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I really do find this part awkward... having to sell myself. I'm predominantly sub and looking to serve a dominant lady, but have switched in the past and happy to explore this further. I don't like having to select a specific category of what I'm looking for as things are not set in stone and the dynamic depends on the person you're with.
I'm looking to meet in real life as opposed to online. Thanks for all the spanks guys, but I'm strictly for the ladies only.