Find kinky women in Surrey

First off, I'm looking for play without the protocol that a full D/s relationship entails (rules, behaviour governing, seeking permission to act, etc.) I want a gentle, loving partner whom I can explore with, and that if feelings happen would take it in stride. I'm currently feeling that if I were to put any labels on myself they would be "switchy-kinda-subby-maybe-little-goddess-as-Domme-Brat" **Desires and Fantasies** A little about me: 5ft6, mad blonde curly hair (occasionally dyed copper,) BBW, geeky, book nerd, baker, lover of ***s, Brat with a Switch side. Big fan of watching documentaries, movies, rugby union, and youtube videos. I love travelling and escaping to the countryside for breaks, as well as the odd holiday somewhere hot. I enjoy museums and attractions like zoos, sea life centres, theme parks etc. as well as good conversation over a coffee or glass of red. Anything else, feel free to ask. I'm looking for a genuine relationship - not just strictly play. Of course I want a healthy play dynamic, and to take it slowly and see how it goes, but I'm ready for that to ultimately turn into a committed monogamous romantic relationship in time (even if it takes months!) If you're not happy to let that develop then don't hurt me by pretending you might. I'm also looking to learn about the lifestyle and I would like to develop real friendships with fellow kinksters so I can learn more, and expand my connections in the community, so please also feel free to contact me if you'd like to talk. I like a tall & broad "rugby player" build, between 31 - 44 y/o, but I have no strict age limits. I have kik, telegram, and Skype - I don't give my number out until after a first date. - Other Interests; Geeky and cute things - anime, MCU, plushies, squishmallows, anything fluffy or glittery Movies Reading Writing Knitting/crochet/needlecraft Crafting in general Research (archives, genealogy, etc) learning new things PS4 - Kinks; Bondage/restraint - rope & steel Blindfolds/masks - complete blackout/sensory deprivation ice/fire play impact/flogging pinwheels/claws electrical play hentai me leaving tights/stockings on roleplay (willing to dress up) physical restraint/control (being pinned or pressed, or lifted, overpowered) power exchange Primal play Getting glamorous for him Wearing lingerie for him Orgasm control/***d orgasm Toys My Hard Limits currently are: Hard slapping or hitting - anything causing lasting physical damage ***/Watersports ***play Pegging *** Master/slave
Female (34) Tandridge, Surrey
Hello all x x You might need tea and biscuits to make it the end of my profile (or something stronger lol) Im a complicated bundle, looking for something very unique so dont be offended if i say no thank you to your offers. Im NOT looking for sex, so single guys please dont ask and sending a cock pic wont change my mind grrrr. **IM LOOKING FOR A COUPLE,** guy and gal. Guy D type, gal D/switch type who would be D towards me at all times. No sub only ladies, it doesnt work for the connection i need with people. Im not looking for a 3sum with this couple, its more than that, if you read my story 'The Toy' thats what im aiming for, you will notice its not a sex session, this is an on going casual relationship. Part 1 is at the bottom of this writting, message me if you want to read the other parts x x Local as possible, 2hr travel max. Ages 25ish -50 Also looking for a Domme lady only x x Here's a long list of what im looking for, also in my pics you will find this sites basic list as app users cant see it on my profile. Take a deep breath lol ...... Into: tight breast bondage, abduction play, affectionate cruelty, bathroom use control, being chained by my collar to the bed, being gimped up and ***ed, being heavily gagged with duct tape, being kept on all fours, being marked as property, being overpowered, being put back in my place when bratty, being treated like an object, blindfolds, bound and gagged in duct tape, breast bondage,breast/nipple play,clamps breath play, caging/confinement, chains,collar and lead/leash, consensual nonconsent, (NOT r*ape play) covert bondage, crawling, cruel predicaments, ***, domestic discipline, duct taping a plastic bag over my head, duct-tape armbinders, eating and drinking from a dog bowl, *** gags,handcuffs, bondage, hoods hands taped into a fist, hard, strict, no-compromise discipline, human pet, immobilization, long-term bondage, making me cry and whimper mouth stuffed + duct tape wrapped around head, mummification, not using a safeword, objectification, dehumanization, predicament bondage, remote-control devices, sensory deprivation, sincere begging and pleading, tied gagged collared hooded & left, tied up/objects applied and left to struggle, totally *** and extremely muffled, wearing a hood and being faceless, willingly objectified chained caged property, you're not a human being...you're an object. So...yer, its a long list lol Thank you for reading :-)) P.s. IM SUB ONLY, NOT A SWITCH, NOT EVEN A TINY DROP. ********************************************** THIS IS NOT FANTASY, THIS IS BASED ON REAL EXPERIENCE WITH REAL PEOPLE. ITS JUST SIMPLY PUT INTO A STORY THE TOY, PART 1 it crawled inside the cage, then its hands were lightly cuffed behind its back, feet together. it assumed it was bedtime as this was the routine. Mistress put a blindfold on it and a wide strip of tape across its mouth. "Remember, if anything removed when I next see you, the belt will land on that cunt" The toy was known for removing items but the threat or indeed promise of the punishment was enough to make it not tamper tonight. it woke by the sound of a kick to the cage. Master opened the door and told it to sit up. A gentle slap landed on its cheek. "Good whore, tape still there" He ***led off the tape and told it to open its mouth, it didnt know what was coming, it felt the tip of his cock enter its mouth. "Do you want a drink?" (Knowing it never wanted to drink ***) it mumbled "no Master" "Shame, Mistress has just made coffee, none for you then" He removed his cock and replaced it with a straw, it sipped the liquid hesitantly as it was never sure what it would be, thankfully luke warm water. its hands and feet were uncuffed, blindfold remained. it found its bucket next to the cage and took its ***. it kneels next to the cage until told otherwise. "Open" said Mistress it opened its mouth on command as always. Mistress stuffed her cum soaked knickers from last night in its mouth and tightly wrapped tape all around its head, no chance of pushing gag off. This type of gag meant it was in for some ***. Mistress pulled a hood over its head with blindfold still on and gag. A collar put tight around its neck and padlocked onto a chain. Mistress pulled the chain and it followed crawling behind her. Theres a large rectangle coffee table infront of the sofa. it was told to kneel infront of it facing the sofa. After a few mintutes of fumbling in darkness it found the position. its legs were parted and tied by the knees to the front corners of the table, feet slightly under the table. its hands were tied slightly back and outwards towards the back corners, pushing its tits out. it felt the tape being tightly wrapped around the base of each tit, getting tingly as it got tighter. The next thing it heard was the tv going on. "What shall we watch honey?" Mistress replied.... "I dont mind, just make sure theres lots of adverts" it hears them laugh. "So, car adverts = a peg to the cunt lips, supermarkets = the leather strap to anywhere we want, household appliances = a ping from rubber bands on those swollen tits, advertising a programme = nipple pinching, ...... the list contined. it listened as best it could to the tv to work out what was coming, relieved everytime the show came back on, knowing it would have a 15min ish rest from the ***s. it could hear them mocking its situation, ignoring its sobbing. They watched tv for 2 programmes, its tits were sore and feeling hot from the ***s, its cunt lips had 2 pegs on one lip and 3 on the other.. The pegs were pulled apart and taped open to its legs. A dildo on a adjustable stick was pushed up inside its cunt, it squeeled as it went up deep. They got up and left it there, it had no idea where they had gone or when they would be back. **Desires and Fantasies** For people to actually read my profile lol
Female (45) Guildford, Surrey
About me ?Where to start...? Welcome to my world! Just your friendly Girl next door. When I’m good I’m really good but when I’m bad I’m better!! A bit(e) about me... Kink Me I have always been submissive - leaning towards masochist (I love a bit of ***) and babygirl. I can be (very) bratty at times! Being submissive is more of who I am, not what I “do.” While I pride myself on being a dedicated sub (to the right person), it’s simply not enough for me to get on my knees and say “yes master/mistress.” I mean, is that really enough for anyone? I need to have a good connection with someone which when I use all my senses to connect it becomes Euphoric. I have found that the sub almost always yields the most power in the dynamic. I will ultimately decide first and foremost if I think something/someone is good for me. Both trust and commitment must be established as well before going forward with negotiations. If you take the time to earn my trust (you gotta work for it), you’ll have me eating out of the palm of your hand. If you fuck with me, I just might bite the hand that feeds...just kidding, well kind of. I’m new to the scene but have always been into non Vanilla bedroom acrobatics Vanilla Me I can be a bit shy at first, but don’t let that fool you. Once I’m out of my shell I’m lots of fun! I consider myself to be an empath. I am also a very caring and thoughtful individual (I love to do nice things for the people in my life), and am incredibly loyal to those closest to me. Treating others with kindness and respect are a must in my book. I don’t tolerate hate/discrimination/ degrading of any kind - so if that’s you, please move along. My interests/hobbies include music, art, fashion, Dance , photography, traveling and vegan cooking . I’m 5”3 so petite but don’t let that fool you dynamite comes in small packages too.
Female (42) Bagshot, Surrey
Hey my names Kelly-Anne im a fun and bubbly girl I've only recently started to think I'd like to be more adventurous. The thought of the whole d/s really turns me.on I'd love to be someones submissive ;) but I'm open to any new experiences.
Female (34) Chertsey, Surrey
My family and friends say that I am an extraordinary creative personality. With me there is always something to talk about. I would describe myself as a kind and lovely lady, who is funny and easy-going. I have a good sense of humor, but I am very serious about family values. I am a friendly and open person. I am always ready to listen and to support my friends. I have a good and calm character, but at the same time I am a bright and emotional person. I respect people around me and value my family.
Female (37) Woking, Surrey
Hi! Im 22 years old and new to kink. I’ve never been in a relationship and am looking to explore myself online to begin with before committing to something in person
Female (22) Fetcham, Surrey
I am mistressclara of Heathrow seeking a submissive to enhance both our lives either in the short or long term. you do need to be over 30 years of age. No experience necessary as training can be given.
Hi I’m Miriam. I’m 22 looking for NSA arrangements or FWB with kink involved. I found it difficult to suggest to people IRL so thought looking here was my best bet :) You’re welcome to message me if you think we’d be a good fit. xxx
Female (24) Guildford, Surrey
In a relationship, but open to play mates for myself (F) and my partner (M) pillow princess sub interested in ddlg, pet play, bondage, control
I live in London, make me interested enough to leave or don’t bother messaging, I’m not into sexting
I’m mainly a bratty sub and no this won’t change for just anyone. I am not looking to be ‘trained’ I’m happy with my level of submission now if I do end up in a dynamic this may very well change but it’s simply not your business if you don’t know me. Just a quick warning I have scars on my body due to my mental health, if that is something that triggers you or disgust’s you then don’t message me or look at my pictures where they can potentially be seen. I am 100% a sub through and through however I have switch tendencies I just don’t identify myself as a switch. When I do switch it’s mainly I play out my fantasies that I want to do to others and it’s a strict list which I’m only comfy doing to others which include: -Bondage -Mild to moderate impact play -Orgasm control/*** -Mild to extreme ***/*** -Ass/Anal play With this list I don’t alter it for just any stranger and I also don’t just ‘switch’ for any stranger Again to make this very clear I not a dominant nor am I a switch so no I will not switch just for u and I will not agree to ever be anyone’s dominant and I am not experienced enough to add anything else onto that specific list those kinks I am experienced in giving safely to others. I am more than happy to answer any questions on this just be respectful and not ***ful Do not and I mean it DO NOT attempt to message me if you are not a Dom (u don’t have to be experienced to be a Dom btw). What I mean by this is if you just want a fuck or aren’t respectful then fuck off and do not flood my inbox because I won’t be nice in the slightest and that is your warning I have every right if you slide into my inbox requesting things or asking questions that are within my limits which I clearly display on my profile at the very end to then not be respectful and nice- READ MY PROFILE BEFORE MESSAGING ME if you want to avoid a non friendly message or a simple block from me. In my opinion the psychological side is the most important aspect and for me to fully submit to u I need to trust u and build a connection and for u to earn that side of me otherwise no can do. Respect is one thing I value tell me what ur about allow me to know u and ur mind and how u work and I’ll allow u to do the same back and hopefully a connection will form. If I notice red flags or lack of respect then I won’t hesitate to let u know. I don’t send pics or videos of me naked or doing sexual videos of touching myself so if u even attempt to ask don’t expect anything. I may send the odd nakey pics and videos but ones which I’m comfy with sending. Don’t send me creepy message or demanding messages or don’t use honorific’s when u first message me otherwise I will just block u as there was no consent shared at all. Give me respect when messaging I’m sick of not getting respect. Manners and respect aren’t a turn off btw… I will NOT take any clothing recommendations from anyone so what I decide to wear is what u get from me so if u don’t like that then don’t message me LITTLE SIDE (If u are not into the whole caregiving or little thing skip this part and don’t let it put u off) IF YOU ARE A LITTLE AND WOULD LIKE TO BE FRIENDS JUST GIVE ME A MESSAGE ALL GENDERS WELCOME! (just be around my age that’s all I ask) I do have a little side which I ***ly switch into mostly from mental health issues I’m pretty protective over that side of me so I don’t discuss it unless I believe who ever asks is genuinely curious or interested or is a genuine non sexual daddy dom. (Yet again I don’t purposely switch into a little it’s an *** thing due to my mental health issues) My little age is between 1-6 I’m a non verbal and mute little most of the time When I do switch to little (again I can’t control this I am genuinely at a little age) I am FULLY dependent on someone else to help keep me safe as when I come back from being a little I don’t remember much about what happened hence why I have to trust the other person and build a very strong connection before I show that side to me. For now I can hold back which isn’t healthy for me but also if I wasn’t to hold back it would be unsafe for me so either way it’s unhealthy, so yes I am currently looking for a genuine real NON-SEXUAL daddy dom/caregiver (more fwb at the moment and if anything more was to come from it I wouldn’t turn it down) When I’m little I do like: Pacis Teddies Baby clothing Colouring books Baby toys Cuddles Praise Affection/being cared for Cute nicknames Sippy cups Things I have tried and don’t enjoy: Diapers (I haven’t tried pull ups so I would try them) Being dressed in skirts/dresses and specifically pink baby clothes or any type of over-sexualising ‘trendy’ baby clothes (because again I’m strictly a NON-SEXUAL LITTLE) Being ***d to talk or ***d to come out of being a little (it will get me distressed and will psychologically harm me) Being ignored and having my comfort things and things I like taken away from me (again it distresses me) I’m usually a good behaved little with some tantrums which all that is needed is a stern warning and a talking to and if required non sexual soft spankings are fine if I’m still not listening then something is wrong mentally and I’m in distress which I then just need to be held and looked after and understood as again me being a little is not my choice it stems from trauma and my mental issues Now yes I have detailed this which I have never done before but I think it’s time to end the shame with being a little I have shamed myself into thinking something is wrong with me for sometimes being a literal child and it has embarrassed me but I’m coming to terms with this is healthy and helping me heal my inner child and that it doesn’t make me less a person in fact it makes me strong and brave for being able to understand myself whilst I’m still young and new to this whole scene myself. Anyways moving on.. END OF THE LITTLE PART *VERY IMPORTANT* I LOVE CUDDLES SO IF U DON’T LIKE CUDDLES THEN DO NOT MESSAGE ME THANK U… hehe I just need cuddles :) Now I do realise that my profile makes me come across as a bitch but all I’m really asking for is just some respect and just be open minded not thick minded and get to know me before you decide to judge what type of person I am. **Desires and Fantasies** I am a very open minded person and willing to try new things as long as my hard limits and ur hard limits are avoided!
Female (21) Guildford, Surrey
thanks for the visit. I'm newish here, had little experience with Kink & definitely feel that's where I sit in life. I'm a switch- Mainly submissive but exploring my Gentle Femdom tendencies. atm I just looking for the right connection Neurodivergent, hate small talk, constant how are yous will be ignored. age - sorry if you're really young under 25 & older over 60, I gotta fancy you, sexual activities come with sensations & emotions.
Newly single and looking to figure out what I like and what I don't. Tired of having to think and want to meet people that challenge me intellectually as well as making my knees weak.
Female (26) Guildford, Surrey
Ask ,as im bored of this app ,waste of time ,mostly baby boys looking for pics or vids and a waste of time grow up ,grow a pair ....
Female (55) Woking, Surrey
Kinky & experimental hopeless romantic. Sigma. Hoping for something of greater depth. Kink is as much mind as body.
Female (41) Deepcut, Surrey
outgoing, fun and spontaneous love a good laugh and enjoying what life can throw at me. I have quite a strong personality (kinda love or hate me I guess!) but a big heart and believe in respectful interactions with mutual understanding and enjoyment. I have a boyfriend who has discovered himself (Stag) and we have been exploring together since November 23. He gets excited with me being enjoyed by other men and loves the idea of them pleasuring me. we sometimes have him watch, join in (he is hetro) or I do something alone and tell him the details. note: I'm new to the app and I haven't had a chance to be on it very much so replies are in short supply at times x
Female (38) Woking, Surrey
I’m a single parent I’m tattooed and pierced I’m also a dog mum I have mental health issues and can sometimes go completely quite cause I struggle with how I feel and don’t like to rely on people I do love a party but I’m also a hermit and love my bed 😂😂I’m either at the gym walking the dogs or reading dark romance and fantasy books I have 42 tattoos and 13 piercing snap chat -kellylorrayne4
Female (29) Guildford, Surrey
- collared and in a dom / sub dynamic with my dom - open to chatting and meet-ups through his approval. NOT looking to be effectively ‘stolen’ out of my dynamic by another dom or join an existing dynamic as a third / by myself. Any professional established Dom out there who wishes to organise sessions with me must contact my Dom Directly, you can find him on my profile. Bi women are welcome to DM directly, anyone else is also free to message and talk to me, also open to new friends! Requesting to see my private gallery without talking to me or getting permission from my Dom is not going to work lol - —- big tiddie goth gamer girl, part time music procrastinator full time chaotic ADHD fuelled gremlin. not interested in fully submissive guys, other than that and my limits list everything else is up for discussion in dms. -
Female (20) Epsom and Ewell, Surrey
looking to learn and have some fun with kinky people near me! not too experienced with irl kink and willing to try new things if you have the patience to take those steps together!
Female (19) Guildford, Surrey
Please read my profile as I won't bend my boundaries for anyone so please don't try to convince me that I'm unreasonable for that! Please respect my boundaries and limits. I have no tolerance for time wasters or profiles I suspect are fake, this is due to boundaries, self worth and respect for myself, if you feel you may perceive this as someone who's difficult please move on, you don't have the suitable mind still needed for a dynamic with myself and wish you well in your search. Therefore no face picture no conversation. If you're a soft Dom who doesn't like to share then you are not for me. I have fallen in love with the sub world as I have so far learned vanilla's just don't know how to truly sexually satisfy so looking for a Sir who actually knows how to dominate with respect rather than arrogant. I do have ideas and experiences in my head which I'm hoping to find but I do need to find that connection with someone. I'm not currently looking for a relationship but someone to build a regular meet up with. This may mean I end up with more than one Dom and therefore don't expect them to also be exclusive with me, however trust and honesty is everything. Kink is something that will be completely separate to my vanilla life so please don't ask or expect me to apply any rule or conditions to my vanilla life and I don't feel comfortable sharing to much vanilla information and will respect your vanilla privacy in return. Therefore a vanilla relationship with a D/S dynamic is not on the cards with myself I'm afraid. My wants/ desires/ lifestyle may not be what you're looking for and that's ok, I'm open minded enough to accept we are all different needs that suits us as individual so please don't try to tell me I'm closed minded because you have dismissed my needs/ wants/ boundaries for you to push yours onto me as being correct! If you are in a relationship/ married then I am not the right person, if you are in a completely open relationship who is aware and happy with the arrangement then I will be happy to chat. I only ask you not to mislead me and to be honest from the start. I am a single parent so unable to host and don't have a supermodels body. I do work full time so that and parenting does come first. Good hygiene and protection is a must. Only profiles with photos (faces I can see or send a face picture and please don't think I am unfair here as I have recently had to make my photos private due to someone invading my private personal life and more then happy to share these with whom has a face profile picture and messages me) as messages don't stand out and easily get people mixed up plus I personally feel it could be misleading and cause an imbalance of trust not knowing what someone looks like, no photo no reply. If you are too far away sorry I will not reply as I'm not looking for online fun but actual meet ups. if you want to see my photos please request and if either you have a face profile picture or share a face picture I will then approve your request. The volume of messages I'm receiving is overwhelming and apology I can't message every one back There is nothing for sale here and if you still feel I may not be real then please move on! I won't spend my time proving to anyone I'm real. I spend most of my time on Fetlife then here nowadays.
Female (38) Guildford, Surrey
I am a very curvy, caring, creative women that in my vanilla life is a single mum just trying to keep going through life being healthy and happy. I’m very open to what I’m looking for and at the moment it’s not a relationship and I’m not looking to have just one sexual partner/toy! as came out of a long term relationship and still discovering who I am and what I enjoy I’m definitely more sub but recently been experimenting with being a bit more dominant. I enjoy being tied up but not had much experience. Love it a little rough including hand round throat, hair pulled, spanked, biting, i can deal with a bit of *** but know when it’s too much. Happy to be marked as long as can be hidden especially due to my work. I like the thrill of being outside or somewhere with the risk of being caught. I enjoy watching a guy cum especially if I know it’s because of me! But I’m open to try new things and go to parties etc
Female (34) Tandridge, Surrey
In past relationships, i have never been able to fully go to my kinky side Looking to explore how far my kinks go, as a Sub. Voyeurism, and or being watched as I give pleasure to my dom.
Female (49) Guildford, Surrey
Feral. I’m fairly new to kink and I fall somewhere between a playful obstinate brat and demanding yet sensual mind fucker in a power exchange dynamic. Not drawn to *** but I’m embracing my inner sadist. I’m drawn to the psychological aspects of play so long as it involves the sensual, erotic, words, - involving the senses sounds, taste touch. I will not respond to messages from profiles with no face picture and don’t ask me to be your mommy or mistress, it’s creepy. IRL meets over texts or a video call to start
Female (50) Bagshot, Surrey
Hi x Sub who is kinda new to it but ambitious and quite kinky Just doing my A-Levels so not looking for long term or relationship. More for NSA or training sessions x open to maybe things even insects!
Female (19) Guildford, Surrey

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Hi! Im 22 years old and new to kink. I’ve never been in a relationship and am looking to explore myself online to begin with before committing to something in person
Female (22) Fetcham, Surrey
My family and friends say that I am an extraordinary creative personality. With me there is always something to talk about. I would describe myself as a kind and lovely lady, who is funny and easy-going. I have a good sense of humor, but I am very serious about family values. I am a friendly and open person. I am always ready to listen and to support my friends. I have a good and calm character, but at the same time I am a bright and emotional person. I respect people around me and value my family.
Female (37) Woking, Surrey
I am mistressclara of Heathrow seeking a submissive to enhance both our lives either in the short or long term. you do need to be over 30 years of age. No experience necessary as training can be given.
About me ?Where to start...? Welcome to my world! Just your friendly Girl next door. When I’m good I’m really good but when I’m bad I’m better!! A bit(e) about me... Kink Me I have always been submissive - leaning towards masochist (I love a bit of ***) and babygirl. I can be (very) bratty at times! Being submissive is more of who I am, not what I “do.” While I pride myself on being a dedicated sub (to the right person), it’s simply not enough for me to get on my knees and say “yes master/mistress.” I mean, is that really enough for anyone? I need to have a good connection with someone which when I use all my senses to connect it becomes Euphoric. I have found that the sub almost always yields the most power in the dynamic. I will ultimately decide first and foremost if I think something/someone is good for me. Both trust and commitment must be established as well before going forward with negotiations. If you take the time to earn my trust (you gotta work for it), you’ll have me eating out of the palm of your hand. If you fuck with me, I just might bite the hand that feeds...just kidding, well kind of. I’m new to the scene but have always been into non Vanilla bedroom acrobatics Vanilla Me I can be a bit shy at first, but don’t let that fool you. Once I’m out of my shell I’m lots of fun! I consider myself to be an empath. I am also a very caring and thoughtful individual (I love to do nice things for the people in my life), and am incredibly loyal to those closest to me. Treating others with kindness and respect are a must in my book. I don’t tolerate hate/discrimination/ degrading of any kind - so if that’s you, please move along. My interests/hobbies include music, art, fashion, Dance , photography, traveling and vegan cooking . I’m 5”3 so petite but don’t let that fool you dynamite comes in small packages too.
Female (42) Bagshot, Surrey
Hey my names Kelly-Anne im a fun and bubbly girl I've only recently started to think I'd like to be more adventurous. The thought of the whole d/s really turns me.on I'd love to be someones submissive ;) but I'm open to any new experiences.
Female (34) Chertsey, Surrey
First off, I'm looking for play without the protocol that a full D/s relationship entails (rules, behaviour governing, seeking permission to act, etc.) I want a gentle, loving partner whom I can explore with, and that if feelings happen would take it in stride. I'm currently feeling that if I were to put any labels on myself they would be "switchy-kinda-subby-maybe-little-goddess-as-Domme-Brat" **Desires and Fantasies** A little about me: 5ft6, mad blonde curly hair (occasionally dyed copper,) BBW, geeky, book nerd, baker, lover of ***s, Brat with a Switch side. Big fan of watching documentaries, movies, rugby union, and youtube videos. I love travelling and escaping to the countryside for breaks, as well as the odd holiday somewhere hot. I enjoy museums and attractions like zoos, sea life centres, theme parks etc. as well as good conversation over a coffee or glass of red. Anything else, feel free to ask. I'm looking for a genuine relationship - not just strictly play. Of course I want a healthy play dynamic, and to take it slowly and see how it goes, but I'm ready for that to ultimately turn into a committed monogamous romantic relationship in time (even if it takes months!) If you're not happy to let that develop then don't hurt me by pretending you might. I'm also looking to learn about the lifestyle and I would like to develop real friendships with fellow kinksters so I can learn more, and expand my connections in the community, so please also feel free to contact me if you'd like to talk. I like a tall & broad "rugby player" build, between 31 - 44 y/o, but I have no strict age limits. I have kik, telegram, and Skype - I don't give my number out until after a first date. - Other Interests; Geeky and cute things - anime, MCU, plushies, squishmallows, anything fluffy or glittery Movies Reading Writing Knitting/crochet/needlecraft Crafting in general Research (archives, genealogy, etc) learning new things PS4 - Kinks; Bondage/restraint - rope & steel Blindfolds/masks - complete blackout/sensory deprivation ice/fire play impact/flogging pinwheels/claws electrical play hentai me leaving tights/stockings on roleplay (willing to dress up) physical restraint/control (being pinned or pressed, or lifted, overpowered) power exchange Primal play Getting glamorous for him Wearing lingerie for him Orgasm control/***d orgasm Toys My Hard Limits currently are: Hard slapping or hitting - anything causing lasting physical damage ***/Watersports ***play Pegging *** Master/slave
Female (34) Tandridge, Surrey
Hello all x x You might need tea and biscuits to make it the end of my profile (or something stronger lol) Im a complicated bundle, looking for something very unique so dont be offended if i say no thank you to your offers. Im NOT looking for sex, so single guys please dont ask and sending a cock pic wont change my mind grrrr. **IM LOOKING FOR A COUPLE,** guy and gal. Guy D type, gal D/switch type who would be D towards me at all times. No sub only ladies, it doesnt work for the connection i need with people. Im not looking for a 3sum with this couple, its more than that, if you read my story 'The Toy' thats what im aiming for, you will notice its not a sex session, this is an on going casual relationship. Part 1 is at the bottom of this writting, message me if you want to read the other parts x x Local as possible, 2hr travel max. Ages 25ish -50 Also looking for a Domme lady only x x Here's a long list of what im looking for, also in my pics you will find this sites basic list as app users cant see it on my profile. Take a deep breath lol ...... Into: tight breast bondage, abduction play, affectionate cruelty, bathroom use control, being chained by my collar to the bed, being gimped up and ***ed, being heavily gagged with duct tape, being kept on all fours, being marked as property, being overpowered, being put back in my place when bratty, being treated like an object, blindfolds, bound and gagged in duct tape, breast bondage,breast/nipple play,clamps breath play, caging/confinement, chains,collar and lead/leash, consensual nonconsent, (NOT r*ape play) covert bondage, crawling, cruel predicaments, ***, domestic discipline, duct taping a plastic bag over my head, duct-tape armbinders, eating and drinking from a dog bowl, *** gags,handcuffs, bondage, hoods hands taped into a fist, hard, strict, no-compromise discipline, human pet, immobilization, long-term bondage, making me cry and whimper mouth stuffed + duct tape wrapped around head, mummification, not using a safeword, objectification, dehumanization, predicament bondage, remote-control devices, sensory deprivation, sincere begging and pleading, tied gagged collared hooded & left, tied up/objects applied and left to struggle, totally *** and extremely muffled, wearing a hood and being faceless, willingly objectified chained caged property, you're not a human being...you're an object. So...yer, its a long list lol Thank you for reading :-)) P.s. IM SUB ONLY, NOT A SWITCH, NOT EVEN A TINY DROP. ********************************************** THIS IS NOT FANTASY, THIS IS BASED ON REAL EXPERIENCE WITH REAL PEOPLE. ITS JUST SIMPLY PUT INTO A STORY THE TOY, PART 1 it crawled inside the cage, then its hands were lightly cuffed behind its back, feet together. it assumed it was bedtime as this was the routine. Mistress put a blindfold on it and a wide strip of tape across its mouth. "Remember, if anything removed when I next see you, the belt will land on that cunt" The toy was known for removing items but the threat or indeed promise of the punishment was enough to make it not tamper tonight. it woke by the sound of a kick to the cage. Master opened the door and told it to sit up. A gentle slap landed on its cheek. "Good whore, tape still there" He ***led off the tape and told it to open its mouth, it didnt know what was coming, it felt the tip of his cock enter its mouth. "Do you want a drink?" (Knowing it never wanted to drink ***) it mumbled "no Master" "Shame, Mistress has just made coffee, none for you then" He removed his cock and replaced it with a straw, it sipped the liquid hesitantly as it was never sure what it would be, thankfully luke warm water. its hands and feet were uncuffed, blindfold remained. it found its bucket next to the cage and took its ***. it kneels next to the cage until told otherwise. "Open" said Mistress it opened its mouth on command as always. Mistress stuffed her cum soaked knickers from last night in its mouth and tightly wrapped tape all around its head, no chance of pushing gag off. This type of gag meant it was in for some ***. Mistress pulled a hood over its head with blindfold still on and gag. A collar put tight around its neck and padlocked onto a chain. Mistress pulled the chain and it followed crawling behind her. Theres a large rectangle coffee table infront of the sofa. it was told to kneel infront of it facing the sofa. After a few mintutes of fumbling in darkness it found the position. its legs were parted and tied by the knees to the front corners of the table, feet slightly under the table. its hands were tied slightly back and outwards towards the back corners, pushing its tits out. it felt the tape being tightly wrapped around the base of each tit, getting tingly as it got tighter. The next thing it heard was the tv going on. "What shall we watch honey?" Mistress replied.... "I dont mind, just make sure theres lots of adverts" it hears them laugh. "So, car adverts = a peg to the cunt lips, supermarkets = the leather strap to anywhere we want, household appliances = a ping from rubber bands on those swollen tits, advertising a programme = nipple pinching, ...... the list contined. it listened as best it could to the tv to work out what was coming, relieved everytime the show came back on, knowing it would have a 15min ish rest from the ***s. it could hear them mocking its situation, ignoring its sobbing. They watched tv for 2 programmes, its tits were sore and feeling hot from the ***s, its cunt lips had 2 pegs on one lip and 3 on the other.. The pegs were pulled apart and taped open to its legs. A dildo on a adjustable stick was pushed up inside its cunt, it squeeled as it went up deep. They got up and left it there, it had no idea where they had gone or when they would be back. **Desires and Fantasies** For people to actually read my profile lol
Female (45) Guildford, Surrey
Hi I’m Miriam. I’m 22 looking for NSA arrangements or FWB with kink involved. I found it difficult to suggest to people IRL so thought looking here was my best bet :) You’re welcome to message me if you think we’d be a good fit. xxx
Female (24) Guildford, Surrey
In a relationship, but open to play mates for myself (F) and my partner (M) pillow princess sub interested in ddlg, pet play, bondage, control
I live in London, make me interested enough to leave or don’t bother messaging, I’m not into sexting
I’m pretty new to all of this but am excited to learn about the BDSM community 😊 FYI I’m a plus sized girly 🤗 *** Logging out for a while to have a break due to some unpleasant people. Hopefully be back soon xx
Female (23) Addlestone, Surrey
Newly single and looking to figure out what I like and what I don't. Tired of having to think and want to meet people that challenge me intellectually as well as making my knees weak.
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looking to learn and have some fun with kinky people near me! not too experienced with irl kink and willing to try new things if you have the patience to take those steps together!
Female (19) Guildford, Surrey
Some kinky experience. looking for some casual fun locally. Would like a sadistic dom to play with short term for potential long term. likes: spanks, being over stimmed, anal, being restrained, feeling ***
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looking for foot slave - foot massage -feet worshipping - foot job for your cock -virtual fun with foot pics and videos no sex, foot play only I want to be spoiled not often here, can reply with delay
thanks for the visit. I'm newish here, had little experience with Kink & definitely feel that's where I sit in life. I'm a switch- Mainly submissive but exploring my Gentle Femdom tendencies. atm I just looking for the right connection Neurodivergent, hate small talk, constant how are yous will be ignored. age - sorry if you're really young under 25 & older over 60, I gotta fancy you, sexual activities come with sensations & emotions.
Kinky & experimental hopeless romantic. Sigma. Hoping for something of greater depth. Kink is as much mind as body.
Female (41) Deepcut, Surrey
In past relationships, i have never been able to fully go to my kinky side Looking to explore how far my kinks go, as a Sub. Voyeurism, and or being watched as I give pleasure to my dom.
Female (49) Guildford, Surrey
Feral. I’m fairly new to kink and I fall somewhere between a playful obstinate brat and demanding yet sensual mind fucker in a power exchange dynamic. Not drawn to *** but I’m embracing my inner sadist. I’m drawn to the psychological aspects of play so long as it involves the sensual, erotic, words, - involving the senses sounds, taste touch. I will not respond to messages from profiles with no face picture and don’t ask me to be your mommy or mistress, it’s creepy. IRL meets over texts or a video call to start
Female (50) Bagshot, Surrey
Looking to be used and ***d by a domme (or a group of ?) ✨FEMALES✨ Also for domme or sub friends to go to events with? in an open relationship
Female (28) Tandridge, Surrey
So, here’s the deal: I’m dipping my toes into this whole world, and it’s like stepping into an alternate universe with a confusingly enticing dress code. But there are only so many Wikipedia articles a girl can read on the subject before you just have to go "fuck it." Anyway, let's just say total newbie but I'm a quick study when it comes to new experiences.
Female (35) Woking, Surrey
outgoing, fun and spontaneous love a good laugh and enjoying what life can throw at me. I have quite a strong personality (kinda love or hate me I guess!) but a big heart and believe in respectful interactions with mutual understanding and enjoyment. I have a boyfriend who has discovered himself (Stag) and we have been exploring together since November 23. He gets excited with me being enjoyed by other men and loves the idea of them pleasuring me. we sometimes have him watch, join in (he is hetro) or I do something alone and tell him the details. note: I'm new to the app and I haven't had a chance to be on it very much so replies are in short supply at times x
Female (38) Woking, Surrey
Fun, open-minded, intelligent single looking for NSA, LTR and couple friendships. I like being physically and mentally dominated, love a mix of rough & sensual and also enjoy a fight for dominance (cnc). A deep connection is the greatest turn on for me, I likewise offer and need good conversation, kind, affectionate. I tend to question social norms, slightly on the rebel & spiritual side, won't judge anyone for their desires and look for respect and an open mind in play partners. Only interested in "real". No cybersex, fake name/age or outdated photos, please. My pics are unfiltered and recent, I'm a size 14, decent size butt & boobs, physically fit & strong. Natural type, nothing fake, little make-up. Vanilla me: introvert, country gal, van life, walks, pubs, wine, rock music, tattoos, my dog
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