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Hey :) new to the game but 100% love it! Single and looking for a Dom who can keep this sub in her place, will be bratty in the process Will show pictures but due to work can’t have them out Vanilla side to me is: Enjoy movies Music Sports Playing on my ps4 Oh and reading books…smut books, smuttier the better 😉🥵
Female (29) Ipswich, Suffolk
The traits I look for in a Dominant go against the grain of the role. Just as subs need incredible strength, Dominants need gentleness and humility. A top accepts control. A sociopath demands it. A Dominant though? They earn it. The only way a Dom will ever earn power over me is by showing me that he would never demand it. . Dominance is not a label. It’s a verdict. It's something I feel in my bones, in my breath, in the way my body responds. It draws submission out of me. It never demands it. I'll give up my power because I trust a person with my vulnerability. D/s is intensely intimate, and I won't engage with it until I know you'll hold it gently. Safety, it transpires, is one hell of an aphrodisiac. . I want a vanilla man: someone who dates me before he considers dominating me; who begins with conversations, not floggers; who gets to know me by talking to me, not fucking me. I want someone who knows people matter, that love matters, that I matter. If I wanted to be ordered around in a role-playing arrangement, I would create an OF and gain an income from it. I don't. I want someone to love who loves me; someone who feels like home; someone who is home. . I want a man who makes mistakes: The type who’s intimately acquainted with his own weaknesses and who doesn’t see admitting fault as a loss. I want a man who walks beside me, not one who positions himself as though we’re at war. Someone who tells the truth, not because he might get caught in a lie, but because honesty matters to him. It matters because he can't respect himself any other way. No person can evolve without the capacity to be honest with themselves, and no relationship can evolve until the hardest truths are known. . I write and post on the forums. A lot. When I was new I read and read but nothing really spoke to me. It was all very black and white, theoretical and serious. BDSM is serious stuff but it should also be full of fun and light. It's a romance, not a religion. In the beginning, I spoke with people who told me that this was no different to vanilla dating and it is. It's not the same at all. I needed to read about other peoples experiences, how they felt because, I feel that I might have been able to relate to it. I needed something tangible. I still do. So I write the things that I'd have liked to have read from my experience so far in the hope others find it useful but also to get the thoughts out of my head and into some sort of logical form. Some will be reflections on my experiences, some will questioning, others will simply be sarcasm, making light of the "lifestyle" . if you want to know more about me, maybe have a read. . Writing on Fet though has taught me that everyone reads through their own lens. No matter how hard you polish those glasses, people will apply their own tint to everything they see. Everyone seems to carry their own agenda around with them like a shopping trolley. Then they unpack the contents in everyone else's kitchen because it will be about them no matter what. . Few people put work into their online reading. They unpack that creaky old trolley with it's wonky wheel before they've even read the first line. I'm certain some of them don't even bother reading the post before disagreeing with it. Quite frankly, I'm quite tired of being manipulated into conversations I never signed up for. I am responsible for what I say, not what you read. . Please send icecream
Female (45) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
Heya. I'm in a poly relationship and am looking for someone else to spend my time with (NOT as a threesome). I'd like something meaningful with someone who knows what they want. Ideally Dom or switch. I enjoy soooo many things, it's easier to say what I don't enjoy... I would like to explore more with rope, impact play, outdoor fun, medical fetish looks intriguing. I really am open to so much!
Female (36) Ipswich, Suffolk
I don't play with anyone under 30! I am in a poly D/s dynamic with Master Desire. Interested in casual but not disposible female Unicorns who want to play with us both. I can also play solo. I'm a NeuroQueer solo poly submissive and plus sized beauty. 100% certified obedient good slave girl princess with soft primal prey tendencies. Ethically bratty only in casual play encounters. Shibari practice both as bunny and rope Mistress has been my the***utic happy place for 3 years and I enjoy continuing to learn and expand skills in this area. My FemDom side has been described as affectionately sadistic, I enjoy the power of my divine femininity and being worshiped on the rare ocassions of me topping that way in casual play. Non Kink wise, I work in the Arts & Human Rights. I love to travel and spend time in nature, art galleries, museums, theatre, festivals, music gigs, cinema, restaurants, book shops. As submissive and slave, I abide by my paraphrased words from Mollena Williams - Haas' Prime Directive on the M/s dynamic for any D/s dynamic as well as her specific words on the M/s dynamic ** "It is the primary responsibility of the submissive or slave to protect the Master or Dominant's property at all times, up to and including protecting the property from the Master or Dominant" ** I'm enjoying and looking for meaningful connections who share similar kinktrests to see where we adventure on from there. Open to regular FWB, casual play partners both in short and long term. Relationship anarchy doesn't need to equate to chaos. Primal Pleasure Daddy Doms and Pleasure Sadists are my submissive play vibes. BDSM for me is a beautiful partnership between the mind and body. It's empowering, healing, sexy, fun and more! I am facinated by and enjoy the exploration of desires on physical and psychological levels and how these evolve over time. Mutually honest and open communication, curiosity, playfulness, non judgemental, self awareness, informed and consensual negotiations, earning trust and respect matters to me. If you have gotten this far and want to reach out, put 'Beautiful Blossom' in your subject line so I know you've read my bio.
Female (35) Ipswich, Suffolk
I am looking for like minded people to chat about kink, meet up and have fun. **Desires and Fantasies** love a good teacher student roll
Female (30) Ipswich, Suffolk
woman who is looking for kinky like minded people to enjoy kinky times with….. I love sucking cock and get a kick from seeing a man loving his cock down my throat love to gag n deep throat a cock ….. don’t want sex on the phone you want sexy times then have them with me not my phone can be very discreet
Female (43) Lowestoft, Suffolk
Hello, I'm so sorry I often can't get past the how are you stage. I'm very shy.. I don't start convo at the beginning.. But I'm going to give this description a go. After a VERY long time I have decided to get back into the scene. I've taken time for myself. Vanilla: So in all of my photos I have wigs on. I naturally have short hair and I'm currently growing it out. I'm obsessed with fashion, wigs and makeup. I've just always had a fun time doing it. I'm currently trying to really relearn my interest again and if someone can get me into a hobby that will be great! Sorry I can't read books, so no books.. but podcast yes! I've figured I'm pretty much a lesbian/demi sexual *** based at this point I can't lie to you.. (the odd guy gets me but usually not heterosexual men sorry) I'm really into masochism and exciting scenes. I'm not very sex driven and more of a big nerd of *** and control. In my perfect Barbie girl world I'd love to be owned in a TPE dynamic in kink practices. Please let me be your rope bunny! Bruise me and make me bleed, crying and begging for mercy. Very neurodivergent and very chronically ill. X Old men in my DMS go AWAY!!!!!
Female (24) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
I am a 24 year old curvy girl looking for a play partner. I know alot about kink but have not practiced in it much yet tho I'm trying to work on that
Female (25) Ipswich, Suffolk
I primarily use this app to read the posts and stories, so even when I'm online I often don't see messages. I would be interested in finding a dominant play partner but there doesn't seem to be many suitable candidates nearby, so for now I'm quite happy to read and to learn. I am not looking for; online, long distance, submissives, women or couples, people who cannot host - I prefer not to and only invite people into my home once I know them well.
Female (35) Ipswich, Suffolk
Hey! 30 year old, looking to spice things up. Looking an older very dominant guy! I love to be blackmailed, exposed, humiliated and degraded x
Female (30) Oulton, Suffolk
Just a kinky bastard who enjoys live music, pegging, and peircing. Im one half of a hedonistic couple who occasionally enjoys the company of bi men. ENM Really am here for one thing and one thing only Actively looking for a submissive play thing. IN PERSON. But I'll happily indulge in a little long distance chatter too. In the meantime, talk to me about kinks, music, festivals, plants, antiques, and drunken antics. I also ***y love chess and play bass, badly :) We like to party. Join us :)
Female (30) Carlton Colville, Suffolk
I am a fun loving girl, I have a gothic style dressing, without the heavy make-up. I open to new experiences, I just want to have a great sex life. i have interest in gaming especially horror but do play other games too, i love music and films, cuddle someone to watch them, i just want more out of life, my disability is mental health problems, bipolar disorder depression etc im on meds but in a better place, i just want to have fun with someone who as kinky as me, also I love my dogs and cat if u hate *** and won’t tolerate then don’t inbox me, they will always come first.
Female (33) Kessingland, Suffolk
Before diving into the following…. I have a lot of bandwidth in use with life commitments and existing relationships/connections so at present I’m not seeking, if something comes along and I’m super in to it then we’ll see, it’s like a meat counter ticket system only no one’s behind the counter right now for the most part. *Identified Mostly Submissive Roles* Primal Prey Damsel in Distress Pillow Queen Pixie Pet Brat (Break-me) Power Bottom Pillow Queen Sensualist *Potential more Switch/Dominant Roles* Cougar/Temptress Domina GFD/Mommy Domme # *Creative with a passion for passion, ENM/CNM/Poly/Relationship Anarchist* Push X Pull Mental & Physical Intimacy Levels of Transcendence I like… the right voice & the right energy, I have great energy for the right people. Neurodivergent, OCD and perhaps undiagnosed Bi-Polar 2, Fibromyalgia, all managed pretty well. All considered in terms of Consent/Risk Mitigation/Negotiation. (In relation to trauma and Fibro ***/arthritis, pretty flexible yogi but some glitchy bits, that being said, I like a lot of things firm and we’re talking a different type of *** anyway) When I choose well, play sedates me and is almost medicinal for the above. I classify myself as Noetisexual, in that much of the attraction I feel comes from the way a person’s mind works. The attachments I have here some of the dearest to me, they’ve lead me through some dark times, broadened my mind and I believe I have broadened theirs. They are like a kind of family to me, with whom I have the deepest trust. With these connections, I become more myself, find my way back to my best parts in order to build them up again. I manage a lot in my day to day, so can be hard for me to keep up with those I intend to have socials with or date, I’m always on a quest to find the most suitable candidates for my polycule/play sphere but it needs to be both practical and engaging so may not always be responsive on here due to bandwidth, real needs and wants. # Writing not a joke memoir in disguise, Pillow Queen and the Army of Lovers, an erotic novella….
Female (43) Southwold, Suffolk
hi I'm Sarah I'm 32 and a single curvy mum and I'm looking for some me time with I'm hoping to find a daddy dom I'm bratty I roll eyes and swear like a sailer I want a lasting relationship with a dom or daddy dom as to fill the missing piece of my life I do have a medical condition to witch my hair thins but it doesn't effect the person I am and that should not really matter to a good man only a boy would find it off putting
Female (32) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
29 year old mother who's just found someone who can tame and care. Just looking to learn more and socialise
Female (30) Ipswich, Suffolk
NOT interested in meeting OR talking to MEN. Moved this to the top to help all the guys read this better, you’re welcome! Men (AMAB) who message without reading this will be subject to sarcasm and I’m not liable for emotional damages to your egos…. anyway! I am not single, I am part of a couple. Together we’re looking to get to know, share pics and chat to about all things kinky with women and trans people. Vanilla Alternative Club Member I have been in and out of the kink lifestyle for a few years. I’m a switch, I love to be a sub for my partner, but I don’t mind switching things up occasionally and dominating my play partners… I love hearing those whimpers ;P I love spanking, teasing, edging, praise, degredation, and making my play partner beg… amongst other things! My partner and I love having kinky conversations, together and solo, but we are monogamous so no I won’t be cheating on my partner, and he won’t be cheating on me! We’re not into affairs or anything of that sort!
Female (24) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
looking to talk and maybe plan stuff in the future feel free to message and ask questions , send me a pic of you’re shoulders to get things moving
Female (20) Brandon, Suffolk
* I won't help you cheat - I'll only speak with fully single people. * Crazy high sex drive, extremely low self esteem. Looking for someone patient and open-minded, and also local please. I love orgasms and I'm capable of them in rather extreme numbers (the more I have, the more I need). Love toys, CNC, and bondage, particularly in tandem ⛓️ * Before embarking upon any sexual relationship, I would want to view a recent, clean health check record and I'll provide the same for you ✅ * Looking for long-term love. * If you don't ask questions, I'm afraid I won't reply. It demonstrates a lack of interest. I'm also getting really fed up by the amount of *** I'm receiving when I don't reply, when your last message just didn't ask me anything. Women's inboxes are busy here and it's regretfully, not possible to respond to everyone. Please be kind. Please be nice.
Female (37) Exning, Suffolk
I'm very shy.. completely lack confidence ? but I'm a bit of a kinkster with an extremely high sex drive and would like to explore it more.
Female (40) Eye, Suffolk
A truly genuine person who keeps getting burned. Will reveal my face after some chat. into all sorts, a switch but in need of Dom.to take care of me during a really difficult time.
Female (31) Carlton Colville, Suffolk
I am a very submissive woman. I am looking for a very dominant daddy, Nick Jacob’s type rough fuck. I need to be spanked, hair pulled, and then cuddled after cumming. I watch lots of porn/ read lots of smuts that I would love to talk about and repeat. I love the idea of being tied up and fucked. Age play is something I really enjoy. I really hope this app can give me what I’m looking for Limits- we must have a vanilla chat before engaging in sexual activity to discuss boundaries. *** is usually a no go. nothing illegal. No permanent markings, or ***/***. No actual disrespect, I enjoy fantasy disrespect, but not in vanilla life.
Female (20) Withersfield, Suffolk

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Hey :) new to the game but 100% love it! Single and looking for a Dom who can keep this sub in her place, will be bratty in the process Will show pictures but due to work can’t have them out Vanilla side to me is: Enjoy movies Music Sports Playing on my ps4 Oh and reading books…smut books, smuttier the better 😉🥵
Female (29) Ipswich, Suffolk
The traits I look for in a Dominant go against the grain of the role. Just as subs need incredible strength, Dominants need gentleness and humility. A top accepts control. A sociopath demands it. A Dominant though? They earn it. The only way a Dom will ever earn power over me is by showing me that he would never demand it. . Dominance is not a label. It’s a verdict. It's something I feel in my bones, in my breath, in the way my body responds. It draws submission out of me. It never demands it. I'll give up my power because I trust a person with my vulnerability. D/s is intensely intimate, and I won't engage with it until I know you'll hold it gently. Safety, it transpires, is one hell of an aphrodisiac. . I want a vanilla man: someone who dates me before he considers dominating me; who begins with conversations, not floggers; who gets to know me by talking to me, not fucking me. I want someone who knows people matter, that love matters, that I matter. If I wanted to be ordered around in a role-playing arrangement, I would create an OF and gain an income from it. I don't. I want someone to love who loves me; someone who feels like home; someone who is home. . I want a man who makes mistakes: The type who’s intimately acquainted with his own weaknesses and who doesn’t see admitting fault as a loss. I want a man who walks beside me, not one who positions himself as though we’re at war. Someone who tells the truth, not because he might get caught in a lie, but because honesty matters to him. It matters because he can't respect himself any other way. No person can evolve without the capacity to be honest with themselves, and no relationship can evolve until the hardest truths are known. . I write and post on the forums. A lot. When I was new I read and read but nothing really spoke to me. It was all very black and white, theoretical and serious. BDSM is serious stuff but it should also be full of fun and light. It's a romance, not a religion. In the beginning, I spoke with people who told me that this was no different to vanilla dating and it is. It's not the same at all. I needed to read about other peoples experiences, how they felt because, I feel that I might have been able to relate to it. I needed something tangible. I still do. So I write the things that I'd have liked to have read from my experience so far in the hope others find it useful but also to get the thoughts out of my head and into some sort of logical form. Some will be reflections on my experiences, some will questioning, others will simply be sarcasm, making light of the "lifestyle" . if you want to know more about me, maybe have a read. . Writing on Fet though has taught me that everyone reads through their own lens. No matter how hard you polish those glasses, people will apply their own tint to everything they see. Everyone seems to carry their own agenda around with them like a shopping trolley. Then they unpack the contents in everyone else's kitchen because it will be about them no matter what. . Few people put work into their online reading. They unpack that creaky old trolley with it's wonky wheel before they've even read the first line. I'm certain some of them don't even bother reading the post before disagreeing with it. Quite frankly, I'm quite tired of being manipulated into conversations I never signed up for. I am responsible for what I say, not what you read. . Please send icecream
Female (45) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
I am looking for like minded people to chat about kink, meet up and have fun. **Desires and Fantasies** love a good teacher student roll
Female (30) Ipswich, Suffolk
Heya. I'm in a poly relationship and am looking for someone else to spend my time with (NOT as a threesome). I'd like something meaningful with someone who knows what they want. Ideally Dom or switch. I enjoy soooo many things, it's easier to say what I don't enjoy... I would like to explore more with rope, impact play, outdoor fun, medical fetish looks intriguing. I really am open to so much!
Female (36) Ipswich, Suffolk
I don't play with anyone under 30! I am in a poly D/s dynamic with Master Desire. Interested in casual but not disposible female Unicorns who want to play with us both. I can also play solo. I'm a NeuroQueer solo poly submissive and plus sized beauty. 100% certified obedient good slave girl princess with soft primal prey tendencies. Ethically bratty only in casual play encounters. Shibari practice both as bunny and rope Mistress has been my the***utic happy place for 3 years and I enjoy continuing to learn and expand skills in this area. My FemDom side has been described as affectionately sadistic, I enjoy the power of my divine femininity and being worshiped on the rare ocassions of me topping that way in casual play. Non Kink wise, I work in the Arts & Human Rights. I love to travel and spend time in nature, art galleries, museums, theatre, festivals, music gigs, cinema, restaurants, book shops. As submissive and slave, I abide by my paraphrased words from Mollena Williams - Haas' Prime Directive on the M/s dynamic for any D/s dynamic as well as her specific words on the M/s dynamic ** "It is the primary responsibility of the submissive or slave to protect the Master or Dominant's property at all times, up to and including protecting the property from the Master or Dominant" ** I'm enjoying and looking for meaningful connections who share similar kinktrests to see where we adventure on from there. Open to regular FWB, casual play partners both in short and long term. Relationship anarchy doesn't need to equate to chaos. Primal Pleasure Daddy Doms and Pleasure Sadists are my submissive play vibes. BDSM for me is a beautiful partnership between the mind and body. It's empowering, healing, sexy, fun and more! I am facinated by and enjoy the exploration of desires on physical and psychological levels and how these evolve over time. Mutually honest and open communication, curiosity, playfulness, non judgemental, self awareness, informed and consensual negotiations, earning trust and respect matters to me. If you have gotten this far and want to reach out, put 'Beautiful Blossom' in your subject line so I know you've read my bio.
Female (35) Ipswich, Suffolk
woman who is looking for kinky like minded people to enjoy kinky times with….. I love sucking cock and get a kick from seeing a man loving his cock down my throat love to gag n deep throat a cock ….. don’t want sex on the phone you want sexy times then have them with me not my phone can be very discreet
Female (43) Lowestoft, Suffolk
Hello, I'm so sorry I often can't get past the how are you stage. I'm very shy.. I don't start convo at the beginning.. But I'm going to give this description a go. After a VERY long time I have decided to get back into the scene. I've taken time for myself. Vanilla: So in all of my photos I have wigs on. I naturally have short hair and I'm currently growing it out. I'm obsessed with fashion, wigs and makeup. I've just always had a fun time doing it. I'm currently trying to really relearn my interest again and if someone can get me into a hobby that will be great! Sorry I can't read books, so no books.. but podcast yes! I've figured I'm pretty much a lesbian/demi sexual *** based at this point I can't lie to you.. (the odd guy gets me but usually not heterosexual men sorry) I'm really into masochism and exciting scenes. I'm not very sex driven and more of a big nerd of *** and control. In my perfect Barbie girl world I'd love to be owned in a TPE dynamic in kink practices. Please let me be your rope bunny! Bruise me and make me bleed, crying and begging for mercy. Very neurodivergent and very chronically ill. X Old men in my DMS go AWAY!!!!!
Female (24) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
Hey! 30 year old, looking to spice things up. Looking an older very dominant guy! I love to be blackmailed, exposed, humiliated and degraded x
Female (30) Oulton, Suffolk
I am a fun loving girl, I have a gothic style dressing, without the heavy make-up. I open to new experiences, I just want to have a great sex life. i have interest in gaming especially horror but do play other games too, i love music and films, cuddle someone to watch them, i just want more out of life, my disability is mental health problems, bipolar disorder depression etc im on meds but in a better place, i just want to have fun with someone who as kinky as me, also I love my dogs and cat if u hate *** and won’t tolerate then don’t inbox me, they will always come first.
Female (33) Kessingland, Suffolk
A truly genuine person who keeps getting burned. Will reveal my face after some chat. into all sorts, a switch but in need of Dom.to take care of me during a really difficult time.
Female (31) Carlton Colville, Suffolk
Just a kinky bastard who enjoys live music, pegging, and peircing. Im one half of a hedonistic couple who occasionally enjoys the company of bi men. ENM Really am here for one thing and one thing only Actively looking for a submissive play thing. IN PERSON. But I'll happily indulge in a little long distance chatter too. In the meantime, talk to me about kinks, music, festivals, plants, antiques, and drunken antics. I also ***y love chess and play bass, badly :) We like to party. Join us :)
Female (30) Carlton Colville, Suffolk
I am a very submissive woman. I am looking for a very dominant daddy, Nick Jacob’s type rough fuck. I need to be spanked, hair pulled, and then cuddled after cumming. I watch lots of porn/ read lots of smuts that I would love to talk about and repeat. I love the idea of being tied up and fucked. Age play is something I really enjoy. I really hope this app can give me what I’m looking for Limits- we must have a vanilla chat before engaging in sexual activity to discuss boundaries. *** is usually a no go. nothing illegal. No permanent markings, or ***/***. No actual disrespect, I enjoy fantasy disrespect, but not in vanilla life.
Female (20) Withersfield, Suffolk
NOT interested in meeting OR talking to MEN. Moved this to the top to help all the guys read this better, you’re welcome! Men (AMAB) who message without reading this will be subject to sarcasm and I’m not liable for emotional damages to your egos…. anyway! I am not single, I am part of a couple. Together we’re looking to get to know, share pics and chat to about all things kinky with women and trans people. Vanilla Alternative Club Member I have been in and out of the kink lifestyle for a few years. I’m a switch, I love to be a sub for my partner, but I don’t mind switching things up occasionally and dominating my play partners… I love hearing those whimpers ;P I love spanking, teasing, edging, praise, degredation, and making my play partner beg… amongst other things! My partner and I love having kinky conversations, together and solo, but we are monogamous so no I won’t be cheating on my partner, and he won’t be cheating on me! We’re not into affairs or anything of that sort!
Female (24) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
looking to talk and maybe plan stuff in the future feel free to message and ask questions , send me a pic of you’re shoulders to get things moving
Female (20) Brandon, Suffolk
hi I'm Sarah I'm 32 and a single curvy mum and I'm looking for some me time with I'm hoping to find a daddy dom I'm bratty I roll eyes and swear like a sailer I want a lasting relationship with a dom or daddy dom as to fill the missing piece of my life I do have a medical condition to witch my hair thins but it doesn't effect the person I am and that should not really matter to a good man only a boy would find it off putting
Female (32) Bury St Edmunds, Suffolk
29 year old mother who's just found someone who can tame and care. Just looking to learn more and socialise
Female (30) Ipswich, Suffolk
* I won't help you cheat - I'll only speak with fully single people. * Crazy high sex drive, extremely low self esteem. Looking for someone patient and open-minded, and also local please. I love orgasms and I'm capable of them in rather extreme numbers (the more I have, the more I need). Love toys, CNC, and bondage, particularly in tandem ⛓️ * Before embarking upon any sexual relationship, I would want to view a recent, clean health check record and I'll provide the same for you ✅ * Looking for long-term love. * If you don't ask questions, I'm afraid I won't reply. It demonstrates a lack of interest. I'm also getting really fed up by the amount of *** I'm receiving when I don't reply, when your last message just didn't ask me anything. Women's inboxes are busy here and it's regretfully, not possible to respond to everyone. Please be kind. Please be nice.
Female (37) Exning, Suffolk
I primarily use this app to read the posts and stories, so even when I'm online I often don't see messages. I would be interested in finding a dominant play partner but there doesn't seem to be many suitable candidates nearby, so for now I'm quite happy to read and to learn. I am not looking for; online, long distance, submissives, women or couples, people who cannot host - I prefer not to and only invite people into my home once I know them well.
Female (35) Ipswich, Suffolk
I am a 24 year old curvy girl looking for a play partner. I know alot about kink but have not practiced in it much yet tho I'm trying to work on that
Female (25) Ipswich, Suffolk
Before diving into the following…. I have a lot of bandwidth in use with life commitments and existing relationships/connections so at present I’m not seeking, if something comes along and I’m super in to it then we’ll see, it’s like a meat counter ticket system only no one’s behind the counter right now for the most part. *Identified Mostly Submissive Roles* Primal Prey Damsel in Distress Pillow Queen Pixie Pet Brat (Break-me) Power Bottom Pillow Queen Sensualist *Potential more Switch/Dominant Roles* Cougar/Temptress Domina GFD/Mommy Domme # *Creative with a passion for passion, ENM/CNM/Poly/Relationship Anarchist* Push X Pull Mental & Physical Intimacy Levels of Transcendence I like… the right voice & the right energy, I have great energy for the right people. Neurodivergent, OCD and perhaps undiagnosed Bi-Polar 2, Fibromyalgia, all managed pretty well. All considered in terms of Consent/Risk Mitigation/Negotiation. (In relation to trauma and Fibro ***/arthritis, pretty flexible yogi but some glitchy bits, that being said, I like a lot of things firm and we’re talking a different type of *** anyway) When I choose well, play sedates me and is almost medicinal for the above. I classify myself as Noetisexual, in that much of the attraction I feel comes from the way a person’s mind works. The attachments I have here some of the dearest to me, they’ve lead me through some dark times, broadened my mind and I believe I have broadened theirs. They are like a kind of family to me, with whom I have the deepest trust. With these connections, I become more myself, find my way back to my best parts in order to build them up again. I manage a lot in my day to day, so can be hard for me to keep up with those I intend to have socials with or date, I’m always on a quest to find the most suitable candidates for my polycule/play sphere but it needs to be both practical and engaging so may not always be responsive on here due to bandwidth, real needs and wants. # Writing not a joke memoir in disguise, Pillow Queen and the Army of Lovers, an erotic novella….
Female (43) Southwold, Suffolk
I'm very shy.. completely lack confidence ? but I'm a bit of a kinkster with an extremely high sex drive and would like to explore it more.
Female (40) Eye, Suffolk

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