Cock dates in Oakham - BDSM & Fetish dating

Bicester-based dom with a penchant for affectionate molestation, deviant displays and emotional and psychological sadism.

A van-lifer and jaded kinkster, I'm typically apathetic until I find someone to love. Simply, I seek someone to bestow affection, attention and arousal on.

I'm looking for a relaxed life - someone to pet and punish, as well as play boardgames and go exploring and traveling with. To shape and teach and sculpt into the culmination of our ideals.

I enjoy innocence tainted and erotic irony. Sobs and screams muffled around your underwear balled into your mouth or my cock spreading your throat as you try to stroke me to orgasm with your hands at your neck to earn yourself some air; I love to make people choose debasement for their own satisfaction or as an ironic path to release, whether orgasm or more generically physical. If not choking yourself to be able to breathe then your squirming, shuffling feet, sobbing and mewling as you're trapped being edged by a vibrator just barely touching you, leading to you begging to be spanked or face-fucked so it goes that extra inch.

I'd love a giggly girly princess to pretty and pervert, a fun, dumb girl to treat and traumatise. Whether you're already one or I have to break and remake you into a pleasuring plaything. I want someone I can buy beautiful things for and dress up trashy, then have fawn and coo for me and tease and titillate me into beating them for being so wanton. Someone to sculpt into pure tainted innocence, a cocktease who exudes arousal in everything they do, but seems totally unaware. I'll want you to do and dress as you're told, to be pierced and changed and transitioned into the perfection of corruption.

Mascara trails as your mouth is wrapped around my cock are a special enjoyment, and having your tear-streaked face looking up at me as I tell you the next stage of your life will make me throb against your lips.

I more emphatically also seek emotional connections, expecting you to come rest your head in my lap or pull my arms around you. To have you colouring in pornography at your desk as I write, to be servicing me as I read, or pulling at my hand as we go out on day trips and weekends away. I will want to talk and get to know every inch of you, inside and out, corporeal and metaphysical. Your emotions and mental health are things I take very seriously and seek to safeguard, despite abusing them in our agreed upon ways for your arousal.

I particularly seek someone to dress and display: high heels, basques and corsets, flared skirts, leotards, swimwear and French knickers and thongs rising above waistbands all engage. Bare-handed punishment is a particular preference of mine, your flailing legs in stockings or high socks kicking from beneath a short skirt, glowing cheeks framed by suspender straps and lace stocking tops. PPE is also a core kink, particularly mental conditioning and training, (transformation into something sexual, whether doll, beast or bimbo, is another major enjoyment) so having defined rules and requirements followed should appeal - holding my hand whilst we're out, eating and exercising properly, being dressed in/appropriately as dictated.

Compliance earns affection and pleasure. Disobedience rewards time for reflection and a more excruciating form of pleasing.

Come be the focus of my loving attention and suffer the barbs of my endless puns.

I am serious and expect those who message me to have serious intent as well, whether for play, power exchange or platonic pursuits.