Married but allowed to play, I have a number of casual play partners with varying interests. I am experienced but forever learning and will happily steal good ideas from any source. I host monthly parties at home, with a wide range of kinksters in attendance. Dungeon furniture that eclipses most commercial venues and an assortment of toys make for a fine play environment but I do like the social aspect as well. I can play on the edge but mostly it's sensual play, with spankings leading to pinwheels and vampire gloves leading to more intimate experiences. Or not. I respect limits.
I firmly believe in informed consent, and all my playmates know about each other. I won't share private details but I won't be a secret either. I seek to earn trust and maintain it, and expect the same from playmates. I'm far from being desperate - quality over quantity.
In terms of playmates I do like variety. Experience levels are irrelevant and in fact I've coached quite a few girls who are new to kink or just to certain aspects.