Surprising I know but there you have it.
I'm looking for a sub to get to know and explore with as part of a relationship with certain 24/7 TPE elements (within practical and vanilla life reasons etc obvs) as I learn how best to look after and use my sub as much as she learns how best to please her Master.
All has to be mutually enjoyed and agreed of course and I'm looking for someone to do vanilla date type things too (but with a kink twist perhaps) and I couldn't own someone as my sub/ pet/ fucktoy if I didn't respect them and enjoy conversations and just hanging out with them.
I'm not sure if "kinky date" is specifically the right option here but I'm not looking for a one off and an initial 'date' to get to know one another would be vanilla as it is but I think this rambling covers what is intended