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About Me: I’m a spirited, cheeky woman who loves to challenge the status quo—and sometimes test your patience (in the best way possible). I’m drawn to deep connections that allow for trust, laughter, and a little bit of teasing along the way. I appreciate a partner who can keep up with my mischievous side while understanding the value of balance and boundaries. Life’s about exploring both the sweet and the spicy, and I’m not afraid to venture into those tantalising places where passion and playfulness collide. If you know how to handle a bit of fire, you’ll find someone who’s fiercely loyal, endlessly curious, and full of energy. What I’m Looking For: Someone confident, compassionate, and not afraid to take charge when the moment calls for it. If you appreciate both spirited banter and quiet moments of vulnerability, we might just get along famously. Let’s Connect If: You enjoy a good laugh, know how to handle a challenge, and understand that trust is the foundation of all great adventures—no matter how daring they may be.

I am hmm who am I used to be a very out going now rather reserved outwardly. I am a large human lumps bumps and rolls but still human so be nice or move on . normally like walks bedroom exploring not always in the bedroom ect I'm pretty boring unless you are the right one to unlock and awaken parts of me size 16 ish have two kids needed to add that as sone seem shocked when I cant answer msgs ASAP ok so I met one fellow human im not cut out for this im supppppper awkward im shy can't don't know how to make first move this ain't the movies please don't ask who I am what I'm after I have no ***y clue I live 8n country side dobt see many humans im a nerd

looking to be owned and held and adored. I am a switch. Have a speckled past and need someone confident. might even relocate my life and start again I need. fresh start. the last few weeks I’ve felt like a curled up ball of fluff very cute submissive / nervey. not in that mistress mood right now sorry guys.

I'm sexually submissive but not a 24/7 sub looking for domination / bondage within a praise / punishment dynamic. Especially interested right now if you are a rigger, I am missing being a rope bunny.

switchy princess looking for something longterm. i prefer things to begin non-sexual as In some ways that’s the most important part. mostly looking for dominant partners at the moment. women get first dibs x also, I get a lot of messages and I find texting random people annoying at the best of times since a lot of the time it ends up going nowhere. so just fyi, if you’re too far away I won’t reply, if you’re cheating I won’t reply, if you’re too old or too young for me I also won’t reply. don’t take it personally

Cosplayer I am kinda new to this all as i dont have anyone around me to guide me through it all. I know what i like and dislike. a wishlist for outfits for cosplay photos. **Desires and Fantasies** I am not sure at the moment..its alll trying stuff right now.

I am a calm easy going person, I do not want any drama. I am at a point in my life were I just want some fun. I want to explore and find new kinks and like minded people. I believe honesty and trust are paramount and I don't have time for people who feel the need to lie. I am generous and kind by nature can't take the credit we are who we are but we can always better ourselves.

Have explored a few things and not keen to explore more about being a sub… Also bi curious and looking to have NSA with experienced woman and tick off my sexy bucket list.

Looking for someone I can build a connection with, trust and communication is key! Also, having a laugh and being able to mess around. Tied up Blindfolded Fuck toy

I am a married mother of two beautiful daughters, but I have recently realised how unsatisfied I am and I decided that I want to meet up with new people, try new things and experiment. I want to try everything once, so I currently have no limits. I can travel anywhere as long as you give me enough reason to. I will rarely upload pics or videos as I wish to stay fairly anonymous for now, but if we hit it off then I am more then happy to share pics of me. I am able to host at certain times of the year, while my partner is away.

Hi there I am not new to the scene but not incredibly experienced. I am wanting to see if I can find the right person for a mix of vanilla and Ds...so that I can explore further with someone I trust.... I have a strong character and am 5.9 and would appreciate someone taller ? #aimingforthestars

Hey, just a little girl hoping to find her Daddy/CG I’m an avid ddlg fan and highly into age play. I like everything that comes with being a little baby. I want to be pampered, put in a nappy, dummy in my mouth, head pats and cuddles. But to be disciplined when needed. I’m hoping to find a kind, caring, nurturing daddy who enjoys that side just as much as the sexual side because I’m not always a sexual little. On the whole I’m a good little girl but can sometimes be a little bit bratty. I have a busy, “normal” every day life with responsibilities (like most) so this isn’t something I practice everyday. I’m looking for a good connection with someone so when we are together, we can be in a ddlg dynamic. I’m not here for “cyber fun”. Btw I’ve been in this lifestyle for many years now and can spot fakes from a mile off so please, let’s not waste each others time. Happy to send photo of my face once we’ve started chatting, thank you for reading.

Hi, my name is Panda, please only refer to me as Panda unless otherwise specified. WARNING TO ALL MEN: I’m not interested in you sexually so don’t come into my DMs expecting anything of the sort. i will also not allow you to see my private pictures so don’t bother asking to see them (it’s disappointing that this has to be explicitly said). I will rightfully be rude to you if you cannot be bothered to read my profile or ignore this warning. A little about me: - Hobbies include playing and coaching football (this is an absolute passion of mine but it’s not my whole personality, don’t worry), various artsy things, singing, and learning new things. There are more but I can’t give everything away here! - Some of my likes include serial killer documentaries, reading, various genres of music and spending time with my family. - Some of my dislikes include people that insist they’re right and refuse to consider other people’s point of view/perspective, a whole load of sensory things, people that are two-faced and getting overwhelmed. - WARNING: I can get overwhelmed by things in life and struggle to respond to messages, please be considerate during these times. - I have a wonderful fiancé/Daddy whom I love very much and am collared by. - I have a variety of kinks, some I have experienced, others I have not but am interested in, so message me if you’re interested in knowing more. Just as a taste I enjoy impact play, rope play, *** and praise. What am I looking for: - Friends are always welcome! I love being able to talk with people about kinky and non-kinky things, especially if there’s something to learn! - To extend my knowledge and experience with some of my kinks, message me to find out more. - I am only looking for women to be with in a sexual and kinky way. I am a switch but don’t have much experience being Domme. - Ultimately looking for a lovely lady to experience a loving throuple with! Thank you for your consideration!

someone get me a whisky i hate doing these things hello I am Molly^^ talk to me like a human being looking for: kinky friends if we vibe, maybe fwb dominant guy preferably

Bi sub Praise kink servitude kink, new to this so need training and explore my kinks a bit more open to becoming a live in sub in the distance future, relationship permitting ( yet to find the term the defines my sub style yet) ideally want a LTR with a D/s dynamic looking for a long term relationship, women, men and couple are all welcome you don’t own me immediately, I’m not a piece of meat. mutual respect and understanding need message me I can’t see likes and visits

I’m a kinky, ethically non-monogamous queer who is looking for people to have a pleasurable and ***ful time with. If that sounds like what you are after then hmu ;)

Hi! I’m Indy. I’ve been a submissive for many years now. I identify as a chaos gremlin in a flesh suit 90% of the time. I’m a submissive through and through with masochistic and service tendencies. I have a strong urge to serve and please but I also have a quick mouth and enjoy the trouble it gets me in. I thrive with high protocol but couldn’t do it all the time. I believe kink should be fun and enjoyable for all involved and try not to take myself too seriously. So be warned, I probably wont take you seriously either.

I have a high sex drive. I believe sexual exhaustion is one of the best feelings. I been there, done that. But there is more to explore. Not into ONS, sorry.

Please **NO** married men, younger men or people looking for 'online play'. I am **only** interested in **real life meets** with **experienced** older Dom's. # Kink: I am very inexperienced when it comes to BDSM - my only experiences have been with an older guy I was seeing on and off, he would _occasionally_ blindfold me, restrain me, spank/use a riding crop on me and be slightly rougher. Although still fairly vanilla, these experiences unlocked something in me, and since then I have realised that I am a submissive, and have craved nothing more than to explore this side of me fully. I am looking for an **experienced** Dom who would be willing to take his time to guide and train me on my submissive journey. A Dom who is caring, respectful, patient but also strict, firm and not afraid to take control. I am looking for a long term dynamic ultimately leading to a TPE/24/7 dynamic where my Dom has full sexual control over me, and a majority of control in my every day life. I have many, many kinks (some listed on my profile.) # Vanilla: I live alone in a sleepy little village in Oxfordshire. I work part time in an admin role. In my spare time I love spending time with my friends and family. I also love cooking, baking, long country walks, travelling and music! I am 5'3, curvy, have auburn hair, hazel eyes and wear glasses. I am a plain Jane for sure! # You should be aware - **I am autistic.** This does **NOT** hold me back in life. But it does mean I am very shy and anxious when meeting and even talking to new people. This is why it is very important to me to find a Dom who is patient and understanding and willing to take this at a slow and steady pace. I believe my autism plays a big part in my desire to be submissive - because of the routine, structure and not having to be in control/make decisions. I am only interested in talking to people who are serious, I don't respond to random "heys" - be creative! Let me know you've read my profile! I hope to hear from you... M x (on a similar site, under the same name) x

Hi I’m a 20 year old girl looking to explore her daddy/daughter roleplay fetish. I’m looking for a daddy to teach me how to please and be gentle but ***ful and dominant at the same time. I love the dynamic of a man old enough to be my father, who treats me as well as he would his own daughter, but also f*cks me exactly like a daddy would fuck his daughter. make no mistake, this isn’t an excuse to get abusive and hurtful! I want a kind daddy who takes things slow and is gentle, someone who is willing to teach a girl like me. please message if you would like to help x (also you have to love playing with nipples!?)

Hey, I’ve had accounts on here before but they’ve not gone anywhere.. I’m looking for an in person dynamic with someone whose willing to be gentle with me (until they’re not)

25 yo sub looking for a daddy dom/caregiver for a long term relationship. Still relatively new to all this. Not looking for random hookups and meaningless sex. Want in person meets not just virtual. Into bdsm, want to be trained into an obedient slut/good girl. Not sure what else to say so just message and ask questions if you’re curious?

------------------------------------------------------ *My Keywords:* Trans - Straight Female Identifying - Somewhat Hetero Normative - Busty - BBW - Brassy (brat & sassy) - only child - no kids - grown kid - down with the kids - humour - candour - foodie - music nerd - glasses - American - girlfriend with potential - silly at times - aloof at times - immature at times - knee high socks - love - open - open minded - more than you can handle - even more - gen X - gen Z wannabe ------------------------------------------------------ *Firsties:* Connection, communication abilities/aptitude and trust are superior. A stimulating D/s relationship is knowing me from the inside out, starting with my psyche. Tapping into my mental vibrations will ensure you get the best from me. My "scene" range is anywhere from sensual & passionate vanilla to rougher/verbal/boundaries pushed. I prefer you be in charge. I will trust that you will know how to handle your/my/our business. In the beginning I like for things to flow naturally & organically - don't come in hot. ----------------------------------------------------- *Immediate Turn Offs:* If I've said hello and we have been chatting, I DO NOT belong to you. What I am seeking is VERY specific and it's not that simple nor am I that thirsty. Being a Dom shouldn't mean that your "default mode" is "asshole mode." There is a way to be assertive & respectful, if you are an experienced/skilled Dom, you will have the ability to find that balance. Making assumptions and taking certain liberties before agreements/understandings are made will steer me to completely disengage. Blind incoming cold calls: If we mutually want to have a webcam call, let's set a time. You know, there's nothing wrong with giving a girl a "heads-up." Cold calling typically means you're not respecting my time so you get blocked. Please do not do this. Oh and my absolute favourite question (NOT!) "What is your dress size?" This will result in a block - I'm a top heavy curvy BBW with lots of fabulousness. If a "size" is your ultimate concern, we are not a match. I am not defined by a "size" unless we're talking about my personality. ------------------------------------------------------ *Setting Expectations:* I only do Fet Chat and What's App chat. Those are your choices. I'm not moving to different platforms for onesies and twosies - sorry - no Snappie, no Tellie, don't ask. If you ask, it's clear you haven't read my profile and you may get blocked. If we have connected on What's App, congratulations, we've progressed - but you still don't "own" me. There is more work to be done. Show me you know the difference between there, they're and their as well as your, you're and yours. ------------------------------------------------------ *Wishlist Items:* A Softer/Passionate/Caring/Daddy/Daddy-Bear/Dad/Dom who freely exercises passion & softness. Connection/conversations/common interests outside of kink. A Dom, who's default "everyday mode" is cool/calm/collected/respected. ------------------------------------------------------ *Non-Negotiables:* Being cool with Medicinal 420 - (Google if you don't know) Excellent body hygiene RACK/SSC & safe-word usage Good aftercare skills Praise, acknowledgement & reward ------------------------------------------------------ *Power Bottom Me:* I'm selfish with my time, so please make our time together worth while. I don't want to be in charge, but I DO know what I like and want, for the most part, but totally down for exploring and pushing boundaries. Not into "costuming" - don't get me wrong, I have a sexy leather corset and a couple paddles/floggers, but I'm not into Latex/PVC or kinks that require a whole "get up." There may be exceptions to this - a man in a work uniform seems to do things to me. I believe that being a D/s, we should know our places without a lot of props or s***ch, that's primal and sexy AF. I'm more stimulated by the things you say and do. ------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------

Fairly new to all this! I’m looking to explore more of my little side :) like to be dominated and praised/punished when necessary

About Me: I’m a spirited, cheeky woman who loves to challenge the status quo—and sometimes test your patience (in the best way possible). I’m drawn to deep connections that allow for trust, laughter, and a little bit of teasing along the way. I appreciate a partner who can keep up with my mischievous side while understanding the value of balance and boundaries. Life’s about exploring both the sweet and the spicy, and I’m not afraid to venture into those tantalising places where passion and playfulness collide. If you know how to handle a bit of fire, you’ll find someone who’s fiercely loyal, endlessly curious, and full of energy. What I’m Looking For: Someone confident, compassionate, and not afraid to take charge when the moment calls for it. If you appreciate both spirited banter and quiet moments of vulnerability, we might just get along famously. Let’s Connect If: You enjoy a good laugh, know how to handle a challenge, and understand that trust is the foundation of all great adventures—no matter how daring they may be.

Looking for someone I can build a connection with, trust and communication is key! Also, having a laugh and being able to mess around. Tied up Blindfolded Fuck toy

I am a married mother of two beautiful daughters, but I have recently realised how unsatisfied I am and I decided that I want to meet up with new people, try new things and experiment. I want to try everything once, so I currently have no limits. I can travel anywhere as long as you give me enough reason to. I will rarely upload pics or videos as I wish to stay fairly anonymous for now, but if we hit it off then I am more then happy to share pics of me. I am able to host at certain times of the year, while my partner is away.

Have explored a few things and not keen to explore more about being a sub… Also bi curious and looking to have NSA with experienced woman and tick off my sexy bucket list.

I am a calm easy going person, I do not want any drama. I am at a point in my life were I just want some fun. I want to explore and find new kinks and like minded people. I believe honesty and trust are paramount and I don't have time for people who feel the need to lie. I am generous and kind by nature can't take the credit we are who we are but we can always better ourselves.

Cosplayer I am kinda new to this all as i dont have anyone around me to guide me through it all. I know what i like and dislike. a wishlist for outfits for cosplay photos. **Desires and Fantasies** I am not sure at the moment..its alll trying stuff right now.

looking to be owned and held and adored. I am a switch. Have a speckled past and need someone confident. might even relocate my life and start again I need. fresh start. the last few weeks I’ve felt like a curled up ball of fluff very cute submissive / nervey. not in that mistress mood right now sorry guys.

I am hmm who am I used to be a very out going now rather reserved outwardly. I am a large human lumps bumps and rolls but still human so be nice or move on . normally like walks bedroom exploring not always in the bedroom ect I'm pretty boring unless you are the right one to unlock and awaken parts of me size 16 ish have two kids needed to add that as sone seem shocked when I cant answer msgs ASAP ok so I met one fellow human im not cut out for this im supppppper awkward im shy can't don't know how to make first move this ain't the movies please don't ask who I am what I'm after I have no ***y clue I live 8n country side dobt see many humans im a nerd

I'm sexually submissive but not a 24/7 sub looking for domination / bondage within a praise / punishment dynamic. Especially interested right now if you are a rigger, I am missing being a rope bunny.

switchy princess looking for something longterm. i prefer things to begin non-sexual as In some ways that’s the most important part. mostly looking for dominant partners at the moment. women get first dibs x also, I get a lot of messages and I find texting random people annoying at the best of times since a lot of the time it ends up going nowhere. so just fyi, if you’re too far away I won’t reply, if you’re cheating I won’t reply, if you’re too old or too young for me I also won’t reply. don’t take it personally

Hi there I am not new to the scene but not incredibly experienced. I am wanting to see if I can find the right person for a mix of vanilla and Ds...so that I can explore further with someone I trust.... I have a strong character and am 5.9 and would appreciate someone taller ? #aimingforthestars

Please **NO** married men, younger men or people looking for 'online play'. I am **only** interested in **real life meets** with **experienced** older Dom's. # Kink: I am very inexperienced when it comes to BDSM - my only experiences have been with an older guy I was seeing on and off, he would _occasionally_ blindfold me, restrain me, spank/use a riding crop on me and be slightly rougher. Although still fairly vanilla, these experiences unlocked something in me, and since then I have realised that I am a submissive, and have craved nothing more than to explore this side of me fully. I am looking for an **experienced** Dom who would be willing to take his time to guide and train me on my submissive journey. A Dom who is caring, respectful, patient but also strict, firm and not afraid to take control. I am looking for a long term dynamic ultimately leading to a TPE/24/7 dynamic where my Dom has full sexual control over me, and a majority of control in my every day life. I have many, many kinks (some listed on my profile.) # Vanilla: I live alone in a sleepy little village in Oxfordshire. I work part time in an admin role. In my spare time I love spending time with my friends and family. I also love cooking, baking, long country walks, travelling and music! I am 5'3, curvy, have auburn hair, hazel eyes and wear glasses. I am a plain Jane for sure! # You should be aware - **I am autistic.** This does **NOT** hold me back in life. But it does mean I am very shy and anxious when meeting and even talking to new people. This is why it is very important to me to find a Dom who is patient and understanding and willing to take this at a slow and steady pace. I believe my autism plays a big part in my desire to be submissive - because of the routine, structure and not having to be in control/make decisions. I am only interested in talking to people who are serious, I don't respond to random "heys" - be creative! Let me know you've read my profile! I hope to hear from you... M x (on a similar site, under the same name) x

I’m a kinky, ethically non-monogamous queer who is looking for people to have a pleasurable and ***ful time with. If that sounds like what you are after then hmu ;)

I have a high sex drive. I believe sexual exhaustion is one of the best feelings. I been there, done that. But there is more to explore. Not into ONS, sorry.

Sub and little looking to explore I'd like a long term non romantic relationship with a dom that will work with me and train me so I can explore what I like. Areas of interest include: Breath play orgasm control/denial dd/LG pet play cnc

25 yo sub looking for a daddy dom/caregiver for a long term relationship. Still relatively new to all this. Not looking for random hookups and meaningless sex. Want in person meets not just virtual. Into bdsm, want to be trained into an obedient slut/good girl. Not sure what else to say so just message and ask questions if you’re curious?

Bi sub Praise kink servitude kink, new to this so need training and explore my kinks a bit more open to becoming a live in sub in the distance future, relationship permitting ( yet to find the term the defines my sub style yet) ideally want a LTR with a D/s dynamic looking for a long term relationship, women, men and couple are all welcome you don’t own me immediately, I’m not a piece of meat. mutual respect and understanding need message me I can’t see likes and visits

someone get me a whisky i hate doing these things hello I am Molly^^ talk to me like a human being looking for: kinky friends if we vibe, maybe fwb dominant guy preferably

Hey! I’m Miss Gorgalicious! I am new to the fetish community although I attend fetish events in London such as *** Garden frequently :) I love to experiment! Although as a switch, I’m easily adaptable and would love to play around and see what the dynamic brings out in me.

------------------------------------------------------ *My Keywords:* Trans - Straight Female Identifying - Somewhat Hetero Normative - Busty - BBW - Brassy (brat & sassy) - only child - no kids - grown kid - down with the kids - humour - candour - foodie - music nerd - glasses - American - girlfriend with potential - silly at times - aloof at times - immature at times - knee high socks - love - open - open minded - more than you can handle - even more - gen X - gen Z wannabe ------------------------------------------------------ *Firsties:* Connection, communication abilities/aptitude and trust are superior. A stimulating D/s relationship is knowing me from the inside out, starting with my psyche. Tapping into my mental vibrations will ensure you get the best from me. My "scene" range is anywhere from sensual & passionate vanilla to rougher/verbal/boundaries pushed. I prefer you be in charge. I will trust that you will know how to handle your/my/our business. In the beginning I like for things to flow naturally & organically - don't come in hot. ----------------------------------------------------- *Immediate Turn Offs:* If I've said hello and we have been chatting, I DO NOT belong to you. What I am seeking is VERY specific and it's not that simple nor am I that thirsty. Being a Dom shouldn't mean that your "default mode" is "asshole mode." There is a way to be assertive & respectful, if you are an experienced/skilled Dom, you will have the ability to find that balance. Making assumptions and taking certain liberties before agreements/understandings are made will steer me to completely disengage. Blind incoming cold calls: If we mutually want to have a webcam call, let's set a time. You know, there's nothing wrong with giving a girl a "heads-up." Cold calling typically means you're not respecting my time so you get blocked. Please do not do this. Oh and my absolute favourite question (NOT!) "What is your dress size?" This will result in a block - I'm a top heavy curvy BBW with lots of fabulousness. If a "size" is your ultimate concern, we are not a match. I am not defined by a "size" unless we're talking about my personality. ------------------------------------------------------ *Setting Expectations:* I only do Fet Chat and What's App chat. Those are your choices. I'm not moving to different platforms for onesies and twosies - sorry - no Snappie, no Tellie, don't ask. If you ask, it's clear you haven't read my profile and you may get blocked. If we have connected on What's App, congratulations, we've progressed - but you still don't "own" me. There is more work to be done. Show me you know the difference between there, they're and their as well as your, you're and yours. ------------------------------------------------------ *Wishlist Items:* A Softer/Passionate/Caring/Daddy/Daddy-Bear/Dad/Dom who freely exercises passion & softness. Connection/conversations/common interests outside of kink. A Dom, who's default "everyday mode" is cool/calm/collected/respected. ------------------------------------------------------ *Non-Negotiables:* Being cool with Medicinal 420 - (Google if you don't know) Excellent body hygiene RACK/SSC & safe-word usage Good aftercare skills Praise, acknowledgement & reward ------------------------------------------------------ *Power Bottom Me:* I'm selfish with my time, so please make our time together worth while. I don't want to be in charge, but I DO know what I like and want, for the most part, but totally down for exploring and pushing boundaries. Not into "costuming" - don't get me wrong, I have a sexy leather corset and a couple paddles/floggers, but I'm not into Latex/PVC or kinks that require a whole "get up." There may be exceptions to this - a man in a work uniform seems to do things to me. I believe that being a D/s, we should know our places without a lot of props or s***ch, that's primal and sexy AF. I'm more stimulated by the things you say and do. ------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------------------------------

✨25-35 year olds only this is a boundary if you ignore it I will immediately block you ✨ I’m not a dom fuck off I’m not pegging you ✨ Tattoos, Piercings, and Bikers are my weaknesses ✨ I want a LTR ✨ Aftercare is extremely important to me ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨ In my normal side of life I love to bake and music is pretty much my life line. If I’m not at work I’m either at home baking or dying my hair some crazy colour.

Fairly new to all this! I’m looking to explore more of my little side :) like to be dominated and praised/punished when necessary

Hey, I’ve had accounts on here before but they’ve not gone anywhere.. I’m looking for an in person dynamic with someone whose willing to be gentle with me (until they’re not)

• Sadistic Domme for around 9 years & a submissive for 3 on and off. • Currently exploring my own submissive side and looking for a Dom. • I’m not interested in Findom or financial exchange. • Don’t message me addressing me with a title, you are a stranger online as am I. • No response is a response. ————————————————————— *Swiping no in spanks shows you viewed someone’s profile, if I don’t respond I’m most likely not interested and didn’t view your profile.* ————————————————————— **Vanilla Likes:** Travelling, socialising, video games, movies and cooking. **Domme Likes** Watersports, pegging, chastity, orgasm control/edging, CNC, praise, sounding, electro play and more. **Submissive likes** CNC, praise, choking, orgasm denial/control, knife play, chastity, latex gloves, anal, nipple play, wax, temperature play, impact play and more.