I am looking for a Daddy for life who wants to build a long term/life partner relationship with a DDLG dynamic completely integrated. A life partner that encompasses every part of life. I don't want a behind closed doors, just in the bedroom, not including 'vanilla' life. I am looking for a full package relationship. I am looking for monogamous only. I am looking to date my ‘Daddy’, to build a foundation in which we can grow our lives together.
Little me isn't a separate entity. I don't role play being Little, I don't switch it on and off. I am just Little. But I come with a dial where I can lower my 'Littleness' and be 'adult' and increase it all the way up to slip fully into Little headspace.
I am a very excitable Little who particularly loves bouncing around! I do have generalised anxiety and social anxiety, which can cause me to be very quiet in unknown situations. I often rely on my Daddy to give confidence and support through touches and words of encouragement. I have an auto immune condition and have had extensive surgery so have scaring on my body. I have chronic fatigue as a long term affect of the condition, this means that I can't always predict how much I can do each day, there must be understanding around this. I have a curvy body with very generous thighs!
Things I enjoy when I am very Little
I love stories, particularly being read to
I love going out on adventures to the woods and nature reserve
I love building lego and building blocks
I love colouring and crafts
I love star gazing, chasing the sun and anything outdoors that is calm and in nature
I love my stuffies and spend a lot of time talking with them. It would be important that you learn their names and help me to keep them safe
I love routines, particularly a bedtime routine. This is essential.
I love looking after my Daddy, I am very protective and like to ensure he is as happy as can be
Things I enjoy when I am less Little
I love reading, I read a lot!
I love walking my dogs (you loving dogs is essential)
I love the water and really want to learn SUP and kayaking
I love love love watching films. I like going to the cinema but also watching at home
I love snuggling in blanket nests
I love spending time with friends
My kinks
This can be discussed, I do like bondage and rope (would love to attend rope classes together), wax, some impact play (would need to be discussed) and *** play. My kinks do cross to sex, again this can be discussed. I am not a Brat and as such I do not need punishments, particularly when I am in Little headspace. I am very much a Good Girl, and praise is on the top of my most needed thing list.
Hard limits include ***d isolation, orgasm denial, withholding communication, a break in agreed routines and withholding physical contact.
Who my Daddy is
You should be within the UK (I am in the East Midlands) and aged approx 35-55years old (I am 46) but this is a little bit flexible depending on emotional maturity
You must naturally be a care giver, this is vital
You will be a calm presence, giving me direction, grounding me and giving me that support I need with decisions
You must be good at communicating, this is absolutely paramount
You must be creative and attentive, being gentle in your day to day life
You must be very tactile, snuggles and cuddles are absolutely essential. I love hand holding, I will rarely let your hand go.
You must be able to commit time and energy to me. I don’t expect to be your only priority but should be a priority to you
You should have a high sex drive, being affectionate and playful is essential.
You should be actively involved in the kink community, ideally attending local munches. You should want to attend Little events with me, it’s very important to me that we make friends within the DDLG community.
What I am NOT looking for
One night stands
Friends with benefits
play partner
dynamic only
Poly/ENM
Married men 🙄
Men who have so many other commitments that they don’t have time to date and get to know each other. Please be realistic about this. If you aren’t local, please think about how much time you have available before contacting me.
If you feel like you want to get to know me, please do drop me a message!