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exploring switchin with my partner and enjoying it ? however I am submissive ? just on here to chat to like minded people learn some tips and tricks and potentially plan some kinky meets in future

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Plz take. My warning he is what he wrote on his profile. He told me at our first session that we would be testing my limits and tolerance. Wrong zero warmth zero compassion doesn't listen or pay attention to his sub. What should have been fun and theutic became a traumatized nitemare. When I came out my room the first time. My daughter was freaked out and crying from the noise in my room. He should have stopped and started doing lighter things to me right then for my daughter but he didn't and with no disregard he kept doing things to make me scream. NO AFTER CARE IT WAS ALL ABOUT GETTING HIS NIPPLES PLEASE. NOT A DOM OR A MASTER..THEY HAVE A HEART. HE TODD ME THAT 8
SHOULD SHOW MY 10 YR OLD HOW TO MASTERBATE..PEDO VIBEE. I ALSO CAUGHT HM OPENING MY BEDROOM DOOR VERY WIDE BECAUSE HE WANTED MY KIDS WATCH US HAVING SEX AND ME GETTING HURT MADE .ME WEAR INAPPROPRIATE STRIPPER CLOTHES IN FRONT OF MY KIDS..NY DAUGHTER CRIED..I ASKED FOR A BREQAK DIDNT GET ASKED FOR DRINK AND DIDNT GET IT. IT WAS ALL ABOUT HIM AND HIS NEEDS. HE BLEW AIR IINTO MY BUT AND IT HURT SO HAD I ASKED HIM NOT TO DO IT AGAIN.. HE STARTED HURTING ME REAL BAD ..DOING THINGS I WASNT READY FOR. I WAS SCREAMING MY SAFE WORD SO LOUD THE KIDS IN TH3 OTHER ROOM HEARD ME BUT HE DIDNT STOP.
NO RESPECT FOR SUBS LIMITS ENDED UP TRAUMATIZED and my kids. Doesn't listen to sub Doesn't pay attention and watch for sign of dostreas or safety issues. Doesn't care about them either. HE TRIED TO BLOW AIR INTO MY BUT AS I BEGGED HIM NOT TO BUT HE IGNORED ME. AND I FRAK OUT AND HAVE A PANIC ATTACK AND INSTEAD OF TRYING TO HELP ME LIKE A REAL MASTER HE GETS MAD AND THREATENED TO GO HOME. I ASKED FOR AN HR BREAK DIDNT GET IT HE LIED AND MANIPULATES MY KDS AND THEN DIDNT KEEP HIS WORD TO THEM. SAID HE WANTED TO HELP ME WITH MY METAL HEALTH BUT TRAUMATIZED ME and made it worse and he didn't care. ASKED AND SAID INAPPROPRIATE THINGS ABOUT MY DAUGHTER. PLZ DONT GO NEAR HIM OR U WLL HURT TOO AND KEEP YOUR KIDS AWAY FROM HIM. BECAUSE HE OPEN3D MY DORR THEY SAW
LIES ABOUT BEING ROMANTIC AND AFFECTIONAE AND CARING HES NOT OR HE WOULDN'T HAVE CONTUED TERRIFIYONG MY KDS. I AM PRETY SUR3 HE IS A NARCISSISTIC NOT REAL MASTER OR DOM THEY HAVE HEART PLZ STAY AWAY FROM HIM OR HE COULD HURT AND TRAUMATIZE YOUR KIDS AND YOU TOO..NOW I HAVE TO FIND A THEQPST FO4 THEM. WOULDN'T EVEN LET ME TO GO SLEEP . THIS ISN'T BDSM THIS IS TERRORISM . HE IS A SADIST NOT A DOMINANT
LIES ABOUT BEING CARING OR SOOTHING.. IF HE WAS THEN WHI DIDNT HE DO THE RIGHT THING HAD BEEH TRYING TO DISCUSS MY METAL HEALTH ALL WEEK SO W3 COULD HAVE A SAFTY PLAN ANE HE BRUSB3E I6 PFF. IT WAS OUR FIRST TIME MEETING ANd I was very nervous a d scared and anxious yet he did nothing about this to help me feel better and relaxed and seemed to focus only to himself and my kid's he.didny let me eat my dinner never offered me a drinki during play
I NEVER FELT SAFE OR RELAXED OR COMFORTABLE THE WHOLE TIME HE WAS THERE. TRAUMA IS ABJ8SE NOT BDSM. WAS SITTING ON COUCH W .Y DAUGHTER BECAUSE SHE WAA ACAIRD AND CRYING AGAIN BECAUSE HE STILL WOULDN'T STOP DOING THINGS TO TRAUMATIZE ME AND MAKE ME SCREAM .HE COMES IN AND INSTEAD OF TRYING TO TALK ABOUT THINGS AND TALK TO .MY DAUGHTER TO WORK THINGS OUT HE BREAKS HIS WORD AND THE THNGS H3 SAID HE WOULDN'T AND WOULD DO..HE GET UP AND GETS HIS STUFF AND LEAVES..LEAVING. MY POOR DAUGHTERIN DISTRESSING AND SAD AND CONFUSED BECAUSE EARLIER HE HAD BEEN VERY WLLING TO TALK TO HER . HE ALSO TOLD HER HE WOULD PLAY VIDEOS GAMEW WITH HW4. HE ABANDONS HER AFTER HE HAD ALREADY BEEN MANIIPULATNG HER EMOTIONS TO GET HER TO LIKE AND TRUST HIM..HE JUST LEAVES ME WITH TH3 DAMAGE HE DID. HE ALSO INAPPROPRIATE Y ASKED ME IF MY DAUGHTER MASTERBATES..I HAVE ONLY KNOWN HIM A WEEK. DEFINITELY NOT A DADDY DOM.. MY PACIFIER WAS ON THE TABLE AND I HAD TO TOLD HOM EARLIER THAT WE3K TO GIVE IT TO ME AND WRAP ME TIGHT AND HOLD ME..BUT INSTEAD OF DOING THE RIGHT THING HE TURNS HIS BACK TO ME AND GETS MAD AND THREATENED TO ABANDON ME..KNOWING I HAD TALKD TO HIM ABOUT MY MOTHER ABANDONS. ME NP INSTEAD HE MAKE THE PA IC AND TRAUMA WORSE BY LEAVING ME ALONE AND SULKING TO HIM SELF.EVERY THING WAS ABOUT HIM AND IFELT SI ALONE AND SCARED THE WHOLE TIME. DOES THAT SOUND LIKE A DADDY DOM.. I REALLY WORRY HOW H3 BEHAVED W HIS OWN DAUGHTERS. I ASKED HIM IF I COULD GO TO SLEEP BECAUSE I WAS VERY TIRED AND KEPT HAVING FPOT AND LEG CRAMPS..WHICH HE DID NOTHING TO HWLP ME WITH. HE SAYS I CAN GO TO SLEEP BUT NOT 5 MINS LATER HE IS TOUCHING ME AGAIN WHICH I MAD ASKED HIM NOT TO DO WHEN IM ASLEEP BECAUSE MY ABUSIVE RX WOULD WAKE M3 IN TH3 MIDDLE OF THE NITE SEXUALLY ABUSING ME..H3 KNEW THIS AND ST9LL TOUCHI ME ANYWAY. HE HAS NO REGARD FOR HOW SUB IS FEELINGS OR THINKING DURING PM
LANY HE JUST DOES WHAT H3 WANTS WHICH INVOLVES SCAR G U AND IMTUMIDATIBG U AND NEVER GIVING YOUR MIN TO REST..I WAS DENIED A BREAK 3 TIMES..H3 HAS A SHORT TEMPER NO PATIENCE NO EMPATHY HE DOESN'T PAY ATTENTION TO 5H3 SUBS STATE NOR DOESN'T HE TRY TO WATCH FOR SIGNS OF DISTRES OR SAETY AND CLAIMS HE IS PROFESSIONAL AND EXPERIENCE..WELL READING BOOKS AND ABOARBBING DATA DONT MAKE U A DOM. PLZ DONT USE HIM AND REPRT OF U SUSPECT SOMETHING. His profile is a lie he isn't a nice person if he was he wouldn’t have done what he did here. Plz be careful and don't choose him he jhas no regard for you or your family's health and safety. He wanted met to have strange men 8 didn't know come my apartment for sex w me all day long as a regular constant flow of men in front of my kids..he Wanted these men to have unprotected sex with ne. He wants you stay high and drunk all day. He constantly kept telling me to keep smoking meth even though he knew that I was trying to stay sober I HAVE THE SCREN SHOTS
EVERYTHING HE SYS AND DOES IS FO4 HIS OWN AGENDA...WHEN WE FINALLY DID SNUGGLE IT WAS ALL ABOUT HIM..I HAD TO LY 0N HIS CHECST AND BE EXPECTED TO STAY THERE AND NOT ONE IDD HE TAKE ME INTO ARMS AND HOLD ME ON MY SIDE like I needed
et me like I asked.I DONT THIINK HE DIDEVD. ONE THING FO ME OR WHAT WANTED. P HE CHOSE TO ACT COLD, UNKIND , INTIMOATDING UNFRIENDLY AND UNAPPROACHABLE..HE IS NOT GENTLE AT ALL EVERYTHING HE DID WAS ROUGH AND INDUCED ..HE WAS BOSSY AND PUSHY AND CONSTANTLY CRITICAL OF ME ..HE WAS CONSTANTLY QUESTIONING ME.
HE TOOKTHINGS TOO FAST TOO AND HARD AND ROUGH FOR.MY FIRST VISIT H3 KEPT SPENDING .MORE TIME W MY KIDS..TNE ON HUG OR OR TOUCHIES OF SOFTNESS CAME FROM ME. I FELT NO CLOSEN3SS WITH HIM ONLY AND ANXIETY AND WORRY AND CONFUSION NOT ONCE DID I FEEL CARED FOR OR CHERISHED AND ADORED AND RESPECTED..TOTALLY UNTRUST WORRY..DID THINGS O ASKED HIM TO NOT TO..HE TALKS NJG BUTS ALL IT IS..I ASKED HIM TO BEING MW A ROSE BIT HE DODNT EVEN THO HE SAYS H3W ROMANTIC HES NOT THE ONLY ROMANTIC GESTURE IS THE ONE I HAD TO ASK FOR IN COMPARISON A REAL ROMANTIC DOESN'T HAVE TO BE ASKED THEY already know how to be and what to do
PLEASE DO NOT TRUST THIS MAN WITH YOUR MEN5AL HEALTH..HE DOESN'T PAY ATTENTION TO THE SUBS BODY LANGUAGE OR REACTIONS HE JUST DOES WHAT HE WANTS. NEVER IFELT COMFORTABLE AT ALL AND IS CONSTANTLY THREATENING THINGS LIKE LEAVING OR END THE RELATIONSHIP SO ARE ALWAYS IN A HEIGHTENED STATE OF *** AND ANXIETY..NOT AFFECTIONAE..THE ONLY AFFECTION CAME FROM ME. PLZ DO NOT TRUST WHAT IT Says.

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