Big in Oakham

BDSM dating on Fetish.com

Love big curvy woman

I’m going to try and give as much information as I can in this post

Male dom here looking for a sub to work on a relationship that will become TPE. I have been experimenting over the past 3 years learning what I like and don’t like. Trying new kinks and learning about a whole new world that I didn’t know about. I’ve had some very fun times and fun partners that I’ve been able to experiment with and let my dominant side come out.


At the beginning of the year I started a new dynamic with some one online that I had never done before. We started off talking as normal and then she said she wanted to do TPE. This was new for me but I was very interested. For the first couple of weeks we just spent the time getting to know each other and building up a trust. We set up boundaries in the beginning and said we won’t jump right into this. We agreed I’ll slowly get control of things one by one. I ended up getting control over 3 things in her life before we had to call it off. Personal reasons that both us of had no control over.

Now I have got a taste of that kind of relationship,I don’t think I want anything else. I’m looking to try and build this type of relationship/lifestyle again.

What I’m looking for is some one who is committed and really wants the same as me. I know it’s a massive ask for some one to give up all control but with a lot work from both side we could make something amazing. A massive kink and love of mine is being given power. I loved having that control over some one but I also want to be able to help someone. Let me help you become a better version of your self

About me: im 26 years old. Im 5’7 with brown hair and a ginger beard. I have 9 tattoos that are placed all over my body,some of them are big pieces. I have a couple of piercings as well. I would say im a slim toned build.

Sfw side: once comfortable I have a really dark sense of humour. I use to be a big party guy but since getting my own place a couple of years ago I have become a bit of an introvert. I enjoy nights in over nights out, doesn’t mean I don’t go out anymore though. I use to be very big into working out but had a break over the last year. Just getting into boxing training which I’m falling in love with. One thing you should know about me is I don’t ever see kids being in my future. I came to this decision a long time ago and my mind won’t change on that.I want to put my time and effort into other things in my life

NSFW side: I like impact play, breath play, restrains, cnc, fisting. Eating arse, I’m also a pleasure dom,I love giving. I have been getting more into bdsm. I have made my own Czech glory hole that you can be strapped into. I’m wanting to getting into rope classes as well so I can learn to do shibari properly. I’m definitely a bit sadistic so hopefully you are some one who is good with ***

I’m happy with talking online for a bit but I’m not looking for another online relationship . I want to be able to meet up in person and build a proper relationship

It’s ok with me if you have experience or not. This is something we will build together and experiment with so as long as you are open and willing to try then we can make this work. If you have experience in any of it then that’s great

Thanks for reading this long post. Fingers crossed I find the person im looking for

Want to meet a lady who will be in charge and likes to dress her sissys. I'm into leather big time. Into boot worship and slavery. I'll be so well behaved and do as I am told. I love being put in ladysmith clothing and humiliated

Looking for lady for kinky lady who likes big and strong man to have fun for both of us. Im clean hygienic and very kind gentelmen.

Hiii! I'm quite new to this app and so far looks dead, so would like to meet someone to prove me wrong.
I'm 25 years young, good stamina, athletic, open experimental... big kink for mature women
😈👅

Looking for a cute shy bottom to make mine

New Edit - June 23

First of all if you are into of any kind, I am not interested.

If you have an OnlyFans account or likewise, then I am not interested.

I am not interested in one night stands, never had one, never will. I want something meaningful.

Now we have got that out of the way.....

Personal:
48 year old
Larger build - Dad bod, but not a dad !!
Broad shoulders
Big arms
Big shoulders
Hairy chest
Approx five foot ten
Single
No
Professional career
Car
Flat share so do not accommodate.
Sarcastic
Weird sense of humour
I do not put face pics on here, I will however skype to prove I am totally genuine
Brutally honest

Hobbies:
Fishing
Computing
Photography - Aviation, military aviation, wildlife and landscape
History, particularly military history
Badminton
Squash

TV Shows
Red Dwarf
Taskmaster
QI
Ray Mears
Would I lie to you
Any fishing programme....
Many more

Kik
Masterforslave1

Skype
live:masterforslave1

What am I looking for?
Well a meaningful dom/sub relationship.
Good communication
Connection
Honesty
Loyalty


Likes - (not limited to...) But feel free to ask
Teasing, mentally and physically
Caning
Nipple
Clit
Spanking
Kissing
Restraints
Orgasm denial
***d orgasm
Aftercare......

Dislikes

Needles
*** play

Just looking for a single man with the freedom and financial capacity to travel round the world with me.
Would prefer dom characteristics (anyone down to give me a spanking for chatting shit abroad 😝) and over 24yo.
Also, driving liscence and covid vaccine would be a big plus… if you want a travel partner drop me a message, see if we get on, then let’s get outta here!! 😅

Id love to find woman into ***. Kinda big fantasy of mine

In the Birmingham area; this is a fetish of mine I've never acted on with previous girlfriends, because I wasn't sure how they'd take it. Hence, I've turned to something more anonymous. I'll do my best to make it pleasurable/fun for you! This brief should work well for women already experienced enough that this isn't a big deal, or for those like me who are just curious.

If you like it come let’s meet and enjoy

Would like to be dominated by a woman for a kinky session very open minded or a threesome with a couple. Don’t mind being filmed it’s a big turn on.

Seeking a true Dom with a filthy mind, a firm hand and a heart of gold.

One who wants long term and only me alone.

I’m quite tiny (5ft 2”) with a regular body (not too big or anorexic).

I’m more drawn to older (39-56yr old) bigger men, I guess rugby player shape. Not necessarily overly muscular but someone who looks after themselves and in shape enough to keep up with me. 😜

Does that sound like you?

I have suppressed my sexuality for years and now wish to explore my fantasies. I’m excited!

I love being naughty and would love some naughty playmates.

I have a real slutty side, I like to be controlled, I am a bratty child. Big toys are my pleasure, do what you will with me. However, I can switch too!

Please come and play with me and help me find my limits.

I am a virtual domme looking for a virtual loyal submissive who MUST be into assplay (yours) as this is my biggest kink!! (Ps. Big plus if you’re a femboy)

I can get pretty taboo so let me know if that’s something you can handle hearing!

Hello, I am an intelligent, articulate late fifties British Male, living on the North London/ Hertfordshire border, looking for a curvy, busty woman with whom to indulge my love of big breast play.

I am - of course, happy to indulge your fantasies and kinks in return, and hopefully we will both obtain mutual gratification and fulfilment together.

My love for big breasts was forged in my ***s, thanks to one particular experience, and has stayed with me for over 40 years now.

I enjoy teasing, squeezing and groping a large pair of soft breasts through clothing, feeling your nipples stiffen in response. I love playing with nipples, pulling, and teasing them as they grow, and throb under my touch. I have given many Ladies nipple orgasms over the years, and firmly believe that anyone is capable of having one. Breast fucking, tit fucking, mammary intercourse, paizuri, tit wanking - all pretty much the same thing (well, except tit wanking - if you want to be pedantic…!) Do you enjoy having your breasts slapped ?, nipples clamped?, oiled, lubed toyed - and orgasmed over ?

If you’ve never tried these things, maybe it’s high time you did ?

I would very much like to chat with you about the possibilities - and have may (true) stories to tell about my own experiences, and of course, I would love to hear yours also !

So if you are just looking for mutual satisfaction- with no complications, or perhaps good wine, lunch, and naughty chat, which might lead on to something more, please feel free to drop me a line. I would love to hear from you.

Kink wise, not sure if this person exists, but someone who enjoys either playful, sensually charged or masochistic tickling experiences

Open to just play partners, but if there's a connection maybe something more?

Big on enthusiastic consent and taking things slowly.

Looking for someone with emotional maturity and knows this is what they want to try or actively seeking i.e. you also have a tickling fetish. I'm not looking to coerce or encourage anyone into something they don't enjoy / is not for them - so if that's you, thank you for reading, otherwise...please swipe right 🙂

Ideally someone around my age range. May consider slightly younger / older as long as not too much of an age gap.

Monogamous. You do you with ENM, but not with me.

If any big ladies want to be dominated let me know 😉❤️

Looking for a bigger girl who knows how to please

I am single looking for my kinky date around West Yorkshire area 😈love booty though some big nice ass is my turn on 🍑

Hi i'm married gay who love fisting and play with big toys i look for women to fist my ass and take my in her holls
Only mondeys 9-15 there is only time i can by avaiable
By bigest toy i can take is 9 cm whide just love it

The Quiet One
I'm Married !! - now read on ...
(I'm a Kinky Poly) Welcome. I’ve been on the scene for many years now, from my early days of doing bad things to girls, and feeling a bit guilty about it all (they were stable girls), to my stumbling upon the world of "fet" where finally everything fell into place … to my finely tuned, caring, sadistic self that thrives and belongs and loves playing in the world of Kink. I love a finely marked bottom, a nicely bound, sometimes a wriggling, girl at my feet, I love to tease, explore, push, I love the battle of wits that comes with an intelligent submissive, and brat taming is one of my specialities. I am absolutely Dominant, and a well-defined Sadist, happy in my own skin, and more than happy to mark the skin of a willing submissive with a range of fine implements and toys. I value friendship and communication above most things and can be found at munches and events up and down the country, feel free to approach for a chat.
I’m 175cm tall (apparently it’s a thing) athletic build.
I can also be found on Fet life (same name) a big plus for you if you know it.
Come take a look, and see what trouble you can get into …

Hi I am looking for a daddy dom who lives locally to Crewe.

I have been through a lot the last 6 months & need a True daddy dom who will look after me properly. I am a very sexual little & absolutely love sucking dick. I will try my hardest to please my daddy’s & make him proud of me. I can be a bit of a brat & enjoy a good spanking.

I dress little, play little & live the lifestyle as much as possible. Please don’t get in touch if your inexperienced and not sure this is what you want from a relationship.

I want my daddy to be tall, handsome, between 40-50, dress nice (no pvc or latex), have nice big hands.... I just like a big man who is strong & daddyish ☺️☺️

All in all, I am needy, very very loving, clingy & playful. I just need a daddy to share all this with xx

Domish tactile, loving, affluent, sane male seeks a loving, loyal partner, between 35-55 for a full-time, long term re/ship encompassing both sides of the coin.

im a single professional male 6ft 2in (ex professional dancer / model) well built, blue eyes, short hair, solvent, single, sane, clean cut, very caring, very romantic, sometime gym goer ;-) oh and great cook.
i am defiantly a natural alpha male type and in todays world of superficial rubbish i am a great believer in actions rather than words.!
I am currently working in FM and property development, i prefer old to new builds, open fires over central heating and real honest people to fakes.
my list of likes may be narrow but I’m a big boy and old enough to know what i like and what i don’t like..)

im seeking a partner who is-
intelligent (the brain is still the largest sexual organ in the body)
well-dressed
feminine (loves being a woman likes makeup, perfume, feminine lingerie, very high heels etc)
an open attitude towards everything and relaxed with her own sexuality (goes without saying)
slim to athletic only 6-8-10-12 (i prefer a toned or gym goer type body but natural slim athletic is fine also)

In return for your love and trust you will receive a faithful loving partner who will care and build a full time loving mono relationship (fidelity is extremely important to me will not consider a bed hopper)