insanely curious about people. I don't do anonymous sexual intimacy. I engage in D/S dynamics when there's a real honest connection and trust with the person. I am looking for genuine intimate, non monogamous connection. I do like to please, and as such I'm quite flexible in how that happens. I'm switchy, and my personality outside the bedroom is kick ass. Respect is more likely to make me interested than lame attempts at controlling me. **Desires and Fantasies** I have a wide and varied tastes. Quality of connection and trust is key for me. In all of my kinks I enjoy playing and being appreciated for the pleasure I bring.
Female (48) St Albans, Hertfordshire
Naturally submissive girl looking to find the D/s relationship I crave. No hint of a switch I’m afraid. I’ve had a few Daddy’s before but I’m open to different D/s dynamics. No ageplay. **Desires and Fantasies** To explore submission further, push my limits and have great sex for a change. No married guys please xx
I'm looking for a healthy respectful master to explore our needs ! Need to find my Fetish soul mate ! Maybe you have your own play space or flat? I can’t accommodate. Lover of corsets n stockings n rope and gags.. love to be your little toy.... come chat ?
Female (56) Hertford, Hertfordshire
Want a best mate I can go to events with and do normal dating stuff too. To me kink is part of a healthy relationship and whilst I'm not looking for a serious relationship, a respect and trust has to be there. I'm happy, chubby and.career focused with older kids.
Female (42) Stevenage, Hertfordshire
I’m look for discrete hook ups. I haven’t posted a pic because my partner doesn’t know I’m on here. happy to verify. I’m a little kinky and open to almost anything, message me to find out more x
I’m an obedient “little submissive” have my own daily life and business wanting a REAL Daddy/Dom to keep my head out the clouds, near enough to see occasionally but not close enough to interfere with with work, commitments x
Female (39) Watford, Hertfordshire
hi there! I’m 18 and excited to explore connections in a polyamorous setting. I’m a bit of an introvert, so I enjoy quiet moments, whether that’s curled up with a good book or spending time with ***s (especially dogs!). I believe in meaningful, honest connections and I’m excited to see where this journey. I’m looking for a closed relationship with two or more men where we can grow together in trust and companionship
Female (18) St Albans, Hertfordshire
Hi ☺️ I’m looking to meet my life partner here so will take things slow. About me: I like nature walks, reading well written books (genre agnostic), and baking. I can be introverted or extroverted, depending on who I’m with. Ideal partner: An older submissive cuck who wants a hot wife and some ***. Thanks for reading.
Female (28) Ware, Hertfordshire
I'm a ride-by-the-seat-of-my-pants kind of girl, with a positive attitude, Worldly, Arty, Quirky, inquisitive, well spoken, & quintessentially British, with just a smattering of Indian *** thrown in for good measure. I have a penchant for eccentricity, drawn to the deep, dark & brooding, like a moth to a flame, a real sucker for a Darcy-esque sort of man, the kind with manners and a discerning heart. I find integrity & depth incredibly sexy, & honestly speaking, go weak at the knees for a sharp brain & wit.
I'm not sure exactly what I'm looking for, friends definitely Due to my job I have a hard limit on lower age, which is 10 years younger than me, so currently 31. Upper limit is less fixed.
Female (41) Roydon, Hertfordshire
Submissive. Looking for EXPERIENCED and a GENUINE dom to lead/control me in bdsm. Restraints, blindfolds, spanking, pro longed orgasm, orgasm denial, edging, anal, rope play. Not looking for random fun or ONS. Ideally a D/s relationship I want an experienced dom able to handle and control me whom I can serve in the bedroom and enjoy life together outside of it. Do not message me ‘hi’ or ‘how are you?’ Do not assume I am your submissive and tell me what to do. Well educated, well spoken and professional woman. I need my mind stimulated just as much as my body. INFJ - A
Looking for a Dom to be my hunter/preditor for cnc or primal play. And only for that. I'm tall, curvy, blond, blue eyes. I'm genuine, honest, gentle, and just a little bit spoiled 😉 At the moment, I am not interested in long term textionships, or any other passions ( as I call our kinks😗)
Female (40) Broxbourne, Hertfordshire
Hiya xx I am looking to explore new things. I am not single I have a boyfriend who knows about everything and is very supportive. I am looking for either single girls to explore with or even couples who don’t mind swapping and exploring with me and my partner. I am a little and aftercare is extremely important to me.
Female (22) Watford, Hertfordshire
Looking to see where things could go always up to chat with people - ask me anything. I won’t do online roleplay/relationships. Please don’t send me unsolicited pictures or your fantasies on the first message, or expect me to call you daddy /dom or call yourself daddy/dom within the first conversation. Honourifics are earned and also respect is too. Trust and an open dialogue is important to me. I’m here to be safe but also explore my very kinky side.
sweet angel baby 73% fussy little nightmare 27% ( lol) new here not sure how this app works. don’t have much experience with this lifestyle but I’m super curious and wanna explore. x waiting on daddy x p.s. If I don’t reply sorry promise it’s not on purpose I’m a littol slow but I’ll try get through as many messages as I can okayyyy x if you don’t understand the word NO or are super creepy I’ll block and I’m not into race play . p.s if you want a quick wank sesh pleaseeeee ignore my profile, if you have no thoughts other than tugging your cock or have zero conversion look elsewhere xx twitter: sweetlittoldoll(my weird online diary)
Female (28) St Albans, Hertfordshire
Bi Switch Brat looking to explore kinks I’m a Brat who wants to try a lot of new things including impact play, bondage. Praise/worship with a little *** and to try out free use. Would ideally look for a Daddy/Mummy who is a brat tamer who would be willing to let me Dominate them every now and then.
funny ditsy I have hella attitude if you can’t deal with it then that’s yur problem ? random depresso expresso like a crackhead sometimes no not a ligit one ?
Female (20) Watford, Hertfordshire
Foremost, I'm a Sigma Female. if you're not familiar, Google is your friend. Looking for a FLR LTR. Open to friendships from all walks. I don't want a slave or pet: been there, done that, not enough in it for me. I don't enjoy discipline for the sake of it. I do however expect absolute loyalty and devotion, and the right person will receive the same in return from me. By nature I am naturally Top, but have no special desire to Domme. I'm kind natured, caring and like to please, but if that is ever misconstrued as an invitation to be Dom'd I WILL destroy you. Do not poke the bear. I can never be made to follow, don't need others to follow me, don't react well to rules or authority. Nor do I feel the need to have my opinions & beliefs validated by others: I won't waste oxygen in pointless argument. If I don't like it I'll walk away. Brats & drama queens, take note: there will be zero tolerance. I have dabbled in the fet scene for many years to a greater or lesser degree. These are my people; the respect, unequivocal acceptance and friendliness that comes with the scene are values I hold dear. But as a Sigma and free thinker I struggle with the restrictions of the titular nature of Kink Life. Why box yourself as a Dom or sub? Why is taking the lead labelled as a dominant trait, and receiving a submissive one, when the foundation of all kink is that the sub always has ultimate control? To me it indicates closeted thinking; restrictive towards exploration of new experiences, when all should be considered and perhaps, with consent, indulged and experienced. I guess for the sake of the D/s formats here, gentle domme would probably describe me best. But make no mistake, I fight like a warrior if riled. Don't ever get me pushed that far. Mutual respect is key. RP, cosplay, CP, sissydom, pet play & the like as a lifestyle hold no interest: maybe it's my offbeat humour but I'd be laughing for the wrong reason. If you want to be a viking sadist or a pet then be one: emote it from within, I'll know. I don't need the AmDram and cheap pound shop costumes to convince me, and it won't turn me on. If you've made it to the end of my rabble then there are some positives to life with this Sigma: Heteroflexible, lover of transgressive play and good old fashioned mischief with an equally open minded partner. Love music (especially indie), sapiosexual, total science and nature geek. Independent, spontaneous, perpetually curious, down to earth and always, always, up for a good laugh, no matter how ***y stupid. Thoroughly determined to grow old disgracefully.
Female (52) Watford, Hertfordshire
APP IS STILL CRASHING, AND IT JUST HAS COMPLETELY WHITE SCREEN EVERYTIME I PRESS SEND MIBA ? TRIED UNINSTALLING AND REINSTALLING BUT COMPLETELY THE SAME THING HAPPENS. WILL TRY DESKTOP VERSION TOMORROW XX Single experienced sub seeks her new Master. (I should have added this before but better late than never!) I have spent the past five years in a NSA FWB situation which I have now ended. I had grown to realise that I need more than that. I am (unfortunately) someone who struggles to not to form feelings with long term sexual partners. So now I’m looking for a Master who also wants our play to be hopefully more than just that eventually. I say eventually because it will always take time to find someone who you click with on all levels. But if we’re both happy to go into it with the same intent and see how things progress then we both know where we’re headed and there are no surprises. I know it’s a bit of a long shot to find someone like that on here, but it’s even harder to find someone with BDSM(+) kinks on other apps. I’m very sorry to say that I am not Dominant or enjoy switching at all. I’m sub to the core. (I appreciate this will excite some and upset others - I’m very sorry but I just don’t get excited about being anything other than sub). Also ideally looking for someone at least 37 - 55 years old. I have lots of lovely messages from younger people and I’m honestly flattered but I need someone who can handle me. This I feel comes with age and experience. I don’t really want to teach someone how to excite a submissive (sorry!). Firstly and most importantly- Trust is massively important to me - if we can’t build up some trust on here then I’m very sorry but I will not consider giving you my number and taking it further!!! I’ve had a lot of messages asking what I like or dislike - this is hugely varied and changes depending upon a lot of factors. I don’t have any kinks set in stone that do it for me. I do however tend to enjoy dressing up - be it leather, rubber, PVC, lace and everything in between. Stockings and suspenders or hold ups at the bare minimum. Completely naked is only enjoyable if there’s feelings involved (I guess it’s more intimate to me for some reason?). I have a huge list of kinks that I would need more time than I have at present to write (will have to come back and revise this). Nine out of ten people who message me haven’t bothered to check my bio so they are on a completely different wavelength and unfortunately I get so many messages that I would need to waste a lot of time explaining that to each individual. I think this app would benefit from having a series of quick replies to choose from so you don’t feel rude for not responding at all. It’s not them, it’s me and I am quite specific in what I’m looking for. PLEASE NOTE: I do not want random d pics! If I ask while we get chatting then all good, otherwise I won’t be opening your message!!!
Female (40) Graveley, Hertfordshire

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