As of 4th April 2025, this is the first time logged in for over a year. More active on FetLife now, search for Shirt-n-Tie-Boy or go to fetlife.com/shirt-n-tie-boy and say hello.

Not likely to be on here much. Too much nonsense/time wasters here.

To be honest I find dating sites vanilla or alternative have proven a waste of time not just for me, but just about anyone I have spoke to really. I am serious about dating, so keen for a safe public space conversation over a coffee or similar, with a likeminded lady. A proper conversation just like the old days! If that is you, why not get in touch, what have we got to lose?