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The traits I look for in a Dominant go against the grain of the role. Just as subs need incredible strength, Dominants need gentleness and humility. A top accepts control. A sociopath demands it. A Dominant though? They earn it. The only way a Dom will ever earn power over me is by showing me that he would never demand it. . Dominance is not a label. It’s a verdict. It's something I feel in my bones, in my breath, in the way my body responds. it draws submission out of me. I'll give up my power because I trust a person with my vulnerability. D/s is intensely intimate, and I won't engage with it until I know you'll hold it gently. Safety, it transpires, is one hell of an aphrodisiac. . I want a vanilla man: someone who dates me before he considers dominating me; who begins with conversations, not floggers; who gets to know me by talking to me, not fucking me. I want someone who knows people matter, that love matters, that I matter. If I wanted to be ordered around in a role-playing arrangement, I would create an OF and gain an income from it. I don't. I want someone to love who loves me; someone who feels like home; someone who is home. . I want a man who makes mistakes: The type who’s intimately acquainted with his own weaknesses and who doesn’t see admitting fault as a loss. I want a man who walks beside me, not one who positions himself as though we’re at war. Someone who tells the truth, not because he might get caught in a lie, but because honesty matters to him. It matters because he can't respect himself any other way. No person can evolve without the capacity to be honest with themselves, and no relationship can evolve until the hardest truths are known. . I write and post on the forums. A lot. When I was new I read and read but nothing really spoke to me. It was all very black and white, theoretical and serious. BDSM is serious stuff but it should also be full of fun and light. It's a romance, not a religion. In the beginning, I spoke with people who told me that this was no different to vanilla dating and it is. It's not the same at all. There's an intensity about it. I needed to read about other peoples experiences and how they felt because I feel that I might have been able to relate to it. I needed something tangible. I still do. So I write the things that I'd have liked to have read from my experience so far in the hope others find it useful but also to get the thoughts out of my head and into some sort of logical form. Some will be reflections on my experiences, some will be questioning, and others will simply be sarcasm. . if you want to know more about me, maybe have a read. . Writing on Fet, though, has taught me that everyone reads through their own lens. No matter how hard you polish those glasses, people will apply their own tint to everything they see. Everyone seems to carry their own agenda around with them like a shopping trolley. Then they unpack the contents in everyone else's kitchen because it will be about them no matter what. . Few people put work into their online reading. They unpack that creaky old trolley with it's wonky wheel before they've even read the first line. I'm certain some of them don't even bother reading the post before disagreeing with it. Quite frankly, I'm quite tired of being manipulated into conversations I never signed up for. I am responsible for what I say, not what you read. . Please send ice cream
Female (46) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
I don't play with anyone under 30! I am in a poly D/s dynamic with Master Desire. Interested in casual but not disposible female Unicorns who want to play with us both. I can also play solo. I'm a NeuroQueer solo poly submissive and plus sized beauty. 100% certified obedient good slave girl princess with soft primal prey tendencies. Ethically bratty only in casual play encounters. Shibari practice both as bunny and rope Mistress has been my the***utic happy place for 3 years and I enjoy continuing to learn and expand skills in this area. My FemDom side has been described as affectionately sadistic, I enjoy the power of my divine femininity and being worshiped on the rare ocassions of me topping that way in casual play. Non Kink wise, I work in the Arts & Human Rights. I love to travel and spend time in nature, art galleries, museums, theatre, festivals, music gigs, cinema, restaurants, book shops. As submissive and slave, I abide by my paraphrased words from Mollena Williams - Haas' Prime Directive on the M/s dynamic for any D/s dynamic as well as her specific words on the M/s dynamic ** "It is the primary responsibility of the submissive or slave to protect the Master or Dominant's property at all times, up to and including protecting the property from the Master or Dominant" ** I'm enjoying and looking for meaningful connections who share similar kinktrests to see where we adventure on from there. Open to regular FWB, casual play partners both in short and long term. Relationship anarchy doesn't need to equate to chaos. Primal Pleasure Daddy Doms and Pleasure Sadists are my submissive play vibes. BDSM for me is a beautiful partnership between the mind and body. It's empowering, healing, sexy, fun and more! I am facinated by and enjoy the exploration of desires on physical and psychological levels and how these evolve over time. Mutually honest and open communication, curiosity, playfulness, non judgemental, self awareness, informed and consensual negotiations, earning trust and respect matters to me. If you have gotten this far and want to reach out, put 'Beautiful Blossom' in your subject line so I know you've read my bio.
Female (35) Ipswich, Suffolk
Heya. I'm in a poly relationship and am looking for someone else to spend my time with (NOT as a threesome). I'd like something **bold text**meaningful**bold text** with someone who knows what they want. Ideally Dom or switch. **bold text**I do not want one night stands or fuck buddies**bold text** I enjoy soooo many things, it's easier to say what I don't enjoy... I would like to explore more with rope, impact play, outdoor fun, medical fetish looks intriguing. I really am open to so much!
Female (37) Ipswich, Suffolk
Im very inexperienced and want to change that, im open minded and curious! (if youve seen my eyes on nsfw twitter, no you havent :3)
Female (21) Barnardiston, Suffolk
Looking for fwb ideally 😌 someone to can take care of me and treats me right I also have a thing for shoulders 🥰 you have to message first 😘 ( I do have a face you just gotta match with me to see it ) ✨ dad bod for the win ✨ ✨🗡️Princess in the streets slut in the sheets.🗡️✨
Female (20) Nowton, Suffolk
To all the lovely people I've spoken to, I've had some bad news to do with my family and don't feel like talking a lot. I'm sorry to leave messages unanswered, I'll come back as soon as I can. Thank you 💙
Female (27) Framlingham, Suffolk
I'm not looking to go through the entire site. I don't do hook ups. I'm looking for a few regular male fwb's, I am open to more but we will see... but the friendship part is a must and non negotiable. Social drinks/coffee for a first meet to see if we have a connection. I am pansexual, demisexual and sapiosexual. *I'm a pleasure/sensual Domme. I will consider male simp subs but do prefer the more dominant male subs, more challenging and fun. Will also consider men who are curious about it and wanting to learn more. I'm happy to do 50% kink 50% vanilla but I don't switch.* Happy to chat with anyone who can hold a decent conversation, has banter and is genuine. Don't come at me with just kink and sexual chat, it bores me. If you have no face profile pic, send one in your first message to me, if you want a reply. I prefer men taller than me (5'9), minimum 6ft. I have tattoo's and piercings, I also vape but no option for that.
Female (51) Lowestoft, Suffolk
I primarily use this app to read the posts and stories, so even when I'm online I often don't see messages. I would be interested in finding a dominant play partner but there doesn't seem to be many suitable candidates nearby, so for now I'm quite happy to read and to learn. I am not looking for; online, long distance, submissives, women or couples, people who cannot host - I prefer not to and only invite people into my home once I know them well.
Female (35) Ipswich, Suffolk
18, bisexual, gender fluid, polyamorous, model, findomme, aspiring tattooist. happily in a relationship with my girlfriend/domme who owns my submission, it’s only shared with her present (with other women only). she respects my career within the kink industry where i am a domme over both men and women, and also a fetish model but she is still always present. if you’d like to organize something feel free to send a dm about it :) i’m open to making friends as well, i’m new to thetford and enjoy 420, iced coffee, nature, ***s, video games, i watch a lot of tv, cosplay and art
Female (19) Thetford, Suffolk
NOT interested in meeting OR talking to MEN. Moved this to the top to help all the guys read this better, you’re welcome! Men who message without reading this will be subject to sarcasm and I’m not liable for emotional damages to your egos…. anyway! I am not single, I am part of a couple. Together we’re looking to get to know, share pics and chat to about all things kinky with women and trans people. Vanilla Alternative Club Member I have been in and out of the kink lifestyle for a few years. I’m a switch, I love to be a sub for my partner, but I don’t mind switching things up occasionally and dominating my play partners… I love hearing those whimpers ;P I love spanking, teasing, edging, praise, degredation, and making my play partner beg… amongst other things! My partner and I love having kinky conversations, together and solo, but we are monogamous so no I won’t be cheating on my partner, and he won’t be cheating on me! We’re not into affairs or anything of that sort!
Female (25) West Row, Suffolk
Before diving into the following…. I have a lot of bandwidth in use with life commitments and existing relationships/connections so at present I’m not seeking, if something comes along and I’m super in to it then we’ll see, it’s like a meat counter ticket system only no one’s behind the counter right now for the most part. *Identified Mostly Submissive Roles* Primal Prey Damsel in Distress Pillow Queen Pixie Pet Brat (Break-me) Power Bottom Pillow Queen Sensualist *Potential more Switch/Dominant Roles* Cougar/Temptress Domina GFD/Mommy Domme # *Creative with a passion for passion, ENM/CNM/Poly/Relationship Anarchist* Push X Pull Mental & Physical Intimacy Levels of Transcendence I like… the right voice & the right energy, I have great energy for the right people. Neurodivergent, OCD and perhaps undiagnosed Bi-Polar 2, Fibromyalgia, all managed pretty well. All considered in terms of Consent/Risk Mitigation/Negotiation. (In relation to trauma and Fibro ***/arthritis, pretty flexible yogi but some glitchy bits, that being said, I like a lot of things firm and we’re talking a different type of *** anyway) When I choose well, play sedates me and is almost medicinal for the above. I classify myself as Noetisexual, in that much of the attraction I feel comes from the way a person’s mind works. The attachments I have here some of the dearest to me, they’ve lead me through some dark times, broadened my mind and I believe I have broadened theirs. They are like a kind of family to me, with whom I have the deepest trust. With these connections, I become more myself, find my way back to my best parts in order to build them up again. I manage a lot in my day to day, so can be hard for me to keep up with those I intend to have socials with or date, I’m always on a quest to find the most suitable candidates for my polycule/play sphere but it needs to be both practical and engaging so may not always be responsive on here due to bandwidth, real needs and wants. # Writing not a joke memoir in disguise, Pillow Queen and the Army of Lovers, an erotic novella….
Female (44) Southwold, Suffolk
* I won't help you cheat - I'll only speak with fully single people. * Crazy high sex drive, extremely low self esteem. Looking for someone patient and open-minded, and also local please. I love orgasms and I'm capable of them in rather extreme numbers (the more I have, the more I need). Love toys, CNC, and bondage, particularly in tandem ⛓️ * Before embarking upon any sexual relationship, I would want to view a recent, clean health check record and I'll provide the same for you ✅ * Looking for long-term love. * If you don't ask questions, I'm afraid I won't reply. It demonstrates a lack of interest. I'm also getting really fed up by the amount of *** I'm receiving when I don't reply, when your last message just didn't ask me anything. Women's inboxes are busy here and it's regretfully, not possible to respond to everyone. Please be kind. Please be nice.
Female (37) Exning, Suffolk
Into all things mystical and magical. I need a Dom to make sure I am making smart decisions and to challenge every now and then....I can't be perfect all the time!
Female (38) Beccles, Suffolk
I enjoy being outside, walking with the dog, continuously waiting for my green thumb to appear at my allotment, wild swimming or just exploring. I like to cook good food and bake yummy cakes, this had led to me being a little bit cuddly, but I share... My preference is for a more dominant man. Someone who takes control naturally but isn't looking for a doormat, who can be rough but also caring. A sense of humour and the ability to talk about more than their kink are definite plus points.
Female (37) Woodbridge, Suffolk
4.10 submissive looking for a dominant women no men or couples obsessed with this the below emojis: ?????
Female (33) Nowton, Suffolk
Just a kinky bastard who enjoys live music, pegging, and peircing. Really am here for one thing and one thing only. I'm a switch. Actively looking for an online Dom. In the meantime, talk to me about music, festivals, plants, antiques, and drunken antics. I also ***y love chess and play bass, badly :) I like to party, join me :)
Female (31) Carlton Colville, Suffolk
I am a 25 year old curvy girl looking for a play partner. I know alot about kink but have not practiced in it much yet tho I'm trying to work on that
Female (25) Ipswich, Suffolk
hi I'm Sarah I'm 32 and a single curvy mum and I'm looking for some me time with I'm hoping to find a daddy dom I'm bratty I roll eyes and swear like a sailer I want a lasting relationship with a dom or daddy dom as to fill the missing piece of my life I do have a medical condition to witch my hair thins but it doesn't effect the person I am and that should not really matter to a good man only a boy would find it off putting
Female (33) Fornham St Martin, Suffolk
I am a fun loving girl, I have a gothic style dressing, without the heavy make-up. I open to new experiences, I just want to have a great sex life. i have interest in gaming especially horror but do play other games too, i love music and films, cuddle someone to watch them, i just want more out of life, my disability is mental health problems, bipolar disorder depression etc im on meds but in a better place, i just want to have fun with someone who as kinky as me, also I love my dogs and cat if u hate *** and won’t tolerate then don’t inbox me, they will always come first.
Female (33) Kessingland, Suffolk
Hey! 30 year old, looking to spice things up. Looking an older very dominant guy! I love to be blackmailed, exposed, humiliated and degraded x
Female (30) Oulton, Suffolk
I'm very shy.. completely lack confidence ? but I'm a bit of a kinkster with an extremely high sex drive and would like to explore it more.
Female (40) Eye, Suffolk

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The traits I look for in a Dominant go against the grain of the role. Just as subs need incredible strength, Dominants need gentleness and humility. A top accepts control. A sociopath demands it. A Dominant though? They earn it. The only way a Dom will ever earn power over me is by showing me that he would never demand it. . Dominance is not a label. It’s a verdict. It's something I feel in my bones, in my breath, in the way my body responds. it draws submission out of me. I'll give up my power because I trust a person with my vulnerability. D/s is intensely intimate, and I won't engage with it until I know you'll hold it gently. Safety, it transpires, is one hell of an aphrodisiac. . I want a vanilla man: someone who dates me before he considers dominating me; who begins with conversations, not floggers; who gets to know me by talking to me, not fucking me. I want someone who knows people matter, that love matters, that I matter. If I wanted to be ordered around in a role-playing arrangement, I would create an OF and gain an income from it. I don't. I want someone to love who loves me; someone who feels like home; someone who is home. . I want a man who makes mistakes: The type who’s intimately acquainted with his own weaknesses and who doesn’t see admitting fault as a loss. I want a man who walks beside me, not one who positions himself as though we’re at war. Someone who tells the truth, not because he might get caught in a lie, but because honesty matters to him. It matters because he can't respect himself any other way. No person can evolve without the capacity to be honest with themselves, and no relationship can evolve until the hardest truths are known. . I write and post on the forums. A lot. When I was new I read and read but nothing really spoke to me. It was all very black and white, theoretical and serious. BDSM is serious stuff but it should also be full of fun and light. It's a romance, not a religion. In the beginning, I spoke with people who told me that this was no different to vanilla dating and it is. It's not the same at all. There's an intensity about it. I needed to read about other peoples experiences and how they felt because I feel that I might have been able to relate to it. I needed something tangible. I still do. So I write the things that I'd have liked to have read from my experience so far in the hope others find it useful but also to get the thoughts out of my head and into some sort of logical form. Some will be reflections on my experiences, some will be questioning, and others will simply be sarcasm. . if you want to know more about me, maybe have a read. . Writing on Fet, though, has taught me that everyone reads through their own lens. No matter how hard you polish those glasses, people will apply their own tint to everything they see. Everyone seems to carry their own agenda around with them like a shopping trolley. Then they unpack the contents in everyone else's kitchen because it will be about them no matter what. . Few people put work into their online reading. They unpack that creaky old trolley with it's wonky wheel before they've even read the first line. I'm certain some of them don't even bother reading the post before disagreeing with it. Quite frankly, I'm quite tired of being manipulated into conversations I never signed up for. I am responsible for what I say, not what you read. . Please send ice cream
Female (46) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
Heya. I'm in a poly relationship and am looking for someone else to spend my time with (NOT as a threesome). I'd like something **bold text**meaningful**bold text** with someone who knows what they want. Ideally Dom or switch. **bold text**I do not want one night stands or fuck buddies**bold text** I enjoy soooo many things, it's easier to say what I don't enjoy... I would like to explore more with rope, impact play, outdoor fun, medical fetish looks intriguing. I really am open to so much!
Female (37) Ipswich, Suffolk
I don't play with anyone under 30! I am in a poly D/s dynamic with Master Desire. Interested in casual but not disposible female Unicorns who want to play with us both. I can also play solo. I'm a NeuroQueer solo poly submissive and plus sized beauty. 100% certified obedient good slave girl princess with soft primal prey tendencies. Ethically bratty only in casual play encounters. Shibari practice both as bunny and rope Mistress has been my the***utic happy place for 3 years and I enjoy continuing to learn and expand skills in this area. My FemDom side has been described as affectionately sadistic, I enjoy the power of my divine femininity and being worshiped on the rare ocassions of me topping that way in casual play. Non Kink wise, I work in the Arts & Human Rights. I love to travel and spend time in nature, art galleries, museums, theatre, festivals, music gigs, cinema, restaurants, book shops. As submissive and slave, I abide by my paraphrased words from Mollena Williams - Haas' Prime Directive on the M/s dynamic for any D/s dynamic as well as her specific words on the M/s dynamic ** "It is the primary responsibility of the submissive or slave to protect the Master or Dominant's property at all times, up to and including protecting the property from the Master or Dominant" ** I'm enjoying and looking for meaningful connections who share similar kinktrests to see where we adventure on from there. Open to regular FWB, casual play partners both in short and long term. Relationship anarchy doesn't need to equate to chaos. Primal Pleasure Daddy Doms and Pleasure Sadists are my submissive play vibes. BDSM for me is a beautiful partnership between the mind and body. It's empowering, healing, sexy, fun and more! I am facinated by and enjoy the exploration of desires on physical and psychological levels and how these evolve over time. Mutually honest and open communication, curiosity, playfulness, non judgemental, self awareness, informed and consensual negotiations, earning trust and respect matters to me. If you have gotten this far and want to reach out, put 'Beautiful Blossom' in your subject line so I know you've read my bio.
Female (35) Ipswich, Suffolk
Looking for fwb ideally 😌 someone to can take care of me and treats me right I also have a thing for shoulders 🥰 you have to message first 😘 ( I do have a face you just gotta match with me to see it ) ✨ dad bod for the win ✨ ✨🗡️Princess in the streets slut in the sheets.🗡️✨
Female (20) Nowton, Suffolk
Im very inexperienced and want to change that, im open minded and curious! (if youve seen my eyes on nsfw twitter, no you havent :3)
Female (21) Barnardiston, Suffolk
To all the lovely people I've spoken to, I've had some bad news to do with my family and don't feel like talking a lot. I'm sorry to leave messages unanswered, I'll come back as soon as I can. Thank you 💙
Female (27) Framlingham, Suffolk
I'm not looking to go through the entire site. I don't do hook ups. I'm looking for a few regular male fwb's, I am open to more but we will see... but the friendship part is a must and non negotiable. Social drinks/coffee for a first meet to see if we have a connection. I am pansexual, demisexual and sapiosexual. *I'm a pleasure/sensual Domme. I will consider male simp subs but do prefer the more dominant male subs, more challenging and fun. Will also consider men who are curious about it and wanting to learn more. I'm happy to do 50% kink 50% vanilla but I don't switch.* Happy to chat with anyone who can hold a decent conversation, has banter and is genuine. Don't come at me with just kink and sexual chat, it bores me. If you have no face profile pic, send one in your first message to me, if you want a reply. I prefer men taller than me (5'9), minimum 6ft. I have tattoo's and piercings, I also vape but no option for that.
Female (51) Lowestoft, Suffolk
Into all things mystical and magical. I need a Dom to make sure I am making smart decisions and to challenge every now and then....I can't be perfect all the time!
Female (38) Beccles, Suffolk
Hey! 30 year old, looking to spice things up. Looking an older very dominant guy! I love to be blackmailed, exposed, humiliated and degraded x
Female (30) Oulton, Suffolk
18, bisexual, gender fluid, polyamorous, model, findomme, aspiring tattooist. happily in a relationship with my girlfriend/domme who owns my submission, it’s only shared with her present (with other women only). she respects my career within the kink industry where i am a domme over both men and women, and also a fetish model but she is still always present. if you’d like to organize something feel free to send a dm about it :) i’m open to making friends as well, i’m new to thetford and enjoy 420, iced coffee, nature, ***s, video games, i watch a lot of tv, cosplay and art
Female (19) Thetford, Suffolk
I am a fun loving girl, I have a gothic style dressing, without the heavy make-up. I open to new experiences, I just want to have a great sex life. i have interest in gaming especially horror but do play other games too, i love music and films, cuddle someone to watch them, i just want more out of life, my disability is mental health problems, bipolar disorder depression etc im on meds but in a better place, i just want to have fun with someone who as kinky as me, also I love my dogs and cat if u hate *** and won’t tolerate then don’t inbox me, they will always come first.
Female (33) Kessingland, Suffolk
Just a kinky bastard who enjoys live music, pegging, and peircing. Really am here for one thing and one thing only. I'm a switch. Actively looking for an online Dom. In the meantime, talk to me about music, festivals, plants, antiques, and drunken antics. I also ***y love chess and play bass, badly :) I like to party, join me :)
Female (31) Carlton Colville, Suffolk
I enjoy being outside, walking with the dog, continuously waiting for my green thumb to appear at my allotment, wild swimming or just exploring. I like to cook good food and bake yummy cakes, this had led to me being a little bit cuddly, but I share... My preference is for a more dominant man. Someone who takes control naturally but isn't looking for a doormat, who can be rough but also caring. A sense of humour and the ability to talk about more than their kink are definite plus points.
Female (37) Woodbridge, Suffolk
NOT interested in meeting OR talking to MEN. Moved this to the top to help all the guys read this better, you’re welcome! Men who message without reading this will be subject to sarcasm and I’m not liable for emotional damages to your egos…. anyway! I am not single, I am part of a couple. Together we’re looking to get to know, share pics and chat to about all things kinky with women and trans people. Vanilla Alternative Club Member I have been in and out of the kink lifestyle for a few years. I’m a switch, I love to be a sub for my partner, but I don’t mind switching things up occasionally and dominating my play partners… I love hearing those whimpers ;P I love spanking, teasing, edging, praise, degredation, and making my play partner beg… amongst other things! My partner and I love having kinky conversations, together and solo, but we are monogamous so no I won’t be cheating on my partner, and he won’t be cheating on me! We’re not into affairs or anything of that sort!
Female (25) West Row, Suffolk
hi I'm Sarah I'm 32 and a single curvy mum and I'm looking for some me time with I'm hoping to find a daddy dom I'm bratty I roll eyes and swear like a sailer I want a lasting relationship with a dom or daddy dom as to fill the missing piece of my life I do have a medical condition to witch my hair thins but it doesn't effect the person I am and that should not really matter to a good man only a boy would find it off putting
Female (33) Fornham St Martin, Suffolk
* I won't help you cheat - I'll only speak with fully single people. * Crazy high sex drive, extremely low self esteem. Looking for someone patient and open-minded, and also local please. I love orgasms and I'm capable of them in rather extreme numbers (the more I have, the more I need). Love toys, CNC, and bondage, particularly in tandem ⛓️ * Before embarking upon any sexual relationship, I would want to view a recent, clean health check record and I'll provide the same for you ✅ * Looking for long-term love. * If you don't ask questions, I'm afraid I won't reply. It demonstrates a lack of interest. I'm also getting really fed up by the amount of *** I'm receiving when I don't reply, when your last message just didn't ask me anything. Women's inboxes are busy here and it's regretfully, not possible to respond to everyone. Please be kind. Please be nice.
Female (37) Exning, Suffolk
I primarily use this app to read the posts and stories, so even when I'm online I often don't see messages. I would be interested in finding a dominant play partner but there doesn't seem to be many suitable candidates nearby, so for now I'm quite happy to read and to learn. I am not looking for; online, long distance, submissives, women or couples, people who cannot host - I prefer not to and only invite people into my home once I know them well.
Female (35) Ipswich, Suffolk
I am a 25 year old curvy girl looking for a play partner. I know alot about kink but have not practiced in it much yet tho I'm trying to work on that
Female (25) Ipswich, Suffolk
Before diving into the following…. I have a lot of bandwidth in use with life commitments and existing relationships/connections so at present I’m not seeking, if something comes along and I’m super in to it then we’ll see, it’s like a meat counter ticket system only no one’s behind the counter right now for the most part. *Identified Mostly Submissive Roles* Primal Prey Damsel in Distress Pillow Queen Pixie Pet Brat (Break-me) Power Bottom Pillow Queen Sensualist *Potential more Switch/Dominant Roles* Cougar/Temptress Domina GFD/Mommy Domme # *Creative with a passion for passion, ENM/CNM/Poly/Relationship Anarchist* Push X Pull Mental & Physical Intimacy Levels of Transcendence I like… the right voice & the right energy, I have great energy for the right people. Neurodivergent, OCD and perhaps undiagnosed Bi-Polar 2, Fibromyalgia, all managed pretty well. All considered in terms of Consent/Risk Mitigation/Negotiation. (In relation to trauma and Fibro ***/arthritis, pretty flexible yogi but some glitchy bits, that being said, I like a lot of things firm and we’re talking a different type of *** anyway) When I choose well, play sedates me and is almost medicinal for the above. I classify myself as Noetisexual, in that much of the attraction I feel comes from the way a person’s mind works. The attachments I have here some of the dearest to me, they’ve lead me through some dark times, broadened my mind and I believe I have broadened theirs. They are like a kind of family to me, with whom I have the deepest trust. With these connections, I become more myself, find my way back to my best parts in order to build them up again. I manage a lot in my day to day, so can be hard for me to keep up with those I intend to have socials with or date, I’m always on a quest to find the most suitable candidates for my polycule/play sphere but it needs to be both practical and engaging so may not always be responsive on here due to bandwidth, real needs and wants. # Writing not a joke memoir in disguise, Pillow Queen and the Army of Lovers, an erotic novella….
Female (44) Southwold, Suffolk
4.10 submissive looking for a dominant women no men or couples obsessed with this the below emojis: ?????
Female (33) Nowton, Suffolk
I'm very shy.. completely lack confidence ? but I'm a bit of a kinkster with an extremely high sex drive and would like to explore it more.
Female (40) Eye, Suffolk

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In a dimly lit room, the air thick with anticipation, they stood facing each other. Sarah’s heart raced as she glanced at her partner, David, who stood calm and confident, a reassuring smile on his face. They had spent hours discussing their limits, desires, and the ground rules that would guide their play. Consent was the foundation of their connection, a silent but unbreakable bond between them. “Are you ready?” he asked softly, his voice calm, yet firm. Sarah nodded, her trust in him evident as she crossed the threshold into the space where vulnerability and control coexisted.

As the session began, every touch, every command, was an opportunity for Sarah to surrender her power while maintaining her agency through the safe words they had established. David's presence was a constant reminder of the care and consideration they had given each other, as each action was carefully executed with her comfort in mind. The trust between them made the experience empowering rather than intimidating, a delicate balance that only deepened their connection. There was no shame in her submission, only strength in her willingness to explore with someone who respected her boundaries.

When it came time to end the session, the room's intensity shifted. The energy that had been so charged with power dynamics softened into something tender. David gently cupped Sarah’s face, ensuring she was physically and emotionally okay. They spoke openly about their experience, checking in with each other, affirming their trust and communication. Their bond was built on more than just physicality—it was rooted in mutual respect, shared understanding, and a commitment to each other’s well-being.

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