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First off, I'm looking for play without the protocol that a full D/s relationship entails (rules, behaviour governing, seeking permission to act, etc.) I want a gentle, loving partner whom I can explore with. I've been on fet sites for around 8 years, but only had one play partner and lots of hiatuses, so I feel inexperienced. Mostly a sub leaning switch, so I'm never going to be a full sub. That being said, I'm never going to be a full Domme either. I like to tease and play and sometimes I'll play fight you to be on top. *Vanilla* A little about me: 5ft5ish, long curly hair (usually dyed copper,) BBW, geeky, book nerd, baker, lover of ***s, gamer, and blender of herbal teas. Big fan of watching documentaries, movies, Kdramas, stand up, rugby union, and youtube videos. I enjoy museums and attractions like zoos, sea life centres, etc, or even open top city tours, as well as good conversation over a coffee or glass of red. I listen to most music, but I'm a rock/metal girl at heart. Sometimes you'll find me in the great North Yorkshire (I lived there for around 4 years - my Alma Mater is there.) - Anything else, ask away! Give me a spank here so I can find you when I'm back online, otherwise all you'll ever be is a fuzzy blob. P.s I have ***am and kik - I don't normally give my number out until after a first date. - Kinks; Bondage/restraint - rope & steel Blindfolds/masks - complete blackout/*** deprivation ice/fire play pinwheels/claws electrical play hentai me leaving tights/stockings on roleplay (willing to dress up) physical restraint/control (being pinned or pressed, or lifted, overpowered) power exchange Primal play Getting glamorous for him Wearing lingerie for him Orgasm control/***d orgasm Toys My Hard Limits currently are: Hard slapping or hitting - anything causing lasting physical damage ***/Watersports ***play Pegging ***/sissification Master/slave
Female (36) Tandridge, Surrey
Hello, I'm very new here. I want to try a new pleasurable experience in my life, and I know I get turned on by being controlled by a dominant man.
Newbie: with a strong desire to be in a constant state of orgasm, the urge to be used as a cum dumpster and the need to be eaten.
Female (30) Tandridge, Surrey
I am a woman with great qualities, values and a broad sense of belonging. I care about people's feelings, I hate injustice and I love helping people around me. I am a very family-oriented woman, I love ***, ***s and I am very good at a social level.
Female (50) Camberley, Surrey
About me ?Where to start...? Welcome to my world! Just your friendly Girl next door. When I’m good I’m really good but when I’m bad I’m better!! A bit(e) about me... Kink Me I have always been submissive - leaning towards masochist (I love a bit of ***) and babygirl. I can be (very) bratty at times! Being submissive is more of who I am, not what I “do.” While I pride myself on being a dedicated sub (to the right person), it’s simply not enough for me to get on my knees and say “yes master/mistress.” I mean, is that really enough for anyone? I need to have a good connection with someone which when I use all my senses to connect it becomes Euphoric. I have found that the sub almost always yields the most power in the dynamic. I will ultimately decide first and foremost if I think something/someone is good for me. Both trust and commitment must be established as well before going forward with negotiations. If you take the time to earn my trust (you gotta work for it), you’ll have me eating out of the palm of your hand. If you fuck with me, I just might bite the hand that feeds...just kidding, well kind of. I’m new to the scene but have always been into non Vanilla bedroom acrobatics Vanilla Me I can be a bit shy at first, but don’t let that fool you. Once I’m out of my shell I’m lots of fun! I consider myself to be an empath. I am also a very caring and thoughtful individual (I love to do nice things for the people in my life), and am incredibly loyal to those closest to me. Treating others with kindness and respect are a must in my book. I don’t tolerate hate/discrimination/ degrading of any kind - so if that’s you, please move along. My interests/hobbies include music, art, fashion, Dance , photography, traveling and vegan cooking . I’m 5”3 so petite but don’t let that fool you dynamite comes in small packages too.
Female (43) Bagshot, Surrey
hi I have been in a relationship for 16 years now and i want to have a cuckhold relationship so I can be bred by the bull because I have a breeding kink and want to have a bulls baby growing inside of me instead of a child from my sissy adult baby who is in chastity cage and is in nappies all the time. I would like to have a long term bull to have regular sex means 4 nites a week and on ovulation make me your cum dumping fill me up as much as you can please and to breed me 2 to 3 time and i can accommodate as well of a nite time
Female (37) Godalming, Surrey
I love my partner dominating me, but I love to dominate other people. I have traits of being a little sadistic and masochism. Me and my partner are looking to dominate a female or have a couple involved that both like to be dominated. I mainly like using rope, gags, blindfolds, plastic wrap, and tape. I’m into mummification, predicament bondage, *** deprivation, confinement, CBT and many other forms of BDSM - it’s endless.
Female (37) Camberley, Surrey
im looking for a dom/daddy ;) hit me up (one way to win my heart is pet names;) BUT start a conversation like a normal person please no need to rush (i will only do online for a few months for safety reasons ... and uni) i love the colour pink and gold i would love to make friends so dont be shy:)
Female (20) Guildford, Surrey
Sweet brat with a submissive heart looking for a firm but caring Master to train, guide, and occasionally spoil me. I crave structure, correction, and the kind of discipline that leaves me breathless—but I also melt for affection and a Dom who knows how to balance control with care. I'm obedient when earned, playful when provoked, and loyal when claimed. Make me obey, and I'll be yours to mold. Just be ready to handle the sass that comes with the soft.
Female (27) Merton, Surrey
21 year old submissive. Relatively new to BDSM and everything surrounding it so looking to broaden my experiences! fuck and love me like the men in my books do ? only looking for serious stuff
Female (21) Guildford, Surrey
🦇 Submissive lean looking for real doms/dom leanings who have good vibes 🦇 Looking for a relationship 🦇 switchy 🦇 Respect is a must and the bare minimum 🦇 Interested in power dynamics, petplay, ***/***, daddy/mommy doms, impact play, breath play, worship (giving and recieving), rimming (giving and receiving), clinical roleplay, primal play, and *** play 🦇 not a lifestyle sub, bedroom only 🦇 I value honesty, communication, and good rapport 🦇 Outside of kink I'm interested in literature, roller skating, historical TV, gaming, dnd, and partying 🦇 if you don't have your intents/interests in your bio I'm probably gonna block you 🦇 no nudes
Female (20) Egham, Surrey
🖤one half of a fun, high energy & experimental couple🖤 new to opening up our relationship and still discovering the boundaries, but are definitely up for pushing them. We’ve found a recent love for Rope play 🪢 and looking for like minded kinky friends to attend events with, gain experience and just share cool memories together. mainly looking for a woman to come and spend time with us, but open to couples if there’s a connection 🖤
Female (28) Runfold, Surrey
I’m CJ, I’m new to the kink world and I’m looking to explore and learn what I like and what my limits are. message if you’d like to know more ☺️
I’m a Sub looking for someone who is my height or taller and is strong, as in my everyday life I’m pretty strong and make a lot of decisions, so I want to feel the opposite, I want to feel small and weak and be led, controlled and looked after. I’m never been in a Sub/ Dom relationship so I’m really curious and want to try new things and experiment what my limits are. I love being spanked, ***d, blindfolded, tied up, anal, having all of your muscular weight on me so I can’t move and generally being dominated. If you’ve got any questions then ask away.
I am looking for a dom that can handle a somewhat bratty alpha submissive. im an unapologetically curvy woman so if you're not a boobs and ass man, im probably not for you.
Female (53) Camberley, Surrey
Hello all :-) I'm only looking for Dominant couples into BDSM, I'm not looking for a traditional 3sum. NO SINGLE GUYS PLEASE. Currently I can only meet daytime during the week, so local to GUILDFORD OR HORSHAM only, i cant accommodate so I need to travel to you. Ages 20- 50 ish. My top 3 must haves are, being hooded, being gagged, kept restrained. At ALL times :-) Things I'm looking for are..... * Breast and nipple play such as tight binding, clamps, mild impact, repeated ***s on them. * Gags, mouth stuffed and taped, ballgag, inflatable. * Breath play with plastic bags. * Restraint using metal cuffs, leather, tape, cable ties, chains. * Hoods for complete head/face covering to dehumanise/gimp. * Mild impact on genitals/arse. * Certain hum/deg I would of course go into LOTS more detail in conversation with you. I'm a big girl so you need to be ok with that, I have lots of confidence issues, i won't be naked but certain areas will always be exposed for use.
Female (46) Guildford, Surrey
Ask ,as im bored of this app ,waste of time ,mostly baby boys looking for pics or vids and a waste of time grow up ,grow a pair ....im a sub not a dom and no i dont want to watch you cum on video call .I only give 1 chance if you dont turn up when we make an arrangement i won't give you another chance to let me down if you have not got a recent profile pic dont bother ,yes it's shallow but so is this site and no room for a nice looking guy who turns out to look like shrek ,because the pic was 20years ago ....yes this happened to me .... this may seem wrong but I am not interested in seeing anyone who not white im sorry but it does nothing for me and it's my choice , I like metalheads and bikers and a strong personality
Female (56) Woking, Surrey
Looking to be used and ***d by a domme (or a group of ?) ✨WOMEN ONLY✨ Also for domme or sub friends to go to events with? in an open relationship
Female (29) Tandridge, Surrey
Switch looking for a switch. No fakes, and don't even bother asking me if I want to fuck. Shibari. Connection, communication and friendship. Looking to potentially connect with like minded people.
Female (35) Tandridge, Surrey
I like clear and direct communication, let’s understand each other before diving head in. I love all things submission but who doesn’t love to switch. I will not respond to graphic descriptions of your kinks or what you want to do to me if that’s your first message. Please have some grace and decorum. hard limits ***, ***, ***, extreme ***, illegal, race play
Female (26) Tandridge, Surrey
I’m a single parent I’m tattooed and pierced I’m also a dog mum I have mental health issues and can sometimes go completely quite cause I struggle with how I feel and don’t like to rely on people I do love a party but I’m also a hermit and love my bed 😂😂I’m either at the gym walking the dogs or reading dark romance and fantasy books I have 42 tattoos and 13 piercing snap chat -kellylorrayne4
Female (30) Guildford, Surrey
Looking for a monogamous relationship that would be based on a D/s dynamic of a power exchange. Interested in many things like ddmg and breath play, but also a lot to learn. Perfect opportunity to mold me to fit your needs 🥰 Mainly looking for a Dom, and who would know how to firmly hold me in my place.
Female (47) Tandridge, Surrey
submissive I’m new to the sub and dom dynamic looking for something long term. I’ve tried the whole dating apps that’s a lot of bs I’m a bbw I’m looking for someone to teach me the ropes but also with care. I like to try new things once atleast. I would ideally like a long term thing. I have intrests in ddlg,cnc, *** deprivation. sometimes I like to show off it gets me off. there’s lots of things idk the names of. I’m into anal play that’s a frequent question 😂 I like one man only I don’t like to share. please don’t ask to meet straight away
- collared and in a dom / sub dynamic with my dom - open to chatting and meet-ups through his approval. NOT looking to be effectively ‘stolen’ out of my dynamic by another dom or join an existing dynamic as a third / by myself. Any professional established Dom out there who wishes to organise sessions with me must contact my Dom Directly, you can find him on my profile. Bi women are welcome to DM directly, anyone else is also free to message and talk to me, also open to new friends! Requesting to see my private gallery without talking to me or getting permission from my Dom is not going to work lol - —- big tiddie goth gamer girl, part time music procrastinator full time chaotic ADHD fuelled gremlin. not interested in fully submissive guys, other than that and my limits list everything else is up for discussion in dms. -
Female (20) Epsom and Ewell, Surrey

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I am a woman with great qualities, values and a broad sense of belonging. I care about people's feelings, I hate injustice and I love helping people around me. I am a very family-oriented woman, I love ***, ***s and I am very good at a social level.
Female (50) Camberley, Surrey
im looking for a dom/daddy ;) hit me up (one way to win my heart is pet names;) BUT start a conversation like a normal person please no need to rush (i will only do online for a few months for safety reasons ... and uni) i love the colour pink and gold i would love to make friends so dont be shy:)
Female (20) Guildford, Surrey
I love my partner dominating me, but I love to dominate other people. I have traits of being a little sadistic and masochism. Me and my partner are looking to dominate a female or have a couple involved that both like to be dominated. I mainly like using rope, gags, blindfolds, plastic wrap, and tape. I’m into mummification, predicament bondage, *** deprivation, confinement, CBT and many other forms of BDSM - it’s endless.
Female (37) Camberley, Surrey
Newbie: with a strong desire to be in a constant state of orgasm, the urge to be used as a cum dumpster and the need to be eaten.
Female (30) Tandridge, Surrey
hi I have been in a relationship for 16 years now and i want to have a cuckhold relationship so I can be bred by the bull because I have a breeding kink and want to have a bulls baby growing inside of me instead of a child from my sissy adult baby who is in chastity cage and is in nappies all the time. I would like to have a long term bull to have regular sex means 4 nites a week and on ovulation make me your cum dumping fill me up as much as you can please and to breed me 2 to 3 time and i can accommodate as well of a nite time
Female (37) Godalming, Surrey
Hello, I'm very new here. I want to try a new pleasurable experience in my life, and I know I get turned on by being controlled by a dominant man.
About me ?Where to start...? Welcome to my world! Just your friendly Girl next door. When I’m good I’m really good but when I’m bad I’m better!! A bit(e) about me... Kink Me I have always been submissive - leaning towards masochist (I love a bit of ***) and babygirl. I can be (very) bratty at times! Being submissive is more of who I am, not what I “do.” While I pride myself on being a dedicated sub (to the right person), it’s simply not enough for me to get on my knees and say “yes master/mistress.” I mean, is that really enough for anyone? I need to have a good connection with someone which when I use all my senses to connect it becomes Euphoric. I have found that the sub almost always yields the most power in the dynamic. I will ultimately decide first and foremost if I think something/someone is good for me. Both trust and commitment must be established as well before going forward with negotiations. If you take the time to earn my trust (you gotta work for it), you’ll have me eating out of the palm of your hand. If you fuck with me, I just might bite the hand that feeds...just kidding, well kind of. I’m new to the scene but have always been into non Vanilla bedroom acrobatics Vanilla Me I can be a bit shy at first, but don’t let that fool you. Once I’m out of my shell I’m lots of fun! I consider myself to be an empath. I am also a very caring and thoughtful individual (I love to do nice things for the people in my life), and am incredibly loyal to those closest to me. Treating others with kindness and respect are a must in my book. I don’t tolerate hate/discrimination/ degrading of any kind - so if that’s you, please move along. My interests/hobbies include music, art, fashion, Dance , photography, traveling and vegan cooking . I’m 5”3 so petite but don’t let that fool you dynamite comes in small packages too.
Female (43) Bagshot, Surrey
First off, I'm looking for play without the protocol that a full D/s relationship entails (rules, behaviour governing, seeking permission to act, etc.) I want a gentle, loving partner whom I can explore with. I've been on fet sites for around 8 years, but only had one play partner and lots of hiatuses, so I feel inexperienced. Mostly a sub leaning switch, so I'm never going to be a full sub. That being said, I'm never going to be a full Domme either. I like to tease and play and sometimes I'll play fight you to be on top. *Vanilla* A little about me: 5ft5ish, long curly hair (usually dyed copper,) BBW, geeky, book nerd, baker, lover of ***s, gamer, and blender of herbal teas. Big fan of watching documentaries, movies, Kdramas, stand up, rugby union, and youtube videos. I enjoy museums and attractions like zoos, sea life centres, etc, or even open top city tours, as well as good conversation over a coffee or glass of red. I listen to most music, but I'm a rock/metal girl at heart. Sometimes you'll find me in the great North Yorkshire (I lived there for around 4 years - my Alma Mater is there.) - Anything else, ask away! Give me a spank here so I can find you when I'm back online, otherwise all you'll ever be is a fuzzy blob. P.s I have ***am and kik - I don't normally give my number out until after a first date. - Kinks; Bondage/restraint - rope & steel Blindfolds/masks - complete blackout/*** deprivation ice/fire play pinwheels/claws electrical play hentai me leaving tights/stockings on roleplay (willing to dress up) physical restraint/control (being pinned or pressed, or lifted, overpowered) power exchange Primal play Getting glamorous for him Wearing lingerie for him Orgasm control/***d orgasm Toys My Hard Limits currently are: Hard slapping or hitting - anything causing lasting physical damage ***/Watersports ***play Pegging ***/sissification Master/slave
Female (36) Tandridge, Surrey
🖤one half of a fun, high energy & experimental couple🖤 new to opening up our relationship and still discovering the boundaries, but are definitely up for pushing them. We’ve found a recent love for Rope play 🪢 and looking for like minded kinky friends to attend events with, gain experience and just share cool memories together. mainly looking for a woman to come and spend time with us, but open to couples if there’s a connection 🖤
Female (28) Runfold, Surrey
I’m a Sub looking for someone who is my height or taller and is strong, as in my everyday life I’m pretty strong and make a lot of decisions, so I want to feel the opposite, I want to feel small and weak and be led, controlled and looked after. I’m never been in a Sub/ Dom relationship so I’m really curious and want to try new things and experiment what my limits are. I love being spanked, ***d, blindfolded, tied up, anal, having all of your muscular weight on me so I can’t move and generally being dominated. If you’ve got any questions then ask away.
🦇 Submissive lean looking for real doms/dom leanings who have good vibes 🦇 Looking for a relationship 🦇 switchy 🦇 Respect is a must and the bare minimum 🦇 Interested in power dynamics, petplay, ***/***, daddy/mommy doms, impact play, breath play, worship (giving and recieving), rimming (giving and receiving), clinical roleplay, primal play, and *** play 🦇 not a lifestyle sub, bedroom only 🦇 I value honesty, communication, and good rapport 🦇 Outside of kink I'm interested in literature, roller skating, historical TV, gaming, dnd, and partying 🦇 if you don't have your intents/interests in your bio I'm probably gonna block you 🦇 no nudes
Female (20) Egham, Surrey
I am looking for a dom that can handle a somewhat bratty alpha submissive. im an unapologetically curvy woman so if you're not a boobs and ass man, im probably not for you.
Female (53) Camberley, Surrey
this app is wank, find me on fetlife/any of the other apps😃
Female (24) Guildford, Surrey
Sweet brat with a submissive heart looking for a firm but caring Master to train, guide, and occasionally spoil me. I crave structure, correction, and the kind of discipline that leaves me breathless—but I also melt for affection and a Dom who knows how to balance control with care. I'm obedient when earned, playful when provoked, and loyal when claimed. Make me obey, and I'll be yours to mold. Just be ready to handle the sass that comes with the soft.
Female (27) Merton, Surrey
I’m CJ, I’m new to the kink world and I’m looking to explore and learn what I like and what my limits are. message if you’d like to know more ☺️
I am looking for submissive/little/slave to go on dates and have some fun with. As much as you are for my pleasure and to be used, ultimately, your pleasure is my priority. I enjoy someone thinking their "in control" out and about but knows their place and at any given moment I can "take" control back. Rules are there to be followed and have no problem with punishment or training a submissive if needed. I am a big fan of inflicting *** as well as CNC.
Female (22) Upper Hale, Surrey
My partner and I are looking to spice things up in the bedroom with another women. He has quite specific dominant kinks! if you think you might be interested, let’s chat.
Female (47) Merton, Surrey
Looking for a monogamous relationship that would be based on a D/s dynamic of a power exchange. Interested in many things like ddmg and breath play, but also a lot to learn. Perfect opportunity to mold me to fit your needs 🥰 Mainly looking for a Dom, and who would know how to firmly hold me in my place.
Female (47) Tandridge, Surrey
Some kinky experience. looking for some casual fun locally. Would like a sadistic dom to play with short term for potential long term. likes: spanks, being over stimmed, anal, being restrained, feeling ***
Female (25) Addlestone, Surrey
Looking to be used and ***d by a domme (or a group of ?) ✨WOMEN ONLY✨ Also for domme or sub friends to go to events with? in an open relationship
Female (29) Tandridge, Surrey
Looking for a long-term partner and a full-time Dom (24/7 dynamic).I want a relationship that feels real, grounded, and emotionally intimate, with the structure, guidance, and dynamic woven naturally into everyday life. I’m still looking for love, but with a twist that aligns with who I am. I need someone who is firm, consistent, and experienced. Someone who sticks to their words, understands boundaries, and knows how to maintain a healthy, consensual 24/7 connection. I push limits and test waters, not to cause chaos, but because I need someone who can hold their ground with calm confidence. I’m a submissive at heart. I enjoy rules, structure, and punishments when necessary and I understand the difference between playful punishments and true behaviour correction. I’ve been exploring pet play too, mainly kitten and fox.• Kitten because I naturally slip into a soft, affectionate, curious state... sweet but playful and a little mischievous.• Fox because there’s a wilder, more instinctive side to me, clever, teasing, and needing someone who can match that energy and keep me grounded. I’m monogamous and expect the same from my partner. I don’t want to share myself, and I don’t want a partner who divides their intimacy elsewhere. I want our time and effort to go into building a life, goals, routines, and growth, together. I’m open to exploring and learning more with the right person.Safety, love, care, connection, openness, and communication are my core values. If it feels like we don’t align, I’ll always be honest.
Female (32) Staines, Surrey
I am a very curvy, caring, creative women that in my vanilla life is a single mum just trying to keep going through life being healthy and happy. I’m very open to what I’m looking for and at the moment it’s not a relationship and I’m not looking to have just one sexual partner/toy! as came out of a long term relationship and still discovering who I am and what I enjoy I’m definitely more sub but recently been experimenting with being a bit more dominant. I enjoy being tied up but not had much experience. Love it a little rough including hand round throat, hair pulled, spanked, biting, i can deal with a bit of *** but know when it’s too much. Happy to be marked as long as can be hidden especially due to my work. I like the thrill of being outside or somewhere with the risk of being caught. I enjoy watching a guy cum especially if I know it’s because of me! But I’m open to try new things and go to parties etc
Female (35) Tandridge, Surrey
- collared and in a dom / sub dynamic with my dom - open to chatting and meet-ups through his approval. NOT looking to be effectively ‘stolen’ out of my dynamic by another dom or join an existing dynamic as a third / by myself. Any professional established Dom out there who wishes to organise sessions with me must contact my Dom Directly, you can find him on my profile. Bi women are welcome to DM directly, anyone else is also free to message and talk to me, also open to new friends! Requesting to see my private gallery without talking to me or getting permission from my Dom is not going to work lol - —- big tiddie goth gamer girl, part time music procrastinator full time chaotic ADHD fuelled gremlin. not interested in fully submissive guys, other than that and my limits list everything else is up for discussion in dms. -
Female (20) Epsom and Ewell, Surrey
Ask ,as im bored of this app ,waste of time ,mostly baby boys looking for pics or vids and a waste of time grow up ,grow a pair ....im a sub not a dom and no i dont want to watch you cum on video call .I only give 1 chance if you dont turn up when we make an arrangement i won't give you another chance to let me down if you have not got a recent profile pic dont bother ,yes it's shallow but so is this site and no room for a nice looking guy who turns out to look like shrek ,because the pic was 20years ago ....yes this happened to me .... this may seem wrong but I am not interested in seeing anyone who not white im sorry but it does nothing for me and it's my choice , I like metalheads and bikers and a strong personality
Female (56) Woking, Surrey

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