Ultimately looking for an LTR. I do want a vanilla relationship with a kinky twist. Like to get kinky but only in a relationship setting with an emotional connection, too old for ONS.
I have tried certain things on my list but not
absolutely everything so wouldn't mind exploring those with the right person. Lastly I am a sub not your sub.
Hi, I’m Lois. 38 from Nottinghamshire. Not really sure what I’m after at the moment, just putting the feelers out there. Haven’t got much experience in the community, but I do have a little. I am definitely more of a sub leaning switch, but in the right circumstances.. who knows.
I am a sadistic Mistress looking for play partners ..
**Desires and Fantasies**
Ultimate fantasy is to stay at BDSM hotel for a couple of nights with a favourite slave. I would like to explore different roles as a Domme e.g. Teacher police woman dr etc.
Finding out what my limits are and exploring how far I want to go with BDSM. To be adored by others
Joined Fetish as Khadi58 now MistressK_CAE
Hey
I have been in the lifestyle for a large amount of time.
I do not see likes or spanks.
Don't be shy, drop me a message if you would like to know something, and I'll get back to you.
If you don't approve of tattoos and piercing, there is no point messaging me.
I have a very busy 'vanilla' life also. I am close to my immediate family, and my nephew is my world. I have both a dog, a cat and 2 gerbils. I like the simple things in life and also love the countryside.
I know what I want in life, and I'm not afraid of saying that. I'm not here for hookups or kinky dates. If I do not have mental connections with the person, it's a waste of my time and theirs.
If I don't reply straight away, don't worry, I'm probably gaming.
First up, i do have a dom! I‘m happy with him
I do not need some new dom! I‘m here to search a sub (girl and boys are welcome)! I want to dominate them! Together with my dom! If you do not read this then maybe you shouldn‘t text me at all…
I enjoy, psychology, criminology, penology, film and reading. I'm a mixed medium artist in my spare time and currently working on murals as well as our business. My home is one big canvas for me to express my creativity.
We enjoy attending events such as Fetish and kink but our main go to is Fetish events as we enjoy the variety and naturally learn towards the alternative. I first began visiting the club events over 10 years ago but my interests go much further back. We took a break from the events but I still dabbled in some modelling. We have been back on the scene for a while now but now exploring new chapters this time.
Previously have played switch or more dominant roles but now exploring my submissive side. I am learning that I very much enjoy handing power over and wish to explore Erotic Hypno more in-depth. I hope to attend more events and learn more on this.
I am married who is my Daddy pleasure Dom. Not looking to hook up with anyone at this time. Just enjoying life and exploring more clubs and events. Find us mostly at
TG
Celestial studios
Xtasia
Any other wonderful recommendations welcome ?
? looking for her Dom. I'm a Masochist, sub, little but most of all a Princess.
I am not looking for NSA or one offs but believe true submission can only be given in a trusting relationship with communication and consent.
I am look for a male who is fairly local so that we can have regular contact and build something real.
I love dongens and munches. I am a little exhibitionist.
I have a massive lingerie and basque collection just needing someone to appreciate it fully.
I am sure that I will add to this as time goes on.
Orange hair , 7 tattoos, 5’1, size 16
Great humour , love to laugh, very open and honest , very caring, like to please
Miss that sub/ Dom relationship , I’d love that trust , that bond and that feeling when I know my Dom is pleased with me
Sorry but only play with my age range
**Desires and Fantasies**
Love to be tied and made to cum
Love toys used on me
Understand I might need to be spanked sometimes ( do seem to bring that out in men)
Want to explore my sub side
Sorry , I don’t see likes
PLEASE know I’m not a hook ups girl , nothing wrong if that’s your thing but don’t waste your time cause it’s not mine
If you must refer to me, it's Vixx.
I'm a sadomasochist, not a sub, not a Mistress, I like watching you squirm and being made to react to all manner of things.
I'm headstrong, confident and sarcastic. I'm important in my professional life and I have great friends and relationships, I don't _need_ someone in my life, I _want_ them.
I'm not looking for pen pals or online connections and don't have endless time or *** to travel vast distances and want ongoing tangible connections so I am likely to tell you that you're too far away
I'm really not a visual person, I don't care if you're 7 foot 2 with a 12 pack abs and look like (popular celeb crush) I wanna know if you're intelligent enough to have a conversation about more than sex. I want to know if you think with your brain not your genitals.
What excites you in life? What happens in your head when you see a beautiful sunset? What's your favorite song?
I don't think many will get this far, but if you do...
I've been in the kink and BDSM world coming up 11 years, I'm neither naive or inexperienced. I'm happy to help others explore but do not assume my age means inexperience.
I'm sadistic, I'm masochistic, I'm a pleasure slut, I'm a massive brat. I'm *not* yours or anyone else's "good girl" and I don't use titles. I'm a woman not a girl.
I'm not interested in being your pen pal so your location matters. If it's not easy to visit one another, then I'm going to send you on your way to save both of us the effort.
If it matters, I run 2 munches and coordinate a play event in Nottingham
You're going to message me anyway, so just be respectful?
Looking for life long kinky weirdo for fun maybe more. I'm Ginger well rounded kinky pervert looking for. decent easy going people for mutual masturbation, respect and kinky adventures.
I'm not interested in younger men please stop messaging me. I'm not interested in overly dominant people. you have zero chance of controlling me. Really submissive people sorry but you're not for me either. All round switchy filth bags is what I require. I don't want to exchange pictures and talk endless nonsense. I prefer real life meetings and decent conversation.
I'm pretty down to earth with a kind personality and good sense of humour (sometimes dark ?). I am shy to start with, but do open up the more I become comfortable with you.
I'm looking for someone I can connect with, possibly a relationship, a sadistic but caring dom who loves to take control in the bedroom. I haven't explored much. I would like to be pushed to my limits with the right person.
If you're interested in getting to know me better, feel free to message xx
Hi!
I'm pretty inexperienced in this world, but very eager and open to learning! I'm curious about so many things, really most things.. I just need someone to hold my hand and guide the way.
I'll try add more as I go, please bare with me.. I have no clue what I'm doing!
Looking to widen my knowledge of the whole BDSM scene and make some like-minded friends.
I want to explore a learn about new kinks and ideas especially shibari, CNC, ***d orgasm, Dom/Sub roles.
Always happy to chat and learn a few things.
Welcome to my world, where I embrace the thrilling edge of power dynamics and sensuality. I’m a switch with a deep passion for exploring the many layers of BDSM, whether it's the intensity of control, the trust required in surrender, or the art of mutual pleasure. With a few years of experience, I believe in creating a space where trust, communication, and mutual respect come first.
I enjoy bondage, discipline, D/s dynamics, impact play, sensory play, etc. and I'm always open to pushing boundaries in a consensual, safe environment. Whether you're looking for a strict/domineering or nurturing/supportive presence, or seeking to fulfill your deepest fantasies, I welcome you into a space where desires can be explored freely.
Limits and boundaries are always respected – I believe in the importance of consent and communication at all times. If you're ready for a deep dive into the world of BDSM, let's explore our chemistry together.
Any gender or gender non-conforming, and dom/sub/switch welcome but would like someone willing to explore at least lightly both sides of the dynamic but also looking for friends, as long as you aren't boring I'm happy to chat lol
Pretty new to the scene and just testing the waters to see what I like
I can be a little shy and honestly kinda nervous to be on here so forgive me for slow/no replies and I might take a little bit of work to get through to, hope you'll think its worth it though! And anything but shy once I'm comfortable
My BDSM test results:
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Switch
96% Rope bunny
94% Brat
93% Submissive
82% Degradee
75% Experimentalist
72% Masochist
62% Brat tamer
62% Degrader
62% Rigger
59% Dominant
58% Primal (Prey)
52% Voyeur
50% Sadist
48% Vanilla
32% Primal (Hunter)
20% Non-monogamist
18% Master/Mistress
15% Owner
9% Slave
6% Daddy/Mommy
1% Exhibitionist
1% Pet
0% Boy/Girl
0% Ageplayer
I’m looking for someone to be intimate with, have fun with, and be dominated by.
I’d especially like you to spank me and play with my breasts. I’m a newbie here so willing to explore broader kinks!
Not looking, I have all my needs met.
Poly bi sadist. I have MS, I wobble, hopefully I don’t fall down, it doesn’t stop me. Not tall, not thin, not wearing latex or heels.
I am open minded and really enjoy listening to men's fantasies. I can give you a real experience and bring your fantasies to reality, no matter how extreme.
I do not charge for sex, but if we are going to a club or venue, you will be expected to pick up the costs.
just here to chat and connect - with experienced Doms - not those wanting a quickie in a hotel.
size -18 so if you don't like tiny, I'm not for you.
I am NOT a Cougar.
Big beard phobia.
NO cybersex or hookups. I will not play on vids - no.
No PHOTO, NO CHAT. Send a pic if you message so I can see who I'm talking to.
Hi, I’m Lois. 38 from Nottinghamshire. Not really sure what I’m after at the moment, just putting the feelers out there. Haven’t got much experience in the community, but I do have a little. I am definitely more of a sub leaning switch, but in the right circumstances.. who knows.
First up, i do have a dom! I‘m happy with him
I do not need some new dom! I‘m here to search a sub (girl and boys are welcome)! I want to dominate them! Together with my dom! If you do not read this then maybe you shouldn‘t text me at all…
I’m looking for someone to be intimate with, have fun with, and be dominated by.
I’d especially like you to spank me and play with my breasts. I’m a newbie here so willing to explore broader kinks!
Welcome to my world, where I embrace the thrilling edge of power dynamics and sensuality. I’m a switch with a deep passion for exploring the many layers of BDSM, whether it's the intensity of control, the trust required in surrender, or the art of mutual pleasure. With a few years of experience, I believe in creating a space where trust, communication, and mutual respect come first.
I enjoy bondage, discipline, D/s dynamics, impact play, sensory play, etc. and I'm always open to pushing boundaries in a consensual, safe environment. Whether you're looking for a strict/domineering or nurturing/supportive presence, or seeking to fulfill your deepest fantasies, I welcome you into a space where desires can be explored freely.
Limits and boundaries are always respected – I believe in the importance of consent and communication at all times. If you're ready for a deep dive into the world of BDSM, let's explore our chemistry together.
Any gender or gender non-conforming, and dom/sub/switch welcome but would like someone willing to explore at least lightly both sides of the dynamic but also looking for friends, as long as you aren't boring I'm happy to chat lol
Pretty new to the scene and just testing the waters to see what I like
I can be a little shy and honestly kinda nervous to be on here so forgive me for slow/no replies and I might take a little bit of work to get through to, hope you'll think its worth it though! And anything but shy once I'm comfortable
My BDSM test results:
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Switch
96% Rope bunny
94% Brat
93% Submissive
82% Degradee
75% Experimentalist
72% Masochist
62% Brat tamer
62% Degrader
62% Rigger
59% Dominant
58% Primal (Prey)
52% Voyeur
50% Sadist
48% Vanilla
32% Primal (Hunter)
20% Non-monogamist
18% Master/Mistress
15% Owner
9% Slave
6% Daddy/Mommy
1% Exhibitionist
1% Pet
0% Boy/Girl
0% Ageplayer
Hey
I have been in the lifestyle for a large amount of time.
I do not see likes or spanks.
Don't be shy, drop me a message if you would like to know something, and I'll get back to you.
If you don't approve of tattoos and piercing, there is no point messaging me.
I have a very busy 'vanilla' life also. I am close to my immediate family, and my nephew is my world. I have both a dog, a cat and 2 gerbils. I like the simple things in life and also love the countryside.
I know what I want in life, and I'm not afraid of saying that. I'm not here for hookups or kinky dates. If I do not have mental connections with the person, it's a waste of my time and theirs.
If I don't reply straight away, don't worry, I'm probably gaming.
I am open minded and really enjoy listening to men's fantasies. I can give you a real experience and bring your fantasies to reality, no matter how extreme.
I do not charge for sex, but if we are going to a club or venue, you will be expected to pick up the costs.
Looking to widen my knowledge of the whole BDSM scene and make some like-minded friends.
I want to explore a learn about new kinks and ideas especially shibari, CNC, ***d orgasm, Dom/Sub roles.
Always happy to chat and learn a few things.
If you must refer to me, it's Vixx.
I'm a sadomasochist, not a sub, not a Mistress, I like watching you squirm and being made to react to all manner of things.
I'm headstrong, confident and sarcastic. I'm important in my professional life and I have great friends and relationships, I don't _need_ someone in my life, I _want_ them.
I'm not looking for pen pals or online connections and don't have endless time or *** to travel vast distances and want ongoing tangible connections so I am likely to tell you that you're too far away
I'm really not a visual person, I don't care if you're 7 foot 2 with a 12 pack abs and look like (popular celeb crush) I wanna know if you're intelligent enough to have a conversation about more than sex. I want to know if you think with your brain not your genitals.
What excites you in life? What happens in your head when you see a beautiful sunset? What's your favorite song?
I don't think many will get this far, but if you do...
I've been in the kink and BDSM world coming up 11 years, I'm neither naive or inexperienced. I'm happy to help others explore but do not assume my age means inexperience.
I'm sadistic, I'm masochistic, I'm a pleasure slut, I'm a massive brat. I'm *not* yours or anyone else's "good girl" and I don't use titles. I'm a woman not a girl.
I'm not interested in being your pen pal so your location matters. If it's not easy to visit one another, then I'm going to send you on your way to save both of us the effort.
If it matters, I run 2 munches and coordinate a play event in Nottingham
You're going to message me anyway, so just be respectful?
? looking for her Dom. I'm a Masochist, sub, little but most of all a Princess.
I am not looking for NSA or one offs but believe true submission can only be given in a trusting relationship with communication and consent.
I am look for a male who is fairly local so that we can have regular contact and build something real.
I love dongens and munches. I am a little exhibitionist.
I have a massive lingerie and basque collection just needing someone to appreciate it fully.
I am sure that I will add to this as time goes on.
Hi!
I'm pretty inexperienced in this world, but very eager and open to learning! I'm curious about so many things, really most things.. I just need someone to hold my hand and guide the way.
I'll try add more as I go, please bare with me.. I have no clue what I'm doing!
Ultimately looking for an LTR. I do want a vanilla relationship with a kinky twist. Like to get kinky but only in a relationship setting with an emotional connection, too old for ONS.
I have tried certain things on my list but not
absolutely everything so wouldn't mind exploring those with the right person. Lastly I am a sub not your sub.
I'm pretty down to earth with a kind personality and good sense of humour (sometimes dark ?). I am shy to start with, but do open up the more I become comfortable with you.
I'm looking for someone I can connect with, possibly a relationship, a sadistic but caring dom who loves to take control in the bedroom. I haven't explored much. I would like to be pushed to my limits with the right person.
If you're interested in getting to know me better, feel free to message xx
Looking for life long kinky weirdo for fun maybe more. I'm Ginger well rounded kinky pervert looking for. decent easy going people for mutual masturbation, respect and kinky adventures.
I'm not interested in younger men please stop messaging me. I'm not interested in overly dominant people. you have zero chance of controlling me. Really submissive people sorry but you're not for me either. All round switchy filth bags is what I require. I don't want to exchange pictures and talk endless nonsense. I prefer real life meetings and decent conversation.
Not looking, I have all my needs met.
Poly bi sadist. I have MS, I wobble, hopefully I don’t fall down, it doesn’t stop me. Not tall, not thin, not wearing latex or heels.
Orange hair , 7 tattoos, 5’1, size 16
Great humour , love to laugh, very open and honest , very caring, like to please
Miss that sub/ Dom relationship , I’d love that trust , that bond and that feeling when I know my Dom is pleased with me
Sorry but only play with my age range
**Desires and Fantasies**
Love to be tied and made to cum
Love toys used on me
Understand I might need to be spanked sometimes ( do seem to bring that out in men)
Want to explore my sub side
Sorry , I don’t see likes
PLEASE know I’m not a hook ups girl , nothing wrong if that’s your thing but don’t waste your time cause it’s not mine
I enjoy, psychology, criminology, penology, film and reading. I'm a mixed medium artist in my spare time and currently working on murals as well as our business. My home is one big canvas for me to express my creativity.
We enjoy attending events such as Fetish and kink but our main go to is Fetish events as we enjoy the variety and naturally learn towards the alternative. I first began visiting the club events over 10 years ago but my interests go much further back. We took a break from the events but I still dabbled in some modelling. We have been back on the scene for a while now but now exploring new chapters this time.
Previously have played switch or more dominant roles but now exploring my submissive side. I am learning that I very much enjoy handing power over and wish to explore Erotic Hypno more in-depth. I hope to attend more events and learn more on this.
I am married who is my Daddy pleasure Dom. Not looking to hook up with anyone at this time. Just enjoying life and exploring more clubs and events. Find us mostly at
TG
Celestial studios
Xtasia
Any other wonderful recommendations welcome ?
I am a sadistic Mistress looking for play partners ..
**Desires and Fantasies**
Ultimate fantasy is to stay at BDSM hotel for a couple of nights with a favourite slave. I would like to explore different roles as a Domme e.g. Teacher police woman dr etc.
Finding out what my limits are and exploring how far I want to go with BDSM. To be adored by others
Joined Fetish as Khadi58 now MistressK_CAE
just here to chat and connect - with experienced Doms - not those wanting a quickie in a hotel.
size -18 so if you don't like tiny, I'm not for you.
I am NOT a Cougar.
Big beard phobia.
NO cybersex or hookups. I will not play on vids - no.
No PHOTO, NO CHAT. Send a pic if you message so I can see who I'm talking to.
I’m new to the BDSM scene and I’m looking for an experienced dominant to guide me. I am interested in exploring DDLG and primal which I dabbled in with an ex partner.
I am looking for someone who will respect my boundaries but also push me to explore. However, I would also like it to grow into a more serious and monogamous relationship over time.
I am an ameuter novelist and journalist. I enjoy yoga, ballet and reading to manny classic novels. I spend a lot of time baking and cooking when I’m not working.
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