BDSM Dating in Deddington

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Hello,

As the title suggests I am an 18 yo Male, who is interested in exploring my submissive side and mainly pegging. I'll make it clear though that I am a switch (not purely submissive), I can travel but not accommodate (happy to book hotels etc), I am not always free as I live a relatively busy lifestyle, I do have a partner (who does not know about this and I do not want them to find out, so please keep that in mind), but I am looking for something a bit extra and learn about myself from someone who would be willing to be patient at times but push me at the same time to go out of my comfort zone and try new things.

IF that hasn't put you off, and would like to help me/play with me then here is a little bit more information:

I am located in the Oxfordshire area, and I can travel freely as I please. I do work regular hours and my weekends can be a bit hit or miss if I'm busy or not. I would rather 'schedule' something in than having a spontaneous session so that I can organise my way around it. Due to my age I am very inexperienced in this world but I am looking forward to being exposed to BDSM more and more as I learn about myself. I don't have any age preferences at all, and I am open to anything at least once. But I would love to try pegging as that is something I have a fantasy for, I don't want to rush straight into it I would need some time to get to know each other before we do anything sexually, this doesn't have to be in person it can be online (please bear in mind I will have notifications silenced as I don't want my partner to find out but I am regularly checking my phone).

I am NOT looking for any kind of FinDom, however I am willing to buy toys/outfits (within reason) to enhance our play sessions, also I have toyed with the Idea of booking a dungeon but have never had anyone to go with, this would be ideal because then there is nothing to worry about and no one can hear anything that's going on . I'm hoping that we click and I would like to go to munches or events together too when we get a bit further down the line.

So if you are interested, please read through my profile before messaging, then please leave a comment or send me a DM and I'll get back to you as quickly as possible.

(I've tried to make this as professional/clear as I can but if there is anything I could do differently then let me know as I am always learning!)

Thank you so much for reading,
-Funnyguy435

About Me:

Hey there! I’m an adventurous and open-minded kink enthusiast, currently exploring the vibrant scene in Oxford. As a versatile switch, I thrive on both the dynamic roles of dominant and submissive, and I’m always eager to embrace new experiences and playfully engage with others who share my interests. My journey in the world of kink has been an exciting one, and I’m looking to connect with like-minded individuals who are ready to explore and expand their horizons together.

Interests:

Kink Exploration: From sensation play to power dynamics, I’m passionate about the diverse spectrum of kink and always open to trying new things.
Creative Play: I love incorporating creativity into my scenes, whether it’s through themed role-plays, intricate bondage, or experimenting with different scenarios.
Learning and Growth: I’m a firm believer in continuous learning and mutual respect in all interactions. If you have knowledge or experience to share, I’m all ears!
What I’m Looking For: I’m interested in meeting people who are enthusiastic about exploring their kinky side and are open to engaging in fun, consensual play. Whether you’re a seasoned player or new to the scene, if you’re confident, respectful, and ready to share some exciting experiences, let’s connect!

I’m excited about discovering local events, meeting fellow kinksters, and making the most everything.

Let’s Connect: If you’re interested in embarking on a thrilling journey of exploration with a kinky switch, drop me a message! I’m always up for a chat to discuss interests, share ideas, and see where our chemistry takes us. Here’s to creating unforgettable experiences and enjoying the exciting adventures that lie ahead!

Hi there,

I was wondering if there are 2 girls on here who would be interested in a 3 some. I am a switch who is happily to go to either extremes or it can be quite plane. I’m free this Saturday morning, sunday afternoon, next Saturday evening and in the evenings during the week if you message me quickly.

I’ve always fantasised about a 3 some and would be very interested in it so please feel free to send me a dm

Looking for a lady to join us on Friday evening for some cheeky fun!

Plans cancelled and at a loose end tonight?
Anyone up for a drink?

A lady doth be required for kinky fun and antics with a loving and doting couple 😅 inquire via DM or pigeon post, whichever works for you

So Halloween is around the corner, and I have a thing for vampires. Eternity as a servant after being turned in the moonlight. To fulfil your desire and fantasy. (Not real ***)

Hi there,

I'm looking for someone to play with either regularly or just as a one off, It would be great to meet this weekend, saturday night or anytime sunday would work great, im near oxford but can travel but unfortunately cant accommodate.

Message me and lets get started!

I might not look it but I have a very dommy side :3 looking for a older sub xx to play with on camera x ^-^ I'm more fluffy domme then cruel xx

Hi there,

The title is pretty self explanitary, I want to either fuck or be fucked in a 3 some with 2 girls or more. Willing to travel in the uk wether its you and a random person or you and a friend feel free to get in touch. I am a massive switch who can go to both extremes of being dominant or submissive whichever gets that pussy throbbing i will do it.

Hi there,

I'll keep it short and simple:

I'm looking for a new play partner, preferabbly a dominant woman but i'm also down for switches or submissive women.

Message me for more information and lets get started,

P.S. just turned 18

I’m basically just looking for a woman that’s interested in hurting me and bankrupting me 😅 if you’re interested lmk x

Hey there you kinkster!

I'm looking for a new BDSM play partner that is dominant, need i say more??/
Message me and lets get started

looking for a lovely girl to explore fantasies with, down for anything

I am looking for a sub to explore the kinky side of my personality.

Ideally looking for something casual, no strings, but anything and everything can be discussed.

I work in North London, so can meet round there if Oxford is not your thing.

Looking for someone interested in exploring sexualization and sensuality. TPE and tasks. My profile goes into the overt detail of my kinks.

Ideally, (though just the above is fine as I'm looking for pet projects, potential pun intended) I'm looking for a romantic and life partner too. Poly or ENM may be preferred by you. I'm not so bothered myself - was in such a relationship for years and had I believe a single solo dalliance - but platonic relationships are rare to find for me so I'll take them how I can.

Catch-22 and MASH is my humour. I love horror and exploitation films, the more surreal and gory the better. Favourite films randomly thought of include the most recent Moulin Rouge, The Sadness, Yummy, Vampire Girl vs Frankenstein Girl, Willow, The Station Agent.

Music wise a diverse sample list would be Mariachi el Bronx, Skindred, Ladybaby, Dead South, Eminem, Fallout Boy, The Smiths, Rubberbandits, The Bunny The Bear, Chopin, Oingo Boingo.

I want someone to spend time with. To hold and cuddle and mildly molest as we watch and eat junk and listen to the rain pour down. To go to the gym and run and hike with. To take shopping and dress up in pretty things, take to events and have her screams drown out the music, to dance and pose together in the supermarkets and the streets.

I am looking for someone I guess who’s a switch. I would mainly want a Dom but I like to switch. I want to meet someone who can help me with shopping and clothing. Also someone to watch movies with

Bicester-based dom with a penchant for affectionate molestation, deviant displays and emotional and psychological sadism.

A van-lifer and jaded kinkster, I'm typically apathetic until I find someone to love. Simply, I seek someone to bestow affection, attention and arousal on.

I'm looking for a relaxed life - someone to pet and punish, as well as play boardgames and go exploring and traveling with. To shape and teach and sculpt into the culmination of our ideals.

I enjoy innocence tainted and erotic irony. Sobs and screams muffled around your underwear balled into your mouth or my cock spreading your throat as you try to stroke me to orgasm with your hands at your neck to earn yourself some air; I love to make people choose debasement for their own satisfaction or as an ironic path to release, whether orgasm or more generically physical. If not choking yourself to be able to breathe then your squirming, shuffling feet, sobbing and mewling as you're trapped being edged by a vibrator just barely touching you, leading to you begging to be spanked or face-fucked so it goes that extra inch.

I'd love a giggly girly princess to pretty and pervert, a fun, dumb girl to treat and traumatise. Whether you're already one or I have to break and remake you into a pleasuring plaything. I want someone I can buy beautiful things for and dress up trashy, then have fawn and coo for me and tease and titillate me into beating them for being so wanton. Someone to sculpt into pure tainted innocence, a cocktease who exudes arousal in everything they do, but seems totally unaware. I'll want you to do and dress as you're told, to be pierced and changed and transitioned into the perfection of corruption.

Mascara trails as your mouth is wrapped around my cock are a special enjoyment, and having your tear-streaked face looking up at me as I tell you the next stage of your life will make me throb against your lips.

I more emphatically also seek emotional connections, expecting you to come rest your head in my lap or pull my arms around you. To have you colouring in pornography at your desk as I write, to be servicing me as I read, or pulling at my hand as we go out on day trips and weekends away. I will want to talk and get to know every inch of you, inside and out, corporeal and metaphysical. Your emotions and mental health are things I take very seriously and seek to safeguard, despite abusing them in our agreed upon ways for your arousal.

I particularly seek someone to dress and display: high heels, basques and corsets, flared skirts, leotards, swimwear and French knickers and thongs rising above waistbands all engage. Bare-handed punishment is a particular preference of mine, your flailing legs in stockings or high socks kicking from beneath a short skirt, glowing cheeks framed by suspender straps and lace stocking tops. PPE is also a core kink, particularly mental conditioning and training, (transformation into something sexual, whether doll, beast or bimbo, is another major enjoyment) so having defined rules and requirements followed should appeal - holding my hand whilst we're out, eating and exercising properly, being dressed in/appropriately as dictated.

Compliance earns affection and pleasure. Disobedience rewards time for reflection and a more excruciating form of pleasing.

Come be the focus of my loving attention and suffer the barbs of my endless puns.

I am serious and expect those who message me to have serious intent as well, whether for play, power exchange or platonic pursuits.

I’m back after a while, and in need of some titillation, let’s see what happens this time…..😅

I’m new to this, even at my age so it’s now or never, and I would like to meet someone with whom I can explore, kinks, fantasies etc both ways.

This site is proving difficult to meet folk, what on earth am I doing wrong, must be my age….😏

Someone who is kind down to worth and likes to explore new things

Hi there. Want to essentially own a little sub? I'm your guy
My fantasy is such. I'm looking for someone who wants to dress me up as certain female characters and *** me to your hearts content. I really want to get into bondage and stuff like that