Find kinky women in West Sussex

I'm different. not unique, but rare in what I like and how I like it. you had better be too. I'm just kinky. Dislike labels, but in this world of kink, there is a whole other language. I'm an intelligent but divvy blonde. Have my shit together and a busy, demanding job, so it would be nice to have someone who can massage the day away and insert a toy along the way. But, whatever you give, you shall also receive threefold? I love sharing sweet *** and leaving my tokens of affection on your skin. So, I am a Sadomasochistic, understanding Dom and I'm Affectionate with my aftercare. I'm nice, but do not be foolish and confuse that with soft. I like switching too, but never sub, just bottoming. I'm looking for a relationship/partner. An equal. A fellow Dom who likes to switch and share the dynamics, or perhaps an alpha sub/service top. I love a man who can wear female knickers, stockings, and a corset, but their masculinity still shines through. But lets be clear. whilst I love my sissy and CD friends, I am not into full sissification, CD or guys/girls who want their cock/clit locked in chastity permanently. Your whole body and cock will be mine to use as I see fit. if you are new, I'm not interested, unless you are exceptional, and let's be honest, you most probably aren't. No, I do not charge!!! Do not be disrespectful and ask me that question. I do this because it's who I am. I am also very particular in who I like, so don't be offended if I say no thank you. prerequisites: Intelligence Attention to detail Clean fingernails Confidence Availability Nice skin Shaven or waxed down in the fun zone, but ideally whole body, I like smooth. if you are in a relationship, I'm not interested. I also offer sessions, f2f and on-line.
Female (58) Lancing, West Sussex
**Desires and Fantasies** I am a slave in training. I have been tasked with finding a female dogging playmate… Hi, and thanks for visiting my profile. I'm a submissive and *** BDSM loving girl with interests in age play, ***, discipline and filthy talk. I crave domination with blindfolds, gags, spanking and ropes (or any kind of restraint – even just your own strength pinning me down!). I have a high *** threshold and can be a little contrary....just to provoke you :) If you're a firm, clean, kind (sometimes) healthy man with a sense of fun then why not introduce yourself? I'll almost certainly want to subjugate to you. Age not a barrier – I probably prefer mature guys (the age play thing!). I have been fucked by some experienced guys and girls, but because my role is passive I lack experience – it's hard to learn when your lover is just using you as their own little sex toy. So someone who has some patience and can show me how to really please a man would be lovely (I'm pretty much ok with women as, being one, I kinda know what we like!) Please know where a clitoris is....
Seeking a man (not a couple!) who is as passionate about bondage as I am. I do not follow any of the rules. If you're looking for an easy ride look elsewhere... Thinking about it I should really change my name as it's a bit misleading. I'm not that in to Shibari, but I thought the name sounded really cool! I love all sorts of bondage including pallet wrap, sleepsacks, leather straps and vetwrap. I'm not looking for a "Dom/Master"; I have no need for that sort of dynamic. I will submit to bondage, but outside of that you and I are equals. I have been in to bondage since early adulthood so I have lots of experience as a "bondage bottom". I have no interest in teaching anyone how to do Shibari as I don't switch. I am not a masochist. I'm not into receiving p@!n or being called names. If you want to degrade someone or cause them p@!n then please look elsewhere. P@!n and bondage are not intrinsically linked. For me, it's about that mental connection, initially flirting by email whilst we discuss what might happen when we meet. Enough detail to know what's off limits, but not too much detail that means there's no surprises in store. There is a beauty and intensity in bondage that cannot be expressed in any other way. A passionate "dance" between two people, gripping them and enticing them in to experience more and more. You will be practical (even sensible!), but still imaginative even daring or challenging at the right times. I am not seeking 24/7, but I would hope we would be drinking buddies and restaurant companions as well as me being your bondage playmate. And when we were done we would laugh together and plan the next scene, exploring the wonderful world of bondage together. The mental connection is so important; you've got to like that person, want that person, respect that person, laugh with that person, and be very open with that person. The 'click', the same wavelength, the same needs and desires, are for me the most important. There has to be that trust there to be open with one another and to learn from, and teach each other. I am willful, passionate about everything I do and a hopeless romantic. That means that bondage is NOT an excuse for meaningless sex. You will have to win my heart before you get anywhere near my body. If you've got this far... well done! Thank you for taking the time to fully read my profile. **Desires and Fantasies** Being tied by someone who loves tying!
Female (56) Copthorne, West Sussex
25 years old open to almost anything. Can’t say I don’t like it if I don’t try it. Feeling under appreciated in my current long term relationship. Always been a kinky girl, like being hurt and love to please!
Female (25) Worthing, West Sussex
Busty Dom looking for male and female subs to worship me. ***s, needle play, foot worship, breast worship always encouraged. My interests include corsetry, hosiery, and pretty slaves of any gender
Female (42) Brighton, West Sussex
Just exploring the community for the moment! I'm not interested in dating, meeting up in person, anything like that, but I'd love to chat :) I'm particularly interested in talking with other plus sized women, subs, and queer folk, whether it's about kink or not! I'm asexual, and I'd love to talk with fellow kinky ace folks! If you're not ace, that's fine too, happy to talk about what being asexual and kinky means to me ? My kinks mostly revolve around different aspects of control and ***, but I'm not pursuing any real life encounters right now. If you want to talk about these things, please remember to treat me like a person first. I might be a submissive, but I'm not YOUR submissive. If you're rude or presumptive in your first message, I will just ignore you. I'm an introvert and a big old nerd, so if you are too let's chat about what you're reading at the moment, or what games you're playing!
Female (32) Crawley, West Sussex
I am regularly spanked and punished at the command of my husband, by who he agrees a punishment session with. I have written down and published the better episodes which can be found as browser or kindle readable books on amazon. Just search for 'yummymeusli, my spanking adventures'
Female (61) Arundel, West Sussex
Hi! This is my first time on a site like this so excuse me if I'm shy. I've never tried any kinks other than daddy/mommy stuff (and apparently a breeding kink too) so I'm here to kinda see what else I'd maybe like :3 Also before you say anything; I'm still a virgin so I might be a bit awkward.
Female (18) Crawley, West Sussex
Hello All, I am currently looking for a Tall Dom (6ft 2' plus) who would be willing to train me further and explore different scenarios with me. I enjoy bondage (ropes and chains), impact play (floggers, paddles, whips, crops), teasing and orgasm control, rules and tasks and exhibitionism. I have attended many KK parties and fet parties but have yet to attend a *** Garden party - which I would love to dress up for. I look forward to hearing from you - if this is of interest to you x **Desires and Fantasies** My main desire is to be 'owned'. To be used and cared for by someone who completely understands me. I want them to show me off in public and be proud of me and my unique abilities and in turn I will serve them and them alone.
Female (52) Southwick, West Sussex
Hi, I am a Domme with jiggly bits. I dont take things too seriously but have a complicated private life. I might vanish for a few months and then re-appear. I am not looking for new subs at the moment, thank you. Thanks for reading this absolutely award winning description.
Female (55) Horsham, West Sussex
Hey, Laura 24 Crawley fairly open to anything and wanting to wider my excitement in the bedroom
Female (24) Crawley, West Sussex
Looking for like minded souls! I have a partner who is extremely submissive in private but he’s an alpha male outside of the bedroom. I have ideas and thoughts and desires, as does he., about how to develop this side of our relationship and want to find people to talk to and discuss options and possibilities!!
Female (58) Horsham, West Sussex
Welcome to my corner ? I am 5ft 6. Size 14 UK clothing UK, feet 41. more importantly, I am a pretty decent, kind, smart, funny human. I don’t send pics or videos. Like me or don’t, just add to my life, be single or have a casual partner, I am hierarchical, I want a ltr and sorry I don’t switch. I am a professional, a mother and human with the demi submissive cuckquean under pinning all of those. I am busy. I am NOT as confident as I seem, however I do have self esteem and self belief. I have a very active professional profile on FetLife too as TheKinkShrink, you can follow me there :-) I dislike Debbie, prefer Deb, Debs, Deborah. I am not here to chat or make friends as such. I am Demi submissive, so no I don’t just say yes for your pleasure. Apologies if that offends and no point reaching out for a chat. No I won’t teach you, sighs. I have had a lot of good and bad experiences and learnt a lot over 42 years in kink, I am always open to learning more. However, the likelihood of me finding someone is low and I am happy as me and you'd have to add to my life as I will yours ? Please be age appropriate, close ‘enough’ to my age. As I said, I am a demi submissive cuckquean. That means I am monogamish emotionally and sometimes may join in with the others he (whomever he is) plays and sleeps with, and maybe have no connection, tis a spectrum and his choice. However if we are monogamous, I like comparison and that can be done with stories, not meeting others. Connection is what matters, the ability to communicate, I will not tolerate lies, manipulation etc. A second chance is rare, that'll depend on how you handle it, a third doesn't exist. I need to feel cared for, respected and at times a little aware of the power exchange, this is a great mix for me. I do not and will never want a sub, please stop trying to convert me. I DON’T SWITCH! I am caring, loving, loyal, affectionate, submissive, naturally servile, smart and funny, there as a sounding board. I am also his worthless whore, a cum dump, worthy of *** and to hear how much he enjoys his others (IF he wants any, as just us is good too). I am more of an emotional masochist than physical nowadays and wonder if I have faded into vanilla. I hate dressing up of all kinds and heels. Really isn’t me and that won’t change. Not interested in public, outdoors, illegal, non consensual or involving people that don’t consent it’s between us. I will not do anything that puts me on the sex offenders register or that will lose me my work. Yes I have had chemo and that has impacted me physically around right breast play (lumpectomy) anal (rarely an option) and right side, so also no smokers. Hate biting and pinching too! we No more choking out either and I welcome impact thuds n hurts. I know, demanding eh? ✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿ Him He will have control, slowly over time as trust and care develop. He will have my back, is my strength and my wise one to go to and share with. He will make me smile and I am content. He will lead me spiritually, intellectually and emotionally as I am his. He sees the girl who wants love, respect, support, tenderness, compassion and care and also the worthless whore who needs using, humiliating and respects the woman I am, as I respect the man he is. He is emotionally intelligent and can step up to be with me. Romance x I offer all I want too x Yachad in Hebrew, means together. When used for two people, it signifies their action of becoming one, not a static or passive unity. Control and manipulation are not dominance, it is a mutual and reciprocal dance. This is fundamental to me as I choose to follow his lead in this dance. He will be a natural leader, my mate, partner, soul mate, confidante, Sir, Daddy, Master, Top, King, Liege. He is also ***, present, caring and can lean on me too. He is experienced in life and closer to my age and reflective, emotionally articulate. I offer what I want too, to you, for you. Emotionally I am very stable and offer equality to gain authority. ✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿ If you want to know more about me: I am rare in my personality type in that I am an INFJ, this is me: https://www.16personalities.com/infj-personality People use words like articulate, wise, caring, intelligent, generous, however that's relative so please make your own mind up. I want to think I am self reflective and emotionally literate but I screw that up at times. I am an ambivert, I prefer home, family, a film and a musical. Life is great, precious and worked for and I reciprocate what is given, I tend to respond and follow vs lead. My sex and play drive are reactive. I am not keen on being bitten, so not so primal. Pinching nope too. If you hate women move on. I love the sea, holidays in the sun, to read (real books), theatre, OMG a musical, science fantasy, la prairie face cream, a mulberry bag, films, singing, singing well I'll have you know, my 3 dogs and two cats, to cook for and look after others and so importantly my family, those I love. ..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/.._______..)/..___ ¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯ Stroking my face is as important as slapping it Holding me is as important as holding me down Protecting me is as important as endangering me Bruising my heart is as important as bruising my body Respecting me is as important as humiliating me Spoiling me is as important as ruining me Loving me is as important as fucking her (or the fantasy) Caring for me is as important as humiliating me Saying I love you is as important as calling me a whore Looking after me is as important as using me Holding my hand is as important as grabbing me Kissing me is as important as brutally fucking me Valuing me is as important as devaluing me Respecting my rights is as important as respecting them My mind is as important as my body My emotions are as important as your disdain Asking about me is as important as telling me about you The psychological is as important as the physical (if not more) He knows these things and attempts to get them right (eventually) ..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/.._______..)/..___ ¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯ With love and respect
Female (59) Lancing, West Sussex
Married lady looking for a younger, preferably hung guy to have fun with. Probably in front of my husband, but if not then everything would be recorded. It's usually me on this account but my husband has access.
Female (36) Crawley, West Sussex
Hey I'm newly free and craving something I've been missing for so so long. I need it... there's nothing sexier than a handsome man who is strong, rough, experienced.
Female (37) Chichester, West Sussex
Looking for party pals and experienced bigs. Woods, wild men and stable folk step forward. Write me an erotic story/smut fiction. Convince me you're worth my submission.
Female (36) Brighton, West Sussex
Mix of sweet and sassy, submissive fairy with masochist streak and bratty charm that'll keep on your toes. Call me your little princess, but only if you are ready to tame me and give the right orders. Magic, mischief, and moans guaranteed.
Female (33) Brighton, West Sussex
• Back after a long break. Interested in learning more and experiencing parts of kink I’ve not yet explored. • Exploring impact play as a sub and finding my soft and hard *** limits is exciting. *just because I’m a sub, does **NOT** mean I’m your sub. Please be respectful - no honorifics.
Female (50) Brighton, West Sussex
Bit geeky in the day to day, but love music and critters and collecting bones and skulls. Open to friends right now, conversation and stimulation before anything physical. Not seeking
Female (47) Horsham, West Sussex
Domme female with an appetite for face sitting and using her thick big strap to make you spasm and 💦 . I'm looking for a loyal sub to own long term, subs with fat 🍑 get priority. I can drive and live alone
Female (25) Worthing, West Sussex
I’m a demisexual sub, only interested in LTR. I’m looking for my future Daddy Dom and I’m very picky, don’t take it personally :D I love bubblegum and pretty pink things and being praised, especially for things other than just physicalities. I might show my face during conversation if asked nicely ;) . . ★ Boundaries ★ . . ✩ Please don’t send me pictures of your genitals ✩ Please don’t tell me about your past experiences with exes, it really grosses me out ✩ Please don’t treat me like a outlet to tell your own urges, fantasies and desires, it’s not consensual until I’ve consented ✩ Please don’t threaten me with sadistic behaviour, I am not a masochist . . The rest you’ll have to find out through meeting me. . Yours sincerely, xxX♡♡♡Xxx
Female (19) Littlehampton, West Sussex
Very open minded, looking to explore my submission. Would like to have something regular to build up trust but happy to keep it casual. Looking for a person not a pen pal.
Female (34) Angmering, West Sussex
***Do not message me if you want to sex chat honestly I'm not interested** I want to be very clear in my about section so that I and you don't have any misunderstandings. *I am in no way looking for a relationship with someone. I'm happy to go out to lunch but I will never be your girlfriend. *I am a bigger girl really I just photograph well (chubby, chunky, fat however you want to say it) and that will not change. I will not change my body to make anyone feel more comfortable. I love my body. I love the way it feels. I am also 6 foot tall so mostly i get looks like I'm about to take over the world as soon as I have a day off. Please note on my profile it says submissive. In life im more aggressive outspoken and direct you never have to guess where you stand with me I will most likely tell you if I don't like you. But when it comes to sex or sexual touching of any kind I need someone dominant. I truly never know if someone is attracted to me and I very rarely initiate a first time encounter. Now for the fun part. :) I am a very easy to talk to person my personality is in no way or manner shy tho I may need a few moments to warm to you. I love meeting new people and trying new things. I am not from the UK im from south africa though I do live here now so if you are into accents iv been told mine is lovely. I am a big science geek and general geek. I love all things science fiction or fantasy. My music tastes can go from heavy metal to classic at the drop of a hat. Really if it speaks to me on some level I enjoy it. In my general vanilla life I am a bit of a workaholic I love my job and spend alot of time doing it. On my off days I'd rather be reading a good book or watching something akin to lord of the rings in my pajamas but I do like to venture out and explore. I have a very specific fetish and am looking for someone who enjoys it as much as I do. I am very into someone playing with my breasts. I love them being touched, sucked, licked, pinched, played with squeezed. I love having cream or oil rubbed on them. I love to feel a hard cock pressed against them ,cum all over my nipple's gets me so excited especially if i get to not clean it off and spend the day like that! (not *** devices or clamps) I'm not looking for someone who wants to have sex ( in fact it will most likely never happen) I'm really just looking for someone who really loves to play with breasts for hours lol! Fun fact: I love to listen to Yo Yo Ma Cello Suit No1 when I masturbate (seriously try it ) I have explored many other fetishes in the past being part of the fet community for years under another name have even won an iron bum hehe but I'm evolving and would really love to explore this part of myself . If that's you feel free to send a message .
Female (38) Chichester, West Sussex
I'm just looking to see what this is all about and hopefully meet some like-minded people. Bratty middle with a praise kink. alternative, curvy, short ass.
Female (28) Chichester, West Sussex

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25 years old open to almost anything. Can’t say I don’t like it if I don’t try it. Feeling under appreciated in my current long term relationship. Always been a kinky girl, like being hurt and love to please!
Female (25) Worthing, West Sussex
Hey I'm newly free and craving something I've been missing for so so long. I need it... there's nothing sexier than a handsome man who is strong, rough, experienced.
Female (37) Chichester, West Sussex
Married lady looking for a younger, preferably hung guy to have fun with. Probably in front of my husband, but if not then everything would be recorded. It's usually me on this account but my husband has access.
Female (36) Crawley, West Sussex
Hey, Laura 24 Crawley fairly open to anything and wanting to wider my excitement in the bedroom
Female (24) Crawley, West Sussex
I am regularly spanked and punished at the command of my husband, by who he agrees a punishment session with. I have written down and published the better episodes which can be found as browser or kindle readable books on amazon. Just search for 'yummymeusli, my spanking adventures'
Female (61) Arundel, West Sussex
Hi! This is my first time on a site like this so excuse me if I'm shy. I've never tried any kinks other than daddy/mommy stuff (and apparently a breeding kink too) so I'm here to kinda see what else I'd maybe like :3 Also before you say anything; I'm still a virgin so I might be a bit awkward.
Female (18) Crawley, West Sussex
Just exploring the community for the moment! I'm not interested in dating, meeting up in person, anything like that, but I'd love to chat :) I'm particularly interested in talking with other plus sized women, subs, and queer folk, whether it's about kink or not! I'm asexual, and I'd love to talk with fellow kinky ace folks! If you're not ace, that's fine too, happy to talk about what being asexual and kinky means to me ? My kinks mostly revolve around different aspects of control and ***, but I'm not pursuing any real life encounters right now. If you want to talk about these things, please remember to treat me like a person first. I might be a submissive, but I'm not YOUR submissive. If you're rude or presumptive in your first message, I will just ignore you. I'm an introvert and a big old nerd, so if you are too let's chat about what you're reading at the moment, or what games you're playing!
Female (32) Crawley, West Sussex
I'm different. not unique, but rare in what I like and how I like it. you had better be too. I'm just kinky. Dislike labels, but in this world of kink, there is a whole other language. I'm an intelligent but divvy blonde. Have my shit together and a busy, demanding job, so it would be nice to have someone who can massage the day away and insert a toy along the way. But, whatever you give, you shall also receive threefold? I love sharing sweet *** and leaving my tokens of affection on your skin. So, I am a Sadomasochistic, understanding Dom and I'm Affectionate with my aftercare. I'm nice, but do not be foolish and confuse that with soft. I like switching too, but never sub, just bottoming. I'm looking for a relationship/partner. An equal. A fellow Dom who likes to switch and share the dynamics, or perhaps an alpha sub/service top. I love a man who can wear female knickers, stockings, and a corset, but their masculinity still shines through. But lets be clear. whilst I love my sissy and CD friends, I am not into full sissification, CD or guys/girls who want their cock/clit locked in chastity permanently. Your whole body and cock will be mine to use as I see fit. if you are new, I'm not interested, unless you are exceptional, and let's be honest, you most probably aren't. No, I do not charge!!! Do not be disrespectful and ask me that question. I do this because it's who I am. I am also very particular in who I like, so don't be offended if I say no thank you. prerequisites: Intelligence Attention to detail Clean fingernails Confidence Availability Nice skin Shaven or waxed down in the fun zone, but ideally whole body, I like smooth. if you are in a relationship, I'm not interested. I also offer sessions, f2f and on-line.
Female (58) Lancing, West Sussex
Looking for like minded souls! I have a partner who is extremely submissive in private but he’s an alpha male outside of the bedroom. I have ideas and thoughts and desires, as does he., about how to develop this side of our relationship and want to find people to talk to and discuss options and possibilities!!
Female (58) Horsham, West Sussex
Hi, I am a Domme with jiggly bits. I dont take things too seriously but have a complicated private life. I might vanish for a few months and then re-appear. I am not looking for new subs at the moment, thank you. Thanks for reading this absolutely award winning description.
Female (55) Horsham, West Sussex
Looking for party pals and experienced bigs. Woods, wild men and stable folk step forward. Write me an erotic story/smut fiction. Convince me you're worth my submission.
Female (36) Brighton, West Sussex
Seeking a man (not a couple!) who is as passionate about bondage as I am. I do not follow any of the rules. If you're looking for an easy ride look elsewhere... Thinking about it I should really change my name as it's a bit misleading. I'm not that in to Shibari, but I thought the name sounded really cool! I love all sorts of bondage including pallet wrap, sleepsacks, leather straps and vetwrap. I'm not looking for a "Dom/Master"; I have no need for that sort of dynamic. I will submit to bondage, but outside of that you and I are equals. I have been in to bondage since early adulthood so I have lots of experience as a "bondage bottom". I have no interest in teaching anyone how to do Shibari as I don't switch. I am not a masochist. I'm not into receiving p@!n or being called names. If you want to degrade someone or cause them p@!n then please look elsewhere. P@!n and bondage are not intrinsically linked. For me, it's about that mental connection, initially flirting by email whilst we discuss what might happen when we meet. Enough detail to know what's off limits, but not too much detail that means there's no surprises in store. There is a beauty and intensity in bondage that cannot be expressed in any other way. A passionate "dance" between two people, gripping them and enticing them in to experience more and more. You will be practical (even sensible!), but still imaginative even daring or challenging at the right times. I am not seeking 24/7, but I would hope we would be drinking buddies and restaurant companions as well as me being your bondage playmate. And when we were done we would laugh together and plan the next scene, exploring the wonderful world of bondage together. The mental connection is so important; you've got to like that person, want that person, respect that person, laugh with that person, and be very open with that person. The 'click', the same wavelength, the same needs and desires, are for me the most important. There has to be that trust there to be open with one another and to learn from, and teach each other. I am willful, passionate about everything I do and a hopeless romantic. That means that bondage is NOT an excuse for meaningless sex. You will have to win my heart before you get anywhere near my body. If you've got this far... well done! Thank you for taking the time to fully read my profile. **Desires and Fantasies** Being tied by someone who loves tying!
Female (56) Copthorne, West Sussex
Busty Dom looking for male and female subs to worship me. ***s, needle play, foot worship, breast worship always encouraged. My interests include corsetry, hosiery, and pretty slaves of any gender
Female (42) Brighton, West Sussex
**Desires and Fantasies** I am a slave in training. I have been tasked with finding a female dogging playmate… Hi, and thanks for visiting my profile. I'm a submissive and *** BDSM loving girl with interests in age play, ***, discipline and filthy talk. I crave domination with blindfolds, gags, spanking and ropes (or any kind of restraint – even just your own strength pinning me down!). I have a high *** threshold and can be a little contrary....just to provoke you :) If you're a firm, clean, kind (sometimes) healthy man with a sense of fun then why not introduce yourself? I'll almost certainly want to subjugate to you. Age not a barrier – I probably prefer mature guys (the age play thing!). I have been fucked by some experienced guys and girls, but because my role is passive I lack experience – it's hard to learn when your lover is just using you as their own little sex toy. So someone who has some patience and can show me how to really please a man would be lovely (I'm pretty much ok with women as, being one, I kinda know what we like!) Please know where a clitoris is....
Hello All, I am currently looking for a Tall Dom (6ft 2' plus) who would be willing to train me further and explore different scenarios with me. I enjoy bondage (ropes and chains), impact play (floggers, paddles, whips, crops), teasing and orgasm control, rules and tasks and exhibitionism. I have attended many KK parties and fet parties but have yet to attend a *** Garden party - which I would love to dress up for. I look forward to hearing from you - if this is of interest to you x **Desires and Fantasies** My main desire is to be 'owned'. To be used and cared for by someone who completely understands me. I want them to show me off in public and be proud of me and my unique abilities and in turn I will serve them and them alone.
Female (52) Southwick, West Sussex
Welcome to my corner ? I am 5ft 6. Size 14 UK clothing UK, feet 41. more importantly, I am a pretty decent, kind, smart, funny human. I don’t send pics or videos. Like me or don’t, just add to my life, be single or have a casual partner, I am hierarchical, I want a ltr and sorry I don’t switch. I am a professional, a mother and human with the demi submissive cuckquean under pinning all of those. I am busy. I am NOT as confident as I seem, however I do have self esteem and self belief. I have a very active professional profile on FetLife too as TheKinkShrink, you can follow me there :-) I dislike Debbie, prefer Deb, Debs, Deborah. I am not here to chat or make friends as such. I am Demi submissive, so no I don’t just say yes for your pleasure. Apologies if that offends and no point reaching out for a chat. No I won’t teach you, sighs. I have had a lot of good and bad experiences and learnt a lot over 42 years in kink, I am always open to learning more. However, the likelihood of me finding someone is low and I am happy as me and you'd have to add to my life as I will yours ? Please be age appropriate, close ‘enough’ to my age. As I said, I am a demi submissive cuckquean. That means I am monogamish emotionally and sometimes may join in with the others he (whomever he is) plays and sleeps with, and maybe have no connection, tis a spectrum and his choice. However if we are monogamous, I like comparison and that can be done with stories, not meeting others. Connection is what matters, the ability to communicate, I will not tolerate lies, manipulation etc. A second chance is rare, that'll depend on how you handle it, a third doesn't exist. I need to feel cared for, respected and at times a little aware of the power exchange, this is a great mix for me. I do not and will never want a sub, please stop trying to convert me. I DON’T SWITCH! I am caring, loving, loyal, affectionate, submissive, naturally servile, smart and funny, there as a sounding board. I am also his worthless whore, a cum dump, worthy of *** and to hear how much he enjoys his others (IF he wants any, as just us is good too). I am more of an emotional masochist than physical nowadays and wonder if I have faded into vanilla. I hate dressing up of all kinds and heels. Really isn’t me and that won’t change. Not interested in public, outdoors, illegal, non consensual or involving people that don’t consent it’s between us. I will not do anything that puts me on the sex offenders register or that will lose me my work. Yes I have had chemo and that has impacted me physically around right breast play (lumpectomy) anal (rarely an option) and right side, so also no smokers. Hate biting and pinching too! we No more choking out either and I welcome impact thuds n hurts. I know, demanding eh? ✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿ Him He will have control, slowly over time as trust and care develop. He will have my back, is my strength and my wise one to go to and share with. He will make me smile and I am content. He will lead me spiritually, intellectually and emotionally as I am his. He sees the girl who wants love, respect, support, tenderness, compassion and care and also the worthless whore who needs using, humiliating and respects the woman I am, as I respect the man he is. He is emotionally intelligent and can step up to be with me. Romance x I offer all I want too x Yachad in Hebrew, means together. When used for two people, it signifies their action of becoming one, not a static or passive unity. Control and manipulation are not dominance, it is a mutual and reciprocal dance. This is fundamental to me as I choose to follow his lead in this dance. He will be a natural leader, my mate, partner, soul mate, confidante, Sir, Daddy, Master, Top, King, Liege. He is also ***, present, caring and can lean on me too. He is experienced in life and closer to my age and reflective, emotionally articulate. I offer what I want too, to you, for you. Emotionally I am very stable and offer equality to gain authority. ✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿✿ ✿ If you want to know more about me: I am rare in my personality type in that I am an INFJ, this is me: https://www.16personalities.com/infj-personality People use words like articulate, wise, caring, intelligent, generous, however that's relative so please make your own mind up. I want to think I am self reflective and emotionally literate but I screw that up at times. I am an ambivert, I prefer home, family, a film and a musical. Life is great, precious and worked for and I reciprocate what is given, I tend to respond and follow vs lead. My sex and play drive are reactive. I am not keen on being bitten, so not so primal. Pinching nope too. If you hate women move on. I love the sea, holidays in the sun, to read (real books), theatre, OMG a musical, science fantasy, la prairie face cream, a mulberry bag, films, singing, singing well I'll have you know, my 3 dogs and two cats, to cook for and look after others and so importantly my family, those I love. ..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/.._______..)/..___ ¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯ Stroking my face is as important as slapping it Holding me is as important as holding me down Protecting me is as important as endangering me Bruising my heart is as important as bruising my body Respecting me is as important as humiliating me Spoiling me is as important as ruining me Loving me is as important as fucking her (or the fantasy) Caring for me is as important as humiliating me Saying I love you is as important as calling me a whore Looking after me is as important as using me Holding my hand is as important as grabbing me Kissing me is as important as brutally fucking me Valuing me is as important as devaluing me Respecting my rights is as important as respecting them My mind is as important as my body My emotions are as important as your disdain Asking about me is as important as telling me about you The psychological is as important as the physical (if not more) He knows these things and attempts to get them right (eventually) ..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/..________..)/.._______..)/..___ ¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯¯¯¯¯””/(”¯¯¯ With love and respect
Female (59) Lancing, West Sussex
Mix of sweet and sassy, submissive fairy with masochist streak and bratty charm that'll keep on your toes. Call me your little princess, but only if you are ready to tame me and give the right orders. Magic, mischief, and moans guaranteed.
Female (33) Brighton, West Sussex
***Do not message me if you want to sex chat honestly I'm not interested** I want to be very clear in my about section so that I and you don't have any misunderstandings. *I am in no way looking for a relationship with someone. I'm happy to go out to lunch but I will never be your girlfriend. *I am a bigger girl really I just photograph well (chubby, chunky, fat however you want to say it) and that will not change. I will not change my body to make anyone feel more comfortable. I love my body. I love the way it feels. I am also 6 foot tall so mostly i get looks like I'm about to take over the world as soon as I have a day off. Please note on my profile it says submissive. In life im more aggressive outspoken and direct you never have to guess where you stand with me I will most likely tell you if I don't like you. But when it comes to sex or sexual touching of any kind I need someone dominant. I truly never know if someone is attracted to me and I very rarely initiate a first time encounter. Now for the fun part. :) I am a very easy to talk to person my personality is in no way or manner shy tho I may need a few moments to warm to you. I love meeting new people and trying new things. I am not from the UK im from south africa though I do live here now so if you are into accents iv been told mine is lovely. I am a big science geek and general geek. I love all things science fiction or fantasy. My music tastes can go from heavy metal to classic at the drop of a hat. Really if it speaks to me on some level I enjoy it. In my general vanilla life I am a bit of a workaholic I love my job and spend alot of time doing it. On my off days I'd rather be reading a good book or watching something akin to lord of the rings in my pajamas but I do like to venture out and explore. I have a very specific fetish and am looking for someone who enjoys it as much as I do. I am very into someone playing with my breasts. I love them being touched, sucked, licked, pinched, played with squeezed. I love having cream or oil rubbed on them. I love to feel a hard cock pressed against them ,cum all over my nipple's gets me so excited especially if i get to not clean it off and spend the day like that! (not *** devices or clamps) I'm not looking for someone who wants to have sex ( in fact it will most likely never happen) I'm really just looking for someone who really loves to play with breasts for hours lol! Fun fact: I love to listen to Yo Yo Ma Cello Suit No1 when I masturbate (seriously try it ) I have explored many other fetishes in the past being part of the fet community for years under another name have even won an iron bum hehe but I'm evolving and would really love to explore this part of myself . If that's you feel free to send a message .
Female (38) Chichester, West Sussex
I’m a shy innocent virgin who is completely new to the whole bdsm scene! I’m obsessed with bondage and have had a kidnap fantasy since I was 13! the more ropes and chains the better!! I’m a dark romance girly who is obsessed with the kidnap trope, and hot mafia bosses! if you look good in a suit I’ll honestly melt personal preferences my age limit is 35! limits: ***, *** and leaving permanent marks I’m ideally looking for a master/ owner who can take all the control from my life, I’ll be your good girl if you will let me and will always respect my place and would even wear a collar if you would like me to kinks: being owned bondage kidnap RP being hunted ***d orgasm orgasm denial *** play send me a dm if you dare
Female (20) Horsham, West Sussex
Sub is looking for an alpha male. Needs to stimulate me mentally and physically 😘 New to this but very excited to embrace a new adventure. Please be gentle!
Female (46) Horsham, West Sussex
I would like to experiment with my sadistic side. I’m new here! I’m not sharing a photo publicly but happy to if you ask for one. (I promise I scrub up fairly well!) I’ve got two little kids (by sperm donor) and no second parent, so we would need to play during school hours to start. I’m a geek in real life. Not over Firefly getting cancelled. I’m doing a PhD so my schedule is my own. I like *** play, anal, sensual sex. I’m bi but mostly vanilla with women. Dirty talk freaks me out if I don’t know you (and often if I do), so please don’t! into honesty, respect, and making your dick twitch when I hurt you.
Female (42) Felpham, West Sussex
Hi, I have been off scene recently and now I have an empty nest I am looking for submissive males initially. I am caring and sensual as well as sadistic and teasing in my style of Domination. Have many kinks and these are growing. In an open relationship, we play apart and together. kinks include chastity tease and denial impact play sensation play (wax, pinwheel etc) temperature play pegging CBT ideally looking for regular play and dynamic so we can explore our kinks to the full as trust and understanding develops. honourifics include Mistress, Miss, Queen. I like an intimacy within the dynamic, looking after my needs while I look after yours is important. Feel free to approach respectfully and let's see where life takes us.
Female (60) Fishersgate, West Sussex
Bit geeky in the day to day, but love music and critters and collecting bones and skulls. Open to friends right now, conversation and stimulation before anything physical. Not seeking
Female (47) Horsham, West Sussex
plus size goth girl looking for adventure and fun. In my free time you will find me gaming, reading or doing some form of craft. Curious about poly.
Female (33) Climping, West Sussex

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